Perchaps the greatest lie ever told to sperg women. Being a virgin past 18 equals giving off 1)low social inteligence (probably true) 2) low popularity among the opposite sex (probably true) 3) bad in bed (100% true) 4) sperg ( do i need to say that). I guess yeah men do get upset their gf has exes she still with certainty remembers but they wish that AFTER she created the first, second and millionth impression of a socially well adapted pretty girl (being experienced doesn't cause that but obviously has correlation) Conclusion: when asked say you have 3 exes with whom you are on good terms and who were nice guys; get a test bf who will teach you to fuck and talk in between your plastic surgeries. Muah
>>85759872the femcels are getting machiavellian
>>85759872>im used goods and virgin women make me feel worthlesslmao even
>>85759872imagine being both ugly AND a non-virgincan your value get any lower?
>>85759916unfortunately i am still a virgin at 22 which will soon change as i prioratize my chances with normal men over spergs
>>85759934being virgin gives off the retard impression that will make you lose all ounces of your existing attractiveness and interestingness, unfortunately
>>85759960oh I'm actually speaking to a double digit IQ thirdie, carry on
>>85759872First two reasons and last reason isn't inherent to virginity but the result of being outliers in a society that doesn't value virginity. Not that they're really good reasons anyhow, being unpopular and ackward doesn't mean you are a bad person, in fact, it's usually the less social, less outgoing types who are more suited for monogamous relationships. 3rd reason isn't a good reason either, sex is a bonding experience which you can get better at together, it's not about utility or performance. In conclusion, if you're interested in attracting hyper normies who won't feel a thing about dropping you then all these reasons are valid.
>>85759994>Being a virgin past 18 equals giving off 1)low social inteligence (probably true) 2) low popularity among the opposite sex (probably true) 3) bad in bed (100% true) 4) sperg ( do i need to say that).
>>85760000spergs still intuitively treat conforming normie-passing fellows better. The social hierarchy will get you anywhere. Getting yourself normified and doing it successfully=being smart >sex isn't about utility First 5 times maybe, then you need to make it happen regularly and diverse enough for your moid to not plan escape, especially if he got a taste of better sex from hus exes
>>85760033If sex is treated in such a way it wouldn't even matter if you stay together because there's no love anway. Is that what you want, to be with someone who you need to constantly perform for just so you can keep him? Anyhow, most couples just stop having sex after a certain point, so it's not like it matters for keeping someone, unless it's at the beginning of a relationship. But maybe it's precisely because people treat sex as a performance and utility that they stop having sex, because who wants to constantly perform? That's why the notion of being bad at sex mattering is the wrong way of seeing it, and it's because people see it that way that they can't enjoy it. Do you care when you're playing a game with a friend that you're both bad at it? No, and that's what makes it fun, it's only when you start caring and investing heavily into your skill level and being "good" that it sucks the fun out of it. Then it becomes a chore, which is probably what happens with most couples. What would I know though.
>>85759872you can't even find a young virgin anymore anyway. Call me a cuck but I just don't care if a girl I met has fucked other guys, as long as they show profound interest in me and will let me have my piece to.
>>85759893going down the looksmaxxer path
>>85760076it's a bigger game tho. Being experienced and good in anything is a good halo that will build up a good impression accumulatively. As an autist (diagnosed) you need to cling to any opportunity to up your image as you routinely ruin it with your weird habits. When you are non virgin you immediately assert dominance - you can leave, you have options, you have a point of reference. Being openly 'pure' just sets you up to be picked by a hardcore abuser/human trafficer
Normie men/men who got pussy before age 16 and are mentally normal don't care.Some good men care, but that's a vanishingly small number. Most men who vocally care are feminine male creatures aka incels. Leave them to other incels or trannies since most of them aren't actually even straight.
>>85760161You don't need to do any of those things actually, what are you trying to izzatmax for? It's not like it'll lead to happiness caring about your image. Maybe you'll get into a relationship but it will be a facade, it won't be genuine, so what was the point? I really don't get what's the point of seeking approval from people who don't like you anyway, are you a masochist?>When you are non virgin you immediately assert dominance - you can leave, you have options, you have a point of reference. Not necessarily, there are non-virgins who are constantly in abusive relationships. As much of a platitude it sounds it has more to do with being secure in yourself than anything else, and that includes not caring about your image so much. Here's another thing, spergs understand other spergs, they don't understand normies, izzatmaxxing will attract normies whom you can't read because you're not on the same wavelength. This fear of being picked up by an abuser is exactly what that would lead to. Normies can pick up on these things because they're on the same wavelength, but even then they get into abusive relationships because of insecurity.
>>85760244izzatmaxxing helps with autists too though. I want to get more friends and be able to replace them and not feel like i depend on 2-3 people while they could drop me anytime. I figured the easiest way to do it would be through getting a well socialized boyfriend. It'd literally create a constant reward loop social bf=>more friends=>social bf sees how popular i am and treats me better=>repeat. Other people will treat me better if they know i have a boyfriend and social relevance. I don't necessarily have to go fuck with a stranger to achieve it but it'd be better if i was 'trained' and aware for different situations like that because if i'll get my hands on a social guy it'll be one and only chance
I was a virgin until I was like 24 and it wasnt from some personal conviction. It was because I was extremely sheltered and believed myself to be undesirable. I also somehow failed to pick up on any interest I was shown, though it is pretty obvious looking back. So yes agreed. It was my own failings as a person that did it. Even to this day I have a lot of hangups about sex and affection I feel come from experiencing it all late. Still I am happy with my husband now. I dont regret not sleeping around a little or experimenting but I do think it has caused problems in a way.
>>85760300There are basically three ways of going about it I think1. You try to izzatmax and get more friends so you don't feel insecure in the fact that your small circle could drop you at any time2. You find people like yourself3. You find peace within yourselfI think pic related is relevant as to why I think number 3 is the best option, but instead of seeking the approval of women in your case it's about having friends and a bf. Normies on the surface can appear secure but it's really tenuous, they are not ok with being alone. That's exactly why they need to seek out a large friend circle. You're stuck in a limbo where you care about your image but you don't have a large enough social circle to be able to cope with this insecurity. The thing is though, if you're not a normie trying to become one will just be a constant uphill battle. Can you maintain a large friend circle, can you constantly go out to social gatherings, can you constantly socially perform, etc.? Even if you accomplish that it doesn't fundamentally get rid of the insecurity of not being at peace with yourself. You'll do all that and it probably won't feel genuine, a few friends who you can relate to is really more meaningful.
>>85759872I can't read this it's literally all garbled nonsense
>>85759872what if I want a low social intelligence, low popularity, sperg girl who is bad in bed (just teach her)?
>>85759872Preach. Purity culture overwhelmingly favours old, controlling men.
Gross used goods and subhuman oofydoofy simping cucks thread #34 Yawn. gtfo.
>>85759872I live in a conservative area of my country and the high status men all are able to attain shy, smart and virgin women. Trashy/Slutty women are and always will be low status.
