>>85831570
get experience -> care less.
and gzz for losing weight op.

>>85831570
>cuck fetish
>low self steem
you are actually unable of developing empathy with others which is the sign of a narcissist, the only reason why you have low self steem is because you envy men that fuck lots of women

>>85831570
I don't even know how to lose that much weight, but ai think the answer about chad personality is to just stop caring.

>>85831582
i guess thats always been the answer but im too scared to make mistakes..
>>85831585
i have too much empathy
i wanna encourage other men to fuck women on my behalf because they are better
or at least thats what im thinking when gooning

>>85831570
You dont
You cant change your personality

>>85831615
>i wanna encourage other men to fuck women on my behalf because they are better
just full stop quit porn. you are like an alcoholic, you need serious help and at the very least you should go completely cold turkey.

>>85831700
i actually tried that last week i did for 5 days then relapsed
im trying to do that again for a few months but its hard..

>>85831712
beating any addiction is hard, but you have free will don't forget that. and it doesn't mean you have to quit masturbating either.

>>85831570
Losing weight doesn't reverse the years spent alone and mental shit in your head. You will be tolerated way more, but the first impressions always matter.

>>85831738
i was doing great until got stressed
whenever i get too stressed with work i go on a gooning frenzy
>>85831795
thats what im scared about
especially the years of isolation
i feel like teenagers have more social experience than me
how can i compete

In the same boat as you brother. I grew up an ugly, meek, insecure child. Now as an adult I am handsome, make money, have a cool job that women like, Am very fit but I often find myself in a cuck mindset and I've jerked off to cuck porn basically every day for years. It honestly started because of 4chan, I was browsing this site at 16 years old and I'm now 29.

I can get laid on dating apps easily once a week if I put in the effort to talk to women however I will oftentimes lose my erection or need to fantasize about the girl I'm fucking cucking me or I won't be aroused enough. It's fucking embarassing and gross and basically led me to stop meeting women for a while.

The only way is to quit porn and masturbation all together in my opinion. Once you are able to masturbate simply to the thoughts of you with a woman without visual stimuli or thinking about her fucking chad in front of you, you are in a good place. Even right now I will lose my erection jerking it to cuck porn sometimes which shows how insanely numb my dopamine receptors have become.

A couple months ago I met a girl on Tinder that was a complete whore, I told her I wanted to come to her place after she fucked a dude and she texted me one night saying a guy with a 9" dick was coming to her place and that she might want a tongue afterward. Needless to say I went to her place

You have an addiction and you need to seriously treat it as such if you want any semblance of a regular sex life. If not you're going to keep chasing the dopamine and eventually you'll be licking creampies out of your gf, wife, fwb or whatever

Drop the porn addiction for starters

>>85832726
>>85832756
i was trying to quit porn and the internet as a whole for real last week for the first time of life
i think i will get rid of those two addictions for good soon same with how i stopped being fat

although i dont think theyre the root cause, they are a symptom of my personality

>>85832822
Sure it may not be the root cause, not the root cause for me either. However, porn is just reinforcing your issues. If you're actively watching cuck porn or any porn for that matter you're digging yourself into a deeper hole.

>>85831582
Can't get experience if women don't give you a chance to get that. It's not just being a mentalcel, but location plus intelligence level of the foid you're talking to is a factor