I'm a 28-year-old single British guy. Despite having substantial savings and being able to afford to fly anywhere in the world, I just don't, and I haven't travelled overseas other than for work at all since before lockdowns. The main reason is that I'm single, and I really don't see the point in wasting money just to be alone, and probably feel even more alone seeing couples everywhere. Has anyone else been in the same situation?
>>2890426yes. just make single serving friends, hit on women, go where I want and see what I want at what time I want. Travelling alone is the best.
come to america and suck me off (im male)
>>2890429op here how hung are you? I can probably handle whatever you're packing, I sucked off a 9 inch BBC once in London
>>2890431That's pretty hot but he said he's single so probably white. 5 inches at most.
>>28904317 inches, cut sadly due to ameribullshitI want to travel and explore but um would be nice to have someone good at blowies too
>>2890426This is the gayest post I’ve ever seen on this board. You’re terrified to travel because you’ve been convinced by normie media that it’s not worthwhile unless you have a le heckin’ “partner”. I’ve traveled solo and I’ve traveled with friends/girlfriends, and literally all the other stuff doesn’t even come close to how great it is to travel alone.When you travel with other people, you tend not to meet as many new people or have as many spontaneous experiences. You’re more focused on the person you’re with, and spontaneity subsumes itself to following whatever the plan or the “vibe” of the group is. You can enjoy couples travel when you’re old and retired, but if you’re single and have money and are deferring traveling because you think bringing a sex partner along will make it better, you’re terminally retarded.
>another old solo white guyCan you losers just stay home please? You're not some great adventurer you just look pathetic and lonely.
Traveling alone:>15-17Prime time to solo weekend out with the lads down in portugal or amsterdamn on a cheap ryanair flight>18-20Acceptable though most likely want to have a woman, you're going to live well but you're now able to be charged as an adult so watch out >21-24Last of the summers wine, you're going to need to start settling down, men start balding here, you might be able to squeeze in Thailand before looking like a bumbling idiot>25+No hope unless traveling for work you'll look like a mutt or divorced dad, creep people out, good luck getting service at a restaurant as a single persons
>>2890460nah if you're over 19 it's gonna look creepy. in your 20s and alone and male? no bueno.
>>289042627-yo britanon here - agree with you completely after having to solo travel for a while now. I've never travelled with existing friends and I've never had a gf. Though I have done group tours / packaged holidays to Australia and Japan, in my opinion those are the best ways to experience countries because you can meet people to do stuff back home with or continue travelling with if they're going places.That said, it depends really on how much you actually want to see a place or do an activity. If there is no feasible way to organise a trip with your friends but you still want to do something then yeah, sometimes solo is your only real option, it'll still feel somewhat lonely although you can still meet people at random, depends where you are.27-28 is still fine for hostels - use Hostelworld and use the social features once you've booked into one.
>>2890506you're a grade A bitch. post mantits with timestamps
>>2890426yeah i travel alone all the time. its pretty shit, and people look at you weird. anyone who says travelling alone is is just coping because they have no friends. travelling is always better with friends or a gf, you have people to share your experiences with.
What a bunch of scared losers afraid to live life because some nobody might judge
>>2890516>What a bunch of scared losers afraid to live life because some nobody might judgeikr. they're even scared of random brown people who live thousands of miles away from their home countries who they can choose to never see again if things go south. shit's weird
Anon, you need to change your thinking, travelling alone is fine but be sure to incorporate perusing your interests that will feed your soul, don't be normie eat sleep repeat type of person. Be grateful that you can spend the money on doing what's meaningful to you rather than having to accommodate your partners interests and level of adventurousness.>t. 40 yr old man with a mrs who still travels solo
>>2890460You’re fucking BITCH MADE. The greatest moments of my life have come through solo travel.
>>2890508>yOpinion discarded
>>2890541>Oconcession accepted
desu traveling with people is more about the relationships with them than the destinations themselves, you'll actually take in a lot more when you're alone. you should probably try it once, it's mentally freeing to be able to do something alone. honestly don't travel expensive though, you kinda want to be uncomfortable, do hostels etc
Finding someone in America who wants to travel to another country for anything other than getting drunk on a resort is nearly impossible, so I'm doing a solo trip this year and I'm pretty excited. I'm 29 btw.
>>2890426You're a retard. Solo traveling is the best. Go to Las Vegas and have sex.
>>2890460this hasn't been adjusted in awhile now. In 2026 need to move all the ranges down by at least 2 years. if you are older than 19.5 it's time to look into outings with the local retirement homes.
