so i bounced off tinder/hinge for the usual reasons. you swipe faces, get a match, then its three days of "hey" and nothing. no idea if the person even wants the same shit as you, just photos and a bio that looks AI written.been using this discord some anon put together called Cupid. idea is kind of the opposite. you do a short values interview, quizzes, diary stuff if you want, and it actually builds a profile out of what you care about instead of how angled your selfie is. matching is based on that data so you get people who line up on intent/values/lifestyle, not just "hot nearby."theres also a contact finder if you already know what youre looking for (age, location vibe, tags, whatever) and it pulls from people who put real signal in, not empty accounts. private rooms for matches so youre not performing in public hangout. no phone number spam wall either.not saying its magic soulmate button (nothing is) but the intros ive seen feel way less random than swipe apps. if you fill the interview it has something to work with. if you dont, it stays quiet which is honestly based.{invite}curious if other anons would rather match on values first or if im coping. either way swipe apps feel like a meat market and im tired of it
I mean look almost everyone that uses tinder, they do it for sex thats why looks matter there, also due to how many men are in dating sites compared to women, of course there will be ton of scammers or ai scam targetting lonely men and swipe apps are designed in a way to doomscroll but honestly youll have better luck finding someone in some random discord server rather than any dating site unless you are pretty good looking
>>35231865Dating apps are literally designed to keep you there forever while paying their outrageous premiums for the magical placebo of getting better results. If you meet your soulmate on their app, they lose a paying customer, so the app does its damnedest to make sure that doesn't happen while at the same time continuing to dangle that turd on a stick in front of you.Just go out and meet people in person. I'm not saying to hook up with a boring normie or whatever, just find people involved in hobbies that you like. Dating apps are a waste of time, resources, and sanity.
Yeah but I don’t think your ai discord with the option to purchase tokens is any better. I have had some great things from tinder, blackpilled incels will never believe it but ay.
>>35231865Lmao couldnt even remember to insert your server invite link
Sweet on the outside, wild underneath... intrigued? .
