>>33571565
>Why don’t girls like me
You are thoroughly dislikeable.

>>33571565
I thought the same thing. Then I got laid and realized I was just being autistic.

>>33571603
You’re probably right. What’s wrong with me
>>33571623
I mean I’m pretty ugly but I’m not THAT ugly. I think I’m legitimately autistic and women can sense I have a malfunctioning brain or something. I’ll probably just blow my brains out at this point.

>>33571565
Because you post gay frogs on 4chan.

do you carry yourself like someone whose been chosen

>>33571738
Yeah same bro. But hey, might as well work as hard as you can to see if you can make it work.
Can't just give up that easily. Work hard at it a few years and see if you can get a few chances.

>>33571924
Bro I’ve even trying for years on dating apps and I constantly get rejected or ghosted. I’ve been on these apps since like 2019 and I’ve only had one situationship that lasted 3 weeks, and one shorter relationship that ended after 4 months. I’m fundamentally unattractive and there’s nothing I can do to change that. I legitimately just want to kill myself at this point. I’m sick of being alone 24/7. I see no point in working towards a future I’ll be alone and miserable in. I’m just an utter fucking failure. If I had a gun right now I would 100% blow my brains out this very second.

>>33571927
Honestly, this is probably most men's experience on dating apps. Same here, I didn't even get to the point of a relationship with any of the girls. They mostly didn't think I was good enough, and those were girls with basically nothing to offer other than just sex. I mean, man, it's really hard to find a girl worth marrying on those apps. Really hard to find opportunities outside of apps, too, but that's the only way. I wouldn't judge yourself by dating apps, they're just shit at actually matching you with women worth dating.

>>33571738
>What’s wrong with me
Go to therapy, to find out.

>>33571936
So what do I do? I’ve tried accept being alone for the rest of my life but I can’t. I feel like such a fucking failure especially when I’m seeing everybody I knew from highschool getting married and having kids. What the fuck is wrong with me?

>>33572011
I don't really know. Find a better way to meet women, that's job #1.
Personally, I'm probably going to go to grad school for that.
Gotta figure out a way for yourself
Change jobs, anything

Post a selfie of you i dont believe you're ugly. You probably have a shitty haircut with oily hair with and bad skin and retarded eyebrows and are fat (all things that can be fixed)

>>33572032
I really don’t want to dox myself but I don’t think I’m extremely ugly. I have aspects that are conventionally attractive (sharp jawline but that’s basically it). I just have zero game because I’m shy, introverted and autistic. I get matches semi regularly on bumble, but they never go anywhere because it seems like women have this super power to sense in a total sensitive pussy fag who can’t fall to girls. I’m such an utter failure. If I was born normal I could’ve been a chad, but with all my deformities I’m basically fucking cooked.

>>33572055
>I just have zero game because I’m shy, introverted and autistic.
And here is your answer

>>33572032
This is only true for 20% of men.

>>33572065
Yeah and I can’t fucking change that, so I’m fucked. You just can’t pop a couple pills or work out to make your autism go away. Women have a super sense to sense malfunctions in a man. No matter how hard I try to mask it, women can see right through me. And it makes me feel like shit because I can’t change who I am. I basically have two options, accept that I’ll be alone forever or just kill myself, and I’m definitely leaning towards the latter. I just don’t see the point in living a miserable, depressing lonely life.

>>33571565
You're either ugly or shooting above your league. Women care about looks more than men (at least, attractive ones do. Uggos and fatties magically don't care. Funny that?) so you should looksmax and fashionmax, then start joining salsa classes and art classes.

>>33572055
Are you actually autistic or are you just socially awkward?
i assume it's the latter
What you gotta do is join a club where you do stuff with people. Maybe a sports team or some volunteering work. This will force you to interact with people. You'll learn teamwork and have people rely on you. This will make you less "autistic", you will build confidence. It will suck so much to force yourself to do this (at least it did for me) but you will grow as a person and become stronger as a person.
> have aspects that are conventionally attractive (sharp jawline but that’s basically it). I just have zero game (...)
so by your own words you being a weirdo is the real problem, not your looks. You can't be truly ugly if you say this.

