Looking for location recommendations for my first trip with my gfShe's going on a 3-week trip to Japan next year with friends, which is totally perfect for her as she's hyper organised and concerned about safety and cleanliness. Plus likes anime and Disney.I want to have a trip with her before, for her first ever international trip, but struggling to think of a better destination.>South Korea seems like a lesser version of Japan. >SEA countries are probably too chaotic and dirty for her, although the adventure could be fun. How's Thailand?>She also likes Paris, and it has a Disney World like Tokyo, but it's also dirty and Europe is expensive (we're in Australia). And we may go on a bigger Europe trip at some point.>Something tropical like Fiji or Hawaii might be romantic and safe, but also boring?>Said straight up no to Africa
Shes absolutely going to get riced while she’s a trip without you, cardio countries have harder cocks
>>2882628Japanese guys seem pretty timid and not that attractive to foreigners? And she's not going clubbing anyway. One of her friends could bang her I suppose, but they're all nerds.
>>2882625If she said no to Africa, try the Bahamas, Jamaica, Virgin Islands. If she still declines can get her to go to India, Bangladesh, Sri Lanka. And finally if that fails no other choice besides the good ol' bait and switch. Tell her Paris or Sweden or USA and drop her off in the ghetto.
>>2882625hong kong?got disney, got anime, not too far from australia, not as shitty as thailand, feels adventurous if you've never been to an asian megacity before
Switzerland feels like the obvious choice here. Wealthy, orderly, and castles such that Disney based their aesthetic on.
>>2882625Thailands great just because you have so much variety within arms reach. You can do a few days in Bangkok to see the craziness and then go to one of the lesser visited islands and chill on a gorgeous beach somewhere, for way less than what you’d pay for Hawaii or Fiji.
>>2882641Cool, I didn't know they had Disney. The megacity aspect might be interesting. I have heard it's quite expensive
>>2882733Switzerland is definitely up there. Only downside is the cost. But my gf hasn't seen snow yet, that would be priceless
>>2882912>But my gf hasn't seen snow yetWhat third world tropical slum did you pull her out of
>>2882928She's Aussie like me
>>2882625>Best couple destinationswhy does no one ever read the sticky>budget?also how much time do you have>She's going on a 3-week trip to Japan next year with friends>she'ss hyper organised and concerned about safety and cleanliness. Plus likes anime and Disney.>South Korea seems like a lesser version of Japan.other option is Chinaboth are way less similar to Japan than you thinkbut honestly, I'd do something differentalso how much does she like Disney? because that's a pretty big restrictionif she's just into the general concept of Disney movies, you have a lot more options>Something tropical like Fiji or Hawaii might be romantic and safe, but also boring?if you can (and like to) dive, there are some pretty cool spots that do not get boringotherwise yeah, it's mainly beach, snorkling and eating >but it's also dirty and Europe is expensiveParis is pretty nice if you avoid a few parts (mostly outskirts), that's a retarded /pol/ memealso outside high season, most of Europe is not really more expensive than Japan>And we may go on a bigger Europe trip at some point.Europe is big, and has a super high density of tourist sightsi wouldn't worry about thatone option would be the (Upper / Middle) Rhine Valley for castles + Paris nearby
>>2883389Budget and time is flexible, I just want the bestDisney's not absolutely necessary, but she has nostalgia for the princess movies. Also, she really likes rides.Yeah I'm guessing beaches and snorkelling would be good for like a week maxI mainly mean expensive to get to from Australia ($1.8k vs $600 for Japan)I hadn't thought of Rhine valley, yeah I'll definitely consider. Also, she does like castles.
>>2882743I'm thinking about Thailand. I don't know how my gf would like the chaos and dirtiness, but I imagine it does lend itself to an adventurous vibe. Are there any classy areas?I hadn't considered going to the beaches for a bit, that might be pretty romantic
>>2882638Is this sarcastic? I'd mainly like Africa to see the wildlife, and maybe Egypt. But otherwise not that exciting. Bottom of my list atm
>>2882625https://www.gltjp.com/en/article/item/20805/
>>2883681NooooShe loves amusement parks She going to have so much fun without me...
