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/vent/ — VENT & HELP THREAD

Thread to vent, talk about what's bothering you, and find someone to talk to or support each other.

DO NOT post if you're a shill, going to ghost, a sex pest, troll, or only seeking romance, this is supposed to give support towards any kind of problem.

>asl
>about
>interests
>looking for
>not looking for
>contact (discord, telegram...)

If possible, please report replies that are non-relevant to the thread, spam, trolling or harassment.
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Toxic way to start connections.
Using strangers as a way to air out negativity is not going to end well when you base your conversations on all the shit in the world.
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>>35322596
You're on the personal ads equivalent of 4chan. No one is looking for anything "healthy", we're all fuck ups in some capacity if we ended up here. Just let some dude/foid who's life is utter dog shit vent a little.
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>>35322548
People that use others for venting are scum
People that seek out others in "crisis" are predators
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>>35322596
>>35322666
Yeah what's going on, why are people looking for unhealthy dynamics in a normal place like 4chan?

What are you two even doing here?
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>>35322731
You can be a fuckup and still not want a dynamic like this, don't be retarded.
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>asl
24 mtf Japan

>about
I'm a 24 year old MTF having ongoing dating problems with my boyfriend. Things have been rough lately and I need to vent about the relationship issues.

>interests
Gaming, anime, chatting online, Discord communities, watching shows, casual hangouts

>looking for
Someone to vent to, talk about relationship problems, get advice or just support

>not looking for
Romance, dating, or anything sexual

>contact
discord: choropleth
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I'll use the thread to say that an mtf I added a few days ago from here was nice until they chimped out, deleted all their messages, sent me a few pics of them cutting themselves and unadded me.
I believe that at this point I'm just cursed and can't even have a clingy tranny gf. Thanks for reading my blog post.
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>>35322666
trvke
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>>35322731
>>35322635
People who vent to strangers are annoying faggots
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>>35323016
Sounds fun, I wish that would happen to me
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>>35323016
as a clingy tranny im also cursed because I want a big tough scary dangerous bf instead of a twinky skinnyfat faggot.

I put all this effort into my body i'd like someone who also puts the same effort in, is that too much to ask
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>>35324014
Post your contact then
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>asl

F/30/MI

>about
Getting rich and strong
>interests
Eating food
Manga
Money

>looking for

Someone to send me money for food

>not looking for

Anything other than food

>contact (discord, telegram...)

Reply with your contact info if you want to send me money for food
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>asl
25 / Female / UK
>about
I'm a nurse.
>looking for
Have a thing for giving care and support for some really fucked up guys, the harder to deal with you, the better.
>not looking for
Unrelated guys who see "female" and want to try their lucky, boring guys who think a bit of asperger and social anxiety is the worst thing ever, Americans.
>contact (discord, telegram...)
Post yours.
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having a really tough time, its really hard to make friends or go out and try to be social. growing up in a toxic awful emotionally abusive unloving environment has done so much damage. being male compounds all these issues as i'm often ignored or glossed over. anyways thanks for reading all this!
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>>35324374
alex.ile
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>>35324374
thecafee
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>>35324374
Did you used to live/work in West Wales?
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>>35322666
FACTS
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Today I felt sad and cried for no reason whatsoever. It was really disturbing because I don’t do that often, I didn’t know what was wrong with me. Then a few small things happened to compound it, like being locked out of my house for a couple hours. I’m now in bed and doing much better, but I wish I hadn’t humiliated myself by crying infront of my boyfriend. I hope everyone here feels a bit better when they’re warm and comfy in bed, even if the rest of your life is bad, you can be glad about that.
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>>35329726
sometimes it's just a cumulation of a lot of little things and especially things that you have been carrying around with you and never really had a chance to process, and adding one little thing to it is enough to tip the scales and make you cry
there is no shame in that, and i'd argue that crying and letting some of that pent up emotion out is actually a good thing.
make sure to take time to process things and let your emotions out once in a while if you want to be more in control of these outbursts and remember to take it easy once in a while
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>>35322884
>choropleth
Handle doesn't work, shame because I think I could help, especially if you're Japanese.
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>>35329638
>Did you used to live/work in West Wales?
I've never lived in Wales.
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>>35329866
Fair, I met a nurse a while back that did, around your age.
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>a/s/l
tail end of thirties, male, MI
>about
A few months ago, moved far away for a girl. She ended the relationship last week, so now I am stuck here and don't know anybody, not even online (okay, one person). Before that, a snowballing of a number of unfortunate events over the past six to twelve months have really sunk my spirits to historic depths, to the point of tears pretty regularly this past week. One of those events was leaving Europe after 3 years of another failed romance. Normally I am naively optimistic and positive.
>pastime activites
The Elder Days, early Nintendo, weeaboo, languages, writing, poetry. There are loads of interests dammed up behind lack of stability.
Lately, I've been reading a certain favourite tragedy (twice in a row, maybe third coming up!) along with some of Edgar Allen's prose.
When I'm not steeped in the mire of melancholy, I am also part-time active with walks and yoga. I can fix things around the house, and I cook and bake my own food.
>looking for
Kind folks to talk with, I don't care about your self-imposed limitations; I'll see through to the inner you and we'll have a grand time. I don't actually need to rant about my misery, I would like to move beyond that soon, and just get to know you. If we both are going through a rough time, listening to each other could be therapeutic for both of us.
Maybe we could read something aloud together. Or share in something you are excited about.
>not looking for
While I'm not discounting anything down the line, I think that starting off with romantic notions right off the bat would not be a good idea for me for now.
>contact
talking.tree501 at slmails dotcom
Let me know which services you use.
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>>35324374
just a bitch who wants to cooom. never expect a foid to genuinely give a fuck in any way shape or form ever
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>>35330138
Sadly yes, she almost got me interested with the bait, but
>boring guys who think a bit of asperger and social anxiety is the worst thing ever
Says it all
I am just a subhuman to everyone and the world couldn't care less
Gotta keep crying alone and fail to lucid dream a hug for years
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>>35324374
Disc: nightenjoyerr
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>>35324374
stop it you cant fix anyone life ls life
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>>35324374
please
d: 579v3c933
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Im banned from like 30+ servers for different reasons all while actual evil people don't face any consequences Im just hated because of my personality and how blunt I am most of the time. I am an outcast I can't hang out anywhere so plz join my server

