Parents did not adequately equip me for adult life and I've just been struggling ever since and also did more active damage to my mental state and behavioral patterns, it only gets worse the older I get how bad it really is I'm tired and burnt out of all this garbage man
>>85753815You WILL Get optimistic tomorrow morning...and then crushingly pessimistic while all the real issues remain
What are your behavior patterns? And what do you need to be able to say "I want to improve"?
>>85753855Only glimpses of hope motivate me that I don't have to deal with certain shit then it's pulled away and I get tired again>>85753862>What are your behavior patternsEverything, how I react to stress, responsibility, society, pressure, contacts >"I want to improve"?Ive been steadily improving but gotten nowhere yet, tiny slightly Back to the same situation I tired avoiding now againI can't he here I have to get out
>>85753932MehMaybe you're just not seeing the whole picture, that you need to soul search your subconscious or something idk. Be careful comparing your external behaviours with others as it doesn't always tell the whole story. It's often tempting to label on sight with no deeper knowledge.
>>85753815Even a retard knows that this sort of thinking does make it worse, which implies this is what you want to happen. If you are the expert on parenting then you know how to equip yourself it just takes time and yeah youll be a bit behind. If you are just rambling to give yourself an excuse to maintain a degenerate lifestyle, well people like you deserve the consequences
>>85753954Fighting against years of developmentally faulty mechanisms more severe than I thought And takes longer>>85753957Panic and stress and anxiety and general unhappiness with how things are going destroy my mental state and makes me wanna abandon everything and not take partTired of these pressures put on me that are uselessFeeling like a slave constantly under government supervision and the threat of not following rules and a bunch of bullshitNeed an escape out>then you know how to equip yourself it just takes time and yeah youll be a bit behindDecades not resolved anything yet Just because I am aware does not mean I can solve things either There is nothing degenrate here I just want peace
>>85753957teens have zero clue hence why they need guidance. so tired of this kikeservative ideology that teens can take care of themselves
People will always try to blame you if you express this kind of opinion but the truth is that having moderately wealthy and competent parents makes every single part of life easier. It's a lot easier to improve yourself when you start at a higher level.
>>85754090right. my mom didnt even finish elementary school. couldnt organize shit and loathed cooking. told me to microwave ramen cups. there is no way for me to elevate myself. when my parents plan for me turned out to be the most ghetto public school i knew it was over. shitty food made it hard to sleep or think, i had constant brain fog. high school was a failure from day 1. most teachers quit after their first year, usually in the middle of it. none of them knew how the system worked
>>85753815>Parents did not adequately equip mekek, you coulve been homeless or abused or your mom a heroin addict covering her expenses selling your holes for a shot, nigga probably played fornite until 19's dropped out of college and now is 21 posting shit on imageboards for clouth
>>85753815i feel you OP. i have no ethic to persevere whatsoever due to never being pushed into extracurriculars. i have no one but myself to blame but i would've appreciated my parents being a little stiffer with me, even if it meant me harboring resentment as a little shit. that being said i'm ngmi