What are your guys thoughts on a US trip for this purpose?
>>2883382Aussie girls are extremely promiscious.
>>2883897What does that have to do with snow?
>>2883897If you're implying that she might cheat in Japan, yeah that's been on my mind a bit. But honestly, if my gf had to go anywhere without me, I think Japan would pretty much be the best. I mean, they have a pretty meek culture, so I don't expect her to get hit on much. And most Aussie girls aren't attracted to Asians. Plus she's travelling with her nerdy friends, so she won't be at any party hostels, or going to nightclubs etc.
>>2883643>I don't know how my gf would like the chaos and dirtiness>Are there any classy areas?You sound like a huge bitch who doesn't want to leave his comfort zone, if you are not willing to, why even travel in the first place?
>>2884049That's a good point. You can always find her a nice BBC Nigerian in Roppongi etc. Or even a good old fashioned Basketball-American BBC.
>>2884053I've been to Columbia, Kazakhstan, Romania, Jakarta, etc.I'm just asking for a place my girlfriend would like. She's a bit OCD and Type A personality. For example, she follows all rules. I think she would hate a country where there's literally no road rules, dodgy scammers left and right, no reliable transport, no clean drinking water, etc
If you’re both into outdoors than Hawaii is a solid pick, especially for scuba diving and mountain hiking up volcanoes. Only issue is that Oahu gets pitch black at night so only so much time in the day to do shit but that might work to both of your advantage to do shit during the day and then relax and smash at night.
>>2884191Thanks, yeah I feel like Hawaii would be a beginner friendly pick. Maybe not as adventurous as exploring a new city every day, but sounds like it could be chill and romantic. Plus my gf does love beaches
>>2884187Where is etc?
>>2884242Those are the poorer places I've been to. Oh yeah, Phillipines has some bad areas. Otherwise I'm pretty vanilla; US, Hong Kong, Taiwan, Bali, Russia, Finland, Lithuania, Estonia, Turkey, most of Eastern and Central Europe, probably forgetting some.Main point is my girlfriend has never been out of the country, so I want to do something special (more special than Japan)
>>2884187>I think she would hate a country where there's literally no road rules, dodgy scammers left and right, no reliable transport, no clean drinking water, etcShe might as well stay at home.
>>2884374There's lots of places with drinkable water and organised cities? Japan, Switzerland, UAE, New Zealand, even most of Western Europe, most of United States...I want my girlfriend to feel amazed landing in another country for the first time, not surrounded by yelling taxi scammers and the smell of rotting meat. And maybe not be bored. That's all.
>>2884379>I want my girlfriend to feel amazed landing in another country for the first timeTake her to Delhi pussy
>>2883593>Also, she does like castlesyeah then she'll love central Europesome parts of the upper middle Rhine valley look straight out of fairy tailif you can do (light) hikes it's even betterprobably some of the most romantic places i've ever been toyou'll hike alongside the vineyards with looks on some castle, and crossing medieval looking villagesearly autumn is the best time, for weather and of course Federweisser (fresh, lightly fermented wine)the french cities alongside in Alsace, like Colmar are also really coolor Strasbourgdo like 2 weeks, 3 weeks if you want to see other stuff1 week Paris1 week middle to upper Rhine valleymaybe another week for the french country side while slowly moving to Germanytogether it will absolutely satisfy her>nostalgia for the princess moviesa but more expensive than SK, China or SEA thoughbut much cheaper than Fiji or even Hawaiinicer hotels in Germany or non-Paris France are like 100-150€/night, plus maybe ~80€ (for both of you together) for food if you eat at regular restaurants every day for lunch/dinnercastle tickets or museums are usually just like 5-15€/p.P. so not that much (if you're still in University, bring your student ID card, you'll get discounts everywhere)rental car will be expensive at ~100€/day if you start in Paris and return somewhere like Karlsruhe
>>2882625>She's going on a 3-week trip to Japan next year with friendsit was over before it even began
>>2882625Fuck off normie
>>2884049Lmao she's definitely going to get drunk and fuck one of her friends. Enjoy being cucked I guess.
