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>>9106276>Incontinent girl makes a wish that she can stay dry>Meguca outfit comes with matching diapers>Witches out and tries to regress her fellow megucas
>>9106320Honestly, this could easily slot into Persona.
>>9106298I want to diaper Uruka.
Amelia diaper art fucking when?
>>9106392Why, just to cause a little chaos in her fan community?Honestly, based.
so what diapers are you guys buying nowadays? the price of all of them seems to have skyrocketed and on top of that a lot of retailers seem to be constantly out of stock or a lot of their diapers are discontinued
>>9106320>trade your soul for diapersKinda sounds like a shit deal to me.
>>9106437I mean, Madoka almost gave hers for a big cake...>>9106414Haven't bought in a while, but ABU LittlePawz, Crinklz/Betterdry M10, Incontrol BeDry, Kiddo Playtime, and a lot of boosters (Incontrol, and at some anon's recommendation, Tranquility Topliner Super).I've ordered a pack of Tykables to see if I like their fit. Going to give Tranquility ATN and Abena M4 a look for shorter-duration wear as well. Mostly just trying a bunch of brands so I have options.Just do some math (price/quantity) and figure out what fits in your budget. Having a lot of brands you know fit in helps with availability issues.
I can't wear diapers, it's not that im not allowed, it's literally because my body refuses. Im not even fat, im skinny as hell.>skin immediately breaks out and get rashes once one is put on (I've tried different brands, same result included unscented)>chronic hemorrhoids, pooping is always painful, also making wiping difficult>skin breaks out if diaper is wet as well>baby wipes causes rashes even if I change right away, tried different brands as well>messing takes forever to cleanup, taking a shower is significantly easierFuck this shit im taking the caregiver pill. Its not worth it.
>>9106490Nigga visit a dermatologist.
>>9106494Its genetic and I have very sensitive skin. It doesnt happen when I wear regular clothing.
>>9106490Maybe try cloth diapers then? It's a little more work but it's the same fabric as ordinary clothes.
>>9106495Sounds like latex allergy.
>>9106414Kiddo is my darling brand nowadays. But even they seem to be having stocking issues.
>>9106298>>9106348She's going to need them after all that chipotle
>>9106490have you tried cloth diapers?
>>9106590shit-potty? mommy says I'm not supposed to use words like dat
>>9106414Megamax USA(V2), LNGU, and Bambino Ultrastretch are some of my favorites. The 2nd & 3rd brands go on sale semi-frequently, so watch out for those if you're interested
>>9106654How often does LGNU go on sale? I was interested in the Dragoonz, but $140 for a case is pretty steep.
>>9106437i mean for an infinite supply...
>>9106481>trade your eternal soul for a cake that will last maybe an hourThis is why you don't listen to Mami.>>9106705>hey QB I want to make the deal>k, what do you want>an unlimited supply of diapers>that's gotta be the dumbest wish I've heard yet, but sure>wish affects your outfit and combat abilities (as seen by Sayaka getting improved healing from her wish)>literally useless in combat>outfit is an overly elaborate onesie>"power" is to shit yourself and cry>get immediately merked by a witch or another opportunistic magical girlMeanwhile the satanic gerbil gets another easy battery for his wacky entropy plan.
Anyone uses text sloppa to do more elaborate rp than just 10 minute goon sessions?
Who wants to see RWBY girls diapered?
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>>9106668Last sale was around Black Friday for 20% off. And I hear ya, man, ABDL diapers are definitely a luxury item nowadays. If you want a good blend of performance and affordability, then Betterdry/Crinklez is what I'd recommend. They have single-use tapes, though; you either get it right the first time, or live with a sub-par tape job.
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>>9106668>DragoonzWhat is this a nerf musket?
>>9107196It has dragon designs on it.
>>9107198I see.Thank you for taking time to educate me, friend.
>>9107198>Not a Final Fantasy IV Dragoon-themed diaperOne day, bros...
>>9107359>Not chocobo diapersI wish we had more rpg characters in diapers.
>>9107359>Not Dokibird themed diapersIt needs to be made
Something I've always wondered about for those that have this fetish, how many of you are able to have sex or get off normally without involving diapers or ageplay? Personally, I have a really hard time without involving fetishism of some sort but I have no clue how common a problem that is.
>>9107564No real issue. I just prefer ABDL, but i can get off the vanilla stuff just fine.
>>9107564Can't do vanilla. Never developed the inclination for it. I am diapersexual.
>>9107564My wife and I do regular sex, pegging, and diaper stuff mostly separately with some overlap. There are times where craving one makes it hard to do the other but I usually overcome that by imagining I'm doing the one I'm longing to do.
>>9107564I mean it depends on the mood I'm in at the time but having a fetish hasn't overridden anything else, I like vanilla sex scenarios as much as anyone
>>9107564What's sex?
>>9107564I had issues with it until I finally got to a point where my wife went all-in with it and I got a good 24/7 month of diapers and mommy treatment. After that I basically "had my fill" and wanted to fuck normally for a while until the abdl desires built back up. So for me it's like a need that has to be addressed before I can return to a less kinky state. I can enjoy vanilla sex but only if I feel like I've got a connection with that person and that requires them to have previously indulged my abdl side.
>>9107564>that's the neat part, you don't!
>>9107564I have virtually no sexual interests outside of ABDL. This fact has never particularly bothered me as I also have virtually no interest in ever having a relationship. I wonder how things would go for those wanting a relationship; that's truly a cursed fate.
>>9107564I can cum to other stuff. But as for the last month I have only been able to orgasm while padded
>>9107564I have a large/high libido, so most anything sexual can actually 'set me off'. I'm also a virgin, and would like to have sex at least once before I die. Diapers just seems to be a thing I've had since I was a kid>>9107782It's hell on earth, my friend
I think I've finally hit full degen brain rot, all I can think about all day is diapers, I think huffing and humping my soaked Pampers changed my brain chemistry
>>9108093I like the idea of medical restraint but unless it trails into mental regression via drugs, hypnotherapy, etc it's just kind of boring.
>>9108210and I don't want an image to hold my hand to get all the fantasy. if it shows a scene and says little else I can fill the rest of the story on my own whatever I might want at the time. that lady is restrained. what now? you decide. maybe she's getting lobotomized or getting drugged for the rest of her life. maybe she's just getting her identity stolen while she's locked up in diapers for good knows how long. viewer decides. makes an image much more useful. an image where you see everything that happened is useful once or twice.
>>9108093Even for sloppa, this is bad
>>9108218fair enough.I found them enjoyable enough to throw out there.to each their own I guess
There's a load of diaper threads on /b/ rn
>>9108294someone trying to fight the oreofag/pornspammer no doubt
>>9108310Futile endeavor honestly, but I admire their effort.
>>9108310I just don't get spamming the threads. I guess because its b, but before he started posting they would barely get any traction unless there was some dedicated anons. Now its like a Streisand effect where the threads last longer and get posted more frequently
>>9108218>>9108243I wouldn't call it bad even for sloppa.
>>9108621Shut the fuck up mush brain.
>>9108666No.
This new captcha feels like a never-ending kindergarten test
>>9108828i can see why that would be difficult for you.
>>9108828>every captcha helps train AI so we need new captchas that AI can't solve as easilyPain desu.
>>9108877Captchas were solved way before AI
Have you guys traced your ABDL origins? How did diapers balloon into a full-blown fetish for you? What's the earliest fascination with diapers you can remember? If you guys are like me, it wasn't sexual in the beginning and just... developed that way.
>>9109300Yeah, mine is early childhood trauma that seems to have set this fetish in stone for me. I can't think of a time I haven't had daily thoughts going back to even before I was in school.
>>9109300Mine developed in my 30s as part of a humiliation kink. It still feels that way, but then wearing them more it became comforting. I had a lot of trauma happen in my 30s and they helped me feel at ease and safer. So, half n half trauma and humiliation.