https://discord.gg/9ezCahuTm
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>>35329777
Thank you anon, I hope you follow your own advice because it’s very good
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>asl
26 f California

>about
Thicc bbw goblin lady

>interests
Retro gaming, vivariums, exotic animals, comic books, art history.

>looking for
I'm having a really bad time mentally I have a lot of shit going on and just cut off everyone for my own mental health. Im actually going crazy and it's such bullshit that I'm also right about my paranoia. Everyone really is out to hurt me and is fucking with me. Also if you can check and see if my devices are being hacked that would be great. I'm also good at giving advice I just never take it.

>not looking for
Bigots. Nihilism.

>contact (discord, telegram...)
owouwuowouwuowouwu.
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>>35322548
>asl
30s/M/California
>about
overeducated, overworked and underpayed as shit, terminally online but still somehow optimistic and fun to be around soul who is unfortunately losing all sparks of life and doesn't want to be here anymore
>interests
life long video game enjoyer, easy going weeb, musician, concert lover, traveler,
>looking for
someone to vent about life with, someone to commiserate about feeling left behind by society and the world
>not looking for
sellers, time wasters, ghosters, boring talkers
>contact
discord:pathedic

Please note that you added me from this thread, I'm depressed but post in nsfw threads for the thrill, would like some conversation from this thread so please note at first message so i know its you
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experiencing a breakup and i feel like i am dying. would love to talk to someone going through the same or that has gone through the same. i am good at conversation and will take genuine interest in what you are experiencing or have experienced, i just really want to gush to someone about how amazing he is and lament about my suffering. prefer other females. can vc at night. disc: zzz_zzzzz_zzzzz
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im in the process of a break up after so many years. i dont know why im experiencing the worst mental block in the world over it. im not particularly like sad, i dont think. it just feels extremely difficult. so many years just, blip, gone.
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>>35324374
shothroughtheheart
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>>35324014
you sound annoying af
beggars cant be choosers
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>>35331966
hey, fellow autist here
I care about you :)
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>>35342478
yuo dont knyo me, anon.. but thank you
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23,M, London

Looking for a woman to vent to me about what's on her mind, a confession, and secrets. Be thorough and spare no details. I will contently ask question and want to hear more.

Not really looking for long-term afterwards

Add my alt astarr9434
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>asl
30s M
>looking for
adult woman who wants a long term version of this. I will be mean to you some of the time, supportive the majority
>not looking for
relationships, sellers, people who don't want meanness
>contact
discord: aeroflated
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F 24 usa
Currently having personal identity issues mainly stemming from a bf who is way more independent than I am. There’s other personal things but that’s my main mental block right now. Could really use some advice on coping or changing myself to not be so dependent. I have a ton of back and forth thoughts about it but if anyone out there can help that would probably be great. Drop a disc, gram or guard to talk!
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>>35343824
Reach out to tatsuk93
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I wonder. Have any maleanons received any adds with offers to help from here?
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>>35324374
mistere__123
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>>35324353
>30
You're a christmas cake though.
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Nothing too crazy. My ex and I were going to get married. I was used to having my best friend and partner chatting in my DMs all day and always had the comfort of knowing I could look forward to speaking with her again. Even when our lives made it so we could only get together for a few months at a time, those were at least milestones to look forward to every quarter. Now I'm a bit lonely, haven't enjoyed the warmth of romantic touch since March, and ultimately just miss having a person to be warm with.

33 M USA
Disc: sosasori
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I can’t stop eating I need to be put down. Fat disgusting fuck
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Goddamn it dude. You said he was emotionally abusive, controlling he went to the fucking psyche ward when you broke up with him, and then you GET BACK WITH HIM

You understand he's not treating you correctly and you go back.

