Looking for something? You'll find it here...You should drop an e-mail account, a small description of yourself and what you want, if you want to keep it e-mail only or want to swap addresses, and get to writing.. This is something very anti-ethic to the low-effort nature of /soc/ these days, so please try and actually write, reply and be thoughtful and honest.Here's a rough template:>You?>What Do You Want?>What Kind of PenPal?>Contact!
>>35510390May as well give it a shot.>About me25, Male, Ireland. Very much into technology (not AI or crypto) but lately I've been trying to get more into practical hobbies like art, metal working, scrapping. I'm currently a NEET but have a degree, I'm just mentally ill and they're trying to figure out what's wrong with me. I ramble a lot, I give way too enthusiastic replies because I'm afraid of boring people into leaving. I have unpopular opinions regarding morals and society which has led to me losing a lot of friends. I'm an animal lover (spiders creep me out but I really respect them as a species), I want to travel the world and I care pretty deeply about the world as a whole.>what do you want?A friend, ideally someone who can initiate a conversation and won't ghost after a day leaving me thinking what did I do wrong. We don't need to have the same interests or hobbies, I like learning and experiencing things outside of my current peripheral. Just be kind, I don't find being rude or nonchalant or pretending you're above loneliness to be attractive.>what kind of penpal?When it comes to being friends I'm good with men or women. If you're looking to develop a relationship, I'm only into women and I prefer we take it slow.>ContactPr3P0stM0rtem@proton.me
>>35510390>Basics about me24M Argentina, into learning about the nature of the world and meeting people, may have ADD, and i hate ghosting. Ponderer, and a little argumentative.>What do i wantDeep, slow conversations if possible>What kinda penpal am iSlow, preferably email-only>My contactfoxhunter42_@hotmail.com
I hope this thread becomes more active
>>35511777I like your name Mr Meow. I hope u find friends
>>35512866Thank you! It's because I love cats
>>35511777I'm glad you posted, the trips will make sure of it... 777 is a lucky number!
>>35510390Thanks for making the post, I find it refreshing, to take time to respond in a slower manner and put more thought into an actual conversation.>About me26, Male, Europe, good natured, recently more uncovering the darker/shadow aspects of myself, trying to find meaning>What am I looking for?Someone to form a connection with, sharing about what matters to us. Someone that values a friendship and is able and wanting to care about someone else. >What kind of penpal?Can start over email slowly, but don't mind to switch over to discord/vc at some point. Also happy to write emails at our own pace, doesn't have to be daily or even weekly. >ContactFIowingRIver@proton.me
>>35510390Why did you never post yourself OP?
>>35518020I don't know if my ID is going to change when I post after all this time, but I am here, that has not changed in a long time. I also don't know if I should post because I hardly know what to tell people about myself anymore. It's not that I feel hollow, but more so, so full that I'd need a whole lifetime to show and explain it all. I don't know if anyone would stick around for that. Frankly, I don't know a lot of things. I know what I want, I know what I like. I don't know what kind of person I am, really.I think I'll post myself.
>>35518652It's ok anon, people are complex, it can be difficult to put our personalities into words
>>35518652if I cracked your hollow shell open would all your sins fall out?
>>35518652Pick something that may matter in the short term, call it incomplete, add your ASL and contact, hit send. Try it anon! :)
>You?24M US>What Do You Want?Let’s journal to each other about what’s happening in our lives. What is going well and what’s bringing you down. What goals are you working towards?>What Kind of PenPal?Someone who is flexible regarding when to send emails. Maybe once to a few times a week? And it would be nice to respond to each other’s entries>Contact!peachpie2012@proton.me
>>35519188I just want something that will give me something to look forward to in the future, I have everything I could ever want in the short term.. I'm a 29 year old guy from a small country called Luxembourg.>>35518946I don't know, that and a lot more.When the sun goes down on my side of town,That lonesome feeling comes to my door and the whole world turns blue.There's a rundown bar 'cross the railroad tracks,I got a table for two way in the back where I sit alone and think of losing you.Now if you lose your one and only there's always room here for the lonely.I feel an angel's kiss graze my cheek every day before I leave the door to my home, and I feel a gentle breeze when that angel waves goodbye.I've got green eyes, I'm thin and I've got long brown hair. I'm outside every day. I go to church sometimes. I have a lot of cars, a lot of tools, a lot of trinkets, a lot of computers. I have a lot of things, I use them so I have something to work on, most of the time I spend is spent maintaining things. I do that for work too, although in a slightly different way.. I enjoy writing letters, I enjoy art, film & photography, architecture, every now and then I'll read a book too. I cook, I garden.. I'll sew some pants together, adjust the fit of clothes. I am a very handy person, somewhat less so with people. I'm a lonesome person, a gentle person, a loving one.. maybe a little too different, too weird, too gross, too strange, too.. out there. I travel far too much, mostly to see people, never has anyone come to see me.I use e-mails to write people now.. I don't like being online very much anymore, I like things that are thoughtful or physical in a sense, sometimes both..Why don't you tie that knot?yesnomaybedontknow@protonmail.com
It's unfortunate that these threads get so little traction despite being top notch
>>35524402You should post anon!