Anyway my suggestion to join a club won't fix you immediately. You have to play the long game. You will slowly grow. (im basically telling you to go out more, only way to fix being autistic)

>>33572076
>I basically have two options,
Three. 3rd: accept that you are autistic and don't try to please neutotypicals. Look for partner in your group where they understand you.

>>33572088
But is he actually autistic or just using it as a memeword

>>33572087
>>33572088
>>33572091

I was never diagnosed by a doctor but I’m 100% autistic. My parents had me in their mid 40s (which is a recipe for having a child that is autistic). I like fucking legos and I creatively write fictional worlds in hopes of becoming a writer (at least I used to before I lost all my drive).

I don’t know where to go out to. I have no friends. I have no job. I don’t go to school. All I do is sleep all day till 9 pm then go to the gym at midnight because im so fucking depressed. I have no motivation to do anything because I’m such a fucking mental nut case that repulses women.

The sad thing is I know that if I just had a girlfriend I would feel so much better. On the extremely rare instances I’m talking to a girl, I feel great. I feel extremely confident and happy, but it always only lasts a couple weeks before she ghosts me or rejects me. I’m fucking sick of constantly trying and failing

>>33572055
you're letting a low investment social media app fuck with your brain. getting a match means you got a match, it doesn't mean you are dealing with a potential date. you are not losing out on anything, you are looking at the wrong place really.

girls are retarded and gay don't let their big tiddies and asses seduce you. you are stronger than them for a reason just beat them up and take what you want

>>33572099
Man i dont know how to help you. Get therapy lmao
And i still think you should join a club.

>>33572109
My point is if I was fucking normal I wouldn’t have any issue actually getting something from these matches. Every single failed talking stage makes me feel more and more miserable. And it makes it even worse when I read all these success stories on reddit about guys easily getting play from these girls. It makes me feel like a total fucking failure.

>>33572074
Cope. Youre saying this to make yourself feel better.

>>33572153
>if I was fucking normal
There is no "if". You play with what you get dealt. I know it's hard. It took me years to accept.

>>33571565
They don't like anyone really. Not even themselves

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Why is this board so reddit? Just how many fem*les are on this shithole liberal board?

Give this man some redpills ffs.

>>33571565
You were born into a dystopian time period of feminism, anon. If you try to chase women, you will likely get falsely accused of rape. Women only know how to destroy, not create.

>>33571565
If you were a woman, would you pick a guy like you?

>>33571873
SHUT UP PEPE ISN'T GAY

>>33572240
Female autonomy is such a mistake. They operate on fallible feelings alone with no logic at all. And when they lose their "feelings" for you, it's onto the next guy. Secularist NPCs live the most hellish unholy lives. I don't know how they do it.

>>33572240
I think so? I’m generally a sweet, decent looking guy. I have money. I have a car. But I’m too shy/introverted which is a death sentence for men nowadays. So yes I would choose me, but I probably don’t know what women actually want, so fuck do I know.
>>33572211
Bullshit. Plenty of guys have no issues getting girls. I’ve seen so many happy couples literally everywhere I go. I’m the failure, not women.

>>33572258
I hope to fuck you're baiting right now. If you think the normie lifestyle has anything to offer you then you need to browse /pol/ for a while and learn how women/the world really works.

>>33572267
This is bullshit fucking cope. There’s PLENTY of happy couples I see literally everywhere I fucking go. Yes I understand how women work and how retarded they are, but it’s because I’m fucking autistic, shy, introverted, short and zero fucking game that they don’t like me. Normal guys don’t have an issue with women because they know how they work and they know how to play the game. I’m fucking incapable of being like them because my brain is wired completely fucking differently than them. I’m a fucking alien in a human body and women can sense that I’m a fucking pussy autist with no game.

>>33572248
pepe is turbo reddit tourist behavior
now you know

Women don't like me because I'm boring.

>>33571565
girls like weird shit man u have to pretend to not like them and rape them too its weird

>>33571565
>Why don’t girls like me
Probably because you don't like yourself. And because you're a frog poster.