>>9109300Same. I was interested in diapers for as long as I could remember, but learned very quickly very early on that it was not something I could ever talk about with anyone else ever. In adolescence my fascination turned into a fetish and filled in for whatever sexuality I would've probably developed normally. Nearly two decades later it's still there.
>>9109300I was potty-trained almost before I could walk. I had vague memories of wanting to wear "big boy underwear," but the moment my mom switched me over to briefs, I wanted to switch back. I remember desperately missing the feeling of my Pull-Ups. Not for a sexual reason (I was a little kid), and not because I wanted to go potty in them; I just wanted the sensation back. I would sneak into my younger cousin's rooms and steal their Pull-Ups and wear them in private. That's probably what made me like girly diapers.The first time I felt attracted or aroused at diapers was when my folks let a friend of theirs crash at our house. He had a daughter who I quickly developed a crush on. She was older than me (somewhere between 9 and 12 years old), but I remember being shocked to find that she wasn't night-time potty-trained. We were sharing a room and her dad came in and had to change her. I pretended not to look, but I peaked over the edge of my bunk bed as she laid on her back on the floor and I saw everything. When he threw away the diaper, I snuck it out of the trash and hid it behind the drawers of my dresser along with a clean one I lifted from her bag.Eventually, I got careless and left it in my underwear drawer. My mom found it and questioned me about it and I gave some childish, unbelievable lie about how it got there. I knew she was skeptical, but I don't know what she thought of the situation: finding a young girl's diaper in her son's underwear drawer.Anyway, it evolved into a fetish as I became pubescent and started seeking pleasure and porn. It makes me sad that I can't get the innocence of it back. My favorite sensation in the world was sliding the elastic fabric of the Pull-Ups up over my legs, but I hardly feel anything anymore.
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>>9109300As best I can tell it came preinstalled from the factory. Mine started when I was young, and just didn't go away. Didn't want to potty train and then snuck a pullup from another kid a year or two later and got caught. It disappeared for a few years, then I got curious and googled stuff. I re-found it and put a label on it. ABDL. Add in another year or two and then puberty hit, made it stick and now I'm stuck with it.Originally tried to get rid of it to no avail and kept it as private as I can. I just wanted to be "normal". Went through a really rough week a few years ago where I lost a few lbs mentally struggling with it, and came out of the other side a lot more confident in myself and my affinity towards diapers.I don't need diapers to get off (thankfully), but they do help.
>>9109300>10 or 11 years old>procrastinated on a school project>have the "genius" idea of wearing one of my younger sisters' goodnites so I don't have to take bathroom breaks while working on it>it makes my peepee feel funnyI was doomed at that exact moment
>>9109300>6 years old>feel funny seeing my sister's diapers>sneak into her room one day and try to put one on>get caught, never try again>eventually find diaper porn looking up "princess peach in diapers" at around 10 or 11 years oldthat's when I was doomed to be a diaper loving nintoddler for life
>>9109468also I may or may not have gotten molested at some point but that might not have anything to do with my diaper fetish
>>9109300I have a few suspicions, there is a chance that my Dad leaving and my Mom having to take care of heaps of things made it so I just felt her distant and cold since I was very small. Also, apparently I grew teeth very soon so she barely breastfed me so I could have been lacking that closeness (at least I heard thats why I wasn't breastfed for long)During a Christmas dinner, an aunt of mine got a bit too tipsy and mentioned my Mom always took care of me very diligently, even made sure to my uncircumcised dick peeled back for health reasons. Which could be real, but also I suspected may be I got abused? heck, impossible to knowOnly thing certain is that almost simultaneously when I became self aware, around 5 years old, I remember yearning to wear diapers again and wanting to go back to being a baby again, it just never stopped ever since.
>>9109300It took me longer to learn to walk than other children. Instead, I would sit upright on the floor and then pull myself forwards with my legs. This is probably why I'm into messing a lot more than most of the anons here. Apart form this, I had few diaper experiences of any kind as a child; it only became a prominent interest when I was a teenager, when I randomly started having persistent fantasies about this.
>>9109300For me, this falls into the Venn diagram of liking power exchange and watersports/scat, as well as discovering I could fall into littlespace. I found these three things on their own and then had a sort of Reese's cup moment.
How much art is there of Dragon Quest girls in diapers?
>>9109546 a little. there was some art made when the last game came out.
>>9109549I wish there was more...
>>9109550be the change you want to see in the world
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>>9109300>empty box of pullups parents used to store stuff in>look at it everyday because it was in my rooms closet99% sure it was the box and wondering what it was like to wear them that caused it
>>9109300I can't say for certain but I have some idea of what did it. I've been obsessed with diapers for nearly as long as I can remember, from as early as starting school, and I think it started from daycare when I was around four or five. I don't recall much from those years but I vividly remember one day I saw some kid being told off for using the urinal in the bathroom while he was still in diapers. I think some combination of seeing an older kid wearing and being told he was supposed to be using them did something to my developing brain and gave me a fixation.For as long as I've been able to remember since I've been absolutely obsessed but I never got to try wearing them until I was an adult. Nothing specifically happened to turn it into a sexual fetish either, just by the time I hit puberty and started getting boners, diapers would do it for me long before I was interested in anything else sexual.
>>9109618Ohey, a comm I got
>>9109300>earliest memory I remember>be in hospital>must've been a toddler or so because I was still supporting myself while walking>remember shitting myself in my crib and nurse changing meI never had a chance.
>>9109681It's a very nice comm. I've always adored just the sight of diaper packs, adds something extra to any scenario.
>>9109715Yeah, agreed. Diaper packs in decently large quantities have become a bit of a subfetish fixation for me since I got that piece. Something about clear evidence that you go through a ~lot~ of diapers makes me hnnnng.
>>9109715>>9109716Nah but this for real, I get them in some of my commissions as well and I adore the "you'll be using these" aspect they add, either in a positive or negative setting Also rare and difficult to get a lot of used diapers into an image like the full bag in the genie without it being gross, so good idea there (I like the "you used all these and are such a baby/stinkypants/pantswetter etc aspect too but a bunch of used diapers gets gross fast even conceptually)
>>9109716>>9109817The diaper aisle at a store is a similar but different vibe I also like but I find it hard to beat a stack of fresh diapers unpackaged ready to go on a change table for really saying "you are going to be going in all of these" and I like the inevitability (even if the character likes their diapers, where it's a comforting and reassuring feeling to know all that padding will be just as warm and comfy as the diaper they're currently in)
I finally gave up and made a FetLife account, and now I'm sending pamp pics to someone in my area
>>9109825Congrats anon! I hope it all works out for you! I've been to a couple of munches now, and its honestly more rewarding then hanging out with normies.
>>9109825Time to get kidnapped into some abdl basement.
God I just want a girl to grope my diaper and tell me how I've been such a bad boy that I don't deserve anything, not even to be touched like this as I squirm and wriggle, but my hands are tied above my head, and I have no choice but to listen as she teases and makes fun of me for all the horrible things I've done and how I've earned this fate as dumb diaper dork. Is that so hard to ask?
>>9109843Like God, sometimes I feel so stupid with this fetish and I hate having it around. It just feels so hard to try and date people when all Im thinking is if this person would actually like me for me. I just want to he honest and up front about, and if people like it, they like it. I want the shame and humiliation I feel for having this fetish to be used as fuel for my sexual tension and energy
>>9109300It was weirdly self-enforcing. Like a few other anons I was immediately preoccupied with diapers, and used to diaper my stuffed animals with my own left-over diapers before my parents bothered to get rid of them. As I got older, I also developed substantial anxiety issues and a desperate need to be seen as mature, reliable, and respectable. In my defense I had sperg interests and adults were the only people who would talk to me about shit like the finer points of submarine design, so I had to curry their favor. Together, these culminated in an extreme fear of some kind of humiliating event that would destroy my reputation, and since I already had this preoccupation with diapers and was still at an age when the risk of an accident felt real, naturally my brain chose to be terrified of that. Being terrified of it only made me focus more on the preoccupation, so things proceeded mostly the way you would expect as I got into puberty. The one wrinkle in it is I also had (and have) a preoccupation with medical and emotional care. Much as I diapered my stuffed animals, I would also rescue them from dangerous situations and comfort them. I'm tempted to call it a fetish because it feels very much like one, but it's never actually made my dick hard on its own. But because of that, when I started to get into diapers sexually, it was more from a CG perspective. I fantasized about reassuring someone who suddenly needed diapers and helping them through the experience, protecting them from the humiliation and debasement I feared so much.That's still my primary fantasy, but I broadened my horizons when I discovered how to find diaper shit on the internet. I like pretty much whatever now, though I don't care for AB and mental regression is a hard no. Actually wearing myself came last, mostly out of the conclusion that it was extremely unlikely I would ever find a partner I could ever indulge my fantasy with. Learned to like it a lot though.
