My therapist keeps telling me to think negative and I told her what's positive perspective of being lonely virgin college drop out working at Walmart. You know what he said? I should be grateful for small things like my health and family
>>85836804Bro if you were healthy with a supportive family you wouldnt be going to a therapist in the first place
>>85836804Based therapist. He is right
>>85837056Get hit by a car doing 80mph.>>85836804That's the extent of what they can do for you after years of study. Quit that nigger and go outside.
>>85836804You should tell him that health and family only serves to support your life and you could only be grateful for them if that life were happy. Since your life is miserable they only serve to support the continuation of your miserable life so I can you be grateful for them? Health is meaningless when you want to die.
>>85837095>Get hit by a car doing 80mphNah, I don't think I will
>>85837122Yes but that type of "person" is too retarded to think about the subjective experience of the one they are supposedly "helping". It's a slave culture, crabs in the bucket type of shit. Therapy encapsulates this perfectly.
Therapists live on a pink cloud in the dreams of a child who was born yesterday. My family sucks though so try appreciating them if they don't. I would agree with that part. When I get sick I think "man how did I ever take being healthy for granted". Few days later it's normal. So the real healing experience is saying to ourselves now "I'm so glad I don't have a flu right now". Great... I hate therapists...
>>85836804Your therapist is correct. If you want to feel happy, focus on being grateful for what you have, rather than seething about what you don't have. This is basic stuff, every religion teaches this.>>85837122You don't want to die. If you did, you would just kill yourself. But you don't. What you want to do is be a negative turd. You're addicted to misery, which is why you engage with it every day.
>>85838924Being miserable and depressed is the only genuine emotion left in this world and normies continually tell you it is wrong to feel that way
She's not wrong, you should be grateful. but gratefulness does not equal happiness. I'm grateful for everything I have but I still hate myself and would rather be dead. You were a fool for talking to a therapist especially since it has been established countless times on this board that therapy is a scam that only works on people that don't have real issues.
>>85838934Nope. Like I said, you're an addict. It's like a pothead or alcoholic or drug addict being like "Dude how can you exist sober duuuude like how do you do it, you gotta smoke weed every day dude". You can't even conceive of existing on my level because you're so stuck in the mire of your addiction - to negative emotions and misery. It's extremely sad. I feel great almost every day, effortlessly.
>>85836804Have you considered working construction or utility instead? Walmart is the most dead end of dead end jobs.Your therapist basically just wants to render you submissive. They do have a point that you should be thankful for what you have, but Walmart is not it. You can have better. Virginity is worth being thankful for. Objectively, it's a good thing, even if women believe otherwise. The notion that men's sexuality is less valuable than women's is dehumanizing and misandrist. You still have your health and your youth(to a degree). You should make the most of it and go for an adventure. Quit your job, leave your home, and go hit a trail like the AT, CDT, or PCT for a while. Just get up, and walk away. I'd recommend traveling south for the winter.You will be hungry. You will be thirsty. You will be cold and hot. You will be all sorts of things, but you won't be as miserable as you are now. It's basically impossible to be when you're physically traveling like that and going somewhere.
>>85839028This motivation slop is fake and fay and emblematic of a declining civilization Take the despair pill
>>85838986Your life sounds really aspirational man. Especially what you do on /r9k/. We all envy you dude.
>>85836804>I should be grateful for small things like my health and familyHe means you need a starting point. You can never use tools, that you don't have, to improve anything. You can't build success on a foundation of resources that you don't have. You're white and in a first world country and a biological sex male and you're not obese or afflicted with debilitating disease or birth defects. That's what you're starting with.
>>85839034I would, but genuinely OP is cucking himself by not living life. Gen Z has been locked out of moving uo anyway. Why not just be free? Why stick around, in a situation that's only going to get worse, when you don't physically have to? Those who have a life romanticize about being free to do whatever they want. It takes special kind of person to have no life and then not even try to have the benefits of that kind of freedom.Don't get me wrong, homelessness is a lot of work, but at the very least you don't have to to Walmart everyday. Going off and seeing what's out there is better in principle, and even if it sucks, you'll understand why you work at Walmart instead.
>>85836804the most common mental illness of the stereotypical 4chan underachiever is perfectionism
