Thread for loners and alone people. This never really happened by choice either. Regular people just get cast to the wayside and never know why. If you are looking for friends and comfort or want to vent this is the place for you
If you are lonely and looking for a place to hang out we have built a community of loners and outcasts. We will take anyone and I mean anyone since we were all there once before. Its better than nothing and can be alot of fun to feel a connection againhttps://discord.gg/a6HbfPVgR2
>asl38/m/us>interestsa tribe called quest, aphex twin, dj shadow, j dilla, massive attack, nujabes, the roots, mach-hommy, de la soul, tricky, gil scott-heron>looking foralbum recs: instrumental hip hop, idm, downtempo, abstract hip hop, experimental hip hop, nu jazz, boom bap, breakbeat, wonky, glitch hop, jazz rap>not looking forvc, servers, groups, any people without some reference to know which albums you have already heard/liked (spotify, last.fm, rym, topster, etc.)>discordort.eum
Hi, hello. M, 20, just another night of not getting a wink of rest. Fuck me, I guess, right? I think I'm on round 3 of trying to cry to sleep right now. No dice. I tend to have this happen every other week or so. I know, should get therapy, working on it.I just want people to talk to. I say that and then, well, I can often fall out of talking. Which, I'm sorry. I really am, I'm trying. But I do want people to chat with and befriend. Better to spend time with folks, chatting until dawn than, I don't know, being all woe is me, about being the way I am, right? Better than fantasizing and wishing for things I could never deserve. I love stories, not the most well read or knowledgeable person on subtext and all but I try. Aspirant author, hopefully one day, just an author. Really into video games, anime, obviously, manga, Kamen Rider and well, other things. Oh, and I have a cat. We haven't named her yet but I love her more than I could put to words.Discord is solilune1013
https://discord.gg/tzXu5HMs2<3
Twenties, male, east coast.About me:I'm lost.I have no hope.I am a lost cause.I have no self control.I can't break the cycle.I need a someone who is in need of someone too.I am always hiding behind something.I am never wanting to be anything.I want to find the way out.What I am looking for:A girl who belongs to the night.She is nobodies bride.She is nobodies thing on the side.She is a wreck in disguise.She is sharp as a butter knife.She can do nothing right.She is unable to save her life.She has a favorite color.She never quite had a significant other.She is uptight.She is the fluorescent light of my life.She is often teasing.She never says what she means.She is always confusing.She is often amusing.She has a stigma.She is an enigma.She thinks that she knows all there is to know.She is a bit of a diva sometimes.Discord: arbitercoro
>ASLMid 20s - Male - USA>About Me/InfoHello.I have just gotten out of a decade long relationship and have forgotten how to talk to women.Women (biological), add me, and we'll chat/yap on VC occasionally. I'm not going to post a long-winded list of my interests, we can chat about it later.Instead, I'll post a list of boards on here I like to browse sometimes: /ck/ /g/ /fit/ /tv/ /x/ /wsg/ /vg/ /diy/ /k/ /trv/I'm educated and have a full time job.I don't care if you're a neet, loser, BDP, drug-addled retard, or if you're a some NLOG, trve Eve, tradwife, sleeper Stacy or somewhere between the two.The point is that we talk so I have a vague idea of what to expect going back to dating. Feel free to give your advice, I probably won't take it though.We could end up being long-term friends if ur cool :)I'm not very interested in an e-relationship. Most of you are probably crazy anyway.>Looking ForBio Women>Not Looking ForMen, trans, sneed posters, dry/low effort - unless it's because of the drugs you're on ;D>ContactDiscord: longingmug
>ASL30+ M WestEU>DescriptionElusive social outcast that lives in the forest and avoids humans. Full time NEET, living alone, no social life, no responsibilities unless set by self. I play a lot of video games, watch movies and at times binge hallucinogens like they were candy as a 'holiday from reality'. Dress like a purefaggot at home, like a hunter outside. Also lots of shrimp and plants both in- and outdoor. My mental presence is hurtful to humans, I am a dark and otherworldly being.>Physical170 cm, 65 KG, maximum pale, curly long hair, juvenile appearance (strangers usually think I'm 20)>What is your greatest desireLiving in the deep forest with no neighbors and gay elf husbandSpend every second together and become truly bonded>Looking forCompatible, uncommon people like myself to write with for entertainment throughout the winterIdeally someone as miserable as myself with a nocturnal lifecycleDo not expect romance unless we were really compatible and attracted to each other, if you have no EU legality don't even bother with thatI could theoretically house someone indefinitely but I'm not a provider being legal and stable in life is a mustBonus if you speak Hindi / UrduI'm somewhat intermediate in it but have no practise also in speaking (although I hardly speak any language physically due to no real social interaction)If you wanted to learn German and need practise that would be ideal (like someone wanting to study here or doing it - Gender and looks are unimportant for this as long as you don't expect romance)For any real meetup decent stamina and ability to hike 20+ KM with groceries is a requirement I live very remote, also loosing more weight (was around 55 before my ex BF) and maintaining superior physical capability>Not looking forOnline sex shit, horny men, people who have never time>Contactanantdukhikhoj @ emailn . eu
>>35422272Isn't that what this whole board is for? If you make friends easily IRL you're probably not on here.
>ASL21/F/Canada>About meI like to play video games and draw arts. I also like to watch anime.>Looking forMen who wants to have romantic relationship with me>Discordedelweissbunny
>>35425023Well.. are you racist? Are you an oldfag? What video games? Write something..
>>35423001fag
21 Sissy femboy scotland.Seeking long term online stalker thats over the age of 30 <3About me: im paige a femboyi am 6ft0 dark short/medium hair and growing. Average/slim body i get told I have nice legs and a nice ass. I play alot of videos games and im open to playing some with you (league, valo, overwatch, rocket league and more) im very depressed I hate being born male so if we can find a way to have th stalking also push my femininity that would be great.What im looking for: man over 30 years old. Experience with humiliation public and online, exposure public and online, blackmail, outdoor maybe public play, location tracking. I might get a live 24/7 camera in my room for the right person. Looking for someone pervy maybe creepy maybe even a dangerous man I want to feel scared like I dont know what will happen next. Someone who knows how to make someone cry.NOT what im looking for: im not looking for an owner or boyfriend this is only stalking me. I dont want vanilla people If you are not crazy creepy ect dont bother. Please when you add me send me a good detailed introduction with previous experience in anything yuu feel is relevant. Why you think youd be a good stalker and angthing yiu feel is needed. A more detailed into catches my attention better. If yiu do not send a n intro as your first message ill assume you didnt read all of this and your not serious Discord: kittenkisses15
>ASL21/F/West EU>About meI strive not to give up on things, hobbies, plans, plants, and wishes. I am pursuing life as aggressively and entirely as humanly possible after a few too many years NEETing out. I’m a jack of all trades, a master of maybe one or two, but I jack the rest of the trades well. I’m interested in philosophy and anthropology and psychology and every human-mind issue I don’t yet understand in the world. Every day should be spent in awe at all that is still unknown, and there is so much to look out for!I travel, I write, I study. I’ve stopped gaming as I travel; I stopped writing because I saw the mirror looking up at me from those blue lines and I Hated what I saw. Dopaminergic rewards gone, I am homed in.Ambiguous post, ambiguous life.>Looking forEuropeans.I am only interested in good conversation. The kind of mutual humor only similar age and similar devotion can create, you’ll know. Silliness, openness, joy, gratitude. Childlike wonder and glee alongside a mindset of actively and preemptively trying to stop what normally kills the inner child. >Discordwindedup
>ASL25/M/Northern Ireland >About MeI enjoy mathematics and anime and fighting games and being in nature (hiking, camping etc.). I was a NEET for 4 years, but I've been a full-time worker and part-time student for the last 3.I am an insular person by nature. I have fallen in love twice and found myself misunderstood both times. I wish to regain the optimism I felt before.I believe my purpose in life is to save others, but I am plagued with the constant fear that I will never be saved.>Looking for Anyone who is available to talk at most times of the day and is unlikely to disappear unexpectedly.>Discordllimdaert
>ASL42/m/Los Angeles >About youI'm a twice taken father of three. I have a highly rewarding career that I love, and am primarily free during work hours (as that is when I'm bored and looking for chats). I'm into DIY projects (pic related, it's the hanging lounge I've been putting together for months), nerdy things galore, history and politics. Currently playing and loving the WoW Forever beta.>Looking forFriendships, especially long term ones>Not looking forRomance>ContactLaserJesusBeard
>>35422272>ASL28/M/USA>About youSemi-NEET, burnt out on my creative aspirations though not given up on them fully, tremendously unhealthy lifestyle that I'm working on fixing. I've been told I have a very magnetic personality at times, but that's becoming tougher to maintain as the years go by. Regardless, I'd say my baseline social skills are far above average for /soc/. No point in not throwing a Hail Mary and seeing if I have any success.>Looking forKHHV biologically female future wife>Not looking forOther things.>Discordequinox_vi
>asl21/M/FL>DescriptionWhite,5’11,college, shut-in autist>Interestslove Anime, favorite anime’s are mainly Monster, Steins;Gate 1 and 0, Rozen Maiden, Code Geass, Clannad, Kaiji there’s more but that’s the rundown I am also getting into Visual novels, I am currently playing Chaos;Head, I wouldn’t mind watching anime with someone, in fact I’d love toFor games I guess a few games and franchises I can name: REmake, Yakuza games, getting into persona, Victoria 2, played dark souls 1 and 2, liked Kingdom Come Deliverance(I do play l4d2 and War of Rights along with Holdfast occasionally but not with friends and not much) I honestly don’t mind playing multiplayer games (even if it’s ones I don’t have) I just have no one to play games with (currently playing Valkyria)As for music I love metal, mainly doom, SOME death, black metal, SOME power metal(I am very picky regarding that), the only metal I dislike is thrash metal or thrashy metal, I like alt rock (like ozma, weezer, the rentals, and sElf), along with some Neofolk, and also baroque and classical, love harpsichords, I’ve been getting into music for nearly a year so don’t expect me to know every household bandAs for other stuff I like, love history, 16th to 20th century, I like 20th century politics, I won’t talk about this stuff to you unless you want me to though, since it can bore people out. I like geography and nature, prehistory to an extent as well, Twitter>Looking forAn autistic woman who is interested in me and loves me (and I love back) and plans to have children and a long term relationship, hopefully eventually becoming married if it goes well, we could watch anime together, play games, just talk in general, read together, etc…..>Not looking forMen, troons, people out of US, aversion to terminally online rw humor (again, I won’t be political unless you want to), people who ghost instead of unfriend when you think I’m boringdiscord: ____ferdinand____
