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I hate having a libido and sexual attraction. I hate the fact that I have this biological compulsion to masturbate. It's disgusting and a waste of time. If I don't masturbate, then I get wet dreams which are also pretty bad.
What drugs could I take that would destroy my libido and sexual desires? I read that SSRIs tend to eliminate or reduce libido, which would be nice. Anything else?
>but but you should like sex! sex!!! our culture is so sex positive, you must masturbate and have sex even if you don't want it
stfu
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>>42593882
Let me give you an story:

One day in some random town a guy decides that he wants to make a fish shop; so he got all the supplies and stuff and finally made it. He then he finally put a sign in front of his shop, saying, "Great fresh fish here".

After a while a guy comes into the store, he gets the fish he needs and goes to pay for it.
"Hey why do you have the word great in your sign? when I'm coming to buy fish here I would already assume that the fish is high quality?", Says the customer. The owner thinks for the while and says
"you know what your right." Then the owner takes the great part out of his sign and now what's left is "fresh fish here".

After a while another guy comes into the store, he gets the fish he needs and goes to pay for it.
"Hey why do you have the word fresh in your sign? everyone sells fresh fish, no one eats old fish; if anything its making me worried that you have to reassure me that they are fresh." Says the customer. The owner thinks for the while and says
"you know what your right." Then the owner takes the fresh part out of his sign and now what's left is "fish here".

After a while another guy comes into the store, he gets the fish he needs and goes to pay for it.
"Hey why do you have the word fish in your sign? Its so obvious that its a fish shop, i can smell the fish from the other side of the street!" says the customer. The owner thinks for the while and says
"you know what your right." Then the owner takes the Fish part out of his sign and now what's left is... Nothing

If you haven't picked it up yet, when you mediate on your desires they tend dissipate; so the next time notice that lustful desires are starting to arise really mediate on it and why you have them to begin with.
If you just go into it raw dog and just suppresses yourself from your desires you tend to become aggressive. That's why there is a trope of the "non-fapper" being easily agitated
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>>42593884
not reading all of that schizo shit
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>>42593887
>Is there a way to get rid of all sexual desires?
>provides a fable
>not reading all of that schizo shit

Quite frankly I see no hope for any deep self development in you; for you, your libido and sexual attraction will only end when your dick stops working and you have grown of age
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>>42593893
I don't have time for that
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>>42593897
And you don't have time to read a 1 min fable?
Good luck with your addiction lol
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>>42593882
>What drugs could I take that would destroy my libido and sexual desires?
Just take some vitamin E. It helps decrease estrogen, which is causing all the horniness. You can also try sunflower lecithin. SSRIs will fuck up other shit in addition to your libido. I'd avoid them if possible.
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>>42593884
First of alll. Delete that fag anime picture (I"m already gettin aroused with griffith). Second, go to the gym or do exercises, you don't destroy your libido with drugs, cause that's gonna destroy your happines gether. Doing exercises will probably lower your testorone (In a healthy way), and you are not gonna feel filled. And you are beeing ocupped with something, not just in some soft porn in the instagram. Third, it's ok if you masturbate sometimes, the problem is the addiction. I'm saing all of that based on my personal experiences.
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>>42593935
you're lying retard kys
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>>42593943
Op i don't think you actually want to hep yourself, you only like the idea
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Why is always with you faggots about getting rid of your desires, drives, ambitions and dreams instead of looking for a way to accomplish them? Why is never about "how could i archive what i want"? A bunch of cucks this site has come down to.
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>>42593948
I genuinely do want to have ZERO sexual desires. I want to focus on studying and other things
this is a completely useless compulsion and desire for me. maybe I am mentally ill but I do not want sex, I want only to study study study
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>>42593954
I DON'T WANT TO have sexual desires
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>>42593882
Griffith had sex multiple times in the manga, dipshit, including wanting to throw himself on casca.
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>>42593961
Then just don't think about it or pay attention to it. "Sexual desire" is just a thought in your head, and just like any other thought, it dissolves if you subside giving importance to it, including all mental and physical sensations. It's called self control, and there's nothing else to it.
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>>42593943
>ask for help
>people give good advice
>start bitching and give the most retarded answers possible

I hope your sexual desire grows so much that you start molesting people on the street, and just like you did, you'll get molested in jail by a bbc
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>>42593882
most antipsychotics will do that to you. although oddly abilify has raised my libido but reduced it in the past. something to do with the dopamine.
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>>42593954
Because they know women are a trap and procreating with them lead to having more souls trapped on this planet without their consent.
And don't get us started on the corrupt power dynamics, possessiveness and jealousy that sexuality create, it's a sinkhole that your animal brain is wired to ignore.
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>>42593893
NTA but if you cant make your point without a faggy fable then your point isnt worth making
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>>42594020
it's bad advice
exercising will raise your testosterone not lower it lmao
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>>42594047
It was provided at the end

>If you haven't picked it up yet, when you mediate on your desires they tend dissipate; so the next time notice that lustful desires are starting to arise really mediate on it and why you have them to begin with.
>If you just go into it raw dog and just suppresses yourself from your desires you tend to become aggressive. That's why there is a trope of the "non-fapper" being easily agitated