>>2884391Thanks, I haven't heard much about that region. Sounds like a really solid choice. I think if I do Europe you've sold me upper Rhine plus France .So far my other contenders are Thailand, Hawaii, Honk Kong, Switzerland, Vietnam. Maybe South Korea, but I need more reasons to get excited by it
If you're thinking about Switzerland and France, you can always fly into Geneva and do Annecy, Chambery, Chamonix and take the bus over from Chamonix to the Aosta Valley in Italy for a day and do the castles. The Alps are really laid back and safe. If you're into skiing, do it in the winter. Chamonix is cheap by US standards. You can get a nice Airbnb with a balcony and a view for $100/night. Lift tickets are $65.
>>2885513Sound pretty cool, I'll add it to my list.Weird question, but are snowy mountains the same comfy vibe as, say, European towns at Christmas? I just want my gf's first snow experience to be as memorable as possible
>>2885720The Alps are the best place in Europe to be at Xmas because there aren't any Muslims.
>>2882625What's your fetish? Different fetishes go best with different cities
>>2885722One of my best friend is a beautiful German girl. Turns out she's Turkish on both sides of the family. She hates any snow dates. Hates all things snow or cold. Girls like warmth, warm colors. That German hottie loves tropical beaches, that's popular with girls. So are places like Morocco. Seems like everyone, guy or girl, is blown away by MoroccoAlso Portugal, Spain, French Riveria, Italy are places you think of when you think warm and warmthAlso ask her who has the best food of any country. For me I have to do Italy. My cute friend, for her it's probably Thai.
>>2882625>How's Thailand?Amazing for a date. This should be a no brainer from Australia >Something tropical like Fiji or Hawaii might be romantic and safe, but also boring?Bro you are going to have the best memory of your life if you go to Fiji or Hawaii. Or similar islands like them in your area, there's a bunch more. Got a friend in Tahiti right now
>>2885732What's amazing about Thailand? Beaches? Nightlife? I imagine stuff like museums and history and theme parks aren't that great.Islands like that kinda looks cool, but I also feel like theyre very touristy and you would be spending most of the time in samey resorts. Am I right or is there more to them?
>>2885735>>2885735I wouldn't even put this on the A list, but it's something you have to see and it's going to take you a long time. That dragon tower, i want to go to that spot they have on top of it>The Ancient City (Muang Boran) is a vast outdoor museum near Bangkok, shaped like Thailand, featuring 116 replicas of famous Thai monuments and architectural sites from different eras, allowing visitors to see the country's history and culture in one place. It's a large park, so renting bicycles or golf carts is recommended for exploring the grounds, which include temples, palaces, and a floating market. It's best to visit early or late to avoid the heat and crowds, and to dress respectfully as some areas are active temples.
>>2885738For a couples date you want a lot of easy to find photogenic spots and it has lots
>>2885739>What's amazing about Thailand? >Beaches? Nightlife? Those are the two things Thailand is probably most known for. But don't forget about the food. This one is Destination Kitchen, Thai restaurant. Across the river from Ancient City. Waterway you see is a small tributary going into the big river
>>2885744also look at Blue Whale. See how it's in a dense & happening restaurant district on the river? Get a cool drink and walk around and explore all that
>>2885748Looks nice in a glass too. That place is nice enough to sit down and eat there. Has good breakfast
>>2885749There is also a lot of pics of this blue drink with latte art that I want to try
>>2885748Walk right over to the river and get pics like this. Have traditional Thai boats up to luxury vacation tour yachts going by the whole time
>>2885752Looking at one of the hotels right there by the river and they have lots of rooms with nice views to pick from
>>2885753Get to watch Thai TV and see what their news is like
>>2885754could walk home to this
>>2885755Thanks for the recommendation, Ancient City does look pretty cool and atmospheric. Maybe a day trip out of Bangkok?
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>>2885730Good advice. Snow looks nice, but girls seem sensitive to cold.Although you don't want somewhere too humid either, I feel like a lot of SEA countries could be like that in the wrong season (monsoon?)
