tfw you can't afford a gf or wife
Doesn't matter. I can afford one but I'm not chad so I'm an incel. Wealth means nothing
it seems it's acting like said adult wouldn't be living with you if you're paying utilities and housing. and why would she need to go anywhere if she doesn't work. and why would you need to be getting her clothes each year?
money aint got much to do with it, you cant afford one because your face card keeps declining
>>85836573it's still very expensive
>>85836348The worst part is that you are not even buying gf, you are renting her. And the contract can go straight to the shitter at any random time. Just get a realdoll or something
>>85836348americans have to pay health insurance KEK
I've done the math and it's not nearly that bad. A single mother of three costs about $35,000/yr, including myself as part of the annual spending. Ai is really bad at anything that involves numbers or words. Most of these costs are frivolous waste that can be heavily trimmed if she's a good person. Having one car instead of two and growing your own food instead of buying from stores pretty much cuts the cost in half. But women are really weird about things and they actually like bad things that make life less enjoyable, and it costs a lot of money to be uncomfortable.If there's no kids then a woman only costs about $9,000, assuming you want to really spoil her. Basically double your food spending but nothing else changes except you are phasing out all her ugly clothes and shaping her into a lady instead of whatever fucked up monster she was before meeting you. My experience has been that most women will resist efforts to be made into something good. They seem to enjoy being bad people and making the lives of those they interact with worse. And this is for the one in a million that seem to have somewhere hidden deep inside some semblance of a soul. I'm starting to think it's a hopeless endeavor. It's very unfortunate to be a good man in a bad world because everything is backwards. I like good things but everyone else hates good things. Money is a trivial matter, I envy anyone who sees that as the bottleneck. The real problem is that evil people actually want to be evil. I was under the naive impression that I could save someone from living the best happiest most amazing things they love, want, and actively expend immense effort towards obtaining.
>>85836348god damn how fat are these broads? I just ate a $3 frozen pizza
>>85838077Okay now factor in the reality of marrying a used up 35 year old woman that you think is fertile and willing enough to pump out 3 kids and also is willing to not divorce rape you.
>>85838077whoa... rare wall of text that is actually worth reading
>>85838099Christian marriage, not pagan or heretic. Divorce is not possible. I made the distinction precisely because I knew someone would bring up the meme. If she's a single mother she stays a single mother to gibsmax. If you don't worship the devil there is no reason to have a government marriage.She's ten years younger than me so three more kids is not unrealistic. Cuck meter is then at 50%. If I put a fourth baby in her she is then more than half mine. It's probably not ideal but one look at this world reveals there ain't exactly enough unicorns to go around. Risk mitigation and making do is the current meta. If you are a coward afraid of being alone certain concessions must be made. Single mothers know how to manipulate and say what you want to hear in order to betabuxmaxx. That's more than I am getting from other women, so it is being considered for its merits and benefits weighed against the costs. I'm not getting a good end here. I cope by trying to find the least bad end. A dice roll on not dying alone.
>>85838269no white woman in the west marries younger than 30 now unc, stop coping with your god shit and just face the facts. you either get a used up whore that hates you and has a high likelihood of not even giving you the kids you want, or just accept that the human race is cooked. the sooner you stop coping the better
>>85836348I can afford one but I'd be forced to be a wageslave until my 70s. The alternative is avoiding women and retiring around 40. No woman is wworth 30 extra years of waking up too early and dealing with normalfags.
>>85838295>or just accept that the human race is cookedit is a common Christian belief that most people are going to hell
>>85838295White people should start getting married like africans
>>85838504>White people shouldThe women don't want it. What is your solution to that?
>>85838550You can have preferences about your preferences.I used to be a cigarette guy and now I'm a vape guyWe can make choices about what we like
>>85838571You're a low iq guy
>>85838077>Most of these costs are frivolous waste that can be heavily trimmed if she's a good person>if she's a good person
>>85838627Welcome aboard. I'm glad you were perceptive enough to catch that tiny little if detail. You can't make a bad person good, the question becomes how much you can lower the definition of a good woman without getting sick to your stomach when comparing that to the standard you hold yourself to as a good man.Do you mind elaborating a little further on your thoughts regarding this subject?
>>85838750I appreciate the welcome, and I'm glad that small detail didn't slip past unnoticed. It's often the smallest qualifications that change the shape of a conversation, even when they don't settle anything. I can see why you'd want to put it carefully rather than let it pass as just another throwaway remark. Some thoughts are worth sitting with for a while. By framing the situation not as a quest for transformation, but as a calculated exercise in the degradation of standards, the statement shifts the entire philosophical burden from the subject being judged to the judge themselves. For now, I'll leave it there.
>>85838591Do you not have preferences about your preferences?Like an alcoholic who doesn't want to drink anymore. A smoker who doesn't want to smoke anymore.The first level of preference is saying "I like to drink. I like to smoke"The second level of preference is "I like to drink but I shouldn't. I like to smoke but I should quit."And the third level is setting up new preferences that override your initial preferences "I like to drink beer, but I should quit, so when I'm with family I drink Shirley Temples instead of booze"
>>85838807>all that off topic textThe white women don't want to get married young. My personal preference is totally irrelevant.
