I got a job offer in NYC recently. I really want to make the move. Can anyone tell me how the dating scene is there? I hear mixed things, some people say it’s good while others say it is hypergamy central. I want to live in Brooklyn so idk if that helps. Either way I am going to make the move
>>2919563I was doing cold approach only, for about a month, and it's not good at all. I still got a couple of lays but the quality and quantity wasnt up to my standards. So I put my head down and grinded work for like 60+ hours a week and fucked off. I was in Queens which really sucks for dating, Brooklyn seems way better If you just want one mid roastie gf you can probably get it easily from the apps. But I never used it so idk for sure. Every person I knew irl was an incel and it seems like no one has sex. The relationships people have seem to be resume and performance based with an HR roastie who treats the guy with an attitude of clinical sterility, like an employee
>>2919567Not gonna read this incel dissertation
>>2919563Every guy I know who made the move after moving out of my shithole city cleaned up on the dating apps. Whether or not you like the women on the dating apps is for you to decide, but my more conservative friend moved to the South since he couldn’t stand the politics of NYC girls
>>2919563Best in the US.>>2919567>I deliberately picked one of the worst ways to meet women from millennial and gen x guyfailures and am surprised women weren't receptive Cold approach is retarded. There's a reason all the gurus stopped being able to sell dating courses post IG and pivoted to other bullshit like crypto, steroids, and politics.
>>2919596>Best in the US.appnigger coping with wine aunts>Cold approach is retarded. There's a reason all the gurus stopped being able to sell dating courses post IG and pivoted to other bullshit like crypto, steroids, and politics.you need a guru to hold your dick? what a faggit
>>2919597Around 2014, the cottage industry of "daygame coaching" imploded. Because cold approach, which was never that useful of a skill, became more or less worthless as service to offer as a dating coach.Word of mouth of the last few years of guys, post Tinder and IG in the 2010s, was that there's not enough value in it for it to be worth paying someone to teach you. It's why the redpill guys, at least in America, pivoted to other bullshit courses. It kinda exists in Europe, but i have my doubts, since these "camps" involve suspiciously large amounts of money to hang out with alpha males in Eastern European locales with lax prostitution enforcement.
why date when you can fuck whores? NYC is full of runaways and failures who will never want to go back to flyover-country in shame.
>>2919602>became more or less worthless as service to offer as a dating coach.>there's not enough value in it for it to be worth paying someone to teach you.There's nothing to teach. Say hi. The end. That's it. You don't need to pay a guru thousands of dollars to hold your dick for you.
>>2919604Because im not an incel
>>2919610you probably cant date a 15 year old but you can easily find one whoring her holes for rent money
>>2919664No thanks im not an incel
>>2919563>Can anyone tell me how the dating scene is therethere are a ton of single women in the boroughs, but that's mostly because they are overly neurotic type-a messes who think they're too good for any man they've ever met. you will have your pick of women to churn through, but don't expect any lasting connection
>>2919563it is hypergamy central. if you're handsome and charismatic you'll do fine if you just want to get laid though. But if you want like a real deal relationship that will lead to marriage you will find the womens' brains have been fried by modernity.
