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what do you do when you come across a woman at your workplace who is attractive?
have you ever tried exchanging instagram ids or phone numbers with someone like that?
i have never attempted it myself
this is because i am neither handsome nor gifted with great conversational skills, and i worry that my actions might end up making her uncomfortable
just yesterday, i saw a female customer who looked more than 95 percent like a pretty girl in the picture, however nothing came of it as always
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>>85834884
How often do you go dancing with girls? None of this larp customer meme shit. Are you a gay guy?
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Actually, if you are not a Chad or a Chadlite, you might even get arrested for attempted rape. Women have said that average looking men are disgusting.
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>>85834893
no, it was just a simple fact
the female customer who came in yesterday was too gool looking like a k-pop idol that it actually felt a bit strange
i do have some female friends, but most of them are just meh looking or overweight, and the ones who are above average looking all have boyfriends

>>85834907
i know what you are saying is an exaggeration, but at its core, it is probably not entirely wrong
most women want the men at the very top of the heap
to them, i am likely not even visible
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>>85834959
>all have boyfriends
Are you one of these boyfriends? Or are you somehow single lol
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Nothing because I'm not Chad and maybe want to keep having income
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I generally just ignore them and steal glances at them when they aren't looking
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>>85834884
i exchange instagram with everyone
i don't like flirting with women i work with because that can make things weird if there is a breakup
that said last place i worked at i live close by to one of my female coworkers and she was new in town so i offered to take her places as a kind gesture and to show her some stores where she could buy an outfit for the company party and she thought i was hitting on her (i wasn't) and she seduced me into sex
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>>85834966
i am currently single
well, my ex-gf cheated on me, and ever since then, i have been afraid to enter into another relationship
this isnt actually that strange, though
here in south korea, it is pretty common for men of my generation(zoomers) to prefer staying single, so i am likely not in the minority
it feels like people here tend to expect an absolutely perfect romantic partner which is 404
perhaps it is only natural that those who are strict and harsh with themselves also demand a great deal from others personally, i dont have particularly high standards when it comes to women
for instance, my ex-gf wasnt someone others would consider conventionally beautiful
i simply liked her kindness and her calmness
because my mom is conservative, and controlling, i think i have ended up becoming a rather timid person
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>>85835037
>i am currently single
why?
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>>85835001
i have no idea how workplaces in the west operate
at my own workplace, i have two female co-workers, and since both of them have boyfriends, i have been careful never to say or do anything that could be misunderstood
in general, relationships between men and women here are more conservative than they are in the west
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>>85834884
>what do you do when you come across a woman at your workplace who is attractive?
I get really nervous and stare at them from afar. If they try interacting with me I start turning red, get hot and sweaty and try to cut the interaction as short as possible.
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>>85835053
it is because i have become afraid of women
my ex-gf treated my honesty and consideration toward her as if they were her entitlements
when i found myself in a difficult situation, she actually took advantage of that time to satisfy her own selfishness
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>>85834884
I got out of my class an hour ago and in the lot across from my car was a cute Latina looking at me also leaving for the day in her car. What the fuck. I hate this world. I want it all to burn to the ground.
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>>85835067
when i was a teenage boy
i used to feel anxious just like you do now
but when i really thought about it, i started to feel sorry for my younger self
because i was agonizing over it all by myself, even though women that beautiful wouldnt have even considered me as a potential date
that is why, these days, such situations dont bother me at all
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>>85834884
A couple times, I got asked out by women at work. The only time women have ever asked me out. But I am unironically sincerely "woke 1.0" (don't care how "crazy" y'all think that is) and so politely decline because it would be inappropriate for a man to date a woman he works with

(Also I got asked out by two "women" I work with who were much younger than me, and also by two underage teens I work with, and even for the ones who were legal, age gaps are problematic)
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>>85835081
weird. women aren't scary. i had bad exes but i'm still attracted to women. have you tried having sex with men yet?
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>>85835109
it was a deception that went on for quite a long time
i had been taken in by her lies for over six months
i had always tried to be as honest as possible with her, but she just saw me as a fool
anyway, i dont have any aversion to lgbt people but my sexual orientation seems to be heterosexual
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>>85834884
>workplace
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>>85835152
>long time
>six months
lol ok. ig you have no kids either?
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>>85834884
>what do you do when you come across a woman at your workplace who is attractive?
See if she's okay with me just chilling around her at work
>have you ever tried exchanging instagram ids or phone numbers with someone like that?
I think she asked me to exchange numbers with her. Don't remember why or if someone else from work gave her my number. IDK.
She(Latina co worker) already has a boyfriend and thought a 40 year old co worker was trying to get with her.
I'm surprised the Latina coworker is chill with me just wasting an hour chilling with her at work. Guess I have a okay face and help her kill time.
Recently she been sharing snacks with me and even let me pick her Halloween costume.
Just nice to have work friend my age for once.
Asian lady coworker keeps trying to get me to make a TikTok and face times her sister to say hi to me.
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>>85834884
>Working at a place where women are noticably present

My first internship involved me working alongside primarily women staff and it was horrible, just non stop gossip, late deadlines and just overall chaos. I'm fortunate that every wagecuck venture i had afterwards was with mostly men/autists. I'm of the belief that if the workplace is split between men and women it's a daycare with no actual work being done.



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