Ask The Other Gender AnythingWomen: Why do chicks match on dating apps then say nothing?
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>>35335762Thats not a gender thing. Dudes will do that too, i would guess both are going through it quickly and go "eh sure" when they swipe right but after the match look over the profile again. For me its usually not bad enough to unmatch but not good enough to make the first move
Why do women choose to ghost instead of telling the person they arent interested or unfriending them?
Where da cock pics at?
>>35336193Not able to take new pics at the moment, but here's a four-angles pic I haven't posted. I've really gotta experiment with angled pics more, the top-down view is one I've overused.Women, could you describe the best dick pic you've received? Maybe it'll give me inspiration for future ones.
>>35335762>Why do chicks match on dating apps then say nothing?I can answer this and im not a woman. Most profiles on tinder (the app i know the best) are just facebook profiles used to create accounts. At some point tinder had to come out and say that almost 50% of all their "users" were just profiles from facebook. Im going to assume its the same for all the other "dating apps" which people just use to hook up on these days. Also if you are using dating apps past 2021 you are an idiot/scrub
>>35335893Extremely valid question btw
how do you end up making things "messy" online? in real life, its obvious. online, it feels like anything can lead to that kinda of labeling. in relation to relationships and i guess e-intimacy or some shit.
Femanons, if a guy you were making a bit of small talk with suddenly asked if they could have your number and maybe get coffee sometime, would you consider him creepy? Likewise what if a guy cold approached you and said they thought you were pretty can they take you on a date
>>35335762Straight women of 4chud, I want you to be honest with me: would you ever entertain the idea of getting dicked down by transwomen, crossdressers, or sissies?Because I, as a masculine man for example, find the sexual coupling of women on transwomen superbly erotic, hot, and overall aesthetically "ultra-feminine". It just looks visually quite pleasing. Overall this is a very rare pairing mostly found in professional porn, but somehow it just looks right to me!
>>35335893same question to men. why do so many men say they're looking for friends or are okay with friends but then expect a relationship or feelings to happen but get upset when it doesn't? especially when it's made clear the goal is friendship.>>35338605I'm bi but this is still more faggotry than acceptable. you aren't masculine.
>>35339268Men are normally more outright than women so i'd be suprised if ANY man ghosts rather than outright declaring their disinterest. I cant speak for other but ive never added anyone just looking for friends. I only add people who list what i want or "looking for friends or more". Maybe some men think they can manipulate the situation but thats just a guess here
>>35336225these look like photos for an ebay listingshow the dick in context with the rest of your body
>>35339268you cant chose who you fall in love with
>>35339617Well that's one problem, I'm not much a fan of the rest of my body. Got a lot of loose skin from my weight loss journey. I do take pictures like that, but only share them with people I really trust.
>>35339268Personally I don't care, and if a woman doesn't share the same feelings I just move on to the next, but if we've established that friendship is the goal and then the girl gets flakey or just stops talking, I stop trying and just leave it on them to put in the required effort to keep the friendship going. I'm not going to waste my time with someone that does not care. That goes for both males and females.>>35339583I would absolutely ghost. If they serve no purpose, why keep them around? If you're thinking about ghosting someone it's likely because you do not like them for whatever reason. No one you talk to online is real and you will likely never meet them in person, let alone see them again, so who cares what they think about you?
>>35339663Retard take btw. Theres 10+ billion people on this planet, why would you ever get stuck onor settle for ONE RETARD THAT THINKS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ABOUT YOU? Go interact with more people and you'll find someone else to fall in love with, and guess what, if they ghost you, there are 5 billion other retards to talk to. >b-b-but 5 billion is a lot and and and andThere are at the very least 10-20 people out there that are perfect matches for every single person, settling for anything less is just laziness. If you can't understand that, then you might be too autistic to interact with people.