>>2885726My fetish is bonding and making memories in a loving relationship
>>2884686I was a virgin til 30.I'm pretty far from being a normie. Maybe that's why I care so much about making memories with this girl.
>>2886607>>2886243you sound like a cuck. go to the jungles of africa
>>2882625>likes disneyHow fat is she?
>>2883593Rhine and the Moselle are beyond awesome especially in nicer weather. You can get the rail pass for Germany and head over to Koblenz from Frankfurt. Koblenz is a great little city with a nice area where the two rivers meet with a great outdoor beer garden and food places. There are some old ass castles and fortifications and a good art museum to check out. The clock in the old town is also a good tourist site along with the old churches that are an atmospheric walk. There are loads of castles you can see from the train. The pass also includes a ferry that runs along the rivers there so you can get a pretty good close up of some of the castles. Some of the smaller towns have an interesting mix of accomodation and have all the German fairytale like look that is pretty fun. The Mosell is also a major wine producing region for Reisling. During the summer there are a lot of festivals. You can tour some of the wineries as well. If you have not seen the old TLC series Great Castles of Europe, you should check it out as it is pretty much still like that. Should on youtube somewhere.For Thailand if she is not into the crazy cities, Fly into Phuket and get straight over to Ko Lanta. It is chilled out and somewhat clean. I honeymooned there with the Mrs. We loved it. Rented scooters and drove around the island, beach hopped, and visited a bunch of the small villages for a stroll. Went snorkeling down some of the smaller Andaman Islands where the water is crystal clear and as warm as bath water amongst all the Karst formations. You can then head back to Phuket and stay in Old Town away from the madness Patong. The Old Town area is straight up instagram with cafes, chocolate, and trinket crap along with places to pose and take pics. Was much more centred around couples compared to the other parts of the island.
SoKO is a good bet:Do a few days in Seoul palace and cafe hopping. She can shop herself silly in Myeongdong. An evening at Namsan tower and walking Chyeongecheon Stream is aso super romantic. Then head south to Busan for some beach action. Avoid Haeundae and stay at Gwangalli with the light up bridge. Hit up a jjimjilbang together and enjoy the common area in the clothes. You can book her an afternoon at a skin care clinic (Piboogwha) and she can get a nice facial while you go and chill at a corner shop and drink beers. Go for a walk along the coast by Yeoungdo and enjoy some of the art stuff. I would also recommend Jeonju for the old town area. Stay in a B and B there in traditional housing. Get her to rent a Hanbok and go for shaved ice (Patbingsu). Gyeongju is also fun for a day trip from Busan. Check out the old burial mounds and architecture and head over to the reservoir area and rent ATVs. Plough around in the forest areas and streams. You may also want to check out and see if there are any festivals or events going on there when you go as they always seem to be doing random things. Fireworks festivals, Beach Festivals, etc.
>>2884685How do you even stop it without looking like a controlling paranoid fuck?
>>2886671>>2886672Thanks for the awesome advice.My other considerations were a US trip (maybe roadtrip), or maybe Italy. What do you think of those?
>>2886743sometimes you have to set it free. If it comes back to you then great. Could be worse. Could be a Jamaican holiday.
>>2886745Roadtrip wise down the Oregon and California coast is great. Some of the most beautiful scenery, some comfy little guest houses, and loads of quiet beaches to stroll around. NA wise I would also recommend the Rockies from Banff all the way to Jasper and then further north into BC. Jawdropping. Just bring mosquito repelent for the inevitable post dinner late evening romantic walk.
>>2886745>My other considerations were a US trip (maybe roadtrip), or maybe Italy. What do you think of those?There should be enough BBCs in Atlanta, Houston, Vegas, NYC, LA, to keep her satiated. Italy is a little trickier but if you stay in the big cities I think you'll be OK. Look for Congolese restaurants and stick to discoteques around there.
