What is it like to live as an autistic girl? What life challenges and social struggles wait upon you?
>>85841050no friends. you are likely more or less asexual so no wishes to have sex unless in a relationship. this means you get cucked. normie women instinctively dislike you and exclude you. you can't pass a job interview unless you're a 9/10, even for fucking mcdonalds because you're so awkward. interviewers (99% normie female) hate you. female neet life. but being a female neet still isn't bad imo.
>>85841050Being socially braindead on top of the already present retardation that comes with being female will lead to them being used by Chad even harder, resulting in a hyper uber giga whore.Refer to that one "broo im chopped chud js like u" image that I vaguely recall but don't have saved where on the left is some fucking "femcel" egirl with 100+ bodies and on the right is an actual chud with 0 bodies.
>>85841050https://youtu.be/S7BbrNHzecs
>>85841050You can tell that people think you're a little bit off. I don't talk much because I don't want to say anything weird, which also makes me seem weird.
>>85841050Im so depressed. I'm chronically ill. I was fired from my job. But desu i checked out when i realised my colleagues didn't care (when i became ill). I can't form or maintain relationships. Im overwhelmed and alone. My place is mess. I barely am taking care of myself. I don't know anybody in my city. I'm looking at lists of attractive people that killed themselves. all I have is co codamol. I might need help
are autistic girls basically femcels?
>>85841264all u have is cocacola?
>>85841290Yeah. They are smell bad and ugly as well.
>>85841050>challenges and social struggles
>>85841050It is literally impossible for foids to be autistic.
>>85841050It's the main reason I'm a single virgin hag with zero social life. Now I realize my life could have worked out if I tried at little bit when I was younger but I was too autistic to know how to do that so I just became a recluse NEET. I'm not a NEET anymore but autism can only look cute and quirky up to 25 at most, after that you just become the weird cat lady or something similar and it's over.
>>85841050I dont know but I would really like an autistic girl to be my wife.
They're loved anyway so it doesn't matter. No problems finding a bf, parents dote on them, society still treats them well due to the women are wonderful effect. It's a nothingburger for women.
>>85841734Couldn't be the further from the truth.
The only autistic woman I know is about to get her PhD, and is married.For women, autism probably doesn't exist
>>85841050My aspie neetwife does not like to go out and do things (especially new things) and she watches the same shows over and over again. These are not so bad.
>>85841741Chad's cum was still leaking from your pussy when you wrote this.
>>85841050>post KenShe's a normalfag that lives in LA slutting it up with stacies now.
>>85841069TRVKE as a femanon who got rejected from mcdonalds.
>>85841934it's normal now. and people wonder why nobody wants kids. well you might as well kys if you get rejected from fuckass mcdonalds. and lots of women do.
>>85841050who is the OP girl? she's really pretty c:
>>85841290No, 90% of autistic women could very easily find a partner and are volcels at worst.
>>85841050bad at making friends, bad at maintaining friendships, bad at finding potential partners. fetishised by freaks online for having autism (they don't care about your interests they just wanna shut you up by fucking you). cant get a job because they can sense youre a retard, cant function in society as a normal person, meltdowns in public that make you look like a spaz, tard rage that makes you look like a spaz, public settings are too loud too crowded too overwhelming. i fucking hate having autism
>>85842158are you also a burden on everyone around you in your life too? I hear that's common with autistic girls.
>>85842194burden in the sense i cant drive and cant afford my own place so i live with my mum? yeah. but im self sufficient otherwise
>>85842210i meant burden as in a result of your behavior, like have your outbursts ever caused them problems (cops getting called for freakouts, etc.)? is your mom embarassed for/because of you in general or has she accepted her daughter's fate?
>>85842231nah never had the cops or anything called, but i can be a bit of a public embarrassment, i try not to be. idk if she in particular is embarassed by me considering she doesnt have a sense of embarrassment. but i feel embarrassed lol
>>85842276that's good, it sounds like you're more towards the high functioning end then! i used to know a girl who was pretty incapacitated by her autism, including stuff like getting emergency services called a lot/chronic self harm. she was definitely closer towards the screeching autist stereotype than you obviously though lmao
>>85841050it fukin sux dude frrr
>>85842231NTA but in my case yes as i get very violent during meltdowns. my mom treats me as incompetent most of the time
>>85842338very violent how? like what are we talking about here?