> A/S/L:37/M/MD, close to DE/PA. Open to long-distance, for a time. Willing to relocate.> Personality:I'm a timid/shy/anxious fella, I struggle early with small talk, but I get more comfortable, and talkative with familiarity. I'm told I'm intelligent, empathetic, supportive, honest, and open-minded. I'm respectful of boundaries, and I'm not going to be crass, pushy, or ghost you. Nerdy, Leftist, Nightowl. Wordy/Talkative. Agnostic. PoC/LGBT+/Neurodivergent friendly. Monogamous, Kinky, Switch/Sub-leaning/GGG.Associates Degree, part-time employment.User of Cannabis/Shroom EDIBLES, Non-Smoker/Drinker.> Phys. DescriptionWhite, brown hair, Hazel-eyed, 5'8", ~230lbs> Mental Health Issues:ADHD, GAD, MDD, most likely ASD. In therapy, working on things.> Hobbies/Interests:VGames, Lego, D&D, TV/Film/Animation, SciFi/Horror. 3D Printing, Model painting.Big fan of Brandon Sanderson's Cosmere works, and Jim Butcher's Dresden files.> Looking for > Anything. Someone who has the time and interest to hang out regularly. I'm happy to text initially, but a willingness to move to regular voice calls is important. I'd love to play games or watch stuff together. Whatever you're comfortable with, I'd just value the company, honestly.I'm starved for affection and intimacy, and I'm mostly hoping to find a woman to share love and life with. Someone Patient, Empathetic, and Progressive in values. I like talkative, forward, aggressive, possessive, clingy. It's probably best to start as friends, and see where things go.Partner/FwB: ~29-49, Single, Monogamous. Kinky/Switchy/GGG.Friends: If you think we might click, reach out.> Not Looking For:Men, Women who have/want kids, Conservatives. Smokers/Hard-Drugs/Heavy-Drinkers> Contact:Discord: crimzind
m22 usai just wanna meet and talk to girls with similar interests to me. i like anime, music(mainly MySpace era post hardcore and other scenemo stuff, cloud rap, and witch house), some video games (mainly fighters), and i’ve been getting into film recently. i also wanna get into fashion.discord: limpanddormant
Are you lonely? A nice person looking a a nice fun community to meet new people and make great friendships?I invite you to join The Den.Low moderation server with super chill people.Active VC and Text Channels.Dedicated NSFW channel.We got all types of peeps here, Male, Female, Trans, whatever.Come join the Family, we have a Minecraft Server and will regularly Host Game Nights for different games, aswell as stream movies/ shows.https://discord.gg/catpuke
>ASL23 - Female - US>DescriptionI haven’t had any IRL friends since 4 years ago and my current online friends are pretty crummy. I spend most days doing nothing of importance besides drawing on occasion, reading, or browsing the internet. I enjoy philosophy, politics, and debate. I’m also interested in physiognomy and psychology. I’m open to new ideas and opinions that challenge my own.>Looking forSomeone who wants to listen to what I have to say. Preferably someone with autism, 18-25 years old, male, and/or below 5’6”>ContactDiscord: w19392sja850a
Making a long-term group dedicated to my webslut ex.Make me helplessly watch as you guys goon to her while chatting and sharing her with eachother. You can save all her pics and then repost her in the group anytime you want, it's okay if they're repeats>The only rule is that you don't lurk or you'll be removed, if you're not around that's okay but just don't lurk when you are around. Sometimes the group will go quiet but that doesn't mean it's dead just post in it and it'll get going again. I'm looking to make this a long-term thing where you guys goon to her anytime you want while chatting about her with eachother and sharing her pics in the group. Almost like her webslut fanclub lol.Teleguard: GSYP344SH
>ASL30 Male US east coast>physical description5’7”, skinny fat, white, brown hair and brown eyes>aboutI have been using 4chan for about 15 years now, on and off, and I don’t expect anything good from this website. Im a failed normie who works in STEM and I don’t relate to other people.I like reading philosophy sometimes, love animals, watching movies or YouTube, exercising. I love collecting old tech and relishing in the old web nostalgia lol.. I also listen to black metal sometimes, dimmu Borgir, burzum, kvelertak, emperor, skálmöld, etc. mostly like playing casual games nowadays like doom wads, postal, blood, retro gaming on emulators. >looking forA woman who lives in the US, white and 20-25 years old. Please have some sort of job or education, or willingness to do so. >not looking forserial daters/sex havers, schizos, trans, bpd, outside of US>discordsacredlava
>ASL21/M/IDC>aboutI am mentally malnourished and while not entirely lonely as I do have one friend, he is equally as ill as I am and busy so I largely have nobody to fall back on whenever I have an episode which is quite often and this is my last ditch effort.>what I'm intoNo, I already feel like I'm whoring myself too much.>looking forSomeone who is nice and caring and is willing to put up with someone who might be very mentally ill and not very good at anything(and also just me being me). Cynically I could say I want an "Adult Babysitter" but I feel like I'm beating myself up too much for being lonely and unloved.>not looking forpeople looking to jack off, trans, people who aren't nice and unwilling to accept someone like me, no-fun nannies, hall monitor types>contactDiscord: theotherguy300zx
Server for mentally ill egirls to find each other, play video james and discuss eating disorders!!!Moids are allowed under the following conditions:- not black- must have autism- not snowflakelet’s be fwends everynyan!!https://discord.gg/NTjXDhnk2https://discord.gg/NTjXDhnk2https://discord.gg/NTjXDhnk2
>>35423001Anon get a life. No wonder you’re lonely if you write this shit thinking you’re romantic. A girl of the night? You want a whore? They’re everywhere
>asl21/Male/Europe>Why you're a failureEveryone hates me!>interestsI like the outdoors (hiking, camping, foraging, hunting), cooking, gamedev and video games (milsims, weird indie games, coop horror), coding (in C!) tinkering with computers (BSD and Linux) and electronics, music (metal, rock and classical), sports (swimming and basketball),history and literature>looking forPeople to VC/Play games with!CTF teammateRelationship/FriendshipSomeone who I can form a genuine connection with.>not looking forDry peoplePeople that forget why they add mePassionless people with no hobbiesGooners>contactackee205Please tell me something about yourself when you add me.
good luck everynyani wonder how ppl who write "why are you here, fix yourself first!!" have absolutely no self awareness.>aslturning 25 soon, male, eu.i like girls am sorry boys.>about meanyone else have trouble writing about themselves? and i don't mean in a positive light, just in general.ive sort of always had trouble finding joy in things from a very young age, but since im not a bedrotter i can do a lot of things, granted if theres a reason. i like videogames am sure ill make a few of my own if i dont kms.im kind of a neurodivergent retard but it doesnt matter since im plenty adequate>not looking forsuperficial relations, short term relations, infinite validation "this behavior is bad, but you are so valid bestie!" kill me, why does everyone i try making friends with inevitably fumble so bad or start shooting themselves in the foot, can you try not doing that?>looking forive never really been picky with this sort of stuff as long as youre capable of being genuine and capable of showing human decency as opposed to literally being highly ironic about everything like a retard, which honestly in this day and age seems to be pretty rare.i also feel like the more things you end up writing in the looking for section the less likely people will add to chat with you since they dont meet a highly idealized/perfect version of whatever everyone is "looking for"love girlfailures n goonettes just not the ones that larp or want the good life served on a silver platter(who doesnt).am just here to chat and make a valuable connection.>discordangrilynuanced
>ASL24 M United Kingdom>about mekinda bored and lonely and broken. i have one real life friend. i study in uni. i write. tho i spend most of my time online. i can be funny.>looking formore people to talk with online, hopefully long lasting friends. i prefer to vc.>discordj3d3a
>asl26/m/tx>interests video games and books. i love doom 2 and s.t.a.l.k.e.r, and my favorite books are Dantes Divine Comedy and Dostoevskys Crime & Punishment. im also an amateur html/css dev for fun, and i like building websites sometimes. and i play ffxiv sometimes, though not very often>looking fora friend. someone thats patient, sweet. someone i can be platonically affectionate with.>not looking fora relationship. VCs, large groups of friends or servers.>contactwendigosinglesnearyou@proton.mei dont like posting my discord hereif i dont respond quickly, im probably playing a video game or busy. i try not to ghost people
>>35436563DNI just baits arguments and generally is a really dry and angry person, fake pic too, been using the same post for years
37/M/OklahomaNever thought I'd be posting here again. I almost got married from /soc/. It took years of messaging people to meet that person. They took me for everything I was worth and left me for dead. It's been a few years now and I'm still alone. At my age things are so fucking bad.All the girls left just want to get vallidation from me then bail or just have unrealistic expectations. I'm a piece of shit honestly, but having other pieces of shit act like they are better than me is awful. I had a paralyzed opiate addicted single mom tell me she was choosing an incarcerated child molester with a violent rape rap over me.Feelsbadman to the fucking max. I apparently have zero fucking value aside from a quick ego boost to these fucking sociopathic psychos. I legit want to end my life at this point. I've tried to in the past, but I geel like the struggle to make it has been for absofuckinglutely nothing. I just eat, shit, play games, shop then eventually sleep. I'm disabled so that is it for me. No love. Nobody to talk to. Nobody to share interests. I'm just waiting to die.I've pulled hot chicks, ugly chicks, mid chicks. It all ends in them using me as a stepping stone to whatever the fuck these delusional bitches want. I really have no fucking clue why I am even here. Probably because of who I met here in the past. Y'all talk about chicks hitting the wall. Well, I hit the male wall and it's literally fucking over.Discord: theforestwhispersmyname
Been awhile... Sexless loaner in my 20s, met the girl of my dreams when I was 30. We fell madly in love, we moved in together after 2 years. I proposed shortly after, she said yes. We wanted a kid, so we made one. My love died 3 weeks after our baby was born. 34, single father. Had to leave my high paying corporate job and move back to my home town to be closer to family for support. I have my baby, but God damn I feel alone.
>>35444672Forgot your tag homie, hope you find some good company.