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>>33571565
I won't read despondent frog threads. Also, girls don't like you because you're a despondent frog.

>>33571565
Post body

>>33571565
>>33571565
>>33571565
>>33571565
>>33571565
PSA GIRLS DON'T LIKE
GIRLS LIKE BEING LIKED

>>33571565
Not enthusiastic enough about unborn baby murder
Get up and cheer

>>33572153
I'm gonna give you advice, and you're probably going to dismiss it outright, in which case - you're gay and die alone, if you read it however and take it into consideration, good on you

So I was an indoors hermit, without anything, living alone on my own, subsisting on student loans, going to school and playing Vidya and dying in my room for any piece of outside interaction while keeping myself indoors and anxious af and afraid to go out. I snapped and decided to change it

To make a really long story short, I discovered meetup.com, went to 100+ meetups since March of this year, I started off with hiking because it allowed me to ease into the socialization and slowly went to more social events.
Then, earlier this month, I realized I want a girlfriend already and although meeting people is nice and I made some friends - I need to lock in, because I've been on 6 different dating apps for 10 months and got zero (0) dates. I deleted everything.
Now I dance bachata, and I joined a choir. Both of which are girl majority activities.
A girl in my bachata class has already noticed me, and I feel so comfortable around her which came completely naturally which is unlike me, that I'm going to ask her for a walk in next week's lesson. I also went to a bachata dance party and it was freaking amazing.

I highly recommend dancing, but I understand that if you're still shut in, it's extremely scary, so walk my path.

For the record, I talked to myself for 1.5 hours before the Bachata class, JUST to get myself to go, it was a proper existential anxious avoidant crisis. But I did it because there is literally no better time than now.

>>33571565
Guys who identify with and avatarfag as a depressed cartoon frog are usually not the type to sweep the ladies off their feet OP. Who knew.

>>33574029
Agreed.

It's all about money & big penis! You ain't nothin without it

>>33574037
Just put some bacon grease on that ol' boy and spit shine it into a usable hog feller!

>>33572099
Anon absolutely nothing about you reads as autistic. At worst you're a bit of a daydreamer who likes Legos, and there's nothing about those things that is either a disorder or should interfere with you getting women.
What IS interfering, in your own words, is being a depressed NEET with no social skills and who sleeps all day. I'm not going to call you a "loser" because that's a judgment call and pretty personal. But, you ARE at least living like a loser.
And that's not a "disorder" either.
> I feel extremely confident and happy
This is supposed to be your default state. You have to train yourself to cultivate that feeling from within; it shouldn't be based on external factors like some woman. Remember, even if you had a gf, they still come and go.
> but it always only lasts a couple weeks before she ghosts me or rejects me.
And why wouldn't she, based on what you outlined above? Women aren't into depressed losers anon, newsflash.
>I’m fucking sick of constantly trying
And when did this happen? Because again, that's not what you outlined above.

Bump

>>33571565
Many reasons I'm sure but mostly because you don't love yourself. If you have no confidence you have nothing. Nothing makes a woman's pussy drier than a pushover or a guy who is terribly insecure. I speak from experience.

>>33571565

women have an uncanny ability to snuff out autists but seriously though you don't want most of these modern women, the more time I spend around them the more I realized we have this idealized version of the woman we think exists and never has, most normie relationships are either codependent, transactional or outright dysfunctional where the pussy whipped male ends up dehumanizing himself for a morsel of pussy occasionally

>>33572076
>Yeah and I can’t fucking change that, so I’m fucked. You just can’t pop a couple pills or work out to make your autism go away. Women have a super sense to sense malfunctions in a man. No matter how hard I try to mask it, women can see right through me. And it makes me feel like shit because I can’t change who I am. I basically have two options, accept that I’ll be alone forever or just kill myself, and I’m definitely leaning towards the latter. I just don’t see the point in living a miserable, depressing lonely life.