>>2886756Lol yeah could be worse. Ibiza, Las Vegas, Bali. A girl's trip. Or on her own... in the scope of things, I guess a nerdy trip to Japan isn't guaranteed cheating
>>2886841when she gets back ask if she wants to role play her favourites that she bought while she was there. You could wear a blue speed suit. Sit on the bed like you are on a bench flipping the zipper up around your chest... then whisper in Japanese...
>>2886743>How do you even stop it without looking like a controlling paranoid fuck?you take your schizo meds and don't do anything retardJapan for a girls trip is completely finethey probably just gonna go to some photo spots, (gender separated) onsen and eat at stupid social media hyped spotsliterally the most harmless vacation you could think ofparty, or worse party at a beach, trips, like >>2886841 saidare the actual culprit and you (rightfully) should intervene at thosecultural or wellness / spa trips are nothingburgers
>>2887090>Japan for a girls trip is completely fineI agree. She can get her BBCs in Roppongi.
>>2884187Dubai, Abu Dhabi or Doha. Easy enough to reach, clean, beaches, rules
>>2887095Aren't those all getting bombed right now lol
>>2887119Yeah, but I gotta do what I gotta do to get that brown cock in my girlfriend.
>>2887120How often do you think about brown cock? Is this a favourite topic of yours?
>>2887135Yeah. It's why I made this thread.
>>2887090I pretty much agree But it's not a girl's trip, it's three girls and two guys. Does that change your opinion
>>2886841Shes going on a vacation with other men without you, youre a cuck>b-b-but its just nerdy guyslmaoShe WILL get pumped full of cum that isnt yours and you deserve it for being a spineless loser
>>2887242It's two other Kim Kardashian club thots and two big buff BBC black guys. But they're nerdy black guys. Am I cooked chat
>>2887264No, they literally are nerds. At least one of the girls is a 22yo virgin, wouldn't be surprised if the guys are. And my gf is OCD, if she did have sex it would be with a condom
>>2887242I love watching my gf get a fat dick slid between her legs. As long as the bull is a nerd and wears a condom it's OK.
>>2887332What makes you say that? Do you just assume 100% of all girls cheat? That says more about you than anyone else desu
>>2886758That sounds really nice actually. If we go around September would the weather have cooled down a bit?Also what's your opinion on Disneyland and new York?
>>2887242So a girl's trip would be better?Or her travelling alone?Or would you just not ever let your girlfriend travel?You sound totally secure bro
>>2887518I'm so secure ideally she would take some other guy's dick two inches in front of my face. You're insecure if you don't want to directly watch your woman have sex with other men.
>>2887534Righto. Have fun with that
>>2887667You don't do that? You sound insecure af bro
>>2887239>But it's not a girl's trip, it's three girls and two guys. Does that change your opinionnot about the destinationbut for sure about the trip in general thoughit begs the questionwhy OP can't just go with them if it's a mixed trip anyway??at least in my friend groups it's like thisgirls trip -> only girls go (and conversely boys trips)mixed trip -> everyone can bring their partner / spouse
>>2887827Her friends were planning it already and she asked to tag along. I haven't outright asked but I think she doesn't want to bother them, when it wasn't her thing to begin with, if that makes sense?
>>2887827The bull planned it and I don't want to bother him, does that make sense? *vocal fry uptalk*
my white gf doesnt mind me fucking trannies in the philipinnes
>>2888098>Her friends were planning it already and she asked to tag alongafter or before getting into a relationship with you?>I haven't outright asked but I think she doesn't want to bother themmost people in relationships actually like their partner... and WANT to spend time with themso asking something this simple should not be a nuisance>when it wasn't her thing to begin with, if that makes sense?no.either they're renting out an apartment, in which case she shouldn't goor they all have their own (hotel) room, in which case you coming with them would be super easylast (optimistic) interpretation is that her friend group just doesn't like you and doesn't want you therejust talk to hertell that you'd like to join the trip to spend more time with herif she agrees, greatif not, only then tell her that you're not comfortable with her going on a trip with guys>>2888113>>>/r9k/
>>2888237>just talk to her>tell that you'd like to join the trip to spend more time with her>if she agrees, great>if not, only then tell her that you're not comfortable with her going on a trip with guys>>>/r9k/