>>35524402I totally agree, so far I only had very thoughtful and kind interactions, If anyone is considering posting, I want to encourage you. To me it is a totally different experience, to think about what to write and not being in a rush compared to discord for example
>>35510390>You?21/M/USA (Florida)>AboutI am a European studying in the United States, completing his degree and flight training next spring. I am white, have brown eyes, and brown hair. I am far away from home here, with my family living halfway across the globe, but I have plenty of wonderful friends who keep me company!I go to church on Sunday and I have a prayer life. My church community is my home away from home, and I love engaging in church activities (outside of regular worship) like cooking for food festivals, going on prayer walks and group trips.When I am alone, I enjoy playing piano and creating music, videos and art.My aspiration in life is to be a commercial pilot and be a loving husband to my future wife, and a great father to my future kids.I am a virgin, but I do not care if you are, and I do not shame people for not being so. I also believe there is no sin too grave for God's mercy; what matters is that someone genuinely grows and changes from an experience.>What are you looking for?A woman to spend the rest of my life with. A woman to exchange handmade letters with, make handmade gifts for, to fix things around the house while she looks after the kids... A woman to come home to and embrace after a long day at work flying. A woman to pray every day with, to stick by me no matter which country my career takes me. In short, a woman to marry.>Not looking forI do not want to speak to women who care about carnal/physical stuff, because I do not want to have any intimacy before marriage. Please be someone who respects that. I am also not a big consumer of media, that being movies, video games, music, etc... so I'd prefer someone who isn't deeply entrenched in social media and online spaces.>ContactPlease tell me about your day at:747fan@proton.me
>About me28 year old britbong. Working and living life. I go out walking in the warm months and sit inside reading or playing piano in the colder ones. Why write a buncha details here when we can talk about it later?>What do you want?Someone who wants to write about whatever, no set topics or interests from the get go. Say what's been on your mind.>What kind of penpal?If email then once or twice a week depending on how much you have to say, slower if we move to written letters. Disappear for a while then send a message out of nowhere, whatever floats your boat.>Contacttheendofwinter@cock.li
>>35510390>About me28F MéxicoI like games, art, music, daydreaming, journaling, some animes, psychological horror, attracted to urban exploration (never done one) abbandoned builings eaten by nature, watching movies and movie reviews, weird things? And more?... Ive always wanted to have a pen pal. Emotionally in shambles, introvert, shy, depressed and have anxiety. Ive lost a lot of passion on the things I like, hopefully it comes back. I have a thing for angels, i wish I could be one. May have some personality illnes idk i know its cringe to just call yourself autistic. You can ask about more specific things about me, i dont have anything to lose really. >What Do You Want?Someone to talk to and form a conection, not really interested in romance. Sending pics of what you are doing, i like seeing life from other peoples view. >What Kind of PenPal?Someone patient, i can get overwhelmed but I always reply back. Once a week is fine>Contactimpure_away@proton.me
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>>35510390>>35515135>>35518652>>35521308>>35544064he is a cheater, write at your own risk.if you want proof, write me here, i won't return to this thread again. i am deeply hurt by all of this, and i would have let this thread go if he hadn't escalated further.strawberrydiditagain@proton.megood luck out there
>>35546446I'm sorry you got hurt anon. I hope you find happiness soon
>>35546446emailed you cuz im pretty sure hes cheating on me as well
>>35546446Curious, how do you find out someone is cheating through email penpalship? Also, guys that write pseudointellectually like that are a red flag. I've never met someone that talks like that and is a good person. They do this because they want to people to think highly of them. Why do they want people to think highly of them? They are driven by a stupid egotism. They're always incredibly transparent. I don't know how people get tricked by people like that. Their gimmick has always been far more grating than it could be endearing.
>>35546768It's amazing how much of humans and humanity build themselves on the appearance of something rather than the substance of anything. And nobody notices it. Nobody is self aware about it. I honestly feel like the only aware person on earth.