>>85842158>fetishised by freaks onlinewell yeahnormalfag women are evil abusers
>>85842495breaking stuff and hitting.
>>85842158so basically just like autistic men, except people will still want to fuck you even if you don't feel "respected" by them. And society pities you instead of telling you to kill yourself
>>85841050I need to be taken care of and it's bad.
>>85842550what's the worst damage you've ever done when hitting, whether it was yourself or others? also do you know what causes you to melt down and become violent to begin with, or is it triggered by a bunch of different things?
>>85841050>What is it like to live as an autistic girl?You're forced to mask a ton and then you kind of get taken advantage of and an older guy takes your virginity forcefully after making you think he's nice
>>85841264>I'm looking at lists of attractive people that killed themselvesAre you attractive? I don't get it desu senpai
>>85842730both myself and others. mostly myselfi have broken windows and doorsmy meltdowns are usually triggered by overstimulation or unexpected change (routine, plans, something as simple as moving furniture), and it is extremely annoying as i can notice when im having a meltdown but am unable to control or stop myself. i feel really bad and guilty too because the things that upset me are mostly non issues. it sucks being retarded
>>85841069>translation: I cant get chad and i hate that autistic men are into me REEEall heavily autistic women are shit people and should not reproduce
>>85841583How did you stop being a neet? How are you no longer a neet?
You guys only want autistic girls because they're the only one who'll fall for your manipulations or be tool incapable to leave youSick twisted scrotes
>>85841050i'm terrified of everything and in a near constant state of slight panic. i feel like i'm faking everything all the time and i kinda am because i'm heavily filtered with everything i say out of fear of doing something wrong. i just live in my head and my thoughts take up most of my experiences and distract me from everything else. i'm extremely slow with most things i do because i get lost in thought in the middle of things and have a sort of perfection paralysis. i'm annoyingly gullible and struggle not to just believe everything without a question. people seem to spot that i'm socially incompetent from a mile away. my mom's friends talk to me like i'm a dog and i can't pass an interview. i can't really present myself as normal despite trying to i've gotten singled out and bothered by people randomly for seeming weird. i think i could make friends if i really tried and people seem to want to meet me sometimes but talking to people often feels like torture because i always do it wrong and hate myself for it afterwards and i can't relate to anyone anyway. i've very rarely talked to people i didn't feel on a completely different frequency of thinking with and none of them have been in person. i can never respond right to other people's emotions or comfort them so i'm not really good at being a friend. noticing i'm being perceived when i'm not directly talking to someone is torture. those are the main things that affect my life, mainly social life. it's not particularly bad because i don't leave my home often and i can live semi comfortably for now and the main reason i feel panic is because i know i need to make drastic changes. i consider myself very lucky to be a girl and slightly attractive because many men don't care about their girlfriend having a job. i just want one good relationship with a man and if we have children then them as well and that seems attainable.
>>85841050its a bit miserable. you know u could be out there having fun and living your life but your own mind hates you a lil and makes everything the worst time. my online bf flew out to see me and i bailed on him today and cried all day about it cus i suck. always dreamed about going on a date and my brain just fucking ruins it all cus i dont feel loveable irl at all, i have zero friends and the idea of being the new person at a job keeps me from going back to work even tho thatd surely make me feel way better than rotting in my room. a stressful existence with nothing that even should be stressful to someone is what its like i guess :| hope remains tho i can fix this
>>85841069for me its like, no friends, hypersexual but no outlet, normie women instinctivley dislike and exclude me, but respect me for the skills and knowledge I have in my field. passed job interviews for jobs no one wants. I'd love to be a neet to be honest.I'm a mess of anxieties and other mental illnesses but so far miraculously managed to keep it all together. waiting for the day it all inveitably collapses and drowns me in despair.