https://discord.gg/FCZpex4jp<3
>A/S/L29, Male, Latvia Total fucking loser, insomniac, 0 prospects in life. 6'2 ~245lbs>InterestsVideogames: Roguelikes, MMO's, movement games, old/obscure shit that nobody cares about,also enjoy sw*dish *tide series games,have played or dabbled in almost everything except the most normgroid shit i.e. fortniteMusic: Metal, post-hardcore, emo, indie, BM, hardstyle, 90's rapAutism: History, geopolitics, streaming, video editing, graphic design, vibe coding>Looking forWomen, preferably from a close enough timezone, open to frequent vc, specifically looking for something very long-lasting and meaningful.I'm aware of the reputation this place has but I'd rather look for a needle in the haystack over dealing with n*rmals for too long>Not looking for anyone incapable of holding a conversation, trans, ghosters, hypergamy, sex havers, BPD, people with a million discord contactsdc: memorial.field
>>35422272>ASL25/Male/US>About youI’m a pretty laid back guy, really into music, movies, manga, anime, gaming, horror, cosplay, make up, fashion, and traveling >Looking forPeople that like to or would be interested in selling cute pics of themself. I buy from people all the time and I love to spoil. If you’re lonely I will definitely give you plenty of attention and if the vibe is cool I’m sure we’ll be talking a lot. Even better if you’re into fashion or cosplay and dressing up at all or we have any interests in common.>Discord_bloody_rain_
pururindaiOnly add me if you're a real loser and not a larper
>ASL / description29M, Baker and Cook.Weeb, Loner, Depressed, no self-esteem, introverted>Looking forgirls, people to send photos of my cooking/baking>Not looking forMean women, people who delete/block suddenly>Other things you might find important to listI don't care about politics...>tag/usernamefran.choux
>asl34f, 'murican>aboutAsocial-ish autistic (legit diagnosed very young) shut-in neet (13+ years) in a very committed parasocial relationship with Tsukasa Suou from Ensemble Stars. Trauma-related hatred of wokeshit which is part of why I'm so alone all the time. Trying to become a self-taught traditional artist but haven't done much for it in a few months.>interestsEnstars, internet culture, art, fashion stuff sometimes, weird fetishes (not looking for sex)>looking forNew contacts after I was recently forced out of the server that was my main social outlet for years because my mental health issues and hatred of lesbians got too powerful for them. Enstarries, although I highly doubt any are here.>not looking forPeople who won't respect my relationship (this includes edaters/hookups etc.) or think it's unhealthy. People who will just hate me for being a foid or who assume I can get whatever I want for it. People who only want to talk about politics or /pol/ shit. People who will not put in effort to "get" me. People who learned "all about" autism on Tiktok and the like and will throw buzzwords at me. People who use too much zoomerspeak for my millennial ass to understand a word of it. People who will try and shill LGBT rights at me (trust me, you'll only make it worse) or are otherwise not understanding of my problems with dykes and wokeshit.>contactDisc: thequeenofknights
>>35422272I am going to give up on everything if I can't get laid for any longer, there is such little hope left and I regret being born, I wish any girl would notice my existence
>ASL23/M/Ireland>About meI'm just finished university and have no idea what to do in life. i'm conventionally attractive, agreeable, neurotic, and have few friends due to a period of self-isolation.i have a lot of interests. i'm into writing, making art, travelling, philosophy, politics, history, gaming. i like all music genres (cliche i know, but i do).>Looking forinteraction :')>>35426400you sound very interesting. and optimistic. would you agree? what do you study, are you still in uni?>>35426591Nice man, you're quite close to me! what do you hope to do after you graduate? glad to hear you are no longer a NEET. surely that is reason for hope
>asl19 m usa>aboutme & lfistp 102lb, 14 inch shoulders :> looking for ig a bf, secondarily friends (will not compliment phish)- my genetic complexion is anglo + scando lappid, i dont think i could work with someone who isnt aware of magick though, also do not talk to me if you are black brown or even turkish & [pls call i hate texting]i occupy my time with synthesizers and guitar and computer programming, i can talk ur ear off all day about cpu cycle optimization fif u get me goingbeing furry and furryism is like permanently engrgaved into the creases in my brain, could not divorce myself of it if i tried. i hate every anime ive evre watched, i think its related that i tested below consideration for autism 3 times,, i dont like any video games anymore, the only game i play is cs2, and even thats losing me now.. only play it like once perweek>cdiscord; urtsk_69889
21 SissyFemboy uk.Seeking 30+ owner that is very serious about finding long term realtionship that plays some of the same video games as me : ) I need a daddy for life guidience using many techniques to make me a better girlAbout me: im paige im 6ft0 dark medium hair growing it more again. White. Average body type. I get told nice legs and bum. I am pretty sure im depressed. I am a looser and failure in life. I dont like my life or the skin im in.i hate my parents yet cant escape. Im hoping ti find a purpose in life an identity and that would be serving you.Video games: overwatch, league, cs2, valorant, rocket league, runescape, I also have game pass for things like the f1 game and for fun coop games we could play together. Also open to any free to play xLooking for: a man 30+ very dominant controlling femboy enjoyer. Must play 1 or 2 games in common. Genuinly committed to find your long term perhaps forever person like me. Prefered experience. Looking for some TPE as well with bathroom control, outfit approvals, food approvals, who I can talk to., what game I play, bed time and when I wake and other things like that.. I need someone to help improve my life. Perhaps using things like blackmail to help me.say clean my room or go a walk or somthing like that. Theres probably more here im just forgettingNot looking for: vanilla inexperienced men. To tame to put me in my place. Someone who doesnt enjoy a large veriaty of kinks. People that only want to talk for 1 day or be friends.Kinks and things id enjoy to be a key part of ownership. Tpe as mentioned. Blackmail as mentioned. Humiliation online. exposure online. Traffic light system early to get to know eachother easier. Pain and cbt, sensory dep, breathplay and some things ive wanted to try but never have like info hazards assume punishments.. And many more things id love to try xPlease send me your introduction as your first message please be as detailed as possibleDISCORD: kittenkisses15
Hi hello, female, 22, need friends. Discord is sillyp1ss
>ASL30/M/US>About MeGoing back to school after a series of dead end jobs. Currently living with parents and using veterans benefits for school. Looking for someone to talk to while waiting for the next anime season.>Looking forSomeone to message back and forth that's fine with me asking odd questions or venting back and forth about whatever ails you.>Not looking forSexual stuff. Not a prude, I just don't want to end up in some erotic roleplay or be thrown into some big group chat>Discordzubattrainer.
>asl21/Male/Europe>interestsI like gamedev and video games (milsims, weird indie games, coop horror)coding (in C!)tinkering with computers (BSD and Linux)DIY electronicsmusic (metal, rock and classical),sports (swimming and basketball)history and literaturecamping/foraging>looking forCTF teammateRelationship/FriendshipGenuine/interesting people that I can connect with>not looking forDry peoplePeople that forget why they add mePassionless people with no hobbiesGooners>contactackee205pic is me >:3
>>35445561I'm a guy but fuck yeah skskI met chad and pouyan at warped tour in july and they signed my shirt
>asl19/m/idk>interestLonely guy who is probably gonna stay that way till he dies, i don't really have anything too interesting to tell about myself. Im nerdy as hell currently getting into mtg (Im building a bilbo theme deck) I read a lot and know about a lot of lore of stupid stuff, i really like to know people's music tastes so im gonna ask you that.>looking forPeople to talk to, people to bond, or maybe just a Quick conversation. You really don't have to think about it that much. If you want to be heard or hear someone as 2 strangers then hmu>not looking forI've been told i can keep up a good conversation but i really need you to put in your part if we truly want to get somewhere buddy, other than that just don't be an asshole>contactdaryl_96
cha cha YEAS cha talk to speaking. lonely? am i ? rite? yes yes .. but into the fold of deceistance we find.lonel7? givem e the free foid
>>35451138>>35451138let's be real wanna bathe in the breakfast
>>35445952Understand that your identity as an autist and your belief of a relationship with a cartoon character are a symptom of the wokeshit you claim to despise.
>>35425023What province? SK here. I also draw and play vidya
>>35451198Not really, like I said I was diagnosed early on. And there's a lot of chud autists and chuds in the waifufaggotry community too
A/S/L26/M/ON, Canada>AboutMostly introverted, 6'2", dark blond, green-grey eyes. I have a bachelor's degree in a STEM-related field and am working a desk job at a computer for 8 hours a day. 6/7 days in the week I have nobody to talk/text with and at my job I don't have co-workers. It's pretty lonely.Old fashioned: I use a dumbphone and a desktop.>InterestsI like going around to new places to take photos, lifting heavy things from time to time and trying to cook new recipes. During shitty weather I stay home and play TheLongDrive, Mudrunner, GTA IV or Midnight Club 2.>Looking forIdeally a woman willing to eventually meet up, or a fellow bro I can go drinking with.>Not looking forMentally ill, scammers, random ghosters and flakers, poor conversation skills, girls just looking for attention>ContactDiscord: blackicefrommars6672
>>35452020btw I am not actually going to kill myselfjust wanted to make that clear, I was just venting
>>35452020If Taylor from PKA can get married twice then so can you anon, ganbatte
>>35452020can I have your Discord?
18-25 plzany genderi play osu and but also some other games plz lets play something together anything just want someone to talk to , im cool with vcing maybei have no friends please dc rnousse
>>35452020getting ghosted blows and living with someone whose lame sucks. hope shit gets better for you. hope you find a nice qt.3.14 gf and ya escape ya dads
>>35452020you're averageI'm uglier than you.women do that ghosting thing sometimes to prove guys endurance... or something like that. it's painful but that's how it is...
>asl19, male biologiclly, us>abt meim 5'3,.. 160cm for euromutts... my genetic complexion is anglo + scando lappid, my shoulders span about 14 in, which is very small, but i am not a skeleton, my thighs have more circumference than my head-jungian wise im an istp, my hobby includes 3d vector math, low level systems computer programming, cpu cycle optimization, i play guitar, and piano, and synthesizers, .have been into furry art since i was 10 years old, no, its not something u can get rid of, its akin to being homosexual, i am not cluster b personality, but that doesnt stop me from being bitchy, or so my friends say,bands i listen to (teen suicide, carissas wierd, duster, hello shark, title fight, radiator hospital, neutral milk hotel, julia brown, starry cat)i put korean serums on my face every day at 12am, im on a bulking diet to make my butt more plump, hairmaxxer, looksmaxdsxxer but for boys igi dont have autism, ive been tested 3 times>looking foreu, civ, hoi4, or contor strik playerbf, or secondarily an acquaintance, im not going to just trade nudity with you, at least day 1,before yu add me make sure your skin is not black, nor brown, nor even turkish toned, if you act like a jig, im probably going to ask for a wrist check>cdiscord: urtsk_69889
25/Latin America (ESL)>Description I want to make friends. I've been relapsing into this old, unhealthy mindset that's making it difficult for me to exist on a day to day basis. I would like to make new connections to hopefully get through this proverbial fog somewhat less lonely. I can offer long term friendship (I've held some long lasting friendships online in the past!!) and I always try my best to make people feel understood. I like manga and music a lot (even just recommending music to each other would be nice! Let's exchange rym profiles), and I'm trying to pick up reading again along with some other old interests. I work in something unrelated but I went to college for stem and I'm (trying my best to be) passionate about it. I like anime/vidya/drawing too but it would be disingenuous to say I keep up with it as of lately.>Looking forFriends!! who don't mind the occasional typo or weird phrasing choicesPeople who want to share their day to day with a stranger. I'm all ears. Blogposting is fun>Not looking forAnything romantic or sexual in nature People who disappear one day never to be seen online again:(People with racist tendencies. I'm not politically inclined but I want to see life in a better light and a hateful mindset goes against thatDiscord: citronell
>>35453696>>35453806>>35453818thanks anons, I'll try and hang in there. also thank you, mods.>>35453744are you going to doxx me? i dont feel comfortable :(
30/M/UKLast year I moved for a job and I just recently lost that job. I am newly unemployed and far from anyone I know socially. I'm passing the time trying to learn video editing and blender but life is suddenly very, very dullI'm happy to speak with anyone but definitely am most interested in people who have a passion they can tell me all abouttjr. (don't forget the . )
>>35451980Email?
30/M/USAFor a long time, I thought I was an introverted loser who couldn't connect with people due to autism.Then I actually put some effort in and started connecting with people (well, trying to) and I realized that while yes, I am the problem, it's only partial.I like deep personal connections that people just aren't willing to make. I enjoy metaphorically dissecting people to learn every tidbit about them, often in a somewhat forward and aggressive manner. But the vast majority of people actually find this really off-putting, so I just.. don't. So I am often an island of "interesting bullshit" that people connect with me on a superficial level just to glean cool shit and oddities, but otherwise more personal connections are made around me in social circles. It is more than a bit depressing.At this point, I'm pretty sure I'm a misanthropic extrovert.>InterestsIndie games, anime, music (especially music that is closer to demented noise than music), anything that is just kind of odd/doesn't fit neatly into a normal category. Been getting back into books recently and found enjoyment in both the Discworld series and Dungeon Crawler Carl (the whiplash of reading 2 books from such wildly different writers in such different time frames is very satisfying).>Looking forNothing really, while I would like some weird autistic girl who desperately wants to snuggle with me and discuss our kinks for entirely too long on a daily basis, I more just wanted to vent a bit.>ContactNah, I'm good.
my best friend told me recently that somebody I considered to be a close and beloved friend who I knew from high school and was probably the only friend from school I even still had in my life went to a party and just bitched about me relentlessly, saying I was difficult to be around... my best friend tried to defend me by telling this friend that I was 'autistic' and couldn't help it.I've just had to get on with my life since finding this out but when I stop and let it sit with me, makes me feel so fucking horrible. I've been through an awful time since covid hit, and I was going through so much mental anguish, suffering from isolation and growing into adulthood through a pandemic. I don't even know how to make sense of the world anymore and every passing year, though I am improving, I also seem to be more and more alone. I am so fortunate that I have my best friend still, but the fact she has to admit to people i'm too 'autistic' and that's my buffer for pushing people away (not even intentionally) fucking sucks. I don't even have a diagnosis... I feel like everything is happening outside of me and I'm like a clueless little kid. I feel like people are at a different level of consciousness when they're around me, like I am speaking and they all hear something different than what comes out of my mouth. It really hurt to hear about this and reflect on a time in my life that I was vulnerable and clueless and struggling and have people turn against me and shun me. I'm doing OK, because I know that was in the past, and I am doing better, but I am still lonely, and it makes the prospect of making new friends really scary, because I think I will mess up again, unknowingly make people despise me, have it be a big effort to be friends with me. I get so jealous when I see people I follow post their big group of friends going out and having fun, going to the beach all together, making memories. I think 'why can't that be me?'