>>9109861up until what you said of no AB and AR hard NO I kept thinking... "fuck... should I just try being gay and find a dude who is a wholesome CG like this?"Its weird to be too horny to call myself asexual but not horny enough to state "I am into this for the sexual release", and saying I do it for comfort, self care and I love considering myself cute just feels wrong somehow.
>>9109681>>9109618God I wish that were me
>>9109469I think I was also molested too, anon. I had a weird memory come back where I was in daycare and the daycare lady woke me up from my nap time for some reason. Maybe I'm misrembering and I just pissed myself and needed to get changed, but now I feel kinda confused by it.I also remember at a different daycare place that I scolded by the daycare lady for still wetting my diapers when I should be learning to use the potty. Im sure that didnt contribute to anything
>>9109300I swear that, somewhere around my first memory, I had a glimpse of a memory of getting a diaper change.I can't explain it, but since I was school age, I rubbed my cock thinking about being regressed to a baby and fantasized about it throughout my adolescence. It didn't ever start, it was my whole life. I was not sexually abused, as far as I know.I don't deny the possibility: I was an only child, but I'm thirty five and no one has revealed it even as a 'fuck you scum you're pathetic' kind of thing.
>>9109917>Try being gayFelt. I would if I could; it's probably my only shot at a partner, at least in this context. I tried experimenting but I just couldn't get interested in guys. I'm pretty comfortable diapering up with friends though.>No/hard noThey're mostly just things I'm not into. If I had a gf who was into ab I think I could indulge her but it would take some practice. Regression would be tougher. The idea of it is genuinely really frightening to me. Like proper phobia. If a gf wanted me to roleplay it I'd have to try (not like I could expect someone to indulge me without trying to indulge them), and on some fronts the idea of trying to indulge someone in something I don't know how to actually do sounds really cute and romantic, but I think I'd have a hard as hell time doing it right.
>>9109938What is it that throws you off of mental regression? For me, as a guy, I love the idea of being so stupid that I have to rely on other people to do things for me. That I don't have a single thought going through my pretty little head, and that it also leads to people having their way with me. Is it just the dependency that freaks you out? Or is it more about the role-playing and what it means?
>>9109942Any kind of permanent dependency freaks me out (regardless of which side I'm on), and mental regression represents a pretty severe sort of identity death. I like making people whole again or being made whole again. The idea of someone losing some huge part of themselves forever is the most frightening thing I can imagine. I would rather die, and by a wide margin. If you've read Flowers for Algernon, that book scared the living hell out of me.I figure you're clear on this, but just to make sure, I don't mean any of this with the least bit of judgement. I can't really explain why I'm the way I am either, and it's not better or worse than the way anyone else is.
Reminder that chicks make bigger messes than you ever could.>>9109300I've been into omorashi for the longest time, and it just evolved into diapers over time, reaching a crescendo a few years ago when I found some female Depends in my closet after an old relative left them in there (she was staying in my room, much to my dismay). One thing led to another and now I wear diapers for fun.Of course I'm still into omo, and will happily hold to the point of pissing my pants. There's nothing quite like the feeling of a bladder filled with pee and no place to relieve yourself.
>>9109956Addendum: a big part of my primary fantasy is that diapers carry this threat of erasing your maturity and respectability in your own self image and in the eyes of others. To me, the really hot (and romantic) part is making sure that doesn't happen, and making the diapered person feel secure that it won't happen. It's about trusting and being trusted enough to trade a profound vulnerability like a diaper change and not feel like it was going to destroy who the two of you were to each other and the world. Sorry I'm posting these without art. I'm a furfag and don't have much human stuff saved
>>9109917>should I just try being gayYou'll be faking it if you're not already the slightest bit attracted to guys / buttsex, which you'll have to succumb to at some point if you truly wanted to be with a man.Not worth the pain and frustration at all imo if you're just into diapers. Enjoy it for what it is, I have. Though I can still be attracted to regular women without kink shit being a necessity.
As your maturity ebbs, wonderful vistas of babyishness reveal themselves
>>9109956>>9109966I never read the book, but I watched a High School play of Flowers for Algernon and the Always Sunny episode, Flowers for Charlie, so I get what you're saying. The loss of mental capacity is scary and especially as an outsider.I think the only flaw is thinking that people don't want to be mentally regressed. That being a dumb diaper baby isn't simply a state of mind people find themselves in. I compare it to being drunk or high, where you enter a headspace thats unlike anything else and you reach a certain "truth" (people tend to be more "honest" when drunk). Denying someone that ability I think does more harm than good. Littlespace is essentially a form of mental regression, and can ultimately be a healthy dynamic with the right people.I guess the dynamic you'd be looking for is someone who's just a DL with very little AB attributes, as even someone like me who's primarily a DL, I can't deny that I also love mental regression and giving up control.
>>9109300It was always my thing since my earliest memories. I never had a chance.>My older siblings were kidnapped and I think it played a role in how my mom raised me because she felt guilty or something so she's always coddled the shit out of me>Kept me in diapers and fed me baby bottles until my fifth birthday, only stopping when my dad came back from sea and saw what was happening - I remember him yelling at her>By that age I was already very fond of the sensations, the warmth and squishiness, the scent of baby powder and fresh Pampers - I don't like scat and don't shit them today but I know I liked it at the time>Was rushed through potty training since I had to start kindergarten within a few months>I remember crying about not getting to wear diapers anymore and staying in my room for an entire day, also took a shit on the floor in protest which pissed my dad off a lot>My older brother's room was turned into a giant closet and I found a huge box of my Pampers in it>Took two out of the box and tried to wear them secretly but got caught both times, first time I tried flushing it down the toilet which clogged it - after that the box disappeared>Got my first computer at age six, unrestricted internet access, first thing I searched up when I was left alone was "diaper">Discovered DPF and Deeker, quickly learned about masturbation at age six>Also had some traumatic shit happen like police aiming guns at me when I was five, a group of teens in my new neighborhood hitting me with a baseball bat and trying to blind me when I was eight, my school guidance counselor threatening to kill me (also at 8yo), etc.>Just wanted to regress ever since and basically have been a hikki loser since elementary school because every time I stepped outside I was being bullied, stoned, threatened with death, etc.
Pretty positive a minor got into the /trash/ thread, so I'm gonna stay out of there for a while so that can be sorted.
>>9109840after keeping it to myself for my entire life i finally just want someone to at least know, ive been feeling more and more desperate out of nowhere so i wanted to atleast try somethingwere possibly gonna meet up next week, so hopefully things go well
>>9107564>how many of you are able to have sex>implying anyone has sexI can't cum unless I'm lying on my back or reclined. I immediately lose erections when standing, and I never really hump so I'm super out of shape so I doubt I would actually be able to have sex even if I had the opportunity. I e-dated some girls but couldn't cum on cam for them, too much anxiety and it's next to impossible to cum without my dick being either in a diaper or wrapped in my blanket which I use to fap in as a makeshift diaper.
>>9109984I'll also add, if your primary thing is helping people, maybe think about how you can help people realize their full potential of being little.For example, if I go to bed with a diaper and have an accident, I could wake up the next morning feel guilty for not making it to the potty. Rather than feeling the shame associated with it, you could say that its okay and thats how Im supposed to wake up, and its a good thing I didnt get my sheets wet. It's still playing into the little/big dynamic, while avoiding mental regression.Idk, maybe I also have a wrong way of thinking that mental regression and diapers are super related. Tell me if Im wrong anon
>>9107564It's harder for me to cum without a full bladder. I mean it's not impossible, but needing to pee helps a lot.
