40/m that's only had sex once. Should I give up on trying to find someone, or am I just a crimson flag at this point?
If you're a hot old man I'm sure you can bag someone. If not.... (0_0)
>>33592407I'm...idk? I've been told I look younger than my age. 5'7" 150lbs but fairly fit. Greying a bit.
>>33592425Sounds enticing.... good luck ( ^ ~ ^ ) I'm sure you can find someone
>>33592493Thanks, anon. Much appreciated.
>>33592362If you want to be with someone, you shouldn't give up. I don't think many 40 y/o women are going to be asking your bidy count anyway, that's more an insecure 20 y/o woman thing
>>33592574They might ask if I'm really bad at sex, is my fear.
>>33592574just thought of this and it might matter...my body count is 1, yes, but once means once, one time at 37 and it's been 3 & 1/2 years now
>>33592612Did your first time having sex go well?
>>33592362The truth is no one wants to hear about how much sex you're or aren't having. Stop putting your fangs on display. Your an adult. Find an adult, become friends, if your game is tight and most importantly shes going for it, then dive in and have sex. Stop making it some grand event, its sweaty, gross, and exciting only to do not disuss
>>33592718It did actually, but she knew I was a virgin.>>33592728I will, but my issue is that I'm going to fail what my partner 'expects'. I am definitely a huge outlier at my age. If she knows I'm 40, she'll probably have a sexual expectation, and I will probably not be able to achieve
>>33592362>Should I give up on trying to find someoneYes.
>>33592833jawsome
>>33592362Do you WANT to have sex again? What have you done to try to get it?
>>33592999Yes. Dating apps and occasionally asking out women I know.
>>33592362If you haven't been having sex wtf have you been doing for 40 years?
>>33592822I feel like if it went well the first time, you don't have to worry about failing her expectations. A lot of 40 y/o men are apparently terribke at sex, according to their wives, so do whatever you did the first time, listen to her, be responsive, and she probably won't guess you're inexperienced