>>35451198>Implying people didn't want to bang cartoons until LE WOKE happened Tezuka wanted to bone his characters in the fucking 50's you retard
>>35460788The biggest problem you could have is if you aren't able to take criticism properly. If that was the reason your friend couldn't be straight to your about the issues he had then that would be on you.Your best friend's response shouldn't have been making excuses because of how you are, it should have been, how do you have so many problems with them without taking it up with them.If you can take criticism, then either he is a poor friend or he had a moment when he went overboard and didn't really mean it to the extent that he was venting it at the time, which is human.In my opinion working on being able to allow any criticism without a serious emotional response is one of best things anyone can do because then you can have someone come out and say it, and then you can try to work with them to make it better.Part of that is being able to know so, not just think so. Being able to show you are receptive to hearing about issues and having a way to validate with someone they are actually ok with something from time to time without being obnoxious about it all.You can never fully avoid possibly encountering shit people that just keep up a facade but it allows you to be confident that it is not on you but on them if they don't take you up on trying to make it work.
>>35463232I am open to criticism, there's a lot of nuances about the circumstances in which my friend bitched about me which I feel would take a lot to explain, but when I reflect on it I don't deeply take offence to it. As you said, I think it sucks that they felt comfortable to share all this to people behind my back instead of confronting me but this behaviour is not entirely surprising coming from this particular friend.I suppose the thing that sticks with me is the 'well anon is just autistic' because it feels outside of me even to say that as an excuse for myself. I've never been diagnosed as autistic but that friend who defended me has also said the same thing about me to somebody else who said they didn't like me because I was 'socially awkward'. So I really am just so retarded? It gives me a different perspective to my life knowing how difficult it was for me to maintain friendships while growing up, and as it continues to. It makes me feel powerless and pathetic. I have historically been sensitive to criticism, rejection, and general boundary setting, but these are things I have taken great measures to improve upon in my adulthood. So now I feel pressure to figure out how to improve my social skills so that I can be more confident and at ease in larger groups of people I guess...
>>35463439why did she say you’re difficult to be around? difficulty can be subjective. not sure why being autistic would make you feel less worthy. you can be autistic and not be “difficult.” Despite what people on here think normies are quite forgiving. It just sounds like you carry potential feel about being ostracized. Dig at that a little and your ease might come more naturally. Ideally that friend would have csme to you and talked to you and you can accommodate them depending on what it is that bothers them. Someone might find someone’s lack of inside voice difficult vs someone who just puts on ear plugs and keeps the friend.
my discord tag is oscarfreakyfrog and i want women to add me but nothing ever happens
>asl f/usa>interests vocaloid, jpop, drawing, sad lesbian movies, generic femcel movies(girl interrupted, eyes wide shut, prozac nation) reading, playing ipad, watching music videos, eating, scrolling reels >looking for; people without a social life&drinkers(both required)>not looking for anyone under 23, actively suicidal people(passive is fine)>discord strawberrymielki don’t have any irl friends, am shut in and have been drunk since dad died last month
I only had an instance of love at 27, my first and only love, to this day I don't even know when it stopped being true; if it was true at any point, and I still miss her incredibly.It's very difficult for me to bond, yet she came around and shook my world, she filled my heart with hope and alien feelings, only to toss it away in an instant the moment it didn't suit her anymore. I was led on and then abandoned for a close friend, it's a terrible feeling not only I lost her but I lost the only evidence that love could be possible for me. As well as losing a close friend who I loved and would have never thought could harm me in such a way.I'm very much afraid love might just not be for me, that it won't happen again. In the last year I've been trying my best to find someone who could ignite my heart once again, but it's just been a list of disappointments. It took me 27 years to love, will it take the rest of my life to forget about it?I know I have so much love in me, I can feel it aching in my chest, it's a sort of aching that never goes away. Will I truly never find someone who can make me feel again the things I felt with her? Does it really have to be this way, and why? >>35464288I saw this before hitting submit, I'm really really sorry about your dad for what it's worth coming from an Internet stranger.
>>ASL - 25/M/USA(EST)Happy spoopy season! Nerdy 25 yr old horny dude here looking for a longterm connection, friend, gooner, and mentor! I currently work full time in the tech industry, live with a few people, and I am working on my masters. I am into all things nerdy, tech, video games (tboi,etg,hades,minecraft,voidigo,warframe, love 100%ing games), movies, anime, horror content, specifically horror youtubers especially think like nexpo, nick crowley. A big thing I am looking for here is just a friendship that sticks around, and someone to talk to ideally everyday, someone that shares my interests, someone ideally in the USA, and interested in being close good friends! Ofcourse though, I wouldn't be posting here if there were not some horny undertones haha>>My NSFW Interests-Addicted to booty, since I was little I have always been obsessed with a womanly butt. the bigger the better-I love porn so much. Specifically I want a porn daddy to take control of my porn intake, make me able to jerk off for longer by making me jerk off to more 'appropriate' porn-Speaking of appropriate, I have a tiny penis, it's just 4 inches! So porn appropriate for me is likely clothed big butts, and whatever else you feel appropriate! -I do also love looking at a big cock, but I love clothing, dancing women, joi, sph, and plenty more!-I also love the idea of making my dicklett so weak I cum in public whenever seeing a curvy juicy booty;)>>What I am looking for-In addition to the SFW things I mentioned, a man ideally older than me, hung with ideally 7+inches, someone interested in feeding porn images to control my porn intake and control my tiny dicklet. -Someone looking for a longterm friendship in a similar timezone as me! -Be interested in owning my tiny weeny:pIf this interests you at all please reach out to me on discord and fill me in with your asl, what you're looking for, and maybe some porn! Thanks for reading:)>>Discord: lilbrim
>asl18/m/east coast, usa>interestsreading VNs (SciADV, denpa/psychological horror, occasionally regular thriller VNs or eroge) animevidya (mainly playing Kenshi and Project Zomboid)been wanting to get into making music, 3d modeling, and drawing as well. >looking foranyone around my age with somewhat similar interests>not looking foranyone who is super horny or normies>discordkindandniceincel
Women dont like talking to me because i always ask to see their boobsegadsthunder
this is what i look likei desperately want attention. you can praise me and i will be genuinely happy or you can treat me like shit and i'll probably cry. please find some usage in my existenceplease do not add me if you are a mandiscord: thenumberseventhrice
>about23/m/US>About/intoLooking for a girlfriend. I'm pretty tall, handsome, and I have money. I'm into reading, gaming, music(listening and playing!), and working out. I'm basically looking for my soulmate, who's interesting, nice, kind, and we get along>Mental illnesses I have ASPD and NPD.>Not intoTime wasters and men>Discordindex1984
>>35464288Alcohol won't erase the actions you took, or rather didn't take. You could have saved him. When people die they tend to see years of regrets before they pass on. How many of those still tormented him and involved you?
seems i may be more broken than i thought therapist needs to see me more often i may get put in the special place if things dont improve
>ASL29/M/Luxembourg>About MeI used to have this clear idea of who I was and who I was supposed to be in my head, thought everything would just work out in the end, didn't think about things much.. I feel like now, I identify more and more with Paul Klee's "Forgetful Angel", I feel like I forgot who I was supposed to be, what shape I'm supposed to hold, what I'm supposed to do. I think, maybe, that the reason why is because I've become blind from a lack of light in my life. I'd like to find that light again, I'd like to be someone's light.. I want to be a warm sun that shines on a flower and makes it bloom. I want to help you breathe, I want to keep your heart from turning blue. I want a lot. My favorite tree is the weeping willow, my favorite bird the mourning dove. I think that says a lot about me already..I've got green eyes, I'm thin and I've got long brown hair. I'm outside every day. I go to church sometimes. I have a lot of cars, a lot of tools, a lot of trinkets, a lot of computers. I have a lot of things, I use them so I have something to work on, most of the time I spend is spent maintaining things. I do that for work too, although in a slightly different way.. I enjoy writing letters, I enjoy art, film & photography, architecture, every now and then I'll read a book too. I cook, I garden.. I'll sew some pants together, adjust the fit of clothes. I am a very handy person, somewhat less so with people. I'm a lonesome person, a gentle person, a loving one.. maybe a little too different, too weird, too gross, too strange, too.. out there.I use e-mails to write people now.. I don't like being online very much anymore, I like things that are thoughtful or physical in a sense, sometimes both.. I'll switch to something quicker pretty quickly though. >Tagyesnomaybedontknow@protonmail.comIf you're out there too, I'd like to write you, I'd like to hear from you, I'd like to hear about you.. I'll give you a.. call back.
>ASL31m>Mental IllnessDepression, add, anxiety>Favorite Anime/MangaDon't really watch anime, but the idea of being a weeb loser turns me on>Drug use?Alcohol, 2 beatboxes daily,>About yourselfI play star citizen and I take no shame in it, I don't think a woman could possibly love me and be considered sane, never had a meaningful relationship with anyone >Looking forSomeone to help me turn into a fat weeb prejac loser simp who cums to beach episodes and fanservice>Not looking forAnyone who wants sissy stuff from me>telegramSissykate72Kik sissykate72teleguard SDUY4SEHQ
>>35469453you look like the guy in the resident evil movie and weaponsi just googled it, its austin adams, yeah ur him
idk how to start thisi turned 18 a couple weeks ago and i got kicked out like two days ago and my life is a mess and i wnna chat with someone to forget italot of my friends are nice but i feel like now i told them theres distance between us and idk i just want to have someone to chat too and them not care and i cn tell them about anything and they can atleast act like they gafall i ask is if your not 25 or older so LLEASE DO NOT ADD IF YOU ARE OLDER arent weird or dry with conversations and dont mind if my replies are late or come off as weird or something cuz im gebiuenly a stupid idiot and i cnt think sttaigntmy discord is blessingandacurse. and my email is thisisablessingandacurse@gmail.com cuz i feel lke analogue emailing is sooooo cool but no one does it anymore and its so sad, and my emails have a habit of ending up in junk so that might be why they dont exist but j pinky promise ill reply to all emails i get cuz i love them!!idki honestly feel like a loser for prying on here because i used to be super hypersezual and opening this site was like nonstop porn and idk it kind of took me vack to tuat minfset (LIKE 3 WEEKS CLEAN OF TOUCHING) but i have nowhere else to rlly turn too to find newpeople to talk too and idontknow i just like talking to new people and being interested abt them and forming connections i guessim mostly looking for guys cuz idk i feel like im more validated when i talk to them but yeahand idk if this is a stupid thing to write or not but please atleast act like u gaf about whats going on and whats going thru my head i dnt care abt anything else i just want a guy to care abt mebicep pics would cheer me up too
>MeMale in my 30s who enjoys art, playing music, rating movies, games that make you think, understanding what makes people tick (that's YOU!)I don't have serious friends, and want to talk to people who are open minded and honest. I am both of those things, hopefully we can get alone >Looking forSomething meaningful>Not looking for Sex. Men>Discordpale.euphoria
>>35436563seconded, hes fake- a cuck and a false advertiser lole
>>35466458But I am looking for an actual friend to chat with and get to know
WHORES, NONWHITES STAY CLEAR!4chan gay experience a dead end?Are the endless whores, ghosts and people who have commitment issues exhausting?Or the never ending cynical, meaningless Prole drivel driving you insane!?Well i cant promise you a solution, but i think we have a damn good one. MAKE FRENS IN OUR HOMOFASCIST VANGUARD SERVER! (no this is not ironic)We are •Only Whites and Pro-White•No Troons, Women, AGP’s, Fake/Prison gays or “Gynephiles”•Gays/Androphiles & Bisexual men with a strong preference for men only!•Anti-porn, Anti-Whore, Anti-Hypersexuality•Sincerely Political, Friendly and full of Authentic people who are Human like you and I. Nothing is perfect nor lasts forever, but we can only try our best. If youve looked elsewhere and felt uncomfortable, hopeless or dead inside from all the misery and insipid behavior maybe we can help! https://discord.gg/UeQrbQhJPF to join today!HH and peace out nigga!