>>9109984I would definitely at least try to do it for someone who asked. Besides, my fantasies do still focus on making someone feel safe. I'm more interested in safety from judgement/dismissal, but whatever. Two sides of the same coin. I do get where AR people are coming from, I think. I do feel like I lost something of myself growing up, and I could be tempted to call suppressing it dishonesty. I'm just not sure I could get there with AR. I'm a pilot. I love airplanes, but loving airplanes as an adult with a license is more nuanced than loving them as a kid, and sometimes it feels less profound. More broadly, I feel like as a kid I had an easier time truly recognizing and appreciating beauty. If I thought I could get that back by shitting myself and watching DragonTales you bet your ass I'd try it.
>>9110002>if I thought I could get that by shitting myself and watching Dragontales you bet your ass I'd try itI mean, I get there by pissing myself and playong GameCube games, but to each their own
>>9109985>my older siblings were kidnappedJesus Christ anon. How is this the least crazy part of the post
>>9110018But you are able to get there? What I would want out of my childhood is to really, truly appreciate how big the world and vast the universe is again. I want to feel those things and not just know them. I want to just stare at the desert and mountains with love and wonder the way I used to. All of these things are still in me, but I feel like they're easy to miss, and I have to dig for them. Do people pursue existential shit like this through AR, or is it pretty much just an insulation-from-adult-expectations thing? One disconnect I've always had with other fur and diaperfags is I specifically like being a fairly normal adult. Even though I'm a furfag, I don't not wear a tail and ears and make animal noises to fit in with society. I don't do those things because they never occurred to me and they don't mean anything to me. I only ever stopped doing two things to meet social expectations. One was sleeping with stuffed animals, which I went back to doing in college and stuck with forever after. The other was obviously, constantly playing make-believe. I do wish there was some way I could have kept doing that, but I mostly replaced it with writing and have gotten on okay. I guess what I'm asking is if you think I'd get anything out of it if I tried.
>>9110026I think if you found someone who was similar, you could explore that side of who you are more. I'm similar in regards to furry stuff and for me, diapers do play a huge aspect for AR and MR. Something about the soft padding really triggers something in my brain and I'm more accepting of a littlespace than if I'm not padded. It helps that I also have paraphernalia likes onesies and pacis to help feel even smaller, and in general I'm stuck in some arrested development from childhood.In terms of different perspectives or existential shifts, I'd say diapers could help contribute to that, if you're already accepting of a little space. Imo, I think any sort of existential change is usually a result of doing mushrooms at least once, even a micro dose. It's hard to force yourself into looking at the world differently, as you usually already have to be open to change
>>9109986I'm in my early 20s dumb ass
>>9110066Even so, there's no way you're cis. Cis chicks know how dangerous it is for them here, that's why you don't see them in these threads. There's a shit ton of freaks on here.
>>9110072It's an anon platform. It's safer than any actual communities
>>9110072>implying cis women can't be freaksI keep going to kink events and seeing genuinely elderly women at them, so I can't help but think that freakiness knows no gender
>>9110075Oh I never said that (hell, I'm with one). I just meant that cis women who are diaperfags don't go on 4chan. It's either men or trans women.
>>9110072>Cis chicks know how dangerous it is for them herenewfags pretending this here is some hardcore rape cult will never not be funny
>cis>cis>cisYou need to go back
>>9110076Saying 4chan is scary in 26 is crazy work. When it's an anon platform you're more likely to get stalked on like /cgl/ or /vt/. Not some boards where you aren't giving people anything.
>>9110078>having sympathy for the republicThe separatists just want free trade among systems with the republic taking all of their money
>>9110084Though using cis to refer to 99.9% of the population is cringe, the Confederacy of Independent Systems is based,
>same one deflection jokeI know what you are
>>9110084>>9110086I don't understand this joke and I won't look it up.
>>9110094CIS is the acronym used for the Separatists in the Star Wars prequel trilogy, that's it.
>>9110094It's the default fallback cope they use when they get exposed.
>>9110103The only thing exposed is my diaper when I go to bed
>>9110099oh I see>>9110103I don't think making silly jokes is really cope? I don't even really like using mean words as an anon.
>>9109300it started out as being into omorashi after a couple of close calls, then I found a video of a girl "going to the bathroom in her pants" using a diaper and the rest is historythere were occasions where my dad caught me looking up diaper cyoas but he's never brought it up.is it bad that I kinda wish my parents knew about this so I wouldn't have to worry about hiding this or am I overthinking things
>>9110078>>9110086>>9110103>being triggered by a three-letter wordwhat a fucking cissy
>>9110214>is it bad that I kinda wish my parents knew about this so I wouldn't have to worry about hiding this or am I overthinking thingsDepends on your parents. As a kid, before I knew anything about computers one day in the really early morning I got up before everyone and mustered up the courage to look up ABDL online. I opened 30 browser windows before doing it, thinking that my browser history would only be in the 30th browser window's history. That's not how computers work, and my dad caught me later on in the day and scolded me harshly for it. Caused me to learn to hide my tracks a lot better.Years later when I ordered a case of Bambino diapers to my house (back when Bambino was the only ABDL company around), it arrived before I could get home, and my mom brought the package in and opened it without checking who it was for, then confiscated them and screamed at me. She took those diapers to goodwill and I never saw them again. I was furious for like a month, I spent what little money I had on those, and learned after how to order diapers to other hold-for-pickup locations to avoid my parents getting involved at all.Do I wish my parents accepted it? Yeah, it would've made things a lot easier, I wouldn't have had to hide things so much. But I really just didn't want to involve them at all in the first place.
>>9106300this is hecking cute, who is this?!!?!
>>9110217Ah, to be able to pad freely.
>>9109300When I was younger I had issues with incontinence so mix that with me finding diapers interesting and it was over from the start. Until around the second grade it was rare but I would sometimes piss myself and I wore pullups because I would pee every night. It felt very safe being in pullups. My mother would also use a diaper when we went to church and I remember being in love with the diaper. The way it felt around me and the security of not caring if I wet myself made me obsessed. When I went to summer camp I always peed myself at night and had to hide my dirty pants, and I vividly remember just wanting to go in a warm diaper. I always felt awful about peeing myself, but never about wearing a diaper and until I was about 10 I had wished I could be in diapers 24/7.My favorite part of the fetish are the changes. I have memories of my mom changing me and how nice it felt. I remember certain diaper changes too like when it was my birthday and how happy I was to see my friends as I was being changed. I didn't care, I liked them seeing my penis and my diaper and I liked that I was getting a new one on.
Been really into LinagainDL lately. Might not be the best art out there but their wetting / omutsu scenarios are absolutely peak
>>9110889forgot the fkn image
>>9110889I guess it's okay if you like regression stuff or diaperboys
>>9110895I def dig Ramona being horny over Scott peeing in diaps. If only she did it alongside him too
>>9110899i wonder how long that keeps up. At this point i kinda respect it when the cg doesn't also wear diapers. It's usually like the first thing people ask for, other than maybe lactating nipples.
>>9110903they're just gonna draw whatever they wanna draw
this caption actually is like one of my fav wetting scenarios not much of a mabel / gravity falls fan tho
Only they posted on twitter and not the Potential App know as Bsky
>>9110933I literally only use blusky for abdl art
Have Hyro or Soap been updated on Kemono lately?
hopefully not
>>9110933>libcucks are known to be more artsy>cry when they leave a nazi site
>>9110901Not sure who this artist is but I really like their stuff. This one specifically is my favorite of the batch. Reminds me of my girlfriend and I and it makes me feel warm inside.
>>9110034You ever find a chick who can casually do this in front of you, she's a keeper
New Vegas is really fun even disregarding the diaper mod I installed.
