I am beyond desperate. I can't stop losing my erection when using condoms not only because I get distracted, but because I can hardly feel anything at all. I've got a girth/circumference of ~120mm and I've tried all kinds of sizes and fits from 55-56mm nominal width to 60mm. None of them slipped off but none of them felt any better or uncomfortable either. I can never feel anything when i put them on, not even when i masturbate. I've tried thin ones, thick ones, everything. I was about to try the durex invisible that are 54mm as a last resort but I get the feeling they might be too tight for me. What the fuck should I do? Durex and Skyn are my only options. I think I've convinced my girlfriend to start birth control pills but she wants to hold off on them until after some exams she has scheduled next month because she's afraid they might mess with her hormones and affect her performance. I'm at a loss, why are condoms so bad for me.
>>33590347Just do it raw and pull out u pussy. Think you can't do it? Practice by masturbating and edging. Don't get your gf on the pill that will mess up her hormones.
>>33590764The pull out method sounds horrible though, doesn't it basically ruin your orgasm? Ruins it for both of you. It's also not even that effective at preventing pregnancy.
>>33592626not really pulling out and busting one on her back or stomach feels kind of awesome and its cinematic af
>>33590347Same experience brother, and I reached the conclusion that I'll just have to suck it up if my gf doesn't want contraceptives. Although - a better option hormonally is the copper IUD, it has the usual downsides of IUD plus a possibility of inducing much stronger cramps and bleeding, but it doesn't cause any hormonal changes.
>>33590347Have you ever tried female condoms?Do you masturbate a lot/ Watch a lot of porn? You might feel underwelmed during sexAre you on some medication ? Some amphetamines derivatives will cause you to get distracted during sex.I usually like lifestyle ultrathin i find them cheap and comfortable the durex ones are fine top but they don’t sell in bulk.Trojan has some condoms that feel like wearing a ziploc bag I have used skyn with a former lover who was allergic to latex, but they sthink and aren’t as solid as latex ones. I would only recommand if one of you is allergic to latex. They smell awfull.They also have the pills for men now.>>33590764Don’t fucking do that.Way too many single moms out there.
>>33592658Copper IUDs are a great choice in many situations, but you don't want amped-up cramping if you have an important exam coming up in a month.
>>33592658Have you ever rawfucked a girl wirh an IUD, only to have the string bite your penis?
>>33592819>Have you tried female condoms?I haven't, though I've heard of them. I'm a bit skeptical of how they work. Like, how do they not get lost in there? Do you have to hold on to them from the outside at all times?>Do you masturbate a lot/watch a lot of porn?I did, I think. I used to go at least once a day, always with porn. I managed to cut back lately, I haven't watched porn in around 2 weeks, but I still masturbate 4-5 times a week. I've been thinking of quitting completely for a while to see how it will affect me, but I can tell it's not easy, after 2-3 days of abstaining I keep getting this itch.I heard about the pills for men, but I didn't think they're available to the public yet, am I mistaken?
>>33593078>how do female condoms not get stuck inThere is a ring outside that is too big to get inThey arent as comfortable as male condoms but since your problem is circulation, that won’t be an issue here.>I masturbate a lot but don’t watch pornTry not holding it as tight maybe buy a loose fleshlight or something less tight than your gf, while wearing a condom. That way you will enjoy it more inside your gf. You might have a deathgrip. You hand will never be as tight as a vagina, that’s a fact.>Pill not available to public yet.It seems you’re right. However there are contraceptive cockring availables. You just have to wear them on your cock and balls for 15h a day, before having sex.
>>33590347Stop banging hookers then bro. No one uses condoms unless you're a prostitute. I've been with like 15 girls in my life altogether and none of them ever made me use a condom still to this day. No normal girl is gonna want you to use a condom.
>>33593123I assume you meant a vagina will never be as tight as your hand. I have considered death grip before, it is a likely possibility I guess, especially since I do it pretty fast and rough often times. I'm curious though, wouldn't that also affect sensation when going in raw? Because I don't really have that much of a problem when not using a condom, I even came close to finishing once when she was on top and we were doing it raw. Would quitting masturbation cold turkey for a while fix death grip?
>>33593187Save it for someone who's interested, buddy. Neither of us wants children in our early 20s
>>33593204>vagina not as tight as handYes I got distracted and it changed the meaning of my sentance.>Should I abstain from masturbation and go rawHell no. Abstenance will make you cum faster.It seem that your problem really is about the condom. So either try a female condom or go raw when one of you is on s crontraceptif either a contraceptif cockring or a IUDIf you do go raw, I suggest both you and your gf get tested on a regular basis.HSV2 can show up 30years after the initial contamination
