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I think my friend is bored with me
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Anonymous
 No.13137818
 No.13137818
>>13137817
why do u think that
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Anonymous
 No.13137819
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>>13137818
Because he doesn't talk as much to me anymore and takes forever to reply
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Anonymous
 No.13137820
 No.13137820
>>13137819
What are you his girlfriend
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Anonymous
 No.13137821
 No.13137821
>>13137819
when did this start? maybe he's just busy
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Anonymous
 No.13137823
 No.13137823
>>13137821
This started several months ago
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Anonymous
 No.13137825
 No.13137825
>>13137819
maybe you're excessively needy. talking to the same person all the time just gets boring.
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Anonymous
 No.13137826
 No.13137826
>>13137823
have you tried talking to him about this? like saying that you feel he's ignoring you and asking him why he does that?
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Anonymous
 No.13137832
 No.13137832
>>13137826
I don't want to come off as the weird clingy type but I guess I could ask if he's bored with me
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Anonymous
 No.13137888
 No.13137888
>>13137817
Understand that everyone in adulthood will reach to a point you hardly are able to talk with each other because of life.
Please become independent and don't expect much from them. Sometimes it is what it is.
However you still have strangers around, you can try talk to and maybe befriend them.

Your fortune: Excellent Luck
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Anonymous
 No.13137889
 No.13137889
>>13137888
Im a shut in neet with hardly any responsibility. So I guess its my fault because I have so much free time.
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Anonymous
 No.13137893
 No.13137893
>>13137889
what do you do all day
im also neet
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Anonymous
 No.13137900
 No.13137900
>>13137889
I'm a neet too, but I tend to go out just like Avocado to buy ginger beer or maybe walk around exercise. It sucks I have no motivation.

Your fortune: Excellent Luck
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Anonymous
 No.13137909
 No.13137909
>>13137893
I usually just lay down on the couch with my cat or watch TV and browse s4s
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Anonymous
 No.13137912
 No.13137912
>>13137909
you should try developing a skill
anything will do it doesn't have to be crazy just doing something and improving is a good thing to have
it will make you less clingy if you are
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Anonymous
 No.13137920
 No.13137920
>>13137912
A skill you say... hmmm
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Anonymous
 No.13137929
 No.13137929
>>13137900
at least you have dubs
when i became a neet i had so much motivation and ideas and learned lots of stuff but years later i can barely get out of bed, this shit sucks

Your fortune: Average Luck
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Anonymous
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>>13137929
The only way I can think of forcing myself is to simply get a job I like. That way I lose weight and gain some wages to buy things I like. But atlast I have to fight this laziness! I just need to be able to drive!

Your fortune: ｷﾀ━━━━━━(ﾟ∀ﾟ)━━━━━━ !!!!
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Anonyme
 No.13137945
 No.13137945
Why do you think it
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Anonymous
 No.13137947
 No.13137947
>>13137945
I always message first and its taking him longer to reply
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Anonymous
 No.13138007
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take estrogen to become his wife!

Your fortune: Very Bad Luck
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Anonymous
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People are so meanie to me.
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Anonymous
 No.13138018
 No.13138018
Tell him you miss him

Your fortune: Outlook good
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Anonymous
 No.13138025
 No.13138025
>>13138018
That's a pretty vulnerable thing to say
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Anonymous
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>>13138015
Sorry to hear that.
I hope everyone treats you kindly with a tinge of romance, drama. Wooo~~~~

Your fortune: Excellent Luck
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Anonymous
 No.13138087
 No.13138087
>>13138025
It's how you feel isn't it
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Anonymous
 No.13138089
 No.13138089
>>13138087
;_; yes
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Anonymous
 No.13138090
 No.13138090
>>13138089
You should be honest with your friend

Your fortune: Very Bad Luck
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Anonymous
 No.13138285
 No.13138285
>>13137817
its a small chance you are too available and so he takes you less seriously. try and assessing the situation and if that feels like its plausible try distancing yourself for a little while. work on some of your hobbies or exercise with the time you gain. trust it will strengthen your relationships. at least it worked for me

it feels like some people will take you for granted if you are always hanging around them or playing online games with them daily.
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Anonymous
 No.13138288
 No.13138288
>>13138090
>>13138285
Hmm yes I see
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Anonymous
 No.13138295
 No.13138295
>>13138288
like honestly i disappeared from my friend group for like a month and suddenly it feels like people treat me like a human again. its nice. and i dont really hold this against them i think people are just wired a certain way
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Anonymous
 No.13138304
 No.13138304
>>13138090
not him but in my experience this makes people glitch out and never talk to you again it is like an easy reset on the friendship button
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Anonymous
 No.13138305
 No.13138305
>>13138295
I have noticed this too if I wait longer to reply I get faster replies
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Anonymous
 No.13138320
 No.13138320
Tell him you're going to rape him if he doesn't message you back right now.

Your fortune: Better not tell you now
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Anonymous
 No.13138331
 No.13138331
>>13138320
0_0 I don't think he would like that
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Anonymous
 No.13138334
 No.13138334
>>13138320
not him but in my experience this makes people glitch out and never talk to you again it is like an easy reset on the friendship button
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Anonymous
 No.13138337
 No.13138337
>>13138305
if anything by taking more time to yourself you will remember how to find your own happiness again! thats what happened to me anyways. instead of feeling happy when people were nice to me, instead i rediscovered lots of stuff i used to focus on before i let my friendships consume too much of my free time. its so weird but yeah now everything is so much better. like my friends will make random appreciative comments to me now which feels really good. your situation sounds very similar so i have high hopes for you too!
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Anonymous
 No.13138338
 No.13138338
>>13138334
in my experience this makes people fall in love with you and then you have to move to an other country to get rid of them
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Anonymous
 No.13138339
 No.13138339
>>13138337
Thank you anone for the good advice! You sound like a smart fella :D
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Anonymous
 No.13138354
 No.13138354
>>13138339
well ive experienced this sort of thing before! it took me a long time to learn because in my mind i thought i could make things better by being nicer to people. like if i just dial up my appeal and charm and be extra super nice surely that would work? WRONG! distance was the key all along!
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QUB
 No.13138519
 No.13138519
>>13137832
Nah, speaking that way would be very rude, and he'd probably feel obligated to say no. Wanna be friends?
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Anonymous
 No.13139217
 No.13139217
Up
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Anonymous
 No.13139383
 No.13139383
at least he's not bored of you
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