have ya ever ghosted anyone anon? whyd ya do it?
>>85837515schizoid, people are too clingy
>>85837515It was more like a mutual silent seperation
>>85837515done this with a few chicks i matched with on boo i think it was, i kinda just did it cause 1:werent my type, and 2:idk if i'd even want a gf atp
got tired of their bullshit and realized i don't enjoy being around them or his shitty friends. why torture myself with that shit?
>>85837515yes many times, because I'm an avoidant piece of shit
I was busy being depressed and sad baby crying and didn't recover in time before they gave up and removed me.
because I was socially anxious or something idk
>>85837515>have ya ever ghosted anyone anon?my previous boss.>whyd ya do it?why bother warning you won't show up to work anymore, am i right?
>>85837522being schizoid looks nice sometimes>>85837524is that even ghostin? >>85837531are ya gonna go mgtowceling?>>85837539what kinda bs they pull anone? hope ya found a better crew afterward>>85837545hope ya can forgive yourself some day anon, sounds like you regret it alot and are self loathing>>85837554ya better these days? sorry you went through that
>>85837572>are ya gonna go mgtowcelingnah i kinda am just chilling on the apps i use, if i match i talk with them for a bit, mostly been scams tho lol. if i get a gf ig i get a gf tho kinda just doing this out of boredom
>>85837559just stop being socially anxious bro >>85837566heh not your problem anymore right? not like theyd give notice for firing
>>85837572>what kinda bs they pull anone? hope ya found a better crew afterwardit's mainly me being emotionally and socially stunted, but i aint compatible with anyone in that group. they all saw me as a weirdo who would put on a clown show for them. they all talked to me as if i were a child or baby. i left before i would have done something stupid. im alone now and prefer this until i find the right people....or not.
>start talking to someone online>get bored or distracted>stop replying>completely forget about whatever interaction occcurredmany such cases, no biggie
>>85837586i see i see, if it works for fun then whatever suits ya>>85837618i wish ya luck on finding a new more suitable group>>85837630ya never feel bad/think about them sometimes? kinda lucky
>>85837515There's been planty of times when I've kinda just stopped talking to people. Usually they don't make any effort to reach out either, so I figure its kinda mutual, would that count as ghosting? Its pretty rare that I full on block somebody out of nowhere. I only do that if they're being weird.
A friend got me a date with a girl. We were going to meet at the mall I'm a Friday. One or two days before the date she messaged me to confirm the date but I ghosted her. It was because of social anxiety.
>>85837515Yes, I cheated on her and felt too bad to break up properly so I've just been ghosting her and avoiding her for half a year now
When I was a teenager I loved meeting new people but I always got bored with everyone after about a year and would just start ignoring them. Now I'm in my early twenties and totally lonely. It's all my fault and now I've completely lost the ability to talk to people and I just sound like a retard when i speak.
>>85837515of course i ghost people. its the spooky month after all
I ghosted like the last 5 women I dated, they were all really shitty, scummy people.I dunno if the last woman I dated was shitty, but she would drive wasted and I thougtht I was gonna die in the car with her one night, fuck that.Irresponsible people are bad people.
>>85837515I tried to get someone from /soc/ to watch a movie with me in theaters (I didn't want to go alone) and he tried to get me to pay for the tickets and when I told him no he tried to downplay it to just concession stand snacks, so I blocked him. I wouldn't want to be friends with a random who would try to do something like that, especially because he had a job and knew I was unemployed. That was my first and probably last time ever posting on /soc/
>>85838319He tried to get me to pay for HIS* ticket and then downplay it to HIS* concession stand snacks
>>85837515I WENT ON A PRETTY GOOD DATE WITH A GIRL LIKE A MONTH OR TWO AGOI DIDN'T ACTUALLY HAVE A REASON TO GHOST HER SHE WAS FINE I JUST FORGOT TO TEXT HER LMAO
>>85837515she said she deserved princess treatment but is a known whore
>>85838346AND I REMEMBERED "OH SHIT SHE ASKED ME OUT AGAIN" BUT I JUST KEPT FORGETTING BY THE END OF THE DAY CUZ I GOT MY MIND WIPED BY GAMMASO EVENTUALLY IT JUST WASN'T WORTH TEXTING BACK AT ALL LOL
>>85837515Yes, I just did it last week to someone I'd been talking to for a year. I figured it was going to end anyways, so why not just move on. Also, I assume that I'm just part of a rotation of guys that she's talking to, so she'll just move on and find someone to replace me. As for me, I think I am done looking for any sort of relationship, online or in-person. I just want to be alone.