>>35340258Then tell them you arent interested or unfriend them dont just ignore them
>>35335893i have been ghosted by several men before but i am not sure if you guys do it for the same reason we do. i think there are a number of factors. sometimes you stop responding but still have the intention of coming back to the conversation for a while... by the time you have decided with certainty that you don't want to talk anymore, it has been a long enough time that it would be weird to reach back out again. sometimes it is to avoid conflict or an uncomfortable exchange. sometimes it is to protect the ego; if you explicitly say you dont want to talk anymore you run the risk of hearing "oh, I don't care, I'd forgotten you even existed" or something along those lines. sometimes the guilt of losing interest is easier to suppress if you let the other person slowly fade out of existence rather than cutting it off in one fell swoop. i think it is often some combination of these and it completely depends on the people involved and the nature of the relationship between them>>35337788a lot of you are porn addicts that do not have any understanding of how women actually look or what a true looksmatch actually is, and therefore i think this should be avoided. if you have a lot of experience with mutual flirting or relationships and have a good idea of your "league," i think most women actually do appreciate being cold approached if it is respectful. read social cues (don't try it if she has earbuds in, a wedding ring on, if she is in the middle of a conversation), acknowledge the taboo ("i'm sorry, i know this might seem strange" or something like that), and do NOT continue the conversation in any capacity once you have received anything remotely resembling a rejection; if we are not interested we will rarely be as blunt as to say "no thank you." we will laugh nervously and say something like "i'm not sure" or "i appreciate it but..." because it is in our nature to avoid direct confrontation with strange men
>>35340297>Then tell them you arent interested or unfriend them dont just ignore themNo? That's still putting in more effort than they deserve, plus if they are too retarded to say anything and are just keeping their status as invisible, seeing me active and actually doing stuff without them should make them feel even worse which is a good thing.
>>35340666you literally have the brain of a teenager if you think right clicking on someone's discord username and pressing "unfriend" is too much effort. i genuinely can't believe there are adults on here that have these thought processes and see nothing wrong with them. guarantee this guy is pushing 30
>>35340727Your opinion means nothing when you can't even make friends, autistic retard.
>>35340727I agree with this person>>35340666You just dont give a shit about others. End of story
>>35340307If you are a female and you have been ghosted by men there are two reasons i can think of:1. You are to much work or overbearing2. You are not worth the effort in sending the message first.(some) Men have moved to a point where if they are the one sending the first message all the time the other person isnt worth talking to. If someone sends you the first message that means they want to talk to you and you are on their mind. This is for friendships and relationships
>>35335762Because you don't start an interesting conversationWhy are guys so obsessed with their penis length?
>>35341602Same reasons women are obsessed with the size of their boobs and butts. The big ones are glorified in most every sort of media, especially pornographic media. The small ones are sometimes mocked, by both genders. It can add up to some nasty insecurity.
>>35341486>You just dont give a shit about others.I at the very least don't give a shit about the autistic vermin from this tranny and gay board, none of you are friendship quality.
>>35341621This is obvious you can stop interjecting with your opinion thanks.
>>35341493it is the former. i talk too much.
>>35340307>i have been ghosted by several men beforeThat's because they found out you're not only a man, but a mentally ill man that wears womens clothing. Real (biological) women do not have this issue. Even the ugliest, deformed, obese, autistic freaks can pick up men way out of their leagues. Incels would kill to date a lobotomized torso. Try harder if you're going to larp, faggot.
>>35341635I will not listen to a faggot like you, sorry. Please kill yourself, thanks.
>>35341647Working on it but im afraid the prostate cancer will get me first
>>35341643https://voca.ro/18hOl8D6xURsno i really do just talk too much
>>35341641>>35341998It's definitely because you're a tranny, faggot.
Instead of fighting, I want a woman (gemale) to tell me if medium ugly is good. I've been around when a lot of girls say they like their boyfriends a little ugly so they wont get so jealous, but is that real or cope? I'm not talking deformed, I mean like a solid 4-6
>>35342125You need to have a real personality, not whatever insecure pussy bullshit you've got going on.
>>35335762Disgusting fucking AIslop.
>>35341998>>35341641What do you yap about too much?
>>35341602what do femoids take as interesting convo/convo starters>>35340727>>35340297This is just objectively wrong, If someone putting the energy into a friendship/relationship and getting more and more ignore, they have no obligations and they should not to be the one who go outs of their way and puts in energy to make a final official stop to the friend/relationship and maybe even risking themself to get hurt like >>35340307 says.
>>35335762Can’t most differences between men and women be explained by women being less able to defend themselves? I think if you accept that obvious premise to be true then it explains so many differences by itself.