>>85843662>because i know i need to make drastic changesWhy do you think you need to make drastic changes? Seems like you have everything set up
>>85843842i need to move out of my mom's house before i run out of rent money. need to get a boyfriend before i'm expired.
>>85843704inb4 you get groomed to drop your cord ill do everyone a favour and ay thisur a fucking fat bitch whore get up ur ass and do somethingbitch whore
>>85841050I've known several autistic girls. They are not anything like autistic girls>They are usually MORE Chad chasing than the average girl. The average girl might occasionally lie to herself until she dates a non Chad. Autistic girls directly and bluntly will tell you they maximize for Chad-ness>Always have a boyfriend. Does not matter how lonely she claims to be. If you buried an autistic girl in a cave, several dudes will still crawl to her and offer to be her bf. >If she doesn't, it's because they're not Chad enough for her>Often claim they're lonely. They're lonely FOR A FEMALE. She doesn't have twenty guys and girls blowing up her phone every second. That's female loneliness.
>>85841069>>85841264>>85841583>>85842158>>85843662>>85843696And let me guess, like 80% of you have a bf, the remaining have many proposals (despite being completely passive) but they don't meet your standards.If you're an autistic dude thinking you'll find a deep, romantic connection with an autistic woman because you're both the same - forget it right now. Autistic women are DISGUSTED by autistic men. They want normie chads to get them out of their shell and improve their social standing. In fact autistic women use simps the most, just so they can NEET. They're like normie women but turn up the cold, Darwinian calculating efficiency up to 120%
>>85843696>my online bf flew out to see me and i bailed on him todaywtf is wrong with you? Go see him! Surely he is in your city right now, go and visit him! No matter how painful it is for you, this guy has spend lots of time and money to fly to another to see you, and also now his heart is broken. You caused someone a lot of pain, someone you are supposed to love. If you don't make the effort to go and see him today, you are an awful person.
>>85843876Your mom makes you pay rent to live at home? How close to expiring are you?
>>85844094Anon, that autistic girl is applying classic self victimisation technique to not only be forgiven but make her more sympathetic, paving the way for future resource extraction >First spin it as a result of her psychological condition instead of her own choice>Center herself as the victim by exaggerating or possibly just conjuring the harm to her (studies show women can even cry on command)>Play helpless victim card, and even with an explicit call for help, baiting you into acting as her savior and then extracting resources from you>Do it so brilliantly you completely forget it's the damned boyfriend who spent thousands just to get ghosted Notice how at *no point* does she actually express sympathy for her bf, who loved her so much he flew all the way there to get ghosted, and probably still loves her. Her entire posts centers on her own suffering. Do you see now?
>>85844074i mean i (>>85842158) have a bf but he's also autistic and he's mine and im gonna marry him one day
>>85844141Just another guess>He's not autistic autistic. He has a reasonable group of friends, social life, etc, but "autistic" because he prefers spending time alone>He is in fact reasonably tall and attractive >He's the sole breadwinner, and probably is pretty successful >You've got him totally hooked, and he'll support your NEET life despite being a massive burden to him>The instant he can't you'll bounce him like a bad cheque. You wouldn't of course portray it like this. You'll say he's increasingly aggressive since he lost his job, has issues, etc etc. then play classic self victimisation to your next simp/future leech
>>85844169>>He's not autistic autistic. He has a reasonable group of friends, social life, etc, but "autistic" because he prefers spending time alonehe has no friends and struggles to even talk a little to random people without alcohol in his system. and even then his ability to make friends is non-existent. he cant even reach out to make plans with his family cause of anxiety>>He is in fact reasonably tall and attractivehes 7 inches shorter than me but he is a very very handsome man. the only thing id say might be unattractive to regular people (but its very attractive to me) is that he has a strong overbite to the point he cant chew properly, but it doesnt make his chin disappear (perfection)>>He's the sole breadwinner, and probably is pretty successfulwe are both jobless neets on neetbuxx, and he is legally homeless>>You've got him totally hooked, and he'll support your NEET life despite being a massive burden to himby the looks of things, ill get a job before him and ill get to support him :D i also do most of the cooking for us and i do his laundry when hes here>>The instant he can't you'll bounce him like a bad chequeill never leave him. hes mine. he'll always be mine
>>85844117yes it's only fair. and it depends on when you think that is but i'm 20.>>85844074men in real life only propose sex. i don't think you get asked on dates unless you have a social circle. and online things make everything complicated but i'm talking to someone in an unofficial way anyway. and i can only speak for myself but the rest of that isn't true unless by darwinian calculating efficiency just means trying to make smart decisions because relationships affect you for the rest of your life. that's arguably the opposite of being a whore so i'm not sure why it's bad but maybe you mean something different by it.