I ghosted a job recruiter halfway through the process because she was asking way too many questions and pissing me off + I found out that jews run the company
I ghost every one I meet eventually because getting people knowing things about me bothers me and also every time I interact with a person I replay the interaction in my head over and over again until I find something to be bothered by and then continue to replay it until I'm too exhausted to think
>>85837515the latest one was a southeast asian girl I met on /soc/, who ignored almost every requirement or criteria I had for talking to someone and decided to waste my time anyway. I was very clear in my post, especially with a couple non-negotiables (such as actually living in the US), that she just blatantly ignored. I put up with it for a bit because she was really into me, but one day she sent a selfie of herself (after I said I don't want to exchange pics until we know eachother better), and she was just ugly, so I just decided I was done with the bullshit and stopped responding.
>>85837515I have. Have you? If so, why?
>>85837515She was an unironic pedo. Like, actually so, not loli tier but literally "let's have kids and then involve them in our sexual acts" tier. Which is a shame because we otherwise got along great, but some of the shit she kept saying got me scared I would be arrested just by association.
>>85838888that's pretty terrifying nice quads tho>unironic pedoimagine an ironic pedo. "yeah i ironically rape kids"
>>85839146The real terrifying part was that she wanted to be a teacher. >imagine an ironic pedo. "yeah i ironically rape kids"Least a bad tasting joke could be dismissed as a joke. Can't really do that anymore though once she starts masturbating.
>>85837515found out they were brown
>>85840432I've done the same thing
i once ghosted the literal perfect fembot that i was so in love with i could never get her out of my mindshe kept saying because we were in different countries it could never work, i'd develop feelings and it would hurt too muchjokes on her we've been married for 8? years now and have a 2 yearold. Stupid bitch I hate women
No, ghosting is bad and I don't do bad things
>>85837515Nope, never ghosted anyone. I used to burn bridges when I was younger but later realized that was childish and regrettable.I've been ghosted a few times online. Some were understandable but some kind of hurt. They were people I talked to for years on a daily basis then they just disappear. Fuck that shit.
on the extremely few occasions i had i tried to ghost people because i'd feel insecure if i was the one being ghosted and i know nobody really wants to keep a conversation with me so just preemptively to maintain my ego
>>85837515Friends are a loss of time, besides the fact that once the novelty dies, things start to get boring. I'm not evil though, so I stopped adding people in order to stop ghosting and getting ghosted.
>>85837515I'VE BEEN GHOSTINGGG
>>85837515All my friends and acquaintances from my high school era about a year after I graduated. It coincided with my decision to quit social media (the dominant one being Facebook at the time) because I realized that having one made me too accessible, and I didn't want people to be able to know things about me and what I'm doing just by looking up my name. To be invisible is to be at peace, and I'm still at peace well over a decade later.
>>85837618how long ago did you ghost them? sorry they treated you so poorly, hope you can find a good group?
I'm the one who recently got ghosted, and I'm not 100% sure why. It was a good friend I knew for almost a whole year. Considered them a best friend, and they cut off completely this weekend ;-;
nah not really, have been on the other side before and it sucks dick. i tend to kinda attatch to people rlly quickly tho so part of that is on me.but its such a gut punch to realize that you worry and wonder how somebody is doing after all these years when realistically they haven't even thought of you once since they left