>>35343623Its either because i just woke up or english isnt your first language, but if you have no interest in a person ghosting them is the worst possible action.We are all adults here and can handle rejection."Sorry but this is going no where and i feel like its time to part ways""I have to put and end to this friendship because (reason)"Its that simple
>>35343729>>35344397Incel takes
>>35344397uve clearly never talked to a woman besides ur mom b4 have u?
>>35344502>>35344524I talk to women all the time. If ive made the choice to unfriend them then i really dont care what their opinions/feelings are on the matter. I cut them off like a diseased hand.
>>35341608oh definitely, and I feel the the criticism for men’s penises comes from other men, same with women critiquing other women on their body.
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>>35344569A lot of the times, yeah. Though I've also heard a few cases of women abusing the insecurity to try to hurt people, like during a rough breakup.
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>>35340752yeah and I bet you're making a lot of them lol. go ahead and make a few more posts angrily lashing out at random people you arrested development freak
>>35344524the people on this board are so weird man. i can just throw out a guess like this person is still living with their parents and probably be one hundred percent correct just based on the shit people be typing
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>>35335893Its easier to run and hide than it is to go through the act of confrontation. Its conditioned on some level, but something we can work through. There are some at least who have it in them to be direct. Sometimes you just don't want to hurt the person and be present in the moment of it happening either. Its scary and unpredictable.
>>35344397But are you retarded, effectively the action of stopping or majorly cooling down the friendship is fro the first ghoster, then the other person have no obligations of energy-input, simple as, its just the correct course of action from the other person to act in that way in those circumstances
If I message a moid on a dating app and remain the same in referring to him as such, subtle/passive misandry dropped, do you think he'll still keep replying/give me a chance? I'm assuming yes if the body is appealing enough to him, right? What would make you keep allowing them to talk to you in these disrespectful ways?
>>35345128>>35345123Is this same retarded person, just on a different IP?Because you write equally like an ESL and make no sense at all.
>>35344502Your dismissal is unimpressive
I simply cannot imagine a world in which a woman were to find me attractive, and I fully expect to live my life and never be in a relationship.Having said that, and assuming I am correct, do you think I should still stay away from pornography?
>>35335893They don't care about your feelings, any other answer is just an excuse
>>35335762how much of a red flag or ick is it to a girl if a guy doesn't like pets/animals?Not in the sense he wants to hurt them for sport or anything but just doesn't wants pets, doesn't fawn over animals when he sees them and doesn't really want to pet or touch them when people show off their pets.Tbh I never really know how to interact with animals when I bump into someone I know walking their pet. I just find them to be kind of dirty if anything.
>>35347037I wouldn’t see it as that big of a red flag if a woman didn’t like animals. I’d probably ask her why but it’s not disqualifying.
>>35342375everything, i have no filter, i share every thought, i am clingy, and i have opinions on everything
>>35347821You sound like you're from the US, so getting to know you would probably not result in anything real because of the distance, but you do have a lovely voice. I would let you yap for some time, especially considering my last relationship was with an avoidant.
>>35347037Not really a red flag. I would ask why to understand. Who knows, maybe she was scared off/attacked by a pitbull or something. Which is understandable
>>35346230>I simply cannot imagine in the real world a man being romantic and not being ridiculed to death, and I fully expect to live my life and never be in a relationship ever again.>Having said that, and assuming I am correct, do you think I should still stay away from men?
>>35345076>>35345083Are you angy because I'm right about you? Is widdle buddy angy because he has no fwiends? :( No I will not be your friend.
>>35344556>i talk to women all the timeIf you're talking to ((w*men) on this shit hole, you're talking to other men, retard.
Is it worth wanting to find a long term partner? A part of me would like to find a woman I can give all my love to but each time it seems I screw up or get left. Do women want that too and families?Any advice would help, thanks
>>35358918W*men from here? NoW*men irl? Maybe some do
>>35335893For men on here? Sometimes I just can't be bothered to be the one carrying the conversation. There are too many guys who add anyone who posts as female so I can't care enough to force a conversation down every single one of your throats. If you aren't making an effort to keep the conversation going then neither am I. Like, if you were to randomly text again out of the blue? Sure, I'll respond. But there are too many guys who do actually try and keep conversations going for me to continuously try to keep you engaged.Which I know isn't the case for everyone, but those are my thoughts.