How about you read you faggot
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how do I get a libido and sexual attraction back again?
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>>42594066
Cultivate QI
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>>42594066
Look at high-quality butts and your manhood will fix itself.
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>>42594056.

nigga idk too much cientifically but really helps controling your libido, i say that because it really helped me

(I know you want to get the results in an easier way but using drugs would be a bad idea, but at this point I hope you have an od)
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>>42593882
drop preconceived notions
analyse it all
dissecting of feelings, intentions, needs
treating undesired recurring thoughts as background noise
detach acts from thoughts and also from feelings. Detach what and how you feel from needs, free will, free thought, etc.
Learn why and how you feel and how to manage yourself.
"why do I want this? do I want this or am I replacing another thing I want? what's my end goal here? do I actually enjoy this?"
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example
"Porn can give pleasure just by consuming it. Like a movie.
Many want it all the time for masturbating. It's not needed. Neither for sex. I don't quite think is good for me.
Let's pick on it.
Horny? don't need it. Not? get horny viewing? bad habit. don't watch it. do I manufacture my horny?
Is horny and lustful the same? why do you sometimes want sex but you aren't foaming at the mouth in heat? Wait. The bursting feeling is a form of pleasure itself. Most times you drive yourself into it. Same thing that makes you lose control and orgasm fast. Let's get there and not masturbate. Huh...indeed is a feeling of pleasure on itself. I bet I can control it, get in and out of it, and not just indulge mindlessly. Like orgasm control. Like the ones getting tied up do. I'll gain ""control"".
If you want porn but don't want to masturbate or have sex, then why use it? Oh, it feels good just to use, yes. Ok, then let's see what's happening. Stop only seeing the lady. Do you like the dude? no? not gay? isn't this turning you into a cuck? You dislike half the things on screen. It's half gay and full cuck. I try to self insert but...why not just imagine that instead of watching and zoning out the rest. Isn't this what subliminals and hypnotism uses? I'm still seeing the dude there. Let's drop couples with males porn. What about 1st person? If he talks, then drop it. If the camera angle changes drop it. If the dick doesn't look like min drop it. Fuck. Why look it up at all? just do ladies and toys or solo. That and lesbians.
But do you like watching or do you want sex? the girl is an attention whore faking it for money and power. I'm giving coin to assholes, too. I'm wasting time. Again: do I like fake whores acting poorly? Nah. I want sex or watching real woman. It's sad to stare at a screen. I want real. Ok...
blah blah guys can cum without physical stimuli..
blah blah tantric sex
blah blah using masturbation and self discovery and training..."
And you go on like this.
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>>42593882
No you can't remove sexual desire, it's an innate part of being a living breathing human that has a procreation drive.
What you can do is strive to control and regulate it into a healthy or productive manner.
It's when you begin to take measures to control your body that you start realizing those inner desires and urges cease to be a problem. Those thoughts become as leaves blowing through the breeze of your mental thoughts.
This allows you to still engage in that activity if you see fit, but it happens at your command instead of you being commanded by the thought.
This is how you free yourself. Retake your systemic control matrix: the collective of all forms of control over and inside of your body/mind/etc.
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eventually you go "wtf am I doing?" every time it comes up
and only do sexual stuff when you want, if at all
maybe you could even learn to fully enjoy it this way. I know I have. Suddenly kissing isn't a fucking chore to eventually burst and orgasms are leg shaking and real each time.
AND I can just live like a human if I don't want that. Talk about a book to bitches with their tiddies out and shiet.
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>>42594295
you just fucked me up and I wish you blue balls for a week
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>>42594062
>WITHOUT a faggy fable then your point isnt worth making
I did read, how about you read faggot.
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>>42593882
>What drugs could I take that would destroy my libido and sexual desires?
don't eat for a while moron. its this magical thing called fasting
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>>42594386
Fasting only helps temporarily except maybe if you starve yourself to death
Also if you use the internet, relapse is guaranteed and quitting the Internet is very unlikely for most. Yes I am contemplating quitting it.
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>>42593882
>I hate having a libido and sexual attraction. I hate the fact that I have this biological compulsion to masturbate.
Me too but it's unfortunately an inevitable part of the human experience. You could take SSRIs or castrate yourself but then you'd be subhuman.
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>>42594441
You can quit the internet and pray 24/7 in a cave or at home
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>>42594395
>It's guaranteed that I will not be able to control my own mind.
kys
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>>42593980
Its his body. Let him kill his desire however he wants.

People arr changing gender yet its a big problem if a guy wants to end his gooner drive
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>>42594441
Being human is a curse
I look forward to my death, If I must reincarnate on this planet of shit then let me be a humble tree

Ain't nothing good abojt being human in the long run
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>>42593882
No need to harm your body with drugs, do it the time-tested way: seriously commit to relationships. After enough torture and trauma your body won't even respond to the instinct, survival will kick on instead.

From there you're free. No hatred necessary, the truth of experience is enough. Libido is another layer of control, one can't be free so long as one is subject to it.

Ever notice how obsessed culture is about your energy? Yeah that's optional.
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>>42593882
The Raped
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>>42593884
>literally triggered no-fappers

Lol
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>>42593882
Get married ASAP



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