>ASL20/M/Tijuana/San Diego>orientationBi>From 1 to 10 how clingy are you?8-9>Any limits you have about somebody's clinginess?i dont know? any is fine sir!>physical description5'7, slightly tan with long hair and a bit of a beard. been told i look like jesus at time>about youi play a fuck ton of videogames of any kind and listen to music a lot, i started reading recently and its quite fun. i also like lifting when im bored at times. i dont have a job yet but i study still, i gotta learn a lot of things>hobbies interestscollecting,gaming,taking photos and taking care of my two cats>LDR yes or no and limit?yeah i dont mind>who you're looking forsomeone who wouldn't mind me being kinda new at any of these things or love in general...im very bad with conversations but i care! >who you're not looking forsomeone comically older than me>discordalo_knt762
>>35472880is there a way to delete posts i completely realized this was the wrong fucking thing whatever man fuck me
21/straight m/spain 180cmmost listened artists this year: johann sebastian bach, bladee, xaviersobased, the beach boys, cocteau twins, bob dylan, the velvet underground, nick drake, leonard cohen, tim buckleycurrently neet, trying to read hegel, watch movies again, and go on walkslooking for friendship but open to a relationship. preferably looking to talk to women. would like to meet people with similar taste, ideally from spain or nearby in europe.not looking for right wingers, workaholics, or people who don't have much time to offerdc: oliveodie
>>35464288Will ghost you and won't talk to you after a day. Don't add.
>>35448781Adding the same addendum I did on the SFW Discord thread. Do not add me if you are a woman. They are kind of boring to talk to and I don't feel like dealing with all that. Apologies if I offended any women of 4chan that don't do the whole one word response thing.
femboy with no friends from europe :c, hmu if ur interested in talking, maybe play games etckik: heyyooo11teleguard: B653UN65E
>asl30 M EU>interestsplaying videogames and sitting inside. >looking fora nice girl on this continent who also enjoys mainly gaming all kinds of games and having fun that way. someone to build a future with and just live a cozy life.>not looking forguys, normies, people with lots of friends>discordtriggefinger
20F>About meSome of my hobbies and interests include: video games (mostly titles like Ultrakill, Portal, Disco Elysium, Fear and Hunger, Slay the Spire, Deltarune, Final Fantasy, and other RPGs etc), films, baking and cooking, pokemon, basically all genres of music, cats, art, anime, cosplay, dnd, reading, and writing>Looking forI’m really pathetic and lonely, and I’ve hit an all-time low. I just want someone to talk to or even be friends with, as I find it very hard to interact with others irl.>Not looking forRelationships, sex pests, anything romantic or sexual, flirting, none of that. I’m not talking to anyone who even tries to cross the platonic line.>DiscordBelllzeboo
>ASL27/M/Texas (white) >Hobbies and interestsI’m interested in studying/talking about history, philosophy, western esotericism, parapolitics; but I like talking about anything. >when you can typically VCWhenever you want, just message me>Looking forGirls (cis or trans); ideally something long-term; I really want to find love and to have someone to spend all my time with>Not looking forHook-ups, zionists; preferably someone in state>TagDiscord: texan0n
>>35464288 She’s been talking to me everyday consistently. You two probably didn’t click.
>>35422272>ASL34/M/US,NC>About MeSpent the last 10 months with someone I genuinely thought I was going to end up spending my life with, but she's gone now, and I just want to meet someone I can relate to. Seems impossible to meet someone I can just talk about my real thoughts with. Idk, I hope she's out there, feels a bit hopeless some days.White, former lead vocalist for a few bands, gamer, Christian, classic anime enjoyer. Music enjoyer. Rap and (pop) Country hater.>Looking ForWhite women, preferably Christian also, enjoys nerdy hobbies. PC gaming + anime enjoyers. Women genuinely interested in having a family one day. Also just looking for friends though, so if that's not you, that's fine.>Not Looking ForCommies, grannies (30+), trannies or dudes. People who leave the other side to carry a conversation while saying nothing interesting themselves. People who give up on a conversation after 3 sentences. If you add someone NEW, expect that questions are going to be asked, i'm not going to pretend to have shit to talk about if I know nothing about you.>Contactsleepless_null
>>35464288>>35475335Hey retard, soc threads have IDs, we can see that this is you making excuses for yourself, dumbshit.
>>35467045Save your gay projection bullshit for your suicide note.Going out of your way to keep people tethered to past pains is satanic behaviour, why are you worth saving as you're wishing for while diving into death.Save yourself, forgive yourself, turn around or if you want to stay lost at least contain yourself and don't drag people down into hell with you.
im so lonely broken angel ;(it makes me want to kill myself :(((((pls talk to me skibiditelegram: sadwitlyf
>>35476007yes im malefuck outta here
>ASLM/30/CT, USA>About meUnattractive unmasculine unconfident undominant autistic (diagnosed) socially inept awkward shy dumb boring male feminist progressive nice guy desperately lonely incel who has zero desire to change to meet societal standards expected of men.>InterestsCats, petting cats, reading, lying around feeling miserable and alone and doing nothing, history, social science/the humanities, science, the world in general, plants (especially cacti and succulents), exploring abandoned buildings and railways and various random neat stuff in nature>Looking ForProgressive leftist women to date me despite me being unattractive (she can be unattractive too of course). Would be cool if she liked to read and was willing to read with me but of course that's not going to happen and nobody wants someone like me in general anyway>Not Looking ForMen, conservatives, women who assume “unattractive guy” just means “slightly insecure Chad” or “guy who is willing to make effort to be attractive” and be repelled by actually unattractive men despite me being clear I'm unattractive (this happens a lot)>ContactDisc: lacktoastntolerant
26m/ok/usaI dont ever post on here but dating apps are driving me insane. At this point im used to dating bi grills and then we date other girls together, but I dont really care too much, I just want to have a commited relationship where we can both be ourselves and nothing hot or cold weird shit. Im orthodox christian. I take care of everything financially so I like neet girls. I like girls with hobbies I just dont like corpses. I like anime movies games and whatever. I play music and have my own business. Im 6 ft if that even matters. I dont expect anything from soc frankly especially since nobody from the south comes on here but itd be cool to be surprised.Disc: wazeeboPic rel
I struggle with making conversation and I want to practice talking to people.If you're looking to make a friend or just want someone to talk to you can email me at:chimpworldorder@proton.me
24m btw if that matters, I just need to practice talking to people so idc who you are beyond preferably not being judgemental.
If your lonely come join a really fun server full of nice people and make new friends!Over 1000+ members.Active VC and Text Channels.Good balance of males, females, and people of the LGBTQI+ community.Dedicated NSFW channel.Come join the Family, we have a Minecraft Server and will regularly Host Game Nights for different games, aswell as stream movies/ shows.https://discord.gg/catpuke
This is the place for YOU!! It’s literally based around neets losers outsiders, even if you DO have a job, if you need friends and want someone to confide or talk to/play games with, there’s usually always someone available:) Definitely a more evening//nightly active server, but we’re wanting to change thattt!! Join NEETcordia and find your friendgroup:)https://discord.gg/ESHZ37WPc
>>35426400if you are still there, could you please put a way so i could contact you (the discord is not working)
>ASL38/M/US>InterestsLuigi's Mansion, Zombies Ate My Neighbors, Boogiepop Phantom, Dorohedoro, The Twilight Zone, Eraserhead, Gregory Horror Show, Mina the Hollower, Over the Garden Wall, Courage the Cowardly Dog, Asylum Party, Switchblade Symphony>Looking ForGothic Rock, Darkwave, Deathrock, Dark Cabaret, Horror Punk, Halloween Music>Not Looking ForGothic Metal, Neoclassical Darkwave, Ethereal Wave, Neofolk, Screamo, Emo-Pop>Discordfancy.mel
>ASL32/M/USA>About YouSpiritually-NEET autistic who enjoys learning and analyzing how the world works. Interested in studying biology, philosophy, religion, and psychology. I'd say I'm 75% Schopenhauerian, 25% Nietzschean. Also enjoy animation, music relaxing and intense, and video games, with special interest to media between the 80s and 00s.>Looking ForGood friendship between other, preferably autistic men. Talking about our interests, exploring new things, and emotionally supporting each other. Empathetic people with a sense of fun. I currently have an interest in obscure, creative games for the PS1 and the PS2, so see if you can stump me with recommends. You should be 115 IQ or higher for us to click.>Not Looking ForLeftists, women, and people who don't type proper sentences.>Contactwooster411 @ Discord
>haven't had a girlfriend in 13 years, hadn't been in a date in 10 years.... I didn't know when I have up it why I'm still deluded into thinking every once in a while I should try meeting someone.
ASL23/m/southusa>aboutIncompetent half brown mixed native mutt with neurotic anxiety issues and a tendency for drugs, alcohol, and doom scrolling, NEET KHHV>what I'm intoWomen 18-30 who arent fat>looking forIdeally a woman to talk to not necessarily looking for relationship but always in thr back of my mind. If youre kind and will respond to convos and dms quick dm me>not looking forTroons, libtards(unless I can rehab u), people who wont try to make convo often, >contactInstagram chameleon.1699595Will add ur disc from there
>A/S/L25/M/Colorado>About youWhite, 5'-9", average build, blond hair + blue eyes.Protestant Christian, I have a good engineering job and volunteer in ministry at my church.Interests include worldbuilding & campaigns, hiking & camping, Touhou & doujin music, and yugioh & MtG. Additionally, video games with friends, some anime & manga, playing guitar & compsing music, and geology.However, my very favorite activities are just walking & talking with people or driving around sharing music.>Looking forChristian (or interested in God) woman in the US seeking friendship & marriage. Shared interests are a plus, especially if you have some sort of creative skill/passion (art, music, writing, cooking, etc.). Mostly seeking a non-normie to get to know and share the future with, Lord willing.>Not looking forNo long-distance for too long (hugs required), getting ghosted, pretending>Discordasamothtoaflame>Unique to this post: I wore flip-flops with pants today. It's either those or hiking boots, no in-between.