>>2890426It's worth it but you have to do things a certain way.I mainly plan trips around low-to-no skill, solitary activities like hiking, snorkeling, road trips, sight seeing (safaris, museums, ruins, etc).Eating in for breakfast or lunch is not that weird but eating by yourself at a fancy sit down restaurant for dinner is obviously weird as shit (despite how loud the autists on 4chan insist it isn't), so for dinner, opt for places that have bar seating, or just order food to your airbnb and pay up for a place with a view so you don't feel like a loser. I hate street food but that's also an option.Clubbing/partying solo requires lots of alcohol which at my age (32) I just can't handle, so I don't bother anymore, but if you can hold your liquor, then go for it.I have found that locals who live in touristy cities (Paris, NYC) have zero interest in hooking up with tourists, but if you go to some bumfuck flyover town then they will be much more accommodative. The way to meet them is the same anywhere: dating apps. Which brings me to my last piece of advice:Invest in some basic tri-pods (1 standing tripod, and 1 mini flex grip) and get some good photos of yourself for dating apps. If you are too high inhib to take photos in public then just pay up for the 5 star hotel/airbnb with a balcony and get the pic at your lodging. Pic rel is where I'm staying in France in 1 month. It's $500+ a night, but guess how many nights I'm staying: 1. Just so I can get THE pic, and then fuck off.
>>2890690low iq post. dating apps suck but can use ai to make pictures. long term stay > short term stay. you could have stayed in paris for a month if you rented a shared room for that price. more time to do shit and get girls. whatever your budget is gominimalist and stretch it out
>>2890690>how many nights I'm staying: 1. Just so I can get THE picextremely cringe and woman-coded behavior. Imagine squandering money like this to win the approval of others and portray a fake version of yourself to the world.
>>2890426Males who lack self-confidence generally don't have an enjoyable time travelling solo.
If you're gay travelling solo is the easiest shit ever. Just hangout with hookups.
>>2890515They look at you weird because you're off-putting in some way, not because you're by yourself. You really never see any men out in public by themselves? What kind of weird place do you live in?
>>2890736>use ai to make pictures>>2890748>imagine portraying a fake version of yourself to the worldThe duality of chuds.
>>2890757it would be nice to make friends with gay guys without sex as an expectation
>>2890426Airplanes do not need more passengers, that's for damn sure. They're already crammed in tight enough. >seeing couples everywhereWhy would you go to a quiet honeymooner destination if you're a single guy? Makes no sense at all. Go someplace drunk and rowdy, like your kind always do. >>2890515Yeah, if you're a curious autist lurking around a bunch of bars, never drinking, never talking, only staring at people, people are going to look at you weird and ostracize you. Only the scumbags will try to get you drunk so they can take advantage of you. That has been my experience in the bars and drinking matter. These days I have a bottle of beer at a quiet local restaurant or shop. No alcohol-based socializing for me.
>>2890844beta
My gf refused to take Ryanair. Therefore I don’t travel
>>2890853cuck
>>2890756Facing difficulties are what builds self-confidence. >>2890846Well yeah, if you chase puss as a solitary man of low status, you're always going to start off as a beta lurking on the fringes. Maybe now you're figuring out why some of us refuse to play the game.
>>2890877>why some of us refuse to play the game.Because you're an obedient beta neuter.
>>2890878I'm not going to chase horny childless sluts who live for male attention. Eventually if I can figure out some kind of stable, good-paying seasonal employment, I will probably wife up a Nepali girl, because that's what I see as the best path forward. Not for me this slut worship.>but I fucked a gorillion sluts, that means I'm an alpha!No, dipshit. The female is the alpha, she calls the shots. You slut-chasers are all betas who are only allowed to pleasure her when she desires it.
>>2890758nah im a well-kept, stylish, decent-looking normie. And nah, i dont see many men nor wemen alone eating at a restaurant or bar.>>2890844> bottle of beer at a quiet local restauranti guarantee, the local cops know you exist
>>2892228so you're an incel, unemployed, and most likely fat. You're not allowed to talk to people, either in real life nor online.
>>2892228>>2892272He's not an incel, he's just brown. I can basically guarantee he's indian as it's the only culture besides the radical left in the west that generates men who would call a female "alpha"Nepali waifu going to be depressed with this cuck boy.
>>2892228>I will probably wife up a Nepali girl, becauseyou missed your chance with the 14 year old
>>2890426it sounds like you've never travelled with other people otherwise you wouldn't think like this. when you're with others you'll start to appreciate the freedom of travelling alone. imagine being a wagie and finally saving money and getting some time off, then one of your friends or gf wants to waste 3 days at a boring beach when you just wanted to spend at max 1 hour there. >>2890441>you tend not to meet as many new people or have as many spontaneous experiences.also true in my experiences. also friends that seem chill can oddly act very differently when they're travelling. if you travel with others they also might make travel friends that you don't like.