>>9110214>diaper cyoasWould you mind sharing the templates?
>>9110217I have never once desired understanding from my parents. I have always understood that this was a disorder that needed to be hidden, not accepted. I did, however, tell my sister when I was a very little kid when we were sharing secrets. She said she'd tell me something after I told her something; I told her about my diaper fetish and she told me about her obvious crush. I felt like it wasn't a fair trade. I have no idea if she remembers, but I'm not about to find out and risk resurfacing that memory.
>>9110889Artstyle pleasant scenarios are amazing characters are eh though most aren’t dealbreaking for me and a lot of times I can kind of look past that and focus on the captions or dynamic shown
>>9109300Just one of those people that just had that benign interest in it from the start , also probably contributed by facts like how I was closer to 5 getting out of them (in the day) or the fact that Id get erections at a young age for whatever reason, only part that I can never figure out is how the embarrassment of it all got in my mind because I was Having somewhat fantasies of the more forced into being babied or whatever be it by some naive babysitter or girl playing house or whatever at like 7 no clue where that even came from because that feels like something that’d normally start a bit later than it did for me
>>9111146it wasn't a templat, it was a fic from way back whenI think the main character was a high school girl learning she was an heiress to a small kingdom where they don't pottytrain until after high school
>>9109546Which one would be in diapers, hard mode no Veronica / Maribel
>>9110908I mean she is 13 ffs
DammitMy room stinks of dirty diapers now.
>>9111331>mom walks in What do?
>>9111339kys
>>9109575Bina is such a diaper baby. Unironically diaper crept Furina if you ask me. I don't know what mihoyo design philosophy behind hydro girls is, but hydro girls always seem to make the best diaper girls.
>>9111146https://files.catbox.moe/wpeoas.pnghttps://files.catbox.moe/nvoi3f.pngUnless someone made a more specific abdl version, there is only the agere one.
>>9111245The two dancer girls from 4 would definitely be wearing diapers either genuinely or as part of an effort to make more cash.
Is there an up-to-date floof archive? The one on Ex hasn't been updated in half a year.
your fave fighting game girlsbeating each other upbutthey're wearing diapers (either diaper only or diaper but with shirt and shoes or standard outfit but with diaper underneath etc etc)
>>9111544Stop stop, I am supposed to not be erect while on the clock, sar.
>>9111548umm, the diapers are also poopy but they keep fighting each other because they're true warriors with a point to prove
>>9111550You could have only got me more erect if you said that based on the state of their health bar their diapers would get more used, including mandatory cut in cut scenes of them wetting or messing.
>>9111552they change each other in between rounds out of courtesy even if they're bitter rivals
>>9111026how am I supposed to take my eyes off your gigantic diaper you stupid fucking Wonder Bimbo
>>9111339"guess I need stock up on deodorant haha"
>>9111582the last thing you see before the game over screen is her tossing a flip flop at your face at mock speed.
hypnotizing a Pokemon trainer into being a Preschooler trainer classstopping the hypnosis when their diaper is full
>>9111663I don't really understand the embarrassment kink one hundred percent of the time but sounds hot.
>>9111625*mach
>>9109300An 18 year old from a anime chatroom had a crush on me and didn't realize I was underage. She kept calling me a baby after that and it eventually caused this.
big diaper is real, don't let anyone tell you it's not. Northshore becoming more ab-friendly is proof of that
>>9111900>xxxl goodnites is proof of that
>>9111902goodnites and pullups are anti-diaper
How would you react if mainstream diaper companies (Luvs, Depends) started doing ABDL marketing like Northshore?
>>9111912I'd try it out.
>>9111912Then ABDL would become more mainstream and less taboo which would make it less kinkyWhat they could do is hiring adults for funny baby diaper commercials, the theme could be about how stretchy and durable the diaper is or that they're so comfy they don't wanna grow out of them
>>9111912If by marketing you mean making similar quality products, I'd be delighted. Easier access to a good variety of good quality diapers would be a dream come true.
I dont wanna be a big boy and hafta go to "work". I just want to stay home in my diapers all day
Anyone tried any of the newer LFB diapers?
>>9111224Dude, I appreciate you laying it all out there, but you've got to learn to write. That was almost incomprehensible.
>>9111396Thanks, Anon. I was wondering if I'd ever see this thing again.
>>9111971>see art like pic with a group of girls>first thought is always "imagine the smell"Anyone else?
Thank you again. This thread cures my gooner brain.
>sniffed my dirty pamps once>most aroused ive ever been>started doing it more and more>now i feel like i cant cum without doing itim devolving more and more every day
>>9111544fuck me in the dick I forgot that I was gonna put "beating the crap out of each other", missed opportunity for a giggle
>>9112189into the pail you go, dumb horny baby
>>9112189The human mind...fragile, like a robin's egg.
>>9106276>>9112189Fascinating.I have come up with the conclusion that if someone does an activity while aroused during it, they will become aroused again once they partake in said activity another time. This is because the activity has been associated with the arousal and vise versa. They have become connected and related to one another. It reminds the brain that this particular moment gave them a lot of pleasure. I have researched time and time again on several threads such as these, and multiple instances from different Anons who have experienced the same thing.>I.E. if you color in a coloring book while horny, you will become horny every time you do a coloring book.
A diaper girl I thought was either dead/stopped posting actually has a Twitter and they posted a couple days ago! Love when that happens
>girl>theyI see your tricks.
>>9112459wow anon, you learned how neural pathways are formed. (hint they're strengthened when they hit a reward center i.e. EVERY time they hit arousal). This is why you can legitimately form a fetish around anything all you gotta do is become aroused around a specific stimuli and your body forms a feedback loop. It's especially easy for stimuli that's already close to your genitalia or that everyone experiences at a formative stage in their life, i.e. diapers. We've solved how diaper fetishists are born. Now the downside is we know it's impossible to undo this shit too since the feedback loop is still in effect.
>>9112610Theres no tricks, you're just obsessed
>>9112047Yeah sorry I typed that out on my phone at like 12:30 in the morning
As horniness ebbs, terrible vistas of not wanting to write fapfictions reveal themselves
>Your CG has just bathed you and put you in a fresh diaper, then directs you to the bed>Laid out before you are a onesie, a dress, a t-shirt, a pair of shorts, and a pair of shoes>"You can pick two bits of clothing to wear while we go out shopping, and you're going in the stroller if you don't have any shoes"
>>9113070I'm going with the dress and shoes. Might as well be able to stretch my legs.
>>9113224But you are male
>>9113284Sir, I can pretend to just be a weirdo in a dress if I have a dress.If I'm in a stroller or wearing a onesie, it's gonna be weird.We're already living in a fantasy world where I have a CG anyway.
>>9113284>already being taken care by a CG and forcibly being put into diapers>wearing a dress is somehow strange
>had a dream of watching a YouTube video where content creators stayed at a abdl themed airbnb and went wild with their big baby shit for content.God, help us if that ever becomes possible
>>9113411I hate the idea because they would not be into it and/or are posers and would take the piss (no pun intended) out of the amenitiesNeeds malfunctioning house robo nanny correction
Does anyone know what happened to the diaper artist that went by Junie B. Dork? Her handle was @whenyouresmall, but it seems like shes deleted her account. I really liked her art, although it was more in the furry sphere so I can't post here, and she was a cute, FNAF obessed, zoomette that would sometimes pee herself. Very relatable.
>>9113388You could, of course, argue it is still strange.But it is the garment of the largest modesty.
>>9113411>had a dream last night I was in bed, falling asleep next to a girl>asked her if we could cuddle>feel her weight shift and get closer to me>finally at peace>wake-up alone with a wet diaper
>>9113444ok but what if it's pink and flashy and frilly and the skirt is poofy and flat like a tutu and brings attention to your big baby diaper, what will you do now diaper boy
>>9113450I presume in the universe where I can have a CG and not be bullied into wanting to an hero, I either cum very hard or cry and then get pity sex once we get home from CG.