41, autistic (diagnosed) and was severely abused as a child. Well-known for spending 60 days naked in the jungles of Brazil and Colombia on Discovery Channel. The pic is me in my pit house, where I live when not climbing and where I'm posting from right now. Looking for someone who is into extreme adventure (mountaineering and rock climbing), chimpanzees, sexuality and science and is ok with someone who has had minimal sexual experience irl and never had a significant other. Not looking for flat earthers, gnostics, pacifists, vegans, new agers, etc.Teleguard: JBRVMYVR9
Hey I'm looking for another female to be friends and I'm not gay although I'm assuming that will be hard on this white male dominated website.Don't bother adding me if you are a man. >Contact methods Discord is rawr_x2>How long this contact will remain active?Indefinitely >Time zoneEST>Age27>What age range are you most comfortable with for new potential friendships?25-30>How would you describe yourself?Im an introverted extrovert? I like pop culture, journaling and self care. I've grown too old for this forum but because of my anti social personality it's hard for me to find places I fit in. >Hobbies and pastimesWatching documentaries, being an entrepreneur and language learning >Favorite movies/shows/music/books/etcFantasy and sci fi>Other random tidbits about you (mbti, your zodiac, what boards or threads you use, or whatever else you want to add, etc)Sadly I kinda grew up on 4chan and still feel an attachment to places like this>What are you looking for in this online friendship?A long term friendship with no weird ish and I ain't gay>Are you a busy person or is it okay to contact you whenever?Usually not busy and typically very responsive
>>35422272i'm a guy and i'd like to talk to anyone. i like vidya (especially older), learning japanese and AI...Honestly, if you feel lonely, no matter your gender, please message me at alexj3414@proton.me
>ASL20/M/Bangladesh>About meHi, hello. Aspirant author, hopefully one day, just an author. Maybe even soon. Really into video games, anime, obviously, manga, Kamen Rider and well, other things.Have some mental health struggles I'm dealing with, depression, anxiety, you know, the usual. And I have chronic migraines so that sure ain't helping me. But yeah. >Looking forI just want people to talk to. I say that and then, well, I can often fall out of talking. Which, I'm sorry. I really am, I'm trying. But I do want people to chat with and befriend. Always nice to spend time with folks, chatting until well, whenever. Helps me from being all woe is me, about being the way I am. Sorry, rambling, being dour. Trying not to be.Not that I'm always in that state. Right now for example, pretty upbeat and doing nicely. In conversation I can be pretty cheery so, yeah. >Not looking forI mean, just don't be a dick really. That's about it. Otherwise, anyone, everyone, from anywhere. >DiscordSolilune1013
My main account got restricted for a while so I made a new accountdai017847
22mDepressed and looking for someone to connect with. Be willing to VC.I'm into gaming (roblox, pokemon, emulation, just some examples), youtube, science, hentai and art>Looking forintelligent, has common interests>Not looking forreligious, deep voiceTag: pesto04559
>>35436563weren't you 21 for years now?Also stop spamming your shit asl on every fucking thread you obsessed faggot.
>>35444672>single fatherDude I feel bad for you, godspeed anon!
I am struggling a lot with many things. It's difficult to be authentic, for one.I am above all, ugly inside and out. I wish I could be beautiful for someone. Even if I were to be loved, I would never feel comfortable with it, if not because of the ugliness inside me, then for the very fact that I feel it unjust to subject someone else to something as ugly as I am. I feel constantly weighed down by the shame of what I am. All throughout childhood, I was called ugly. At eighteen, my own mother told me "you could never get a girlfriend," and at twenty, speaking honestly to a friend, that "I look kind of cute with a facemask on"; this latter statement causing her to feel embarrassed, as I was, humiliatingly, present. Just several days ago, she told a friend, while unaware I was listening, that "I used to look sweet." Yes, mine is a face not even a mother could love.I don't love it either. I don't recognize it or myself. I feel deep, heart-rending shame at the thing that I am. Someone such as myself should give up and forget the prospect of "love", at the very least, for his own well-being. But I refuse. I am greedy and starving for love. If I could, I would steal it. But I am too weak, insecure, and afraid to try. Yes, I would love to fake myself, to lie and manipulate just to feel affection for a moment. But I am too afraid, even for that.Narcissus drowned staring into his own reflection. I think I will too.
>>35472880anyone wanna play dat new gears of war with me?......most mexican thing i've said today
>>35481170Yea he has been trolling this board for years all the guy does is wait for adds using his fake shit just to fuck with people
30, Male, WalesFucking nerd. Pretty laid back, definitely a sprinkle of the 'tism, glasses, brown hair, green eyes. I read a lot, play video games, go hiking and work out. Have a weird mix of conservative and liberal views. I play D&D, as DM most of the time due to a lack of them (everyone wants to play, nobody wants to DM sad) Anything else you can figure out along the wayDiscord : panchothe2nd
M29, into film and philosophy. Looking to make a connection with someone interesting and fully dive into their mind for a bit. Long term preferred. Not lustful. I’ve been told I’m a great listener and have a soothing voice. Add me @determinis
M, East Asian>Looking ForSomeone to be a cute edgy racist girl or...Someone to share interests with and give me ideas what to watch or read>IntoSubmissives, switches, brats, bullying, humiliation, raceplay (AMXF/AMWF).>Discordpancaked1207
>>35481870>Not lustfulWhat a suspicious thing to say
>>35481200you should go to someone who can hear you say your mom sucks. your shame is probably due to that. you are most likely lovable but your mother failed her job at making you feel it. if you are not lovable now realizing this will make you so. godspeed shame is a bitch self love is part of the answer. shame and sadness can you make you feel “ugly” sorry that happened to you with your mother and friend.
>ASL38/M/MN>about meI am me, marms. Hello. I'm an oldfag. I have webbed toes. I am not circumcised.>looking forSomeone to shit post with, play gay ass games with or become the mother of my future 7 strong sons.>not looking fortrannies, cuckolds, or anyone from India.>DISCORDmarms
21yo M with chad hardware and loser software.Wasted previous 2 years of my life because apparently living alone makes me not wanna do anything and puts me in some vicious cycle. In spite of that I still have a lot to show in terms of conversations and interests and remained decently athletic by some miracle.>looking forCool female friend that's on the same wavelength as me and can hold a conversation. Guys can add too if you really see something interesting in me but im not gay.>not looking forsensitive, psycho, bpd hoes that are here just to fish for short bursts of attentionceaselesssin
>>35422272>A/S/L25FemaleRomania>About youNever went to college. I was working as a cashier and quit last monthI am a hopeless romantic femcelI want to get married and live tradI am always on 4chan and XI love video games philosophy fashion internet dramaI am slim with brown hair and blue eyes>Looking forLong term relationship and friendsMen who want a stay at home housewifeI prefer tall white guys>Not looking forDon't waste my timeJust be nice>Other infoIf I don't accept your request it's because your profile is weird>ContactDiscord someserotonin
30/M/Western Europe>About meEmpty void. The end of me is nigh and I am waiting for it. I've got hobbies but they're all pretentious and nobody cares. I'll talk to you about them, if you want to. >Looking forSomebody, who's genuinely going to see good in me. Not in a way of how "awesome" I am but in the way, where they are fond of me and enjoy being with me. >Not looking forPeople who ghost in a day. I want to talk to only one person. It exhausts me, when I talk to more than only one.>dcmichael061186
>>35422290Can anyone vouch for this? I sure wish a place like this existed. Is it weird?
>>35484477All servers that advertise here are weird, there's always ulterior motives and agendas.You just use them to meet the people in the server.None of them know how to build and keep a community - if it sounds too good to be true -
>>35484562A community of loners and outcasts doesn't sound too good to be true, it sounds like ass. People like us end up in places like this for a reason.
>>35484669I know some of you've earned being outcasts by being assholes but i also know that's not all of you.I think sometimes the reason is simply that you've been in places where no one would see the good in who you are and so you don't believe in it yourself.
>>3542227225/m/polandim an incel with no irl friendslooking for people to talk tocircus41
>>35475527Unlike your father I'm far from hell. The alcohol won't wash away the actions you take. You'll always sober up to reality. There's no avoiding the regrets, they'll come in waves crushing you more over time. There isnt an escape from the pains that define who you are. Rape, neglect, abuse, addiction. They stain us forever.
>>35484477No, it's not weird that you want a community that can support you while being non judgmental. It’s pretty human. That said you'll have better luck finding a group, online or in person, for a niche hobby than you will in these servers. There are weird people in weird places, so be a weird person and you'll find them. Unless you're good at spotting bullshit, I wouldn't trust these servers. Be on guard until they prove they mean what they say, look out for yourself until you trust others to look out for you.
>>35484690A lot of people here have been told repeatedly that they don't matter. They can't fathom that someone could care about them, and they don't know what that looks like. Having someone who truly believes in you and cares can help you learn to do the same for yourself and grow. You can see it in some people: they really light up, even online. That being said, some people also lack proper socialization skills due to isolation, trauma, and so on. You're correct, though. Keep an eye on that heart of yours. Giving too much of yourself can tire you out while hardening your heart. Your head is in the right place, though.
is it normal for people on this board (women) to ghost after a few exchanges? even when they say they'd get back to you
>>35485605Sadly, yes.People dont even care these days anymore about how the others feel when they ghost
>ASL28/M/Baltics>orientationStraight>From 1 to 10 how clingy are you?11>Any limits you have about somebody's clinginess?No. I'm fine with getting stalked, my partner demanding to be together 24/7, stuff getting mixed into my food or even being held at knife point, that's still just as clingy as I am.>physical descriptionAverage (rectangle). Brown, long-ish hair, brown eyes, near marble pale, freckles, below 6 ft/180 cm. Wearing mostly black.>about youMisanthropic antisocial nature appreciator. >hobbies interestsMask collecting and customizing, weapon collecting, evening nature photography, spontaneous night walks, occasional gore content consumption, Warhammer 40k lore (Ave Dominus Nox), listening to heavy metal, rock or dnb. >LDR yes or no and limit?There's barely anyone here from my country, so yes, open to LDR. Just hope it leads to IRL.>who you're looking forA misanthropic lady with similar interests around my age. >who you're not looking forYounger than 25, anthropocentrists, human lovers, biological men.>discordwingedscavenger>telegramflyingscavenger>signalsamhain.11
>>35482167I am only responding to demonstrate gratitude that you would waste a post trying to help someone else. Perhaps I would hate you in reality, or you me, but for this instant I will thank you for trying to do a kind thing in the world. I would feel guilty not having responded at all.
>>35486114I think you are braver and stronger than you think. For one facing all these feelings and writing them out like this, takes a lot of strength in my eyes. What you wrote inspired me to dig deeper and face my own fears. As the other anon said, self-love is part of the answer. If you can find it and foster it, everything changes through a shift in perspective. If you can't right now thats ok, but try to imagine it a bit more every day. Like a mantra. I wish you all the best on your journey, you are not alone in this.