>>35546446pigs like this are why most men deserve to be castrated
>>35547154BMI?
>>35510390>I am an artist and I am writing a story called Atemporal, I tried bringing it on /lit/ but the jannies hated me so I'll promote it here instead.>You can read it here:https://archiveofourown.org/works/91821461https://www.wattpad.com/story/409318104-the-atemporal-epichttps://mspfa.com/?s=72195&p=7>It's the same story just different sites.>If you read it and like it you can add send me a mail or contact me through the many places I left available in those sites.>Or just through here Icuckpeopleforaliving@proton.mail or my discord: _baitdestroyer>"omg you're the guy posting the porn ads" yeah tough shit I am also looking to win my bread.>I am interested in gathering close associates who are interested in discussing the story and are there for me as I keep writing it and to show them my ideas, I want people who can become passionate about it with me, I don't want critics because I have had too many of them by now.>I am a racist and stuff so expect me to be a chud, no trannies please because I'll say hurtful stuff and you'll get mad.>I expect you to be literate and not shy or shortworded, I just want to get into it head on without wasting any time or trying to appease you or goad you into it.
>>35547154Women are scum of the earth they chase cheaters and chad then get screwed over due to their own fault then act like this. Fuck off whore
>You?23 year old F college student from New England. Letter writing is a big hobby for me. I love programming and working with computers, reading, weightlifting, digital minimalism, and painting. I’m very devoutly Catholic and I volunteer for a hospice center and at my church.I like to draw little doodles in my letters and include fun things like stickers and business cards from my area.>What Do You Want?I want to learn a little more about the world through other people. I’m currently writing to a few people around America who live very different lives from me, and I love hearing their experiences and reading about the world from their perspective. I’m interested in talking to any type of person really, so long as I feel like we can connect and we have something we can teach each other. Nothing romantic. Everyone on this website is nuts, myself included. If you have crazy stories with people you met from here, let’s laugh about them together, however I’m definitely not going to be the next one you’re meeting up with. I prefer that all communication stays in emails or letters, I would not like to call or direct message. Female penpals are highly encouraged to write to me! :] I have a lot of stickers and cutesy stationary I want to give away. Bonus points if you speak German, Portuguese, Italian or Spanish, I would really like to try writing in those languages.>What Kind of PenPal?Maybe a few emails at first, but I prefer physical mail. International is ok too!>Contact!NightsInWhiteSatin0@proton.me
this person has been cheating on a handful of us, at the same time, over the span of multiple years, and we are sure there are more. if you have been in contact with this person at any time, had any interaction or just know something, please send me a message including when and what was told to you.strawberrydiditagain@proton.mesome of his contacts:theloneliestanon@gmail.comyesnomaybedontknow@protonmail.comroyalbluewithoutyou@proton.methestraubaburbank2aerdbiergentlerushstrawbers
Through the cracks, light shines. Show me your gaping wounds, where the bone is visible.I can only offer my disgust and eventual acceptance of what you are.I hope you can do the same for me.
>>35548982How do these boring ass posts get dozens of adds and get parlayed into multiple relationships meanwhile I can barely get 1 add let alone a friend? Waahhh waahhh I'm a lonely faggot and I feel like I'm missing a puzzle piece. I mean I've done that before too but I must have not been dedicated enough in that approach.
Addicted to being lied to, but when it gets too uncomfortable.... Are you afraid that all your suffering has been pointless?What ripples have you made, where is the tsunami gonna crash?What have you killed, that never got born to begin with?Can you remember what you lost, why are you searching here?
