if it plays a role when we were born, what if the day we leave makes a difference? are there any special energies that makes it easier for the others? for example when leaving at your bday, then they dont have two sad days, but just one. or celebration days like all saints or a beloved number? i cant live in this world and i know how i want to go, and i decided also when, but perhaps i need more preparation, go this way with me for a bit, until i can let you go.