>>9113450Cum in my diaper? idk
>>9112368i genuinely dont think ive jerked off normally in about 2 months, ive reached the point where i have to be padded to cum
Anyone know the name of this artist? I can't remember at all
>>9113602
>>9113602Axel-rosered
>>9113461Why is Zelda the best diaper girl?
>>9113622A number of reasons: The universe has zany magical and spiritual shit in all settings.Made by Asians so she's usually hot.Big ass on Twilight Princess Zelda in what might as well be leggings.Supportive, but often out of reach, adds allure and also some satisfaction to see her brought low to be a pamper packer.Multiple universes so even if one Zelda doesn't appeal another probably does.
>ninturder opinions
>>9113615Are we sure it's not the other guy whose artstyle is exactly similar to his and also suspiciously draws the exact same characters>>9113622Maybe it's the contrast of someone regal or dignified getting demoted, like that pic for instance, with only a shirt and diaper to toddler around in she is but an overgrown Tommy Pickles
>>9113628I swear, Little Kings are the cutest ABDL diaper and nothing comes even close
Man the hospital foam cleaner is really good. Got one as a gift with a crate of medicals.
>>9113691Alphagatorz are #1, with Little Kings coming in a close second.
>>9113910The AI revolution I could endorse.
Is Kuma ever going to open comms again, or is he permanently stuck doing comms from like 3 years ago?
>>9113951>As of last month, he posted 10 sketchesI would say yes
>want to talk to my friend about how I'm feeling>just overwhelmed with lots of thoughts and emotions>confused on what I'm doing and why I'm here>not sure where I belong or what my purpose>"idk talk to a counsellor"I don't want to pay for an emotional stripper that's only interested for about 50 mins every month, I want to have friends that actually care about me and how I'm feeling. I'm just so tired, anons.
>>9114085Are you a man? If so, stop being gay.
>>9114102Why should I? Why does my gender affect whether I'm allowed to feel emotions?
>>9114103The gay part isn't the emotions. It's that you're whining and seeking purpose from another.Cry, even in public like a weakling, if you like. But don't seek purpose from others. The best case scenario is they tell you nothing. The worst case is they give you something worse than nothing, a purpose that doesn't suit you.
>>9114105retarded larper
>>9114105I'm not trying to "seek purpose from others", I just want others to not expect perfection out of me and have them realize that I am flawed
>>9114108Your friend knew that when you started whining about a lack of purpose.
>>9114109Ok well this is about as helpful as going to a counsellor, thanks anon. You saved me $100
>>9114108I might be jumping the gun here, but I suggest thinking long and hard about what "I want my friend to not expect perfection out of me and realize I am flawed" means to you. Is it that you keep mistreating them and you wish they would just let it happen since "nobody's perfect"? Are you absolutely sure it isn't that? Again, I might be jumping the gun here. I don't know you, but the tone of your vaguepost sets off alarm bells. I don't say this to be mean to you on 4chan. I say it because, if I'm right, it's better that you hear it from me and not one of your friends. If they're worthy friends they probably don't want to hurt you, and that might make it difficult for them to be honest with you about their own feelings. The worst case scenario is nobody says anything and you end up resenting each other. I have seen this happen a number of times over the years and it is downright tragic.Your friends are their own people with their own problems. It isn't fair of you to dump everything on them all the time and expect them to try and fix it for you. tl;dr: "I'm sorry I said/that, I was out of line"/"It's whatever man, let's play some counterstrike" is what it looks like for a friend to forgive you for not being perfect. Bitching at them or trauma dumping and getting annoyed when they don't seem sympathetic enough and then expecting them to overlook it is not.
>>9114113A counselor would have made the lesson of seeking happiness from within and being less concerned with other people's expectations take about twenty sessions to get to.Read Taoist Philosophy and Stoic Philosophy.You'll still be a diaper fag but you'll probably be less sad.
Anyone have some good ABDL hypno or pmvs?
>>9114113What anon means by "be a man" is more or less stop giving a shit. Have some confidence in your friends liking you, only retards expects perfection from anyone.You shouldn't dump your life problems unto them; stop for a bit, take a deep breath, reflect on your actions and do something relaxing that helps. Then spend some time with your friends, there's a reason counsellors and therapists exist, no one wants to hear constant bitching without getting paid, as mean as that sounds.You present your friend with your problems and they do not know how to deal with them, so they tell you to get professional help. You are overthinking this a lot, take it slow and go talk to an counsellor.
Sleep well, Anons
>>9114162It's more so that I feel invisible to everyone. I don't have anyone texting me or reaching out asking how I'm doing. I feel very isolated and alone. It's also that feeling of a new group chat being created without you, and if they don't want me around anymore I wish they would just tell me.I also know that I've done wrong, and I'm willing to admit and learn from what I've done. They've also done stuff to me Im not happy about, but I understand people fuck up sometimes when emotions are high. Still, it would be nice to be thought of every once in awhile
>>9114596Just be polite and unobtrusive and if they don't fuck with you just get new friends. It's not that complicated.
>>9114658It's not that simple either. What the hell was the point of the friendship to begin with if it never really mattered? Am I just going to go through life unfulfilled with my relationships? Im not looking for answers btw, I'm mainly venting because I'm frustrated
>>9114661NTA but I had that realization a while back too. Most of the friendships I had faded with time because neither me nor the other party decided to reach out to the others because we didn't have proximity to share experiences anymore. And even my two best friends I realized I knew fuckall about because we only ever talked about shared interests, of which we had few. In the times we met up IRL I had to struggle to come up with something to talk about. We were more like acquaintances than friends by now, much less the best friends we called each other.And I didn't want to admit that, because it'd really fucking hurt. Not just to them, but to me. But I still knew it.I wish we were closer, but we aren't. One I talk to like once a week and the other I haven't talked to in over a year now.They never teach you throughout all of your childhood how damn lonely adulthood is.
>>9114661Yes it is. Either you and your old friends grew apart or you misjudged the friendship and y'all were never really that close. You can take that for what it is and be satisfied with it, or you need to go out there and make new friends and see if you build a stronger connection there. Trying to force something with people who don't care won't suddenly enhance your friendship.Idk be kind, polite and helpful. Go volunteer somewhere. And do it for its own sake.And the point of the friendship was you could have fun and pass the time it's not their fault that wasn't enough for you.If you don't wanna hear all that go vent somewhere else. Nobody wants to hear it here either.
>>9114674>Nobody wants to hear it here either.I would like to hear it.
>>9114673>They never teach you throughout all of your childhood how damn lonely adulthood is.Yes they fucking do. Everybody always says to enjoy being a kid while you still can. They even oversell it by telling you these are the best years of your life. You just didn't fucking listen and took it all for granted.
>>9114677enjoy your pissy pity party then.
>>9114679No they fucking don't. All they talked about then was jobs and going to college and paying bills and cooking and stupid "responsible" shit like that. I expected all that. What I didn't expect was for the equivalent of breaking all my social links in a Persona game, through nothing but the passage of time.
>>9114683You should have actually read a fucking book that wasn't a stupid YA novel. Or maybe thought about what people meant when they said you'd grow apart from your old friends."nothing but the passage of time" you thought time would just freeze when you became an adult. That people wouldn't grow up and get different interests? A human being isn't meant to be static.
>>9114689>Or maybe thought about what people meant when they said you'd grow apart from your old friends.No one has ever said this to me, save for extreme cautionary tales of people that you will 'obviously' not become.>You should have actually read a fucking book that wasn't a stupid YA novel.What does this even mean? "Stupid YA novels" were something that connected me to my friends. Even up to the last time we met in person, Harry Potter was still a vaguely distant topic of discussion. It's what we all read. >you thought time would just freeze when you became an adult. That people wouldn't grow up and get different interests? A human being isn't meant to be static.Where exactly do you think we are?
>>9114691Yeah and know you're becoming one of those cautionary tales.If you read a real book you were supposed to in high school. You might have actually read something that dealt with the topics you're now struggling with. Crazy i know.So you're arranging your life around an incredibly niche and ostracized kink and you're surprised when other people aren't like that? What did you expect?