>ASL19, Male, Midwestern USA >A little about meI'm a shy, lonely college student looking for someone to talk to. I've been told i'm rather intelligent. I'm very good at reading people, and I enjoy conversation. I'm a lover of nature, art, and all the beauty life has to offer. I'm very affectionate, and quite loyal. I'm easily impressed, and I can get attached easily as well. I'm also a guilt ridden catholic!! My faith helps me a lot. The thing I desire most in this world is to meet someone who I can open my soul to, and become entwined with. I desire connection, more than anything else.>PhysicalLarge, looming presence. Masculine. 6'6 285 (198 cm, 129 kg). Soft, pale skin, and greenish eyes. I have slightly long, dark brown hair. I have a gloomy, wounded appearance.>Looking forAn interesting, intelligent person to conversate with. Male or Female, that doesn't matter much to me. I love people who can communicate how they feel. Be as weird or strange as you want; I think it's the inner machinations of someone's mind that truly counts. Everyone has value, in one way or another. >Not looking forBland, boring individuals. I'm not here solely for hedonistic sexual indulge. Please, be interesting! >Contact@vote4rocky on discord.
Mid 30sMaleI can't really go into a huge amount of detail because I'm a person that can be publicly identified. I post very rarely because of something in my past.I'm not your typical forever alone. I'll likely never need a job again, one of the hardest working people I know. Host charity events. I care deeply about the people in my communities. I excel in varying hobbies and interests.This was a complete change in my place in society. Before any of this happened, I was never good at anything. Depressed out of school. No friends, relationships, prospects, anything.It was a perfect chain of events. A camgirl said something deeply personal to me that made me feel better. I got some effective therapy. I met mentors in profitable industries. I pushed myself to an extreme and changed completely in a few short years. Somehow I ended up on top.I don't enjoy authority or being treated like the smart guy. It doesn't make me feel confident. I've never been touched and the bar to be interesting or worth somebody's time feels impossible, at least for me. This was the only thing I really wanted. I'm at a wall talking to therapists or anybody close.Nobody has a duty to love or rescue me. But I don't know what else I can really take accountability for. I'm tired and I'm not getting younger. My situation is on paper a dream come true. Kind, deserving people benefit from my existence. But I just cant be okay living for that. And every day I face a hard choice alone.
>>35486624Thank you, reading this was worth my time. I am curious if you could share a bit more about what the camgirl said to you or in what way it affected you. Also did the camgirl know you in some sort of way, or did she say something based on her intuition Are you able to accept the life you are living? What you think about yourself is what matters most, no matter what everyone else thinks. Notice the people in your life and what they emit, which people are you drawn to?
35486653She just sent me a private message saying I was good person and that she wished me good things in my life. I had been visiting her room now and then for a few years. Nothing beyond that has formed. She's not pursuing more. It was pretty much the closest thing I had experienced to an attractive person giving me the time of day. Though it's not really a friendship.It was a big deal to me. For a moment I imagined what it would be like to be wanted and it was like the first time my roots had been watered. I put every bit of strength i had into my life. I figured that being able to form connections with people was something that would happen naturally. That hasn't been my experience. I'm not able to accept who I am and I feel suicidal. To me, it's very simple. I needed an intimate relationship at some point in my life. The life advice people give about that basically amounts to pretending I don't and self improving. I don't feel entitled. Just expired. I have the privilege of supporting a lot of good people. They're kind and grateful to me, and have their own dreams and families. But they cant change things about me. Thats up to me and circumstance. My company has a large technology and leadership advantage because of me, and that's going to be extremely difficult to pivot. I don't want my absence to be worse than necessary. I know what my method of dispatch is going to be. Ive decided not to buy the necessary tools until ive finished a concrete list of projects to give them a fighting chance for at least a few years.
I just wanna go out with someone and do chill date stuff. Or just talking.>I'm male 30 Awkward AF but loyal to The One if she's out there. I like drawing a lot. Really hope you like drawing too.>DCrumigo310
>>35486624By any chance, did you have someone growing up that you could rely on? Like someone you could really trust, who made you feel known and seen? I'm gonna be honest, brother, I read all that. 9/10 there's a common thread with people who feel like you. It's cringe as fuck, but you need to love yourself. You need to have been around people who modeled it and asked how you were doing. You are more than what you can do for others. Your happiness, and feeling comfortable in your skin and your emotions, all matter. I don't think she was wrong that you're a good person. Fix the relationship with yourself. When you learn to truly be yourself, whoever you are, you'll settle into your skin. If you're a brick wall to therapists, it's because they suck and haven't earned your trust. I was the same way. I got extremely lucky and found a therapist who asked me what I wanted. One of my goals was to feel good being myself. I haven't climbed to the top. I joke that if I did, I'd end up feeling like people like you. I'd hate myself and be suicidal despite making it. Now I'm a loser, but I'm feeling better, slowly unlearning the shame of being myself, and I want to finally start climbing. You made it, but you might have a different mountain to climb. Suicide's a bitch, and I'd rather no human ever felt the need to contemplate it, but living without ever feeling comfortable as yourself is also a bitch. Good luck, and may you find peace in whatever way you can. It sucks when someone’s light goes out. Who are you? Do you know? What gets in the way of you accepting it? These are questions a good therapist will wonder about you. You’re focusing on other people when your will to live is diminishing. You matter too. You deserve a fighting chance too. I’m an anon nobody but I believe that and I believe you deserved to want to believe it about yourself too.
I think I may just give up entirely this isn’t going very well
I don’t fucking understand how you people do this even when people message me first I can never get a goddamn response from anyone even when there is mutual interests I have no idea how of this fucking works and it makes me break down in fucking nearly every fucking day for years now and make seriously go out and just stab a random person
>>35487684You can stab me if you want toOr we can just talk it outWhatever you feel like
>>35487684It's not just about mutual interests, nobody likes just taking turns talking *at* each other about whatever they're into currentlyHow would you describe yourself as a person in absence of citing hobbies or interests?
>>35487737nta when we start talking about media or hobbies it's so easy for the convo to die as if its doomed, id rather talk about the other person/each other but people clam up. I don't correlate similar interests to chemistry by now. except vocaloid let's be best friends
>>35487820>but people clam upYeah, on the one hand people complain they can't form any meaningful connections, on the other they refuse to open up about themselves>except vocaloid let's be best friendsI'm sure that it'd totally work out for real this time
>>35487843>on the other they refuse to open up about themselvesyeah you'd think the anonymity would make people less inhibited. I used to post and offer to lend an ear like a confessional booth and that honestly went interesting places in a good way>I'm sure that it'd totally work out for real this timewe share one (1) opinion so we're already halfway there if you think about it
>>35487852>yeah you'd think the anonymity would make people less inhibitedI suppose they think any little detail they reveal about themselves could lead to them getting doxxed?>I used to post and offer to lend an ear like a confessional boothPro bono pastor huh>we share one (1) opinion so we're already halfway there if you think about itWhat does the other half consist of?
>>35487863>I suppose they think any little detail they reveal about themselves could lead to them getting doxxed?being drywall isn't bad anti stalker tactics>Pro bono pastor huhI'm paid in human connection and a good deed for the day >What does the other half consist of?receiving effortless dopamine despite 0 attempt to actively show interest in the other human of course its in the playbook
>>35487875>being drywall isn't bad anti stalker tacticsIt's a good anti-everything tactic actually>I'm paid in human connection and a good deed for the day How virtuous.. that list of good deeds must be quite long by now..>receiving effortless dopamine despite 0 attempt to actively show interest in the other human of course its in the playbookas long as you're getting some dopamine out of this too
90% of the people that add me from here don't even read my post, is everyone here really that retarded?
>>35486313I feel like I forgot to love myself. Seeing this in realizing that I've been doing everything to distract myself from that. Maybe that's why I'm so clingy, because I crave validation. Or I crave company but I can't seem to find it. Even the few friends I have in real life, while they're fun they don't really hold some of my big interests or really want to do anything
>>35486313Good luck then, whatever the case may be.
>ASL28/M/USA>About youSemi-NEET, burnt out on my creative aspirations though not given up on them fully, tremendously unhealthy lifestyle that I'm working on fixing. I've been told I have a very magnetic personality at times, but that's becoming tougher to maintain as the years go by. Regardless, I'd say my baseline social skills are far above average for /soc/. No point in not throwing a Hail Mary and seeing if I have any success.>Looking forKHHV biologically female future wife>Not looking forOther things.>Discordequinox_vi
I'm too much of a "fun character that you're lucky to get in the gotcha pull but doesn't look like much in the picture NPC" If you [Press A] or if you're really brave [Add to Party] I can be a lighthearted breath of fresh air.I'm into anime/cartoons, manga, [Supernatural] and I really love listening to music. Especially Vocaloid! Miku was my first "welcome to the Internet!" type of thing.But yeah if we don't vibe I don't know, normally conversation comes out like fwoosh but if you're a rock that don't budge then hey what can you do?
>>35487630I hope this is helpful; The way society talks about "losers" and "successful" people is wrong. I think most people would never actually want to be a village chief or ceo if their needs were met and society didn't harass their self worth. Authority isn't good or bad. Its more like a responsibility or chore. you are very much "somebody."The whole love yourself thing is why i feel hopeless. Because its like telling a person that's starving to love themselves. It's at best ignoring the problem.I recently made a hail mary and talked to some of my closest friends and family. They are good people that wouldn't want to see me go. But the conversations reinforced my existing feelings and plan
28/M/fucknewyorkbutilovenewyorkAnnoyed and disgusted by everything but still feeling happier and healthier than I did last month. I dont think I will end up *having to* die as soon as I thought I would. Pretty crazy and retarded and annoying and very mean. People keep adding me expecting me not to be mean and this has been very frustrating. Highly distrustful of anyone who puts too much effort into trying to trick strangers into liking them. People keep adding me with no personality and nothing to say and this has been very disappointing. People keep adding me with no personality and nothing to say and this has been very disappointing. People keep adding me with no personality and nothing to say and this has been very disappointing. DO NOT contact me if you like cosplaying, casual sex, alcohol, or hard drugs. DO NOT contact me if you are anti-family. DO NOT contact me if you are Asian or Latina. Please contact me if you like reading books (not only fiction) and watching movies (not only fiction) and going to art museums (without getting filtered by ancient and contemporary stuff).>socisretarded
>ASL19, M, Argentina >About YouI enjoy anime, history (mostly 19th century or post :p) , videogames, music, reading and a bit politics.So i haven't really watched much anime lately, i dont really have that drive to watch more (thanks mild depression), but am still able to enjoy the rest of my hobbies, thooooooooooooooo, i really liked madoka magica, made in abyss and yuru camp, those are my faves.Am listening to music 24/7, even when i study, but i dont have like, "a fixed taste", i just tend to listen to whatever i find fun, nowadays mostly vocaloid. I been mostly playing hearts of iron 4 and Minecraft as of late, but i also play other strategy or resource management games to pass the time (mindustry, rimworld, Kenshi) (i can also share u my steam but, i have a lot of gooner games, its a dumb story :p).And i read what am on the mood at the moment, tho, thanks to my incapability to go to therapy, i been reading quite a bit about mental/personality disorders (but u would normally find me reading shit about my uni career).Also am letf-wing, what kind of left-winger? u will have to add me to know that jsjs>Looking Forfriends with similar interests like me :p, i doubt i will find love here lol, but hey, i met a few girls that i liked soooo, who knows>Not Looking Forpeople who think i will suck their dick, i wont, am not a femboy or bottom, for the rest, dont be that weird :p>ContactDiscord: weasa0316
>>3542227218/M/MontrealI'm American but recently moved up here to study engineering. I don't really like it here but looking for online Canadian friends. I haven't had friends in the real world since about grade 6. Since then I have been pretty much alone, but I have done a lot of Discord meetups with strange people, but that is the extent of my socialization. I was in a 2 year mostly-online relationship with a woman 5 years older than me (why I moved up here mostly) but recently she left me for being immature and strange, don't really blame her. She's already found a new nigga. Now I am totally isolated, I stay in and study all day. I don't know why I haven't killed myself between way back when and now. I have had nothing going for me for a long time. I am fairly normal, just socially isolated, not really autistic or anything. I can operate well within social environments but it fills me with unbearable dread. I am really only cool with people online. I understand I am young and everything and have a lot more opportunities than some other people, but I have lost the ability to enjoy things normies do. I like some things. I don't really create or put anything out into the world. I listen to a lot of music, I like collecting weird ideas online, and sometimes I repair/obsess over old IBM keyboards and typewriters. I've attached a picture of my topsters, yearly. I watch television and sometimes read books, of course. I'm just looking for someone a little close by (but you don't have to be) to be real with, not super evil or anything just a little more easy-going than normies.I am average looking, kinda chubby but skinny in the face (kinda), 5'11 or 6' depending on how I am feeling, white. Not looking to talk to gigatroons or sissyhypno people, if you are gay or a tranny we can be friends but don't do weird shit. I am straight.Discord: @neverspokeamumblinwordDon’t be afraid to add, not very judgmental.
