What does "emotionally available" mean? I see this term used a lot on r/AskWomenOver30, r/datingoverthirty and English TikTok. English is not my first language.
If you line up 20 women and all ask them that specific question, chances are quite high that they'll all give a different answer. I guess.
>>85845694It means making yourself vulnerable so they can rip your heart out when chad starts texting them again.
I heard that women are ditching both for the rare "Sneed Male"
>>85845694I thought a man being emotionally unavailable was an excuse they would use for when Chad pumped and dumped them, I don't think the inverse is an actual definable quality you can look for in people.
>>85845694>Women areNo they are not. Women are not doing anything. Women have no agency. They can't deliberate and choose a course of action. They get funneled into situations by external circumstances and then they rationalize.
>>85845703Yeah it's a very vague term. My best guess is that it means listening to and validating their feelings
>>85845754I suppose so yeah. But then you could also ask the question to those women if they're prepared to return the same openness and vulnerability if their partner does it for them. In the end it's about communicating properly and not bottling shit up I guess.
>>85845694It's what the inceloblackpillosphere has been telling you forever: Betabux, sexless marriage, alpha widows
I think it means you are not thinking getting back with your ex, no situationships and this kinda crap and are truly single.
All dating advice coming from women has the intended effect of benefitting women and feeding their ego.
>>85845797And sometimes they just really mean it because a large tangent of women are so incredibly solipsistic that they see themselves as the golden standard for literally everything, so if something works for them 'it should work for everyone else too'.
It means not stonewalling when she tries to talk about anything serious.It doesnt crying like a bitch over a stumbled toe.
>>85845694"emotionally available" means they want a chad who isn't explicitly evil
>>85845694Alpha males? are people being formally addressed in yaoi hierarchies now
>>85845694average age increases, more foyim switch from af to bb. more news at 11.
>>85845694Translation >Women are tired of getting mocked for their poor choices so they are lying about what they are going for qhile not changing their behavior.
foidslopSee:>narcissist>emotional intelligence>neurospicy, especially female "autism">various of-the-now oversocialized platitudes: giving, coded, not that deep, not the one, crazy work
>>85845694it means theyre sick of hot guys fucking them but not committing or taking them on dates and shit.so yeah alpha fucs beta bucks
>>85845694It means having emotional intelligence, something most males fail to develop due to their deformed "chromosome".
>>85845694It means spending hours every day looking interested while a wominator whine and being negative about nonsensical unimportant shit. Slowly over time they turn you into an empty husk.
>>85846011Women are 100% without the emotional intelligence they desire. They'll neg and pick at the most needless things, they'll die on the hill of which cellphone you should have. If you show you care too much it's ICKYYYY. I'm not hearing that noise from them. I've always had the best luck when I just try to fuck, and when I let my feelings take over or show that I am relying on them just a bit emotionally, they peace the fuck out.
>>85845765>you could also ask the question to those women if they're prepared to return the same openness and vulnerability if their partner does it for themProbably not but some might
>a perfect response machine, provider, and just available enough for me (but not TOO available teehee)>dumped as soon as you show a weakness for thee
>>85845694And you're browsing these places for what purpose exactly?
>>85845754>My best guess is that it means listening to and validating their feelingsNah, that just makes you a simp in the friendzone. I've been the "emotionally available" type, they all still prefer to fuck Chad and recoil if you try even to flirt with them.
>>85846108They care about a man being chad more than him validating them and will still choose chad if he doesn't but they still like it when chad does imo
>>85846122Chad doesn't do shit for them. That's why they seek this "emotional validation" from other places. Every bitch that I ever talked to was like this. Seeking emotional validation from me, but already had boyfriends or husbands they weren't willing to ditch over me.
>>85846136>Chad doesn't do shit for themThey'd like it if he did, but are willing to accept that he doesn't and be with him anyway because he's chad
Bundy didn't do enough.
>>85845746>They can't deliberate and choose a course of action. They get funneled into situations by external circumstances and then they rationalize.Weapon of factual destruction post
They need to start running>Women are behaving normally and marrying and starting nice families and not turning into monstrous parodies of themselves, study findsnews more
>>85845706>I heard that women are ditching both for the rare "Sneed Male"I haven't been called that name in a very long time...
