>black men only date mulattas, lightskins or straight up white women>every other darkskinned black woman i see has a white/asian bf who is obsessed with her skin colorCan someone explain this?
The black community associates lighter skin with femininity and treat darkskinned women as low quality whereas the men you mentioned tend to be attracted to how different they look compared to most women. They don't really have that baggage.
the exoticness factor and wanting something different