30yo Male ArkansasIm in healthcare, focused too much on education and career maybe? Next thing i knew, my friends were gone. Got some cool stories though. I kina look like a twink/clean shaved and fit.Hiking. Cooking. Home DIY. Twitter. Computers. Shoegaze. Rock.Looking for female friends. Want kids.Wanna play the new 64 player Halo 3.DiscordColt879
>>35488835I mean desu, I don't even want to do that. I want to keep everything running... As for talking with friends, I left my old friend groups as they got too political/drama. Been trying to hang out with new people but so far it's just been my brother and a friend I made through him
>>35488835I'm sorry I was dismissive and jumped into advice mode. As someone who has suicidal ideation that has lessened, this is me getting ahead of myself with what I eventually realized as it lessened. You sound passively suicidal right now. If I knew you in real life, I'd sit with you and listen. I would not care about my needs after you were gone, because you're here right now and deserve more care."Love yourself" sounds cringe, but really it just means asking "why do I want to die?" It's the block that makes you go, "I want to die? I need to stop all this and all this company running and focus on me until I get what I need to feel better." You say authority is a responsibility. I had someone admit to me that people relying on you is a chore. It's an interesting thought. You sound sort of tired and burnt out, and the lack of connection and starving for it would make anybody look for a way out. I hope you can catch a breather in your life in whatever way possible. This situation is one close to my heart for many reasons, for myself and friends who've struggled. I worry I might talk over you. I'd rather not do such a thing. I'm a lot more blunt on here than I would be one on one. I'm not a nobody, I'm somebody, but I'm a stranger. I'm a stranger who feels for another human going through suicidal ideation.Thank you for your words. I appreciate you seeing the uselessness of labels. I don't think there's anything inherently bad about being a "loser" or an "authority." All that matters is how someone is feeling, and if someone's doing badly, regardless of where they are, they need support. That's how I see it, anyway. I'm just sorry you're struggling with it all. Take care stranger.
23/m/norwaybeen mostly a shut in for years, currently trying to fix that from the friends end rather than the going outside end, posted this before, made a couple friends, and I want a couple morereading inside is really not for me so I read outside, the sun's warmth has left norway so I read in a jacket out of spiteinto: working out and cardio nearly everyday, greek myths and hymns, finished the iliad and odyssey, on the oresteia / kjv bible rn (I love reading dramatically out loud), jigsaw puzzles on jiggie, horror games, music, my last.fm: whatupsup tell me my taste is shit I dare u..most of my close friendships have been with girls, so thats whats familiar to me, platonic only. someone to talk to most days, send stuff, hear what you thought, and when we're both free, call, play, watch something. text a bit first, I like having some idea of who im callingbeen playing a lot of dbd bc a friend got me into it, really fun but I'd rather play with someone. happy to try whatever you're into too! @ whatsup240103
>>35490712I appreciate it. This at least doesn't sound fake or placating.I want to be gone because my needs have never been met. And I cannot reconcile this with people in my life acting like I have value. In a way, it's just false. I also want to be dead because its solvable. I know the tensile strength of the cable is much higher than the shear strength of my neck. Applying over 10x the required force is trivial. The things that depend on me can be changed. Im actively working on replacing myself.Being wanted is something different. I feel like I did pretty much everything I could do to change myself. The clock is ticking and I dont want to watch myself rot. Death is the only actionable way I can get some peace and dignity. Maybe I wasn't good enough. Or unlucky. Or didn't do enough to pursue it. I have no resentment or entitlement. I just cant live with the outcome.It really is that simple. The only real reason I continued living was the possibility of intimacy. And there isn't anything I can do about it.
>>35490962An employee of mine has been asking me if I'm okay for years, and ive been lying. Because its embarrassing and they can't change things. I dont want them to be burdened with the knowledge if I do pass away. But recently I told them I was havjng suicidal thoughts. Didn't get into exactly why. I don't know if this will be a mistake or not.
I never learned to socialize. My toxic family wanted me to be emotionally dependant with no way out so I wouldn't ever leave them. I wasn't allowed to go anywhere or do anything. I had no allowance either. The other kids stopped including me in games, parties and later outings and hangouts halfway through elementary. I was the quiet kid. Nobody hated me. They just didn't find me engaging. I learned to be alone. But I have been alone for so many years that it is eating at me and I don't even have most of my family anymore. I feel so alone and isolated. I tried to make friends through hobbies on the internet but I don't know how to find spaces and I still don't get invited to anything. Even in anonymous imageboards people start doing inside jokes and eventually I realize that they somehow connected offsite even though nobody posted links. Idk how they do this socialization magic but it keeps happening and I feel even more alone and left behind.
>>35488105>is everyone here really that retarded?Yes.
>ASL33/M/EU>About YouLong term mentally ill shut-in, getting better though as I kind of oscillate between dropped out and overachieving constantlyI play guitar a lot and I listen to all kinds of music though I am obsessed with metalAlso read lots, like weird moviesDon't play video games much anymore, I like retro stuff mostlyOther interests include healthy living, fitness, art, psychology, maths, wrestling, theater, philosophy, spirituality, writing and the weatherI am kind of schizoid (affectionate) and squeamish but people who know me better say I'm cool>Looking ForOther weird lonesome people, or just people who want to talk in general>Not Looking ForJust be decent>Contactdiscord: _anoum
>ASL26/M/US&EU>about youUnsure about the label of "lonely" but I do seem to be missing something. Reason enough to post here, yeah? I'm quite restless and would like someone who similarly feels like they're being chased around by something. I enjoy aesthetics & art & anything in that field the most. I'm also a huge Touhou fan among other things. I'm quite busy and spend a lot of time outside (usually just walking around and smoking lol) so serious people only please. said something similar in another thread but I live on high voltage intensity rather than comfort so someone who can match that would be nice>physical descriptionalt, pale, average height, green eyes.>looking forsomething romantic would be nice but who cares? be my dice roll>not looking forboredom, friend collectors, people who do nothing but consume, people bound by morality>contactkurakukurakaka
Armed.bunny @ discord.Talk to me plz. Feeling sadder than I’ve felt in a long time >: Recovering from a suicide attempt but I’m not bouncing back like I would’ve once done. Talk to me about anything but SFW plz.
>>35487650wats ur interests gang ill talk to u
25/m/usaIm a either isfj or istp 6w7 rluan seeking xsfj xcoan, xsfj xluan, or maybe infp rcoan. I'm not sure about infps because I'd probably piss them off right away, and they'd probably try to brainwash me like my infp rluen brother did.I have borderlands 3, insurgency sandstorm, and chivalry 2, but otherwise I'm on Xbox and can't play with pc.Discord: bluecube8577
>ASL37/m/U.S.>About Yourselfa easy going person who is always up late and is just looking for a bit of fun, company, and pleasure >Sexual Interestsbondage, humiliation, degrading, gagging, edging, over stimulation, pet play, collars, objectification, name calling, begging, voyeurism, body writing, praising (giving) >Looking Forim seeking a woman that is submissive in nature to keep long term pet. someone online frequently enough to keep me company along with to fool around and have fun with one another. i dont mind those that are new to the kink and wanting to learn and explore just try not to be to to shy. >Not Looking Forunderage, men, trannies, pay whores, roleplay, vomit, cheating>Contactdiscord: mr_with_mic9907
>ASL26/M/West Tennessee>physical descriptionWhite, strawberry blonde, 5'7, 145 lbs, glasses, slight beard, kind of gray eyes?>personalityINFP. A hopeless romantic above all. Creative but too spontaneous/ADHD to work consistently with my ideas. An idealist in a commodified world. A sensitive soul, with reverence for older ways but still fascinated with new ideas. A complex soul wishing for a simple life. I get no greater fulfillment then from caring for people I love. The little things matter most to me. I'm tired of being so alone, and I know my soulmate has to be out there. If she wasn't, then my life would be truly without purpose. I cannot have felt I've been missing half of my soul all my life for nothing>valuesI believe in God quite firmly, and have always felt drawn to Sanatana Dharma and Buddhism. Otherwise, I've mostly been more agnostic. Politically I'm a bit of a mixture; patriotic, socially more conservative but economically socialist.>hobbies/interestsCooking, fashion, history, reading, storytelling, worldbuilding, animation, fitness/health, spirituality, biking, swimming, nature, music, aesthetics (in architecture, art, home decor, fashion, etc) and more.>looking forAbove all, i need a white woman, 20-30 or so, who shares the same romantic desires and has similar values to me. I want someone that values truth over fitting in. A kind, clingy, creative and nostalgic soul, with a rich inner world yearning to be understood. Someone emotionally intelligent, who can read people with ease (or aspires to at least). A bit of a mess, but tries her best. Perhaps an INFJ or ENFJ, but ENFP/INFPs are wonderful too.>contactdixiedharma
>>35486624Male. Early 30s.I have come so close to true intimacy so many times that I worry that the next time it could happen will feel like another joke. My life is on strings and I am barely making enough to get by, but I know that if I could get to the other end of what I’m doing, things could be so radically different. I think I can understand where you’re coming from, even if it’s only a little bit. I know I could just off myself. But I want to think that there’s a version of me that endures long enough to see a day where I’m not having to “endure”. Family and friends just aren’t enough.
29m eu not really sure what i'm looking for.. it's been 8 months since my girlfriend, the love of my life, passed away and i'm just a hollow shellI miss her so much every moment of every day and idk how to really go on anymoreIdk if you wanna talk about whatever or just play some games or maybe watch anime maybe add me, i just need something to distract me.for just a few momentspunminyo
(if u message me pls introduce yourself in semi detail it makes it a lot easier for me to respond and stuff :3)>ASL20/mtf/maine>About YouMentally ill, chatty, lonely, short (5’1), my hobbies are: working out, reading, gaming, going for walks, nature, watching mma and basketball, watching movies and tv>Looking ForSomeone who will talk to me a lot and not vanish after a day, can hold a decent convo, has stuff in common with me >Not Looking Forboring people, dry people, flaky people, people over 30 >Contactdiscord: .creepycrawly.
>>35473324still looking for people
