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Which spiritual path is better to deal with the pain of being an incel?
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>>42829929
Lmao if you have a loser mentality and value system you’re always going to be a miserable sack of shit.

You’re just looking for a cop out.
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>>42829929
faith and patience
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>>42829929
you'll find monasticism in most traditions, tho people do that out of their own volition to get closer to god rather than being resentful retards who can't get no bitches and doing that as some kind of weird cope. the memetic mindvirus infected your mind
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>>42829929
the path of the hermit
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>>42829929

Who is the incel
Is it you
Is it your body
Is it your mind
Do you identify with being an incel
Do you... identify with this world
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Pain of being an incel? Why?

Change it.
Literally that is the easy part.
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>>42829938
This is actually sick and disgusting to feed to someone. Go lift and fuck and have kids OP and ignore the yiddish death cult called chriszianity
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>>42829929
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g1GRI-oVFbg
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>>42829929
"Incel" is a word that does not exist in reality. There is no "character flag" in the universe that "designates" you as """incel.""" The universe does not care about such things, it is too preoccupied with providing you everything. "Incel" is just a shackle, an excuse that you have given (given, or accepted) credence to, and it is as tangible as the boogieman in your closet.

If you are lonely and feel undesired, then you must work towards becoming someone worth knowing and worth desiring. Are you caring and nurturing, or self-centered? Are you the type who looks after their own, or just themselves? You should also carefully scrutinize what you want. Are you chasing phantom image of "10 out of 10"s on Instagram? Is that the basis of your deepest desire, a pretty face and an easy nut packaged in a hollow shell? If it truly is, then you will find it. But I doubt you will be happy for it.

Consider also that you may not have found it yet because it is not in your greatest good's interest to find it. I recommend that you explore what true soul or spirit is and seek out the partner that you could stand beside for eternity, rather than the spiritually bereft masses that caused you to put any belief into the term "incel." All that said, it starts with changing your own habits first. The rest will follow.
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>>42829929
stoicism and the pursue of virtue how many generations of men lived their life just like you, how many animals died without offspring how many seeds did not germinate there isnt anything odd about it in fact but you have assignated great value to it it, remove such value and pursue virtue above all things.
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>>42829929
Judaism
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>>42831458
you cant help em man, when people argue for their walls, not even God can destroy them.

>>42829929
Buddhism
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>>42829938
>you're a hero because not a single woman on this planet found you sexually attractive ever in your life
lol
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>>42831541
I'm not sure if bringing attention to a mirror is quite "helping" them. This is something they must do on their own entirely, or they won't do it.
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>>42829929
Gnosticism.

>god is le ebil
>i can haz divine nolidge
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>>42831620
it seems the crux of the problem is sex, but sex isnt the problem cuz anyone can have sex it just wont be with whom you necessarily want. having girlfriend sex is great, but having a girlfriend kinda sucks. go have some gay sex, that should be pretty easy to accomplish. if you cant find a woman you like who also likes you, then thats where you compromising comes into play. women are kinda evil, they manipulate, lie, are unreasonable, cant be held to account and will spend all your money. thats just what they are, how they are wired and theres nothing you can do to change that. sure, Eve tricked adam into eating the fruit, but she also negotiated with god and won. youre adam, deal with it.
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>>42829929

be yourself. put yourself out there, doing things you enjoy. sooner or later, you will find your little community, then possibly more.

of course it helps to be nice, genuine, calm, etc, but dont pretend to be someone youre not, otherwise youll have to keep up the act, forever.

the world is full of all sorts of people. guaranteed, there are others with similar interests. start saying yes to things, even if it makes you slightly uncomfortable.


now, before anyone conflates my words to some twisted end, im not implying, to say yes to EVERYTHING. like, in the matrix, when neo says yes, to follow the white rabbit, to go to the club, that sets forth a whole series of events, that may not have happened, had he just said no, like he normally would. so, say yes, and follow the white rabbit.
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>>42829929
I'm trying to figure this out myself. I don't know any answer, but here's something interesting: in Sufism, there's a belief that if a person is a social misfit, it really means that Allah has separated that person from others so that He may have him all for Himself.

God is all powerful, all merciful. He has ordained all things.

:)
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>>42829929
You should follow Christianity simply because it is true. You should check out this book I've linked below. It's an easy to read single volume work presenting the evidence for Christianity. Please read the whole thing before making any judgements. I would recommend something less "popular level," but I can't assume everyone would (or even can) read something more complicated.

https://www.amazon.com/Dont-Have-Enough-Faith-Atheist/dp/1581345615
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>>42829929

btw, love picrel. never seen it. thx.
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>>42829929
jungian gnosticism by far, do it right and you'll become the furthest thing from an incel there is.
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>>42831714
That's not Gnosticism. Gnostics still believe the Monad is good. The Monad is what you often mean when you say God.