>>85841264>I'm looking at lists of attractive people that killed themselvesi can understand this and probably relate to this but i'm sorry this is just hilarious
i think i'm happier alone than neurotypical people are alone. i have things i like to do and i like my routines. with other girls its a mess because the way girls bully other girls is by saying nice things but not meaning it, but i'm really gullible and kind of believe everything, so i can get bullied for years and think i have friends who love me until they get mad at me for not realizing they hate me and then they plan a cruel prank to make sure i'm too scared of them to bother them anymore. then if i try to be careful and skeptical i don't know how to do it quietly, so i say, "hey that was mean", but even though they don't mean it the thing they said was nice so they go "what, no you're CRAZY, stop being paranoid" and everyone laughs at me. with boys if i'm gullible they try to touch my boobs eventually and if i'm skeptical they call me a bitch.to me it feels like being a kid with abusive parents but everyone is the parent with power because they know how to use Society System against me and i can't fight back at all.
>>85844349>But I'm talking to someone Lol right again>Smart decisions for the rest of your lifeAnd you mean this calculus about money, housing, and essentially getting him to slave away to take care of you for the rest of your life. It's hard for a woman, especially an autistic one, to understand, but the average male actually has a notion of romance and love. They don't think it's like a bank evaluating you for a loan. For hopeful autistic dudes, this is what an autistic woman is like. You'll get as much "love" from an autistic woman as you would a bank loan officer evaluating you for a loan. If you want an autistic woman, start by mailing her your net assets, latest tax forms and work experience.
>>85844231Absolutely BTFO'd that anon. Good foid.
>>85841050Frustrating. I can never ever tell that I'm being weird, I legit grew up thinking everyone around me was weird for not thinking the way I did. I never thought the way I behaved was atypical until doctors started pointing it out. (I would shit myself until I was almost five years old). I always seem to bother people (but I also cannot tell when I'm doing so). Always had this fantasy as a kid that one day an alien or something would approach me to tell me the reason why I didn't feel normal was because I was special. Turned out I was just retarded. Attended speech therapy and therapy for years and achieved nothing. Also was in special education. Got seriously bullied throughout school, especially middle school. I was in the yearbook committee so I had a few friends, but they all turned on me because of a miscommunication with some normie girl I had, where I said something too bluntly and made her cry. After that, nobody sat with me in my yearbook committee. To name a few, some kid ripped the cover off my book, this one guy would throw stuff at me, and this other guy would always kick me and stomp on my shoes. Someone threw my lunchbox into the trash once. All sorts of shit. I think I just tend to stay in my own little world and I don't care about a lot of things. It's kind of Hell, knowing that I act weird but I have absolutely no way of being able to tell. It feels like the way I act is out of my control and I have to overly explain myself sometimes.
>>85844745>(I would shit myself until I was almost five years old).Maxx nooooooooooooooooi never knew you were autistic, that's wildexplains some of your interests i guess xD
>>85844770yeah lol I'm just a high-functioning aspie, I don't really seem it (unless someone is good at spotting it). I think it's especially hard to spot in females. Also because of the rise in fake autism online.
>>85843696Your bf is literally the victim here and he's going to develop trauma because of this. You're genuinely disgusting. If you have any amount of conscience you will message him apologising and begging for forgiveness immediately, and then you'll go and see him. It's actually hard to put into words how evil it is to have someone fly across the world to come see you, and then ditch and ghost them after. Imagine how much he genuinely likes you. Imagine how betrayed he feels. Holy shit you need to either atone or kill yourself, you're going to hell
>>85844564Oh no boys find you attractive and want a relationship with you. The horror.Women can't be lonely.