you can change all of that, I'm autistic and spent the last two years forcing myself to socialize with normies and now I am quite the conversationalist and know how to get people to tell me their inner darkest secrets but yanno something about most of these women? They have zero substance and they'll usually bitch about other women or complain about politics or have some serious mental deficiencies, even among those in relationships the ones to where there's genuine adoration is so fucking rare dude you have to realize this and attacking yourself is counterproductive as someone who's a former self loathing autist, I realized too that I had ZERO social skills and if I lacked the basic conversational skills with people how the fuck am I going to pull? No chance in hell but the thing I learned along the way is that none of these women really have anything to offer and I don't have the time nor the energy to be going out on dates etc, it's not worth it to me but if it is to you this is what you're gonna have to do, you're going to have to work really hard at basic communication skills. If I did it you can too.

>>33572091
>I don’t know where to go out to. I have no friends. I have no job. I don’t go to school. All I do is sleep all day till 9 pm then go to the gym at midnight because im so fucking depressed. I have no motivation to do anything because I’m such a fucking mental nut case that repulses women.

yeah bro working helped me out of a deep depression to where I neeted for a couple of years, focus on getting financial independence and working your ass off, women ain't nothing but tons of problems.

>>33572109
>you're letting a low investment social media app fuck with your brain. getting a match means you got a match, it doesn't mean you are dealing with a potential date. you are not losing out on anything, you are looking at the wrong place really.

This, I got tons of matches when I was on the apps but it never went anywhere, didn't even get past the 1st date.

>>33572285
>There’s PLENTY of happy couples I see literally everywhere I fucking go.

You THINK that is the case but when you actually get intimate and involved with their friend circles you learn it's a big fucking act, again there are happy couples but most of it is transactional and to even be in a relationship in many cases requires you to give up all of your autonomy, it's why they're called normies for a reason because the normal shit they talk about is so lame, least conversating with other autists or people who are insane they are interesting and fun to talk to.

>>33573980
>but I understand that if you're still shut in, it's extremely scary, so walk my path.

Yes, OP is going to have to spend a lot of time, almost everyday doing something social, the most important thing is to also observe how normies interact. I worked on this deficiency hardcore and now people don't believe me when I tell them I used to be an autistic shut in.

>>33576106
This is cope. Chads and most normies don’t have to dehumanize themselves to fuck. You’re just saying this as a way to cope with the fact that women don’t want to have sex with you
>>33576136
I’m not a total autist I can talk to people. I just never get the chance to take a girl out on a date because I always get ghosted on dating apps. And on the rare occurrence I do get a date it usually leads nowhere. I’m either extremely ugly in person or women can sense I’m autistic or weird somehow. I don’t do anything weird during the date either. I let them do most of the talking and I listen, there’s no awkward moments of silence, and every now and then it’ll end with us kissing but that hasn’t happened in awhile. After that they either become distant/dry or just straight up say we would be better off as friends. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong
>>33576149
That’s obviously a skill issue because plenty of guys have success on dating apps. We just don’t have any game
>>33576171
I don’t believe you, this feels like major cope. I see plenty of people in real life and on social media always posting their partners and being madly in love with them. I just don’t believe you
>>33576181
At the gym I usually talk to people. I have a buddy at the gym who I see sometimes with his girlfriend and we usually talk for like 10-20 minutes. I’m a little awkward but I’m not stuttering or shaking like a weirdo. I just want a girlfriend who I can spend time with and who’s loyal man. Why is that so hard to ask for

>>33576336
I'm not any of the anons you replied to, but man, what answers are you looking for here?
Life is hard these days. Finding a girl to fall in love, marry, and have kids with isn't easy.
Just look at the statistics, the marriage rates, birth rates. Shit is just hard now.
There are no answers other than "work hard and pray".

>>33576336
>This is cope. Chads and most normies don’t have to dehumanize themselves to fuck. You’re just saying this as a way to cope with the fact that women don’t want to have sex with you

You've missed the complete fucking point.

>>33576336
>That’s obviously a skill issue because plenty of guys have success on dating apps. We just don’t have any game

You're completely missing the point in all of this which is why you're stuck where you're at.

>>33576336
>I’m autistic or weird somehow.

