Modern dating is truly fucked.Been dating a girl for a month. We went in pretty deep, told each other vulnerable things, spent almost every day together, went raw balls deep pretty much every time seeing her, we made plans for me to meet her family and nieces/nephews for Halloween, and so on. This is after 2 years of having zero success and not even a single date during that time, so don't come at me. I finally had something after suffering that sickening loneliness we all know and love. We talk tonight and she's like:>"So what are we?">"...Together?">"Well I wanted us to have that conversation, but I was getting mad you weren't making it official.">"We can do that now. Also I thought us being exclusive was pretty much implied given we've spent every day together, shared all these vulnerable things--">"Oh no I just have a big mouth.">"You told me not only deep stuff about you, but about your sister, family, and so on. Is that the kind of thing you just tell anyone?">"Yeah I just have a big mouth.">"Okay...">"I was mad so I started talking to someone on Tinder on Friday." (It's now Wednesday, we have spent meaningful time, fucked, spent a day at the beach holding each other, and so on during that time period)>"Uh... Instead of bringing up that you wanted this conversation about us becoming boyfriend and girlfriend, you just started talking to other dudes?">"Well, ah..." makes faces>"I'm chill with things but if I'm dating someone, then I'm exclusive to them. Why would I waste time playing the field? If I can't decide if I like someone enough to give it an honest and exclusive go, then I just won't date them. Why waste my time? Don't you agree in some sense?">"Yeah, I'm usually like that, I just thought that's how people do things now.">"So do you want to be exclusive then?">"Umm..." giggles "yes">"Me too, but idk, what you did doesn't sit too well with me."cont.
She could tell I felt weird so I just kinda left after we kissed and cuddled for a bit. There are more red flags from this chick, but that interaction made me more pissed the more time went on. It felt violating, like damn I told you all this stuff about me, and you did the same, but you assumed we were just casually dating with an option for you to play the field, suck other dudes dicks, maybe have these same "deep" conversations with other dudes? Why present such connection that makes me feel like it's safe to tell you this stuff, with no assumption of being locked in? idk man I'm not victorian about it, it's not like I assume if we fucking lock eyes for more than 5 seconds we have to get married, but it just shows the dumb bullshit of modern dating: no real respect for the connection you're trying to develop. By modern dating standards I'm overreacting, but fuck that man this shit is stupid. Wishy washy garbage, gives me no faith this chick won't suck some dude's dick at some point behind my back.
>>85850527>>85850531wow nobody gives a shit normalfaggotkill yourself
>>85850540r9k is also a cyborg board
>>85850531>at some pointoh buddy...
>>85850527Well, you're "dating" someone's discarded used cum rag, so it's obvious that thing isn't going to be loyal.
dating shouldn't exist, it is alien
>>85850527Its normal for some reason. My gf also assumed Im not serious about her, while we were dating, fucking and being vulnerable. I thought it was obvious that I see her as my gf, she didnt think that until I literally spelled it out. Ex was like that too. Idk, maybe its from too many dudes doing all that and then saying that theyre not sure they can commit. The world is just fucked, if women had less rights and Christianity was the norm again I think this shit wouldnt happen that often
You're a normal so I shouldn't help you, but>"I started talking to someone on Tinder"She fucked him. That's what this sentence means.She didn't just talk to someone, that's not what Tinder is for.She met up and he got to fuck her.Because she was mad at you.Because she can't communicate.She's trash, sorry. Move on before you get hurt.
>>85850657I get you bro, already set my mind straight and I'm good. It's just been so long since dating that I forgot how fucking dumb modern women are>>85850649every day we stray further from god
>>85850531It's only deep for you because you are lonely and socially maldapted. Normals talk about all this personal stuff all the time with each other, and especially women.
>>85850527Unfortunately if you didnt find a girl in school your chances of a relationship in the west is fucked. If you are really desperate, just go to another country. Chasing pussy here is not worth it at all.
>>85850697>daddy when did you meet mommy>well son we met at xyz and then after a couple months of dating she decided it was time to stop sucking and fucking other men
>>85850527god I hate you normal niggers so muchcan you post your normal nigger shit on reddit please?
