i ruined my life by avoiding my problems for years on end. now everything i do in an attempt to alleviate my situation feels to overwhelming and gives me panic attacks. so I'll probably continue to ruin my life..
>>13241290then you need to find things you can do that make you anxious without outright overwhelming you, even if they're not otherwise very productive, to build up your tolerance. or learn to cope with panic attacks, I guess, if that's not an option.
yeah, or notYour fortune: Bad Luck
Same hehe>>13241295Sometimes people are just venting, you don't need to feel like you have to give advice to everything. I mean what the frick do you know anyway
>>13241297Venting is one thing, but venting and coping without taking any action is exactly how you end up in OP’s position in the first place
>>13241300And what position you are in, highly successful and well balanced individual. Did OP ask for generic self-help advice I don't think so
by the way I cope by masturbating about 12 times day per day so im always feeling present and not a single thought about the past or future can enter my brain. I do this til like 7 am or something until i fall asleep from complete exhaustion and the gap between awareness and dream is as short as possible
My dad is a textbook example of that (the pokemon)
I know you didn't ask but what I thimk you should do is bash your own skull in with a claw hammer
>>13241302That's the issue, are we supposed to just listen to OP whine instead of doing anything to fix their situation? At a certain point enabling this mindset of "I'm just venting, not looking for a solution" does more harm than good because it gives people just enough relief to not take any action and continue their downward spiral. You need to act, nobody is going to come and save you
>>13241311>are we supposed to just listen to OP whineyaand give pity and go "me too" if you're like that as well ^^
>>13241290please dont lose hope<3
>>13241315I have a feeling that people like you know what they should be doing, but for whatever reason are too lazy to actually do it. So no, no pity party for people like you. Get off your butts and do what you need to do to fix your situation
>>13241324*forces you into a cell*just do what I tell you, jerk*locks the door*now shut up*zaps you*
>>13241333 (Trips)Wow, keeping me in a cell all to yourself? I feel so specialBut this is for your own good you know, go do that thing
>>13241339Honestly if someone could just tell me what the thing is I'd be happy to do itAlas... *zaps you again* told you be quiet!
>>13241324>are too lazy to actually do itone's ability to defer gratification is probably the most important factor for success in life, i'd say probably even more important than intelligence and innate talentit's kinda always funny how people hand-wave this away by just saying "lol you just need to put in some effort bro!!""
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I failed life lole
>>13241352Like anything else, taking action is something that you can train. All you gotta do is take that first step
>>13241290one day u will evolve and it will be so blissfulel >:DYour fortune: ｷﾀ━━━━━━(ﾟ∀ﾟ)━━━━━━ !!!!
unless...???Your fortune: Bad Luck
>>13241290Pokemon Emerald was the last good Pokemans