The Demiurge is a lesser being. I hate /x/ knobsticks.
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>>42831821
>shilling some shitty amazon slop
Genuinely thank god that people like you will go to hell, i wish and hope you worst, piece of shit.
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>>42831953
>Exhibit A
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>>42829929
If you find out, let me know. I will say part of the pain is everyone is so obsessed with justifying their delusional internal locus of control copes and just world fallacies that they HAVE to blame us for something outside of our control. In that regard /x/ is one of the worst places to ask because everyone here is prone to magical thinking. It's also why women are so mean about it, they all want to believe in destiny so badly.
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Simply accept that existence in this world is largely randomized.
Accept your lot and focus on things that you enjoy and can succeed in.
Buddhism might be the closest ready-made-packet to learn about acceptance.
In the end tho I would recommend researching alot of ideas and then formulating your version of what you think and hope the truths of this world are.
Here's a thought experiment for you aswell.
Imagine that in your previous life you were a total sexpest, you didn't educate yourself at all, you just had sex most of your life and that was what you enjoyed.
Now think maybe in this current life you wanted something different, you wanted to focus on other things.
These things I talk about come from experience. I went through a deep depression due to never finding love and all my attempts failing every time.
Good luck Anon.

(As a sidenote you could go the route of "looksmaxxing" which some anons here recommended, but in my honest opinion you are either born beautiful or not. Clearly it is like this from experience. If you disagree you can go that route tho.)
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>>42829929
Christianity if you want to be at peace with women without having sex with them

Islam if you want to embrace and increase your hatred for women

Buddhism if you just want a life where you don't even care about women and relationships or have tantric meditative sex with succubi spirits while high on acid and edibles
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>>42829929
Also

Judaism if you want a superiority complex over goyim women
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>>42831762
>having girlfriend sex is great, but having a girlfriend kinda sucks
>women are kinda evil, they manipulate, lie, are unreasonable
>that's just how it is they be that way just trust me bro
I'm not talking about finding your sweetheart in the urbanite lot lizard around your corner. If you can't be asked to go looking in the right places, for the right thing, then you have only yourself to blame. Enjoy the fruits of your labors, such as they are.
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>>42829929
>pain of being an incel
Summon a succubi gf and be happy -- check /succgen/ thread OP post.
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>>42829929
I can't understand any man who talks about being an "incel" like it's a fucking tragedy. I got tired of women and their hypocritical bullshit shortly before 2020. I stopped dating, stopped fucking/fapping. It's been such a peaceful life since then.
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>>42832041
theyre all the same, buddy. ask anyone older than 50, we all know
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>>42832666
AWALT
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>>42829929
>Which spiritual path is better to deal with the pain of being an incel?
any that enables you to become a monk
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>>42829956
>you'll find monasticism in most traditions
This.
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>>42829929
Bhramacharya
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>>42829929
Parasite cleanse, psychedelic, and shadow work.
In that order.
Pic related.
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>>42831953
Gnosticism is a jewish offshoot cult of a jewish religion created by jews for jews
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this one:
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>>42829929
If you actually call yourself an incel then probably LHP.
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>>42829929
Idk about a formal belief system you can follow but I just play videogames, masturbate, and don't bother thinking about it. If the thought does occur it's just like "oh well, can't change it" and I move on with my day. To me, fixating on it would be no different than fixating on my skin or eye color. I can't change it regardless so it's not worth worrying about.
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>>42829929
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Left hand path.

Become a cold, monster.

Be a ruthless business owner.

Make dem moneybags.

Buy dem hookers and escorts.

Win da game.
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>>42832080
Brother, you have already ascended to the third resurrection. I envy you.
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There is nothing inherently wrong with not having sex, or not having a girlfriend. The problem is that incels tend to focus 100% of their attention on this perceived problem, hating women, hating themselves for not having a woman, feeling intense anger and sadness at not having sex, etc etc... This is a horrible way to live.

There are two ways out.

1. You can be voluntarily celibate (a "volcel"). Realize that sex is ultimately a worthless, fleeting pleasure. Filling a hoe's hole won't fill the hole in your soul. I highly recommend the youtube channel "Beyond The Alchemy" for great information on overcoming lust. Realize that the sex drive is a powerful natural drive, and thus if you learn to control it you will have insane control over all parts of yourself. However, lust must not be repressed. Repression is why we have pedophile priests: they try to "fight the demons" of lust all day every day until they end up giving into it in insane ways. There is a trick to this. You need to accept the fact of lust, understand it's normal but know you don't have to give into it. You will discover this on your own.

2. Stop being a fucking loser and get to a point where you can have a girlfriend and have sex. But there is a paradox here...to do this effectively you MUST completely cut out porn, masturbation, all sexual thinking. Once you stop desiring it, you get it. And as you begin exercising, eating right, quitting weed, self-improving, you will find you don't even care that much about sex anymore.

Again. Sex is worthless unless it is with a woman you will love forever. You are not missing out on anything by not having hook-ups in high school or whatever bullshit you're fantasizing about because of /r9k/. I say this as a sex-haver.
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>>42831897
reiterating this. if you'd been properly exposed to the Archetypes early in life, you wouldn't have had any problem to begin with.



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