>>85844839they try to touch me without asking or trying to take me on a date, it isnt relational at all
>>85841050autistic girls are ultra redpilled.they will tell you that you arent tall enough to make them hornythey will point out chads and stare at them without hesitationthey will tell you if your dick is big enough or its not hitting the right spots compared to the previous guythey will judge your income harshly, they will remark about how their friends find your job low-statusthey will flex not having to do anything because she is the best you can landit takes a different guy to hold an autistic girli have an autistic gf of 4 years, she used to be absolutely brutal, then once i started making a bunch of money and getting attention from other girls she 180d to being desperate to hold onto me.i force threesomes and side girls once in a while and now tell her im the best she can do and shes lucky. she accepts this treatment now.
>>85845036holy fucking larp dude nobody is buying this
Women can't have autism. Autism is a profound handicap for men, but for women it's overlooked by Chad, society at large, and the workforce. There are no "female autists"
>>85844839You're a fucking pig, fuck you. My girlfriend and I are both autistic, she got groped by boys in school and harassed. The trauma sticks with her still. You don't know shit, I encourage you to unbury your head from your colon and learn some empathy.
>>85845047good, the more people operate under the false assumption the less competition there is.
>>85843193>How did you stop being a neet? How are you no longer a neet?I spent a few thousand dollars getting some IT certifications and managed to get a government job. I got lucky 'cause there was no interview. It's low pay and in-person but with benefits.I was already 27 when I got the job, by the way, in case you're worrying about your situation. I think certifications in compliance, risk management etc could also be helpful.
>>85845036You're epic dude can I suck your dick
>>85844796itsk, ily anyway Maxxwhy do normie girls hate girls on the spectrum so much? it's super common, is it just an extension of the old saying "nobody hates women like other women" or what bahaha
>>85845229aww thanksI think it could be a mating thing. Competition or something, I remember in high school we had to read an article about mean girls and bullying being an evolutionary thing. Not that it's justified. But man they are cruel sometimes
>>85844827look he just said it was no pressure that he flew out here to have a vacation and that its okay if i didnt feel comfortable enough yet, its not like we agreed and planned this out forever. i didnt just ghost him either i was talking to him all day and i communicate my feelings very well, he was not left in the dark at all. and im actually going to force myself to go with him today and get ready, get him a gift or two, and im gonna make him some brownies. just going to have to drink a bit before so im a lil less tense because ive had no human interaction outside my family in weeeks.. so pls wish me luck thank you. >>85844094reply also applies to you n i wouldve explained more in first post but i didnt think it was super necessary, im really hoping the date goes well we are going to see a movie and eat and walk around a couple of storesmy insecurities just run really deep which is kinda why i always avoid meeting up with guys but he deserves more than just a careless dismissal like that so im going even tho im overly nervous
You guys might hate me for saying this but no matter what label a person has, at the end of the day they're still humans who obviously are gonna human. Just leave your preconceptions at home and it's all good~
>>85845357okay college girl, that sounds about right so i'll take your word for it huehuehuehow goes school this year, speaking of? enjoying the semester thus far?
I struggled generally with life and relationships. Maintaining friendships and a lot of self loathing about myself because why cant I just be normal like my peers. I have also found it difficult to maintain employment and received a lot of adult bullying in workplaces and I never could quite understand why. I mean I get it now and I no longer need to work so life is better for me. But I do struggle a lot with maintaining a sense of order in my home. I had to have a family member stay over to watch my pets while I was on holiday recently, and they took it upon themselves to rearrange and put shit away in the wrong places and it genuinely makes me feel physically ill to think about. Also the more I shut myself away from the world I feel my social skills regressing. I still feel loneliness so thinking I should go back to a customer facing job again
>>85845531It's been okay, I've been falling a bit behind in some of my classes which sucks. I'm just excited to go back to the US this Christmas break. It's getting super cold lately and I've been so unproductive and I honestly can't remember what I do every day. How are you? :-)
>"autistic girl"doesnt exist. thats bpd with a better cover up story so that she saves face
>>85845020>trying to take me on a dateSo they're interested in you? And you could say yes and be open minded and get to know them?
