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Do you think your expectations of people actually helps to mold them, but in a supernatural way? Like if you hate someone, and secretly want them to be a bad person, do you think you are manifesting influences to mold them to be as bad you want/expect them to be? If you love someone, and want the best for them, even if they are flawed do you think you are manifesting character development that makes them better people?
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>>42580113
No, you have very little control over the decisions of other people. You may see someone you dislike as evil but people are usually more complex than that. There are definitely some people who are just flat out stupid and malicious, but most people you dislike are just rude or have a personality that doesn't resonate with your own. You can only change people's behaviors by having some level of personal influence over them. If they respect you and would like to please you, or they love you, things like that. You don't manifest personality traits in others.
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>>42580113
There would be no homeless people or evil people then. Alot of them grew up in good families with friends and still choose that.
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expectations for other people is a form of violence and are a sign of low self esteem/scarcity mindset

you can have standards, but being outcome independent is better
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>>42580113
When it comes to love, this is literaly
>I can fix her
type of mindset.
You can't. Your love will only feed the person as they are removing the need for change.

When it comes to hate, it's somewhat true. Hate can lead to self - fulfilling prophecy. It takes a strong character to resist it.

In the end, it depends on the will of another person.

If a person wishes to change, hate and love will affect them in the way you proposed.

If they don't wish to change, it will be opposite. Love will lead to affirmation and hate may lead to positive change. Or make them even worse. Depends.
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Words change people. Say nice shit to them and encourage them, and you'll probably help them more than any wish or manifestation ever will. The opposite is true too. Hell, you never know if being an asshole to someone might end up ruining them, lol. People are way more sensitive than they like to admit.
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>>42580113
>is me being evil actually YOUR fault after all???? maybe? somehow? please?
not this shit again no. you're just a dick
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>>42580379
>Say nice shit to them and encourage them, and you'll probably
turn them into an overconfident fuckwad
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>>42580113
There's no control. Just controlling yourself.



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