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so we were having sex and she said hey what if we watch some porn while we do it? and i said yeah why not, we scrolled until we found a video we both liked and we started watching it, she wanted to try extreme dirty talk like in the video (was some anal pov stuff), we started fucking and i called her my anal cumslut and she started crying, i lost my erection and i asked her what happened and she screamed to me "never call me that thing again" and went to her place still crying. am i wrong? i did what she wanted and she got mad at me... i liked calling her that though, i'll never do it again, but i discovered a new fetish...
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Women be stupid yo and unironically have trigger words. My GF is fine with every dirty insult under the sun except "bitch"
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>>33587726
maybe you should have talked about what is ok and not ok first. my guess would be that the "slut" part was what set her off
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She wanted you to tell her how much she turns you on and how much you want to fuck her ass, not that she's disgusting for letting you do that. Are you retarded?
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>>33587726
I don't know man that is weird, especially if she likes watching porn with you? My gf was a virgin when we met and I had limited sexual experience (2 people, sex once with each),but she absolutely loves dirty talk and being called a my dirty little slut during sex. She is anti porn though, which is fine by me as I suffered with porn addiction that in part delayed my sexual experiences from occuring. To be fair though I never called her a slut until she referred to herself as such with something like "I'm such a slut for you" so I think it would be best to apologise and state your intent which was ultimately to turn her on, and that you should establish some groundrules on what she would like to be called if she's going to be so fussy about it, my guess is that she probably has some trauma associated with one or all of those words.
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>>33587726
Wow, maybe try not being a depraved degenerate and your life will get better?
Acting like an animal who seeks maximal satisfaction at all time isn't a good way to live, you know.
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>>33587726
Your girlfriend is an anal cumslut, dude. You’ve just resurfaced some dark memories that she’s ashamed of. Nice going (I mean this unironically because I hate whores).
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>>33587819
>my guess is that she probably has some trauma associated with one or all of those words
that's a stretch, slut, whore etc. are just some of the worst things to be called for 99% of women, even promiscuous girls that like to show of their bodies and act sexual usually don't want to be called that
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History of abuse. She was probably molested and your comment triggered something inside her.
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>>33587726
"Extreme dirty talk" doesn't necessarily mean insulting and degrading someone. You're an idiot.
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>>33587726
>gf got mad at me for calling her an "anal cumslut?
Ah, but did you say it with love?
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>>33587726
an ex gf I had some 10 years ago was ok with me calling her everything except my little whore, she had a mental breakdown when I called her that, I couldn't explain it, we used way stronger and more demeaning words in the past and she was ok and very turned on by those
it wasn't until some years later that I found out she was tricked into underage prostitution by an older female cousin and the handful of clients that she got used to call her that all the time.
yeah, shit was rough.
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>>33587726
>am i wrong?
yes. pornobrained nonsense. you know better
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>>33587726
I wish I had your gf, can I borrow her for 2 hours?
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>>33587726
did you guys talk about it again afterwards?



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