Whats the /soc/ meta for finding people to talk to who actually put effort in and reply instead of just expecting you to be a jester and entertain them? Whether they be men or women.
>>35182957There is none unfortunately. You just have to keep trying. I saw a thread where 2 people found love and plan on meeting each other, and immediately there were posts shitting on them and saying it was too fast, kek. Everyone's so nonchalant and afraid of looking "cringe" for showing any amount of effort or hope. It's really fucking gay
Always search a username in the archive. You want someone who has posted at least twice before, so you know it's not a one-off alt account. However, you don't want someone who has posted more than a dozen times. A perpetual /soc/ lifer is someone to avoid for sure.
>>35183110>You want someone who has posted at least twice before,Not if they're a woman
Sticking to SFW threads (and going by gut instinct) works for me. This, however, turns /soc/ into a fucking desert.
> be me> older> on /soc/ in like 2010, then again during covid, now back for the last month or sothis place is so coomer, incel, degen pilled, its a husk of what it once wasany woman on here who has actually posted their tag has minimum 5, probably closer to 10, men they're actively chatting with at any point in time> you two could click> you two could find each other attractive> you two could genuinely enjoy talking to each other and vc/cam/game dailythey will still ghost you, and its not because they don't like you. its because every time they go on discord they have 40 DMs where 90% of them are coomer or incel based messages, so they need a mental break. managing 2+ discords also gets tedious, and it takes a while for them to trust you to get put on their main, and understandably so.and men are the same, to a degree. they reach out to 50 women/day, anything with a pulse that has "F" in their post because they're looking for one blurry nude from a digicam to jerk off to. the men, who sure have a high libido (its soc), but want friendship/discussions (that aren't just political), and to get to know someone get lost in the sea of coomerdom.my advice, to both genders, jerk off before you start talking to someone. if you actually enjoy talking to them post nut, are curious about them, and enjoy spending digital time with them... let them know. don't love-bomb them, but just say "hey, i appreciate you for [X]" from time to time. everyone likes positive feedback. you're going to have to wade through the shit of coomers, larpers, scammers, and low effort people. it sucks, but its also 4chan. you probably have a better chance of meeting someone online via discord/reddit or other places.> i have 1 person i met on here during covid who i still talk with but we'll never meet> i respect their opinions when they say i do something stupid type of thing