>>35549650It pisses me off but dont worry anon realize all these stupid bitches are low iq foidlets who have no autonomy and can't even keep from getting tricked and used by 4chan "echads" let alone irl ones. Bullets we get to dodge easily
>>35548982>cheatingare you trying to cancel someone on fucking 4chan no less for "cheating" (talking online) with multiple girls? What the fuck even is the angle with this post lol
>>35549600>>35549740>chatGPT, I need a gaynigger prose style to try to bag a mentally ill bpd foid on /soc/ make it very schizo and vague please don't use too many tokens I'm broke
>>35546768bingo. it’s yellow flag if they sometimes write like that but if they speak like that. I saw his add and instantly thought really you added that guy? His post is like I’m such a simple guy but can’t be humble enough to not jerk himself off through prose. these types are fun to keep at arm level until proven there’s anything behind that talk. it might be charming if you think this talk = guy or girl who will treat you right or have emotions. I have no idea how people fall for these types more than once. It’s like a self jerk off session
>You26 year old woman from the USA. I know a little about linguistics (have a bachelors degree in it) and a lot about making art. I am learning Spanish right now and would love to have a penpal who speaks it. I'm like movies (I don't have a letterboxd), I like Mexican and American history, I like film photography, I like music, I like tea, I like drawing, I like sewing, I like poetry, I like walking, I like singing, I like video games, I like the internet, I like pretending to know stuff about philosophy (interested in learning more. I liked logic when I took it in school), etcetera, etcetera. >What Do You WantI am looking for purely platonic contacts. I am in a long term relationship and I love him very much. I just enjoy people too much to keep letting social anxiety atrophy my social skills. With that said, I am happy to talk to men and women. I don't care if you're a little awkward and I don't care where you're from. However, you should know that I will stop talking to you if you sperg out about hating black people, jews, arabs or whatever. It's far fetched but one day I want to visit you and have you visit me, should we become friends (and I determine that you won't brutally murder me).>What Kind of PenPal Am II like to take my time when chatting with people (I'm skittish). Expect me to take at least 3 days to get back to you. >ContactConcertinaBaller@proton.meWhen you contact me, tell me a bit about what you've been into or up to lately. I've been listening to a lot of Hum and the last movie I watched was Videodrome.
>>35559122forgive my typos. I'm retarded.
>>35510390bumping
>You?strange, timid woman. previous agoraphobe, though still extremely anxiousasocial but not by choicesad more often than notblurbs out of the way... hi! i am, as i said, a strange, timid woman. i have little to no hobbies or interests but id like to try a lot of things. im not really sure how to be a person. sometimes i feel as though the stork forgot to give me my "how to be human" manual before it dropped me off to my family. i guess i wouldnt mind being molded into a person, but i worry the people who want to do that are... not who i want to be around>What Do You Want?in general: contentmentfrom this thread: connection of any kind (except sexual, i suppose). my ideal (romantic) relationship would be some sort of mutual obsession. im sure it sounds corny and has been said before, but i really do want it. i want to fall in love fast and deeply. my favorite character, from any media, is frederick clegg from "the collector" by john fowles. take that as you will>What Kind of PenPal?email. id like to move to a chatting app eventually (your choice, ill download anything that isnt too sketchy or annoying). i just want to be able to email together before >Contact!pre-peri-post@proton.meif youd rather go directly to discord its:fredericremingtonsorry for sounding stupid and/or boring in my post... im not good at talking about myself;;
distance too close to seektwo hearts that will never meeta trivial tale borne of a liethat inhumanity you hope to hidetime idles as the pain subsidesdid you get what you were looking for?a sincere prayer, a hope one should keepI pray you never find what you seek
>>35577482seek, find or be foundas you send your houndsto follow my trailhope they wont failstop following the foolthats the golden ruleforever to be changed by what was exchangeddrop in the oceana beautiful notionforever to be lostwhat a haunting cost
>You?25 M Living in the US. I want to travel the world when I have the financial means to do so, and I love hearing about places that are different from mine. I have a Master's degree, love baking, cooking, reading and playing video games. I've been stuck in a slump lately, and have been trying to put myself out there more, and I think having a penpal would help me get out of that slump :D>What Do You Want?I want to hear your stories, both mundane and interesting! I want to be able to talk with people about anything and everything, even if it's about boring stuff. If anything, I want to be able to become friends with the people I connect with.>What Kind of PenPal?At first, a couple of emails back and forth, but I would really like it if we could move to sending letters to each other!>Contact!Here's my email!bobby14134@gmail.com
>>35510390just copying this from another thread sorry:ASL>22 north GA, F, moving to NC/SC soon.INTERESTS>/lit/, (shirley jackson, pamela, stoner) writing, sewing, historical re-enactment. I hate everything modern. I am very cynical and don’t connect to others well.Also deus ex.LOOKING FOR>BIOLOGICALLY FEMALE FRIENDS. no males i will not talk to you it is unfruitful to contact meNOT LOOKING FOR>men, also ladies if you like consumerism and kpop demon hunter and boba and memes no thanksCONTACT:dis: worldwideweb2I am not very interesting to talk to i dont consume content i don’t have an interesting life (i am depressed) i just want to CONNECT with a woman and be her bossom friend and ugh.. i can’t do the online texting thing either it stresses me out im just lonely i want female companionship thanks sew and renact and read with meyeah all that but if you just want to pen pal thats fine.
