I want to grow spiritually but if I'm honest all I want is a girlfriend with big boobs, literally all I do is to try to achieve that which just puts me in a position where I'm further and further from that goalOn the other hand I genuinely want to stop acting like a gooner and an animal so growing spiritually would be idealHow can I finally let go?
Resistance is persistence anon. Tell yourself that you are allowed to want a big boob gf. That big boob gfs are good. Then you will lose your weird obsessive this is wrong I shouldn't want it attachment to them. Then spiritual enlightenment and a big boob gf will come.
>>42967086Fantasize about it until the thought is no longer entertaining or has pull. Let it consume your mind for however long it takes. Just don't act on it if your truly seeking. Same goes for any negative thought or urge. Let it bloom and inflate in your mind and just watch it. Don't grab it or call it an identity. It'll grow too big and fall. Then you can look at the pieces and discard what no longer is needed. Good luck.
>>42967123Ok, anon. I'm not OP, but am interested in your causality logic. Why would said object of desire "come" if OP (or me, or anyone) where to stop desiring it?Is it because in OP's case he's basically telling himself that it's (inherently) bad to 'want' a big boob gf? And in that case, 'accepting it' would re-label it and thus he'd be able to achieve it? Thanks. (friggin captcha!)
and what happens if you get one?it will be nice for a while, and time will slowly drag on. the novelty will wear off, she will age, whatever performance you have to do to hold on to such a thing will start to tire youand one day you'll realize it was never worth chasing after in the first place. that all you have is in the here and now whatever that looks like. and its enough
>>42967086Practice Karmamudra within Nyingma school of Tibetan Buddhism. You're welcome.
>>42967086Shadow Work helped me a ton 3 years ago and I think it could help you too. Its also important to understand yourself as best as you can while taking notes on your progress and ideas.
>>42967086>Hygeine and grooming>Lift weights>Read booksChange the habits, see the results.
>earth life: 60-100 years>afterlife: 300-infnity yearsset your priorities straight
>>42967086Start meditating or praying.It is unironically that easy.
Bump
>>42969611bumping yo mama atm as we speak anon. In a sec i will flood her cavernous ass with my baby butter
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