There you go with the negative self talk and how does telling yourself this help you?

>>33576336
>At the gym I usually talk to people. I have a buddy at the gym who I see sometimes with his girlfriend and we usually talk for like 10-20 minutes. I’m a little awkward but I’m not stuttering or shaking like a weirdo. I just want a girlfriend who I can spend time with and who’s loyal man. Why is that so hard to ask for

I'm talking a group of people, having a social circle with normies you spend a lot of time with.

>>33576362
Nigga how am I missing the point? Your statements just seem like complete cope to me. I don’t believe for a second that the majority of couples involve dehumanized men who are pathetic and do anything for pussy. If that was the case i wouldn’t see so many people I knew from highschool in happy relationships constantly posting their partners on Instagram and shit

>There you go with the negative self talk and how does telling yourself this help you?

Because I need to know why women are repulsed by me. That’s the reason why. I’m taking accountability and realizing my flaws and that I’m a neurodivergent autistic spazz who scares women away. I just need to find a way to cope with the fact that I’m going to die alone
>>33576363
People don’t like me bro. I literally quit my job because I sensed that my managers and most of my coworkers don’t like me at all. I’m just extremely unlikable for some reason. Probably due to my looks, voice, personality or all of the above

>>33571565
You're probably fat, ugly, and poor. You aren't big or strong, you don't have enough social capital, and you smell.

>>33571565
Who gives a shit about what gets their attention?

Women are retarded. They’d love any, old dog if it followed them around long enough.

Get a grip, loser.

>>33576467
>Women are retarded. They’d love any, old dog if it followed them around long enough.

So why dont they like me? Whats wrong with me

>>33571565
>why don't girls like me
Because you're too concerned about girls liking you instead of doing your own thing and making shit happen. Because you put too much value in bitches that don't even know you. Because you value *their* opinion more than you value your own. Because you don't have a backbone for the aforementioned reasons. That's not masculine. That's not attractive. And whether you know it or not, you subconciously exude that energy in everything you do: from the way you speak, to the way you walk, the way you look at others, etc.

Women, being social beings, can read you like a book from 100ft away. Its a turn off. You don't even need to open your mouth before they have a decent picture. So stop thinking about women. Focus on yourself. Your life goals. Your ambitions. Take care of those things, regardless of what others think. Develop your own style. Take care of your hygiene. Handle your health if you aren't already. Soon, you'll realize that a woman is an accessory to an already fulfilling life or one that's being strived for. They are not the center of your life. And they will never respect a man who puts them at the center, though they will take those benefits all day.

>>33576657
>And whether you know it or not, you subconciously exude that energy in everything you do: from the way you speak, to the way you walk, the way you look at others, etc.

So I’m basically fucked then. I have no motivation to work on myself knowing there’s a very real and probable chance I’m just going to end up alone in the future. There’s no point in working towards a lonely, depressing future.

>>33576674
No, you're only fucked if you don't do anything about it. I literally gave you things to start doing in my response but you've ignored those. Try reading it again.

>>33576690
I mean I’m literally autistic. No matter how hard I try to mask it, women will always have that sixth sense superpower to tell I’m not normal. I’ve been going to the gym for half a decade and it really didn’t lead to any self improvement except for strength and some muscle. I’m 26, and my time to find someone is basically over. So many younger people then me are already starting families and getting married. Meanwhile I can’t even get a text back. How is that supposed to motivate me for the future? Especially considering there’s no cure for autism. I’m forever cursed with that shit and women will always look right through me

>>33576727
>How is that supposed to motivate me for the future?
Nigger, what have you done to try improving your speaking skills? What, other than gym, is something you do? Did you really think gym was gonna be it? Literal fat dudes with no money can get women. My job has prisoners on work release from non violent crimes working positions here. They literally have no money, clothing style (wearing drab uniforms), etc. But guess what? Some of them are fucking female employees in the cafeteria where there are no cameras. You have to invigorate your personality, built your speaking skills, and add a hint of charisma. You could easily have women if you actually tried.