An entire thread without a real answer. OP, think about it logically, and I do mean actual logic here. Emotionally available == emotions are available. Thus the term means something along the lines of "the opportunity to establish a genuine emotional connection is there, even if it doesn't happen".There's no possibility to establish a genuine emotional connection with many here, because any kindness is met with suspicion rather than fertile soil allowing the beginning of a connection. This closed off nature of anons' hearts prevents many sources of pain, while also shutting down any sources of possible nice things. It's very logical for us, because "why would anything nice ever happen", but if somehow it's met by someone seeking a real connection it would feel very alien. Women in particular complain about this because many men adopt both this stance as well as an extroverted front / fuckboy mask, and women are notorious for their retarded decision making skills, so they see some guy saying all the right stuff yet not getting "emotionally close" (i.e. not caring about them beyond sex) and blame all men instead of just the ones they're dating. It's a selection bias after all, the only ones chasing her are those willing to play that game in the first place. Normal men and ones who checked out don't hit on dozens of women.
>>85845694It means a Chad who wants to settle down for I mean with haha them.
>>85846419>because any kindness is met with suspicionYeah because we already know they're lying. They're all Chad Only. Why would we believe anything else they have to say when we could instead observe what they do?
>>85846011lmao at the way this post went from smart to incredibly stupid
>>85845694It means once they have marked a man for how much he makes her pussy tingle, how much resources he has and how much social status she can gain from being with him, how emotionally available is a man is, is how much he is available and willing to sacrifice of his life he built for her benefit. It's purely about judging how much she can extract from the man.
post30 women looking for a cleanup cuck to pay for mistakes
>>85845694>Why is he taking so long to respond?>why does he respond so fast, does he not have a life?>I love when guys are obsessed with me>Ew why is he obsessed with me?>I'm gonna leave it on delivered>Why hasn't he double texted?>I'm gonna ghost him>Wait why did he stop texting me? he probably doesn't even care>I want him to make the first move>Why is he approaching me? >I love a confident man>He's a little too confident, he needs to humble himself>I want him to plan the date>Why did he pick that restaurant? He should have asked me what I wanted? I hate when guys can't make decisions>He better pay>Why does he think I can't pay for myself?>I want a guy who communicates>Why is he telling me all this?>I want him to open up emotionally>Ok nevermind that's a lot of emotions>He needs to be more mysterious>Why is he so hard to read and nonchalant? talk about serial killer vibes!!!>I want him to chase me>Why can't he take a hint?>I don't want to seem too interested>Why doesn't he know I'm interested? >I need a guy who can commit to just me>Ew why is he following other girls? I'm following like 4 guys right now>I need a guy who prioritizes me>Why does he have so much free time for me? Does he have a social life? >I love a hard working man>Why is he always working? >I want a man who's protective>Why is he so jealous?>I should test him to see if he cares>Why does he think I'm playing games?>He's actually such a nice guy>I think I'm getting the ick>Why are men so abusive>HIT ME, CHOKE ME, SLAP ME, BITE ME, DEGRADE ME, STEP ON ME, MAKE ME FEEL WORTHLESS (during sex)
>>85845694It means Chad who doesn't dump after he pumps.
>>85847281Women mostly just like the fantasy of a relationship over its reality. The same cold be said of men though, they just tend to be less demanding in their standards.
>emotionally availablesomeone who responds positively and compassionately to all of her emotional moments. someone who has emotional moments themselves but only ones that are positive towards her, and would rather die than share anything that remotely bothers her.someone who is never going to have an honest conversation about whatever her actual issues are and will just sit there and validate whatever stupid fairytale princess bullshit she has going on in her head.
>>85847313A genuine seeming smile and ill intentions is all it takes to destroy good men. When we're young we dream of women who will treat us like people. Imagine you are working a job, but the job is really sitting around and collecting a $70,000/yr salary. It's an open secret, whenever the boss comes by everyone acts swamped with work and fed up, some threaten to quit. Everyone around you talks shit about the evil boss behind his back. He has power. You also have to pretend to like him, even though he gives you the creeps.Yet the boss is a yes man. Any complaint, he'll do his best to accommodate, as he's done since the founding; but that's not enough. "I want a hottub," says one of your poor oppressed fellow employees, "Why is this coffee not kopi luwak? After everything I've done for this company for 10 years!"Now imagine some fuckhead arrives, and tries to make things worse for you. He starts throwing around words like "integrity" and "work ethic" and tries to make you guys look bad. "That's not part of the deal, keep your mouth SHUT!", one brave soul pipes up.He looks at you like a bunch of wild animals, making you hyperventilate, one employee has to leave the room to cry. "You're sitting on your asses for 70,000 a year doing nothing but insulting the man. Have you no shame?"That fuckhead is a dirty pickme. It does not go both ways.