>>85841050I am a moderate autistic and it is a pain towards everyone but other neurodivergentsI hate looking at the eyes, I hate having to pretend to be neurotypical at work, or wear clothes that are socially acceptable, I hate being weird and almost having no friends as a result I wish I had more friends and more people to be comprehensible with meBut autism only applies to children so fuck me I guessAutism only grands me the choice of dissociation and living in my own world >>85841290Not always, Im not attractive and my weirdness made some also neurodivergent guys into me and I currently married a severe ADHD guy and I have been with him for 10 years. I can never meet a man through a party or anything like that because I hate loud music and having to preform.
>>85845796Autist women are never alone. It's crazy how easy you have it. If you were a man you would die in solitude.
>>85845796I also ended up with an adhd guy. And my only other relationship was even more autistic than I am. I feel like even though I did in hindsight get attention from men I at least perceive to be normie, (not a great judge desu) I dont think I could have maintained it.
>>85845796>almost having no friends>"almost">also has a relationshipwhat do i even write in response
>>85845830Shes telling you her experience not directly comparing it to your own. Yeah what could you respond with?
>>85845621OH SHIT, you're comin' home, comin'home! cue the song lawll, that's exciting and awesome! do you have an idea of what you're gonna do while you're back? anything you've been missing in americaland that you can't get back over in the land of the rising sun?>pic unrelated
>>85845809Im sorry you are struggling with loneliness, I got married to my childhood friend and he was the one comprehensive to my weird behaviors and stimmings. Hoping you will find a nice loving person>>85845811I feel the same, he was my only partner but if he didnt exist I would like men in the spectrum as well. Im also schizophrenic and OCD so even if the most normie Chad would have any interest (he wouldnt) it wouldnt last and I dont like the idea of casual sex
>>85841069>no friends. you are likely more or less asexual so no wishes to have sex unless in a relationship. this means you get cucked. normie women instinctively dislike you and exclude you. you can't pass a job interview unless you're a 9/10, even for fucking mcdonalds because you're so awkward. interviewers (99% normie female) hate you. female neet life.So, essentially playing life on mid male mode?
>>85845785you can't read. you should go back to school.
any fellow college autists/AuDists?people give me a lot of compliments because i'm doing a hard minor and like math, but the truth is, in addition to the loneliness the studies continue to be a struggle.
>>85845875Soz fell asleep lol but Yess I'm coming home. I miss American food so much. Also wanna go to nice American antique stores, the national park, arcades, restaurants, and I'm also gonna be visiting the Branch Davidian compound. I'm just really excited to hang out with a few people I knew from high school. Also to hang out with my family. My dad bought me Test Drive 5 to play when I get back which is awesome... Getting ready to leave for uni right now though which sucks
>>85844601you should both compliment each other's lives in whatever ways both of you see fit. if i didn't want children i wouldn't care about those sorts of things anyway and would be more egalitarian about it. raising children is a full time job in itself if you don't outsource their care to strangers. i wouldn't ever be with someone i didn't really love and have romantic feelings for. i wouldn't be okay with feeling like i brought nothing to the table if i loved someone and i would try my best to make his life easier and nicer. but even if i felt like i could have feelings for someone that was homeless or something it's really not a good decision to be with him. that's a material thing and not really about him as a person but it would negatively impact me and our hypothetical children. starting things on feelings alone is probably why so many people get divorced. if your going to be with someone through everything you should be thoroughly on the same page with how your going to attempt to live your lives together before you make that promise. i'd do anything for someone i was committed to without a second thought but i'm cautious with who i commit myself to because i have a certain ideal. you're kinda painting me and women in general as the type that would leave their husband if he lost his job and acting like that's the same as vetting someone and wanting to stay home when your relationship is in a normal place.
>>85841050You get to larp as lonely and pretend you're just like le chuds. The you check their page again and they're in a relationship posting relationship reels.
>>85841050Tutorial mode, like all women>but Chad wont fuck me!and no one will fuck me. what's your point chudette?