If your interest is reading, you should become widely read in a variety of genres.
>>9114703>If you read a real book you were supposed to in high school. You might have actually read something that dealt with the topics you're now struggling withretard
>>9114703>If you read a real book you were supposed to in high school. You might have actually read something that dealt with the topics you're now struggling with. Crazy i know.This still doesn't mean anything. Are you saying I was supposed to learn how to keep friends from the library? And who was supposed to provide me these books, my teachers? My parents? Some magical advice fairy? The only thing these groups cared about is that I got into a good college.>So you're arranging your life around an incredibly niche and ostracized kink and you're surprised when other people aren't like that?I'm... not? Where the hell did you extrapolate that from? Don't get me wrong, being an ABDL has been absolutely contributing to that isolating effect, but even if I wasn't one I'd still be as disconnected from everyone else as I am now. That's what lack of proximity and graduating in an era of achievement-based microblogging can do. Fuckin' Facebook.
>>9114717What is she doing
>>9114721Shitting herself
>>9114717>Are you saying I was supposed to learn how to keep friends from the library?Yes, because apparently you were too stupid to figure it out yourself.>And who was supposed to provide me these books, my teachers? My parents?Yes? You didn't have assigned reading? Were you homeschooled or something? You they spelled it out for you more explicitly "Hey you look and act like an unpleasant loner go read this book and it might help you grow as a person." Would you have listened then?>That's what lack of proximity and graduating in an era of achievement-based microblogging can do.There's still plenty of in-person hobbies. Or even with college. There's still lectures, in person work hours with classmates and TA's that can help you. You even get assigned group projects that force you to talk to people.
>>9114727>Hey you look and act like an unpleasant loner go read this book and it might help you grow as a person.literally nobody does that. stop larping
>>9114728That's the fucking point you moron. Did you not learn basic reading comprehension?
>>9114727>Yes? You didn't have assigned reading?Assigned reading was for cultural and class subjects. Not for something like friendship. I don't know of any class I ever took that would assign something like that. >"Hey you look and act like an unpleasant loner go read this book and it might help you grow as a person."This is not something that's ever been a thing. Unpleasant loners were just... left alone. They either found other unpleasant loners to be lonely together with or it sucked to be them. No instructor or official would care about something like this.>There's still plenty of in-person hobbies. Or even with college. There's still lectures, in person work hours with classmates and TA's that can help you. You even get assigned group projects that force you to talk to people.Most of the group projects I had to do in college I just did alone. It was easier that way, there were a lot of people when I first tried that were really flaky and wouldn't do their share of the work until it was last minute, so I did it as a backup, and then stopped teaming up altogether because I didn't like unreliable teammates. And I did join some clubs based on hobbies I like, but way too often they were already populated with an insulated friend group that came from high school and weren't welcoming to outsiders. After several semesters of going to clubs to connect, only to wind up just doing activities alone, I stopped going. It wasn't fun.Making new friends as an adult is really hard.
>>9114738>I don't know of any class I ever took that would assign something like that. You didn't any fucking highschool language class? Did those culture and class books never mention friendship? Were they non-fiction books?>This is not something that's ever been a thing. Yes i know, i was being sarcastic. People have more subtle and polite ways of saying it, because if they didn't they would be shut out. People like you were just too arrogant or delusional to get it.>Most of the group projects I had to do in college I just did alone. It was easier that way,I'm sure it was easier short term, how is it working out for you now? Either those people would have flunked out eventually or you would have had to learn how to discern what people were reliable or at least how to deal with them when they're not. But you gave up on that and prevented yourself from gaining that experience in life.>I did join some clubs based on hobbies I like, but way too often they were already populated with an insulated friend groupOf course they were! They've all been around for a while and you're the new one they don't know yet. Here's a thought: find an in-person hobby you enjoy even when alone. That way you give yourself time to have people warm up to you.
>>9114758>You didn't any fucking highschool language class?Yes, I took high school language classes, both English and French. But they were focused on the actual languages, not anything to do with friendship. In French class we learned to read and write in French, and in English we were grilled on sentence structure, reading comprehension, and analytical writing. None of this is really relevant, and it's weird how you keep thinking it is. >People like you were just too arrogant or delusional to get it.This isn't really helping, nor are you really saying anything other than "I'm a dick".>I'm sure it was easier short term, how is it working out for you now?Still doing it. We were assigned to pick teammates for our senior projects, but I don't know anyone else in this class, nor do I have projects or skills to offer, so I guess I'm going at it alone again. Again, a lot of the class is comprised of friend groups from people that already know each other.>Here's a thought: find an in-person hobby you enjoy even when alone. That way you give yourself time to have people warm up to you.I enjoy ALL the hobbies I do alone. That's the thing. The interests I have are solitary, not conductive to connecting with other people, and the few that are I have trouble with finding other people that's not anonymous strangers on 4chan to bridge that gap to. And when I'm doing a hobby alone, other people aren't going to introduce themselves to me, they just stick to their friends. You're VASTLY overestimating the capacity for newfound human connection in adulthood here. Especially at a college that does not have an active social life.
>>9114763>But they were focused on the actual languages, not anything to do with friendship.Of course. Did you think i was saying there's a "friendship for dummies class¨? I'm asking if you got fiction books you were assigned to read? Are you acting obstinate on purpose? > nor are you really saying anything other than "I'm a dick"I'm saying that, because you are and i'm saying you need to look in the mirror about why you're apparently insufferable to be around and go back and fix where you went wrong. If you're being outgoing and literally nobody wants to be friends with you, you need to consider what it is about you that might be the problem instead of just blaming everyone else and/or "the world".>We were assigned to pick teammates for our senior projects, but I don't know anyone else in this class, nor do I have projects or skills to offer, so I guess I'm going at it alone again. How about you actually try working in a group anyway. If you don't have anything to offer how about you offer a willingness to learn and actually take in feedback.>I enjoy ALL the hobbies I do alone. And when I'm doing a hobby alone, other people aren't going to introduce themselves to me, they just stick to their friends. That's why i added the the in-person bit. And here's a thought: just ask those other people for tips? They might want to share it with you.>You're VASTLY overestimating the capacity for newfound human connection in adulthood here. Especially at a collegelol. lmao even.
nigga is really recommending books to learn friendship lmao
>Sure hope anon doesn't go this hard on autists irl, jeez
>>9114789>I'm asking if you got fiction books you were assigned to read?I don't remember what we were assigned to read. I remember the lessons were grueling because my instructors were extremely insistent on their interpretation of whatever passage we were reading, which I had to infer out to get a passing grade. We all did. I'm actually pretty sure we were given excerpts from novels on packets to use instead of actual books.>If you're being outgoing and literally nobody wants to be friends with you, you need to consider what it is about you that might be the problem instead of just blaming everyone else and/or "the world".But I'm not blaming everyone else and/or "the world". I'm not sure where you're getting this from. I've said repeatedly that my friendships faded because of a lack of proximity and mutual interest, and they were more like acquaintanceships anyway because of how shallow they really were, even with people I considered my best friends. >How about you actually try working in a group anyway.I'm probably going to get assigned to a group regardless. Whatever.>That's why i added the the in-person bit. And here's a thought: just ask those other people for tips?Mate, I've tried. One hobby was archery, I joined the archery club. But I could never catch the coaches' attention, they were focused on the archery team (friend group). And now that the teams are actively competing there's no coaches and no practices anymore at all.
>>9114683To be honest you can have whatever lifestyle you want if you actually work towards it. If you're genuinely a good person then you will find friends if you put in the effort to meet them.The easiest way to make friends as an adult is to have an activity you share after work. I've built up a massive friend group from nothing in the past five years just by showing up to random activities in my city and getting to know people in them over time.There's some turbo autists at these meetups too and the more socially well-adjusted members do a great job of making them feel included.I know it's possible for you since I was one of those turbo autists.
>gee I sure do hope nobody is fighting on /abdl/
>>9114878cranky babies need their naps
>>9114878At least they're posting images while quarreling, Mr. Winslow.