>>33576744
I do try. I constantly try to talk to women on dating apps and I always fail. Happy for your coworkers who are fucking women or whatever, but they aren’t autistic, shy, or introverted. Like you said, women are social creatures that can read you from 100 ft away. So no matter how hard I try I can never mask my autism or awkwardness. It’s literally impossible. Their brains are designed to sniff out the malfunctions in a man, and I’m one of them.


You can’t fool nature. I will never be able to bypass their fucking super spidey sense. I just need to find a way to cope with being alone for the rest of my life. No point in working towards a future where I’ll be the only coworker with no wife or kids living by myself.

>>33576762
>Apps
First problem. That's not real. You need to be talking to women in person or networking. Don't waste your time with that shit.
>but they aren’t autistic, shy, or introverted.
This is nothing more than an excuse. There are literal men in fucking wheelchairs that fuck bitches. There are homeless men getting pussy. And yes, there are autistic motherfuckers who decided to stop whining and trying anyway...who get pussy. It's like getting a new car then starting to see that same car everywhere all of a sudden. You're not seeing it any more than you did before. You've just chosen to focus on it now. Likewise there's tons of evidence to the contrary of the whiny bullshit you keep spouting. But because you're focused on the negative, you can't see it. I'm shy and introverted as well. But I have confidence. I have style. I carry myself well. And bitches that I have no business dating still like me and put themselves in my way.
>You can’t fool nature.
Nobody said you had to. But clearly your mind is too limited to continue this discussion.
> I will never be able to bypass their fucking super spidey sense.
As you will it, so shall it be, anon. The universe and god agree with whatever assessment you put forward. It is done, so long as you choose so. Peace.

>>33576784
In all likelihood I’m probably just going to end up an heroing myself soon anyway but I appreciate you trying to help me. You just don’t understand how it feels. I’m not blaming you cause you’re trying to help but you just can’t understand how I feel

>>33576832
I don't need to understand how you feel because it's irrelevant. YOU need to take the steps to rectifying that. I'm probably wasting my time with this but here goes:

What you must do is imagine the best version of yourself. What is he like? What does he wear? What does he do? But most importantly, how would you imagine he *feels* in his day to day life? That's the aspect you need. Because you can create happy situations in your head, as that best version of yourself, and imitate how he would feel in yourself. That is the kickstart you need to start doing the things to become that man and eventually materialize that truth in real-time.

I didn't go too deep, but that's basically what you've got to do. No arguing here. Take it or leave it. It is what it is. You either do it or you don't. Simple as.

>>33576853
I get what you’re saying. I think it’s extra difficult for me to improve myself because I kind of just hate myself. I hate my name, my voice, my personality, my hair, my body, etc. I feel like I’m so fundamentally flawed that I can’t really do anything to change that. Like I legit hate myself so much that I get mad when people even say my name. I just feel like such a failure due to my body defects, my weird body, my shy/introverted personality, etc. I feel like I want to disassociate myself from myself, if that makes sense. I was bullied a lot in school for having gyno and being awkward and I never got over it. I would do anything to just be an entirely different person. I know I can kind of do that by chalking my looks etc but I just feel like I’m not who I want to be by default and I can’t really escape myself no matter how hard I try. I just see so many people that are so much better than me and I get so jealous and upset at myself for not being normal like everybody else. I’m not trying to sound like Eliot Rodger or anything because I would never hurt anybody besides myself. I just constantly feel trapped as somebody I don’t want to be. Idek what to do. I’m so mentally fucked up in the head it’s crazy. I don’t even think I’m that ugly. Like I’m ugly but not ugly enough to not be able to get a girlfriend. That’s probably why I desire a girlfriend so bad, so I can feel like I’m good enough to be liked. When I’m constantly rejected or ghosted it just reinforces the fact that I’m not good enough and I hate myself for not being normal. I blame my parents for having me in their 40s, it totally fucked my life up

>>33571927
>Bro I’ve even trying for years on dating apps and I constantly get rejected or ghosted.
This is the norm

>>33576894
Not really. Most guys have no issues on dating apps. I’ve seen so many success stories online like on r/seduction. I hate Reddit more than anybody else but that place proves normies have no issue getting girls.