>>2890426It's about whether you seem like you have shit going on or not.Certain age, people expect a guy to have enough shit going on they're not aimlessly traveling.If you're a workaholic taking a break after selling a company or something to decompress, that's one thing. Or if you own some successful business where you don't need to be anchored somewhere, that's fine as well.The point is, you need to have something going on. A guy after a certain age who doesn't know what to do with himself is what people instinctively see as threatening.
>>2892472You don't need an excuse to live, wtf
>>2890690Dinner by yourself is location dependent. Needs a bar and can't be a place that's a busy destination for fancy date nights and group outings.Hipstery gastro pub spots are the best for it. Regular pubs are the safest bet, but you're getting basic comfort food.
>>2892473I don't make the rules. I'm just saying what people act weirded out by, which is solo male over a certain age who seems like they have nothing going on and don't know what to do with themselves.
>>2892475beta schizo
>>2892479You're brown
>>2892480>sees truth through the lens of consensus>brings up race out of nowherefilipino coded post
>>2890426Yes actually, I first went abroad to Rome and while it was a great place to see, there were couples everywhere which reminded me of being alone too much. Over the years I've went abroad to other places in Europe and realised that going alone is pointless. It's lonely.Everything you do "on holiday" you do at home. Eat a restaurant, go to a cafe, see a museum, see old buildings. Who cares? If you're going alone it's pointless.
>>2892482idk about filipino, never met one. but the concern with consensus is feminineare filipino men very feminine minded?
>>2892491yeah they have a shit ton of fags and ladyboys there. i think most in SEA even over thailand iirc
>>2892509I know some people like that but the consequences for an individual are very sad indeedIt's like being a teen and never growing up in a way. Always concerned with the arbitrary opinions of others in order to validate and moderate the self. Hard to imagine living like that now.
>>2892479Look at that, a right wing nutjob is a cuckold to stranger thoughts(that he read on 4chan). Sexually frustrated, lil buddy?
>>2890426You obviously have autism and are right wing, I'm very sorry for that. I hope the UK authorities are aware of your posts online, because they reek of future shooter.
>>2892539beta schizo
>>2890426i like going to places and being alone purely for the joy of leaving britain
>>2890460Honestly this is true. Once you’re visibly 35-40 and alone it just screams creep loser weirdo faggot
>>2892879No you are just poor and fat and give everyone the ick, even 70 yearolds can have a good time traveling alone
>>2892883>uncy copeyUgly old man no one wants you around
Then don't be alone, pay, etc. If you're unable to, you're either so ugly you can't compensate for it, or you're a mentally ill (autistic) incel and deserve what you get.
>>2892888No need to be jealous fren
>>2892879You're still in high school and afraid of being different from everybody else? Grow the fuck up. Dress presentably, and now everybody will think you are on a business trip.>>2892510Some moderation is necessary. You should strive to be an exemplar for your country when traveling. This means avoiding behaviors which are indecent or offensive to others. >>2892475You obviously haven't traveled much if you think there are some kind of fixed rules for human behavior. It's 100% dynamic, a cycle of instinct and reaction that varies from person to person. If people look at you disapprovingly, maybe it's time to trim up that facial scruff or get a haircut...
>>2892910>You should strive to be an exemplar for your country when traveling.No. I represent only myself and perhaps my family.>This means avoiding behaviors which are indecent or offensive to others.Of course having the bare minimum standards if decency and respect is necessary.Maybe it's just a text issue and it comes across too literally. Not really anybodies fault, 4chan is full of retards who will think I mean that you can walk around with your dick in your hand coptering it at any girl that makes eye contact. Kek some retard will unironically call that chad/alpha behavior.
>>2892916Anxietyfags always invent fantasy scenarios in their head of other people mocking them for, IDK, dining alone in a restaurant or some similar unremarkable activity. It's part of the cuck mentality...they revel in the idea of humiliation so much that they invent excuses to shame and mock themselves. None of this shit is happening IRL, unless you are a literal deformed ogre that people find impossible to respect as a human being.
Cant you just travel with a friend, hello?
I guess for me the appeal is not being in America for a while. Being around mostly normal, non-obese people with a real culture is far more appealing than living in pure nihilism like I do in this steaming pile of shit known as America.
>>2890515I like a solo trip every now and then, but solo travel is best when it's 1) a choice and 2) a break from normal group trips. Doing it because you have no other option will inevitably wear you down.
>>2890426bump
>>2893178This is the most pathetic thing I've read on this site in the past two days.
>>2894737White incels like to wallow in self pity
>>2890427>single serving friendsWhat is that like you go out drinking with them one night and then never see them again?
>>2890460>>15-17>Prime time to solo weekend out with the lads down in portugal or amsterdamnBro what. Portugal the drinking age is 18 so what are you getting up to at the age of 15
>>2890460>good luck getting service at a restaurant as a single personsLast I checked restaurants tend to serve anybody who's willing to pay