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>>9114679>everyone says to enjoy being a kid while you can>this somehow affects your relationships as an adult
>>9114674>be polite and helpfulMother fucker, what the fuck do you think I've been doing the past 25 years? I thought I was doing the right thing, but now it feels like nothing I do really matters. Being polite and kind has gotten me nowhere.It's also bullshit that I see tons of people hang out with friends they've known for years, and I never once get invited to anything. Maybe I am too obnoxious for my own good, but it still doesn't take away any pain that I feel because of it
>>9114249Confidence is a buzzword people like to use as a way to dismiss a person. I have confidence, I know my abilities and what I can do. Being wary of how people think about you is completely reasonable when everyone is talking behind your back whether you're aware or nor. Sometimes I just want to know whether my feelings are valid, not if someone can actually help me with my problem. People don't want to know you have problems tho, they want you to come perfect and problem free, no matter how deep your scars go
>>9114229>read philosophyThanks for being the only helpful anon this entire thread
>>9107296 at least dress for the part
>>9114801I find the hardest part of making friends as an adult is the Cliques that form unintentionally. You try to enter one, and you may as well be chopped liver, even if you are pretty similar people. You have to create an amazing first impression to even have someone realize you're not just a bump in a grass
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>>9115037Not sure if sarcastic, but philosophy has helped me with a lot of shit.I think the Tao is kind of lame but then I'm also not from the time period of instability that gave birth to the Tao either.
>>9107564goon mostly to ab/dl stuffdon't care about gooning to vanilla stuff, no necessity to
>>9115056I actually do need to read more philosophy now that I'm getting older. It's one thing to be young and dumb and act like Diogenes was based, but now I actually need to have arguments and ideas when I talk to people about this stuff.I got a little bit into Buddhism in 2024, and that was interesting to read and think about, I probably need something similar to get my mind stimulated
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>>9115035>Being wary of how people think about you is completely reasonable when everyone is talking behind your backPeople will always be people anon, confidence is simply being sure of yourself and that includes when people talk behind your back. It's a given fact that people will talk about you without you being there and then switch around. If you want to know if your feelings are valid you ought to just ask when the mood is right and just accept whatever answer people are willing to give. I still personally think that it's best to not give people too much mind, there is not a lot that can change their minds when they make it, if you think that your friends dismiss you every time then maybe look for new people to hang out.>>9115056Absolutely based, I recommend Nietzche's "Thus spoke Zarathustra". It is his introduction to his Übermensch theory, it's a lot less edgy than it sounds; boils down to anyone can become an Übermensch with enough conviction and drive, it is most important to have something to strive for
>>9109300My earliest memories were feeling funny over Baby Bottleneck and eventually the FOP Baby Face episodeI have my own brand of trauma, neglect and autism, though I knew I have this fetish before the realization of trauma and neglect set in and I believe that realization strengthened the fetish-havingFor the few trauma-dumping anecdote posters in the post's replies, sorry you had to go through that. I'm just an anon but hope you are doing well now
>>9115067Ugh, I guess. It still sucks though. You're right though, I shouldn't be worried about what people think. Besides, this friend group I'm whining about I went to dinner with a couple days ago. I still feel like they're doing stuff without me, but yeah like whatever, Im staying home, pissing myself and jacking off to diaper porn all day instead, who cares
>>9115067awww she's got herself on her diaper
>>9113951speaking of long comms, is moda all caught up with commissions? I heard he takes way too long to do them, sometimes ghost even
The only Precure season I don't recall seeing diaper art of is Splash Star. This is likely because it's a really early season which makes it more obscure, especially being sandwiched in between two iconic sets of seasons, but also because neither of the main duo seem diaperable.
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>>9115073Well yeah sometimes you will be left out of activities and that is fine, I don't invite everyone out for a single activity. Keep your head up high anon, you will be fine, you can always shoot a message to a random person int he friend group and do an activity you both like.> staying home, pissing myself and jacking off to diaper pornIt is just a fetish, don't let it take over your entire life. Just go out on a walk once the weather gets warmer, find a group for a hobby and spend time with them etc.
>>9115102holy shit what embarrassing undies
>>9115102Im already doing all of these things, I guess I'll continue to do them
>>9115143That's the spirit anon, you're doing well so far. Just keep going, put up some goals, long and short term, and try and fulfill them. Life will improve slowly, life is empty by itself so it falls on you to create your own meaning and purpose.
>>9115151what a tard cope
>>9115152Well what do you suggest? Rotting away and being grumpy all day. If you can give yourself reason and purpose with essence then you will do far better than most
>>9115075He ghosted me without even asking for money.Sorry, they/them ghosted me without even asking for money.
>>9115151The cynic in me wants to reject this post, but thanks anon>>9115152Rude
>>9115073>Went to dinner with them yesterday You might just be psyching yourself out desu. How were the vibes at dinner?
>>9115218"Friendly" I guess. Amicable? Like we talked about Marty Supreme and vidya stuff and it was nice. They also asked what I was up to, but nothing new has really happened since the last time we all met a couple months ago. I get thats on me tho. They're all nice and good people, so its not like they're going to be off putting at dinner, it's all my own psychosis worried that everyone secretly hates me
if a diaper bunches up easily, it means it's too big, right? I need to know if it's me or the clothes.
>>9115183You'll be fine, a lot of what you've been fussing about in your posts is all shit I've felt in the past too but then it turned out I was worried about nothing. I learned in therapy I had a tendency to spiral anything that can be taken negatively and convince myself of a false reality as a result. Like "they didn't invite me to x, they must not like me that much anymore, what did I do, I'm always like this, why can't I keep friends, why did I even try" etc etc but then a week later we're hanging out and my friend tells me how much they appreciate me always being there for them and I realize I was just being a dumb baby.You're a dumb baby too, you deserve to be in diapers.
>>9115262Wdym mean bunches up? Are you using cloth diapers?
>>9115264Fr, a lot of me being weird has to do with being a dumb diaper baby>Whoa! This guy who's emotional fucky and needy has a fetish where he wants to be taken care of and release control! Who would've thunk?
>>9115267I mean, bunching up around the front whenever I close my legs/sit/sleep. fuck you think I mean? non-rounded front
>>9115282I didnt know if you meant like the sap collecting or something. They probably are too big then, idk how your clothes would effect that
>>9114691There's something extremely hot about girls wearing diapers for some other reason and then just deciding to use them anyway "cause why not might as well use it if it's already there". Casual diaper use in general is diamonds.
>>9115333I wear long johns/tights, so I wasn't sure. Could a booster or whatever improve the fit or not? I'd hate to think I'm gatekept completely out of most mediums because I'm unironically "too small for most adult diapers". Not sure of my waist size, but it has to be around mid-late 20s
>>9115102I wonder if anyone has tried commissioning this artist for diaper stuff
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Someone make a different thread without the troon op
>>9115233I know this way of thinking anon, I'm guilty of it myself, so I'll tell you if no one else has yet: no one else you know thinks in the same the way you do. It's easy to assume and project because you can only be sure of yourself and how you operate, but everyone else is their own person with their own lives and their own shit going on. People can like one another and get along without having to loudly and clearly voice it every day. You will never truly know how much the people you see every day care about you, so err on the side of positivity and assume the absence of any amicable feelings is not being deliberately done out of anything apathetic or malicious. Everyone is the main character of their own story. There are plenty of people I enjoy the company of and appreciate, family, friends, co workers, but I don't think about them all the time. There's just not enough time in the day. If you have time to fret over this every day, that's a sign to do something. Take up a hobby to keep you busy. Learn an instrument or build model figures in the comfort of your house, go to a gym or take up hiking, whatever you think you would like. Do what you're comfortable with and when you are comfortable enough to branch out with it, you can meet people as a by-product of just enjoying your hobby. At the very least it'll give you something to talk about when you go to dinner with a friend group and they ask what you've been up to. Just don't lead with how you enjoy jerking off in diapers, maybe keep that one to yourself.
>>9115436>more tranny co-opting attemptsYeah fuck no