>>33576883
>I kind of just hate myself
This is your biggest issue.
>I hate my name, my voice, my personality, my hair, my body, etc.
You can literally change all of these. Why haven't you?

I'm not going to engage further, because to do so requires me to entertain a level of negativity that I simply don't allow to exist in my life. You have what you need to do. Trauma vomiting what you feel isn't going to fix it. Action will. I sincerely hope you take action vs wallowing in a pit of doom. The longer you do that, the harder it will be to pull yourself out.

Peace anon. You are the only one who can save you.

>>33571565
Because they can sense the fact that you think they don't like you.

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>>33571565
Sexual status resembles employment status. If you're a jobless loser and try to find a job nobody wants your ass.
But if you already have a job and go on exploratory interviews and make it clear that you love your job and would only consider being lured away for a 10% raise because you feel you could handle more important responsibilities, everyone wants to hire you.

Same thing with women. If you aren’t getting any, you give off defeated loser vibes and women look at you and assume the reason you have no woman is because you aren’t good enough for one.

>>33576762
>I constantly try to talk to women on dating apps
>on dating apps
How about in real life, you lazy nigger?

>>33577720
I’m too scared to approach women irl. I can’t even get a reply on bumble because I’m too “nice” and “soft”. I stand no chance against any woman whether it’s from dating apps or irl. I’m just a beta bitch who’s too nice and boring.

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>>33571565
are they worthy at all anon?

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>>33577664
I have a girlfriend and haven't noticed any increased attention from women. Tbh women mostly ignore me except for the ones who are older. I've only ever slept with women that are 7-10 years older than me.

>>33578056
>I've only ever slept with women that are 7-10 years older than me.
Based milf hunter

>>33578056
You might be ugly and/or she might be ugly or mid. If you had a prettier woman things would be different.

>>33578138
They chose me. Not the other way around

>>33578324
I would rate myself 6/10 but with a very nice body. Been lifting for years and my diet is on lockdown. People have complimented my girlfriend when we're out. Realistically I'd say we're looksmatched, but she looks better than me with makeup on

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>>33571565
they're too busy liking me, sorry OP
jk, not sorry

>>33571565
Those bitches

>>33577720
nta but does anyone really meet girls from outside? Every couple I know of met on a dating app with a tiny minority who met in college. It feels like whenever a woman wants to be in a relationship she just gets on an app and finds a bf within a few hours or days

>>33571973
>Goes to therapy
>"Well anon, you're autistic"
money well spent

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>use dating apps
>very few matches
>nearly impossible to set up a date because they always answer late and ghost

>approach women IRL
>they look at me as if I'm a gypsy selling fake perfume
>95% they say no
>5% we date but she's dating multiple other guys and they're >better
>never receive a single compliment or anything, the dates feel as if she's the recruiter and I have to prove my worth

I have to say, I'm confused. I know I'm not ugly. I'm in good shape, I dress well, I'm relatively tall.
The only pleasant female interactions I had were on vacation in asia, probably due to the exotic factor.

I don't even know what I could improve anymore that would actually make an impact. Probably money, but my field is kinda fucked lately, so I don't think I can get any good raises in the next years.

Is there anything I could do at this point? I'm 26 if that matters.

>>33578911
You are inherently unlikeable.

>>33578773
>It feels like whenever a woman wants to be in a relationship she just gets on an app and finds a bf within a few hours or days
And how would you know this? Are you the guy they're finding online and making into their boyfriend within hours? I somehow doubt it. No, your entire post is born from seethe and being on the outside looking in.
>Every couple I know of met on a dating app with a tiny minority who met in college
Ok, fine. Meanwhile the vast majority of couples *I* know met either at work, school or through shared activities and mutual friends.

>>33577765
>I’m too scared to approach women irl
Yeah, no shit.
So why did you ask why women don't like you (and make this thread) when you knew the answer this whole time?

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>>33571565
Girls like me but I don't do anything about it so I lose my chance

>>33576940
>admits he believes everything on plebbit
lol

Bump

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