How do I stop thinking about being a 36y old virgin?Everything I do feels like a distraction from this factVidya doesn’t help anymore
Where are you from? At this point why don't you just go to an escort?If you go down that route I'd advise to invest some money into a high-end one with reviews available somewhere.Moralists will insult me but it doesn't have to be a completely soulless or porn-brained experience. Not having any physical intimacy with a woman ever is worse than the 'guilt' you might feel for paying for a sexual service.
Hooker.
>>33587955>>33587928Australia, at this point I don’t see another option. I was holding out thinking it would happen before 40 but I really don’t see that occurring
>>33587924you literally have no excuse as a white man as ethnic women literally line up for the white man's seed. If you're a deathnic, well it's gg
>>33587924>If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first.
>>33587964I did it around 27 y/o...34 now. It doesn't really fix anything. But it does help you realize how insignificant sex is. You'll wonder why you attached so much importance to it for all this time.
>>33587928>>33587955>>33588142Imagine being such a crybaby that you resort to a hooker. You all either have no spine to talk to women or no self-control to realise that it doesn't fix anything, either way it's extremely pathetic.
just focus on solving itsave up money, quit your job and go to university again as soon as you canonce in uni you can just talk to women, go to parties and hook upits all about uni
>>33587928As someone who tried to go the escort route, it doesn’t work. Only thing that will actually mend that hole in your heart is smashing cute girls that are into you.
>>33587924Meet women
>>33587924>How do I stop thinking about being a 36y old virgin?Just wait a year
I would have roped nglPeople like you are mentally strong as fuck
>>33587928>>33587955>>33587974>>33588164>hooker/hook-upnta but what's the point? My "problem" with being virgin isn't the fact that I never stuck my dick into someone else, it's that I'm seemingly to socially inept to make someone want me to do that. Not to mention sex without emotional attachment is just jerking off with extra steps
>>33587924Going to therapy helped me notice and start to work on some underlying issues with self acceptance.As a side effect, that I didn't even fully notice until quite some time has passed I started caring way less about never having a gf. That feeling almost entirely defined me in the past, now it's just a fact I think of occasionally and don't have any strong feelings about.
>>33588164The ship has sailed on being considered pathetic by normies when you are still a virgin after 20, much less 30. At that point, it's just what you want and if you're willing to get it by paying or not.
You live in the age with ai girlfriends and sex bots. Soon men will combine the two. Why are you still upset?
Make some drastic changes and see what happens. When I felt like a loser, I stopped eating and became a bit crazy and lost weight and soon lost my virginity. Rationality has only failed you, try another path.
>>33587928>>33587955kys degenerates
>>33588167der schooler schoolposting againif bro wasn't able to talk to girls his first time around in middle school and jr high and high school and college and university, how would he be doing any better as as near 40 year old?
>>33587924What helped me was accepting that I'm not willing to put the effort into improving myself enough to be attractive for woman and committing to the single life. Make use of the freedom you have to get into new hobbies or justg keep doing whatever it is you enjoy doing. You genuinely don't need a significant other (or even just sex) to be happy. That's not cheap comfort talk, that's the reality of things. It might be hard to get there, but you can get to a point where you are content with who your are and how different you are from the norm. I managed to do it and I'm 7 years younger than you.
>>33590007>When you are still a virgin after 20No my friend, there is nothing pathetic about it, unless you're actually trying and actively failing, if you willingly reject it, you can only laugh at normies for being emotionally weaker than chickens.
>>33589972It's a step. Maybe try it to lose the fear of talking to girls. Tell them stuff, just use them to stop caring about the things you care too much now.I guess 35 is a good cutoff, i'm 30 but i'll definitely go that route if there's no other resource.
>>33592448>i'll definitely go that route if there's no other resource.>> i must have sex, i must, my source of ultimate happiness is to spread legs becuase my 43 IQ brain cannot percieve anything greater than that!!1!
>>33592487It's just sex man, It's probably fun and I'm barring myself from that fun by fussing over a relationship others don't want to start with me. 35 sounds like a good cutoff to let go of any romanticism and just live life as you want.
>>33592437That's fair for you individually, and for religious people. You can't be blind to how society at large sees that kind of thing though.
>>33592532You care too much about pleasing others and you think it makes you incompetent, which isn't true. Even if someone makes fun of you for being a virgin, you can be assured that you do not live for them, it's your life and nobody can take your freedom to be that way.>>33592762Then change society. Be a shining example to incels worldwide, show them how modern society will eventually evolve into the one of Brave New World and rebel with passion.
