My fathers sjde of the family is cursed with trauma and suicide and addiction. What are generational curses, how are they broken?
>>42463347They're broken by facing your Shadow.
>>42463347Make peace with your inner child.
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>>42463347>generational curses, how are they broken?by not having offspring
How is it fair that one person has to break the generational curse? The fuck where the whole rest of the ancestors doing? Especially the one who started it...
>>42464239It's sort of like how sometimes, those who are bullied, and know all too well the pain it causes, decide subconsciously or otherwise, that their justice is to bully others wherever they are able. They get a job where they can power trip, or become mods/have an unpleasant online presence dedicated to pushing people around, abusing their power over anyone they can. They can't give it back where it might actually be warranted (although you gain nothing for it) and settle for passing it down wherever their weak selves can find a sense of power.It's not exactly considered a source of esoteric learning but in Malcolm in the Middle, Dewey is the youngest son of many and gets the most bullying as a result. His parents have another son and the brothers tell Dewey he can break the cycle and not bully his younger brother. He says "how is that fair?" He wants his opportunity to pay it back out to someone he can bully, even thought that person had no involvement in his torment. Someone needs to eat the sense of injustice because there's no way to go back and pass it back to the one who started it, you become just become equally as bad. It won't erase your trauma but it'll erase all that of the future generations.
>>42464239When I was young and dumb I resented my Dad but as I got older I looked at his life with context and learned to love and forgive him, but this curse manifests in my life even today. It was my birthday yesterday, he's the only member of my family that didn't call or at least text. He knew it was my birthday, he made a conscious choice not to reach out and he will tell himself it's not a big deal and it's normal and doesn't matter because I'm not a kid anymore, but something stops him from displaying love to others. It really makes me feel bad for him, I can't imagine having a son and being incapable of wishing him happy birthday. I would like to have kids and break this without going too far in the opposite direction.
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>>42463347how to break generational curses?wordsthe curse isn't realstudy how LLMs work and it will start to make sense. an LLM never sleeps and is always following it's prompt. a human sleeps and rearranges knowledge. a generational curse is that your family slept through life while allowing the words in. it's possible that only you may not allow the words to overwrite what you know is right and wrong. you don't need to be right. you need to say so many words that they begin to be overwritten, and they will lash out at you finally with judaism as it's revealed they were actually implementing the talmud.
>>42464401I'm just saying. We hear so much about taking personal responsibility and sorting your own shit out. This whole 'lol the entire bloodline fucked up, it's all on you now bro' just doesn't cut it. Shouldn't everyone be doing their part, no matter how small, to reduce the sense of injustice, or whatever else it might be? There's no way to even know what the original trauma is if they've all died.>>42464424That's fucked up bro, happy late birthday. I get growing up and learning to understand how others act out of a space of pain and why that affects their actions. But he's not dead yet and literally still has time to grow and learn and do better. But you can't really wait for him to change like that, or help him to do it, he has to do it for himself. We all have to do it for ourselves. So someone has to do it for themselves and everyone else who failed? He's still alive and could try, his spirit guides should be kicking his ass. Do you think you could ever do the thing, maybe after having kids, of finally just showing unconditional love to him to help him? It's like the answers are always obvious but being actually able to do them, especially to someone who treated you a certain type of way, strikes you as being the height of unfairness.
>>42463347triumph juxtaposes traumatriumph = success x witnesses
>>42464424>I would like to have kidsewwwhy must you people force others into this world for your pleasure?is there really not some other way to satisfy your stupid ego just as well? why not just adopt
>>42466513nta, the moment any hit puberty and transition from endless growth to death and reproduction as a result of accumulated trauma the choice is kinda out yallz hands, the hunger to seed is real and proportional to the your current and lifelong rates of apoptosis.
>>42466568I don't understand a goddamn word you just said
>>42463347>What are generational cursesGenetic.>how are they broken?By not reproducing and passing your defective genes on to the next generation.
>>42466585i cant possibly clarify your confusion without more context, surely you know what endless means? death? reproduction? altogether my words summate why humans hunger for reporduction and tldr - its cause your dyeing, your body knows this the moment it hits puberty.
>>42464401This is only true for hylics (derogatory)
>>What are generational curses, how are they broken?face your shadows.addiction and suicide are from chickening out of confronting your shadows. do it or be cursed to be like your ancestors. plan and simple.
>>42466585I understood what that anon said.
>>42464401>in Malcolm in the Middle, Dewey is the youngest son of many and gets the most bullying as a result. His parents have another son and the brothers tell Dewey he can break the cycle and not bully his younger brother. He says "how is that fair?" He wants his opportunity to pay it back out to someone he can bully, even thought that person had no involvement in his torment.oh shit, irl that actor was really abused. like it was bad. typical hollywood csa shit. but having to act out that story is just a slap in the face, considering what was going on with older men behind the scenes.
>>42463347You are likely not similar to your family, you are creating a narrative to rationalise a completely different sense experience.You are playing in a self imposed narrative. Start counting ways that you are not like your father's side of the family, and spend time around other people and you'll notice that your traits will begin to change.Your past, future and present experience will never be the same as your family members.
Are there any sources of old religions or philosophers on not having children? At this point in my life I cannot logically or in good faith conclude that bringing children into this world is moral or correct.
>>42464239Isn't it wonderful to be the one to break the chain?
bro its like this. we inherit this multidimensional suit encrusted with gems, precious metals, crystals, its the network of gifts that allows us to interpret reality/ translate it into something personally meaningful. it allows us to transmute energies. it includes past life stuff, genetic stuff, trauma stuff, etc. theres another layer thats your subconscious mind, call it god. its a network of beliefs and neg, pos or neutral charges, like a fishnet grid of tiny stars, that interface with the suit.i found i can rewrite the charges with psych-k, others use force of will and habit building, eft or tapping, reiki, biogeometry, hypnosis, etc.when you rewrite it, your experience of the gift inheritence (including curses) changes.also, get away from dysfunctional people and if you cant, limit what you say and show to them.
>>42468376>psych-kI'm interested but I don't wanna gamble on a book that may or may not help me.
>>42468295souls have to incarnate and keep trudging along through samsara and hopefully climb out of the flush zone.it's necessary that souled children are reborn back into the rat race, so they can continue the upwards struggle.but not reproducing means you won't forfeit your own soul - and you don't need immediate progeny to reincarnate, i personally know a few cases that i've been tracking. just need a genetically compatable host body. in fact i do sincerely believe that the soul changes how the body grows and forms. like if a baby has soul A, he will look like his past lives, but if that exact same physical bio-clay vessel has soul B, he will grow with a different face and qualities.
>>42463347We have a family revolver passes down for generations with four notches in it. 'Three niggers and a gypsy' i believe is the quotePretty sure that gypsy cursed us
>>42463358quite the opposite really.You change by getting as far away as your problems as you can. Run to the other side of the world & start fresh.'facing your past' just pulls you in deeper
>>42463347Believe in and call on the name of Jesus Christ.Study the scriptues until they're burned into your heart.Raise children up in the law of God.