>>35360348>the least orbited foid
>>35335893For me, if I stop talking to a guy without unfriending, something already was off beforehand and I let it go for a bit until it shows up again or another bad trait is exhibited. I very much value my alone time and when I do make the effort to talk to someone, I actually put in effort and give him my undivided attention. If I don't get that back or he plays the too cool for school (I really fucking hate nonchalance, life is too short to pretend not to care about anyone when we're all here seeking out connection) or worse things, I disengage. I used to do the whole being honest but tactful with a goodbye but that wasn't worth doing when they try to add me back or have a bruised ego and try to "get back" at me so I just silently disengage now after giving a reasonable shot/let some time pass. Also there's a rare chance (hasn't happened yet but we all have our copes) he engages again but *meaningfully* this time
>>35335762>Why do chicks match on dating apps then say nothing?Imagine having 100 new friend invites on Discord a day. Every single day. (Now for fun, imagine you're actually attractive... and make that 200-300.) Every day. Every. Single. Day.Every single one of those thirsty niggers wants your attention. Do you have time to go through and try to maintain every single one of them, or do you just pay attention to the ones that are making an effort to be seen, the ones that reply quickly, who are actually engaging and seem interesting? They're not going to make the first move; a woman on a dating site has a waiting list 50 Chads deep all trying to fuck in line, still getting 100+ new messages a day, and you haven't even said hello.As a bonus; if you do actually match with a woman on any of these sites your literal first step should be getting them OFF the dating site. Because while you're spending two weeks "getting to know them..." they're still getting 100 messages a day, and every single one of them are trying to steal your girl. And one of them will. She'll get a message from that 6'8" billionaire with the twelve inch dick and the next thing you know she stops responding, or even logging in any more. She's occupied, taking dick on his boat.
>>35340307>a lot of you are porn addictsUninstall every social media app you have, delete all your social media accounts, cancel your netflix/disney plus/hulu/whatever subscription you have and never watch tv ever again, you retarded whore.
>>35335762Am I the only one that notices that OP image has the male gender symbol for both the man and the woman? The fuck kinda tranny psyop is this?
>>35336322A lot of people in the 21st century are oversocialised. And poorly so.>>35341602Because underneath the veneer of polite society every man is a caveman. Although I would conjecture that the prevalence of pornography and its expectations of penis size have introduced a new layer of insecurity and male competition.>>35342125>I want a woman (gemale) to tell me if medium ugly is good.Why do we tolerate this level of open disrespect from people?>>35343729You'd think women would be less inclined to hostility if we were all cognizant of this, though.
>>35361144>The fuck kinda tranny psyop is this?it's ai slop you fucking retard
>>35360640>b-but maybe if i let him simmer without talking to him he'll become more interesting and fun to talk tonigga people (both men and women) dont change and ur a retard for thinking that they do
>>35362077Very disingenuous and bad faith to twist a post that way
>>35361161Been a while, my nigga.
>>35361161>A lot of people in the 21st century are oversocialised. And poorly so.Correct. One of the biggest issues is that both men and women are told to suppress what they actually want and to pathologize it when they see others saying they want these things.
>>35344576>>35344839>>35345086Did ya'll actually talk to people?
>>35362906That it has! You been keeping well? Fun artwork, btw.>>35362928Quite so. The prominence of psychiatric medication, hormonal birth control, and constant dopamine highs doesn;t help, either. What's worse, people will even laud their chains. Whole thing's a mess. Women:What is it about your job/being in the workplace that you actually like so much? I'm not one of these so-called trads who believes the entire fabric of history has been like the 1950s, women have always engaged in working of some kind or another; but the drudgery of the 21st corporate working environment seems like such a bizarre hill to die on when we talk about equality and women's rights. So, please, enlighten me.
>>35365054>You been keeping well?Yeah, I got married last year.>What is it about your job/being in the workplace that you actually like so much?For one, money. Financial independence and self-sufficiency cannot be understated, especially as the need for dual incomes becomes more prevalent, and often required to raise a family. Secondly, it's a measurable gauge of success. Women's success, historically, was one of self-fulfillment and of coupling themselves to successful men. Today, a woman can measure her success the same way a man does. How much money is in her account, how quickly she can climb a company's ladder, and her level of education are all quantifiable and indicative of social status. More so than being a soccer mom or trophy wife.
>>35365255Forgot the picture.