I'm not going to say anything, it's not my business, and I don't want to lose contact over but please for the love of god have some fucking survival instincts. You have literally infinite opportunities.
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>>35324353
I only send money to girls I know are pretty. You do like manga though so that's a plus.
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this thread is a fucking joke. Literally every asshole is scanning this thread waiting for someone down to make the mistake of being too open so they can troll them for it

>>35348286
i'm fucking pretty as fuck yet I am a fucking broke loser
where's all the fucking money going to
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>>35348480
Youre a tranny
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>asl
29/ F

>about
broke up with boyfriend and I didn't have any friends besides him. I have really bad bpd and anxiety that I don't know how to deal with..

>interests
not much I just spend all day every day playing vidya slop or bedrotting. mostly npc interests

>looking for
some company, someone to vent to me or take my mind off things.

>not looking for
guys who only adds after seeing "F", anything nsfw

>contact (discord, telegram...)
discord: f4946 (burner acc)
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It feels like I'm being crushed under the weight of my own loneliness. I'm nearly 30 and I have no relationship, no friends and no family. I want to change it but I don't know how. I suck at connecting with other people. I'm scared I'm going to die alone, never married and never having children. Everyone says being a woman is life on easy mode but I've never experienced that. I'm not ugly, I'm not fat. I'm just awkward and ambitionless. Is that such a crime? I don't know how to be self-sufficient. I don't know how to be less mentally ill. I just want someone to hold me and tell me everything will be okay and I cry myself to sleep knowing no one will.
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>>35349030
If you wanna talk
kaiser0090889
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>>35349030
email me your discord jacquitore2029@gmail.com a bit older than you but also mentally ill with a caretaker persona
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>>35324374
Every single times one of these "types" shows anywhere, I specifically don't meet their arbitrary hypergamous nigger standards
>not autistic or american
Yeah alright. Everything about social life is designed to drive someone like me insane.
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29M

brown wavy hair, freckles, pale skin

I am really introverted, no self esteem, friendless, kissless virgin, I pass all day baking stuff and studying cooking.
I get depressed easily and sometimes I have soft suicidal thoughts I have serious attachment issues

I like crime manga and anything with cooking on it. I also like retro games but I don't mind play new ones sometimes. I don't judge drug usage but I do get awkward with romance topics because I have 0 experience

I want some female affection... good mornings and goodnights. I want someone to send photos of my
cakes/sweets, we can watch movies, anime, manga if you want

not looking for mean women. I have had enough

fran.choux
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F, late 20s, USA. shut in and neet. i’m just looking for a kind person to talk to. nothing more, nothing less. i have no one to talk to and just need a friend. i’m fine with talking to anyone, just please don’t be rude, degenerate, or racist (i’m not white). also, please don’t add me if you’re looking for anything remotely sexual or romantic

discord: ohokihi
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>>35343921
Zero. It's why we tend to meet the same fate of the crew in the pic.
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Server dedicated to feels, venting and raging. Let it all out take it out on us

https://discord.gg/SevYqpbU92
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>>35350953
Remember to reach out your homies once in a while
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Over this year I honestly lost all of my friends, everyone turned out to be fake, even people I felt like I could just trust a bit betrayed me. Why do people treat me so badly I'm always trying to be nice to people. I was already lonely before but now I feel like I'm alone in the universe. I only have one online friend that treats me any nicely.
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HI 2 19 YEAR OLDs KIND PEACEFUL LOVELY FRIENDS LOOKING FOR MORE KIND FRIENDS (no esex no creeps thank you just love and peace)!!!!!!! ty

discord : northstarvirginmary
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25 M
Basically need to vent abt my best friend. I love him like a brother, I have a great time with him... but... what hurts me is him forgetting abt stuff like my bday. We have known each other for 3 years now. Basically never got anything from him, even tho i was promised stuff on bday. Got only one thing but I kinda pushed it and I don't feel good abt it. I am not a materialist, but damn, it all hurts a bit... Especially since I always get him something nice when there is an occasion.
Idk what to think abt all of this. Maybe i am wrong abt expecting anything. I honestly have no idea. If someone could tell me what to think abt this i would be grateful.
Discord: mike9769
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Shut yo bitch ass up niggy
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>asl
35/m/virginia

>about
depressed and hopeless. im struggling with finding a will to live and the meaning of life. i can't make connections and have a toxic view on friendships.
i have a stable and quiet life, but im stuck in my head and want to just give it all up.
not a NEET nor a khhv, but a volcel. i have a job and money. i hate my body and am incredibly self conscious.

>interests
music, twitch/youtube, porn, gossiping, guns, cats/animals, cute girls, working with my hands, existentialism

>looking for
real people. preferably a girl or trans. someone to open up to and vent my thoughts to and be myself around.
i also want to hear your struggles and grievances to make myself feel better.
hopefully someone local to me so we can talk in person too.

>not looking for
bots

>contact
discord = heyitsmarsh
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>>35324353
>>35334393
trannies
>>35352763
stop relying on other people to make you happy.
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>>35322548
It's nearly 6am and I haven't slept. I just want to talk to another human being about my shitty life. Please be intelligent.
>amelia2159
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>>35350926
Why? You could've at least said something before you deleted.



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