>grow up socially isolated>have wealthy family and good looks due to mom having worked as a model but have to learn everything on my own including tying my shoelaces or basic hygiene >form opinions and beliefs and mannerisms different from everyone around me>not religious like my parents, not tied to cultural backgrounds like my peers, not aligned with the political or social beliefs of anyone I know and have very different ideas regarding sex and love>can never ever make attempts at being myself to anyone, even remote hints at it have ended horribly for me and people around me in the past I don't know what to do. I sometimes drop bits and pieces of myself on this website as a coping mechanism but I wish there was someone I could be honest to about everything, I'm tired of having had to lie for the past decade non-stop. I'm so so so fucking lonely. Gonna try sleeping it off.
>>33595958> Born just in time to talk to chatgpt
>>33596013Been doing that. Usually get blocked by the "We have reason to believe this conversation isn't safe or legal anymore" (paraphrased) half way in.
>>33595958Listen to sesh and Sam vaknin. Good luck, just don't kill yourself. You don't need a God when you're this fuckin rare.
>>33595958I won't read too vague threads. Be specific next time.
>>33596047Guess I'll take a listen, thanks.>Just don't kill yourselfI'm overly sympathetic to a great extent sadly, and my parents are too much of an emotional mess to handle that. So I'm trapped at the very least until they die, I just hope I'll find something that fills the void in me in the meantime.
>>33596093Feel free to let me know what you want me to elaborate on
>>33596132>form opinions and beliefs and mannerisms different from everyone around meLike what>not religious like my parents, not tied to cultural backgrounds like my peers, not aligned with the political or social beliefs of anyone I know and have very different ideas regarding sex and loveLike what>can never ever make attempts at being myself to anyone, even remote hints at it have ended horribly for me and people around me in the pastHow> I wish there was someone I could be honest to about everything, I'm tired of having had to lie for the past decade non-stop.Sure you can talk to me, I'm interested>have wealthy family and good looks due to mom having worked as a model but have to learn everything on my own including tying my shoelaces or basic hygieneGold digger dynamic
>>33596276Every person I've met both IRL and online has a vague sense of modern Christianity/humanitarian values embedded into them and freak out when they encounter someone who doesn't relate to them. I wish I could go further in depth but half the shit I could say could be interpreted as illegal lmao. One example is that one time I pulled a politically charged prank on a teacher that was bullying my friend since the teach was very open about his beliefs and somehow it turns out I crossed multiple social and historically insensitive lines with that. That aside, I absolutely despise hypocrisy and got VERY good at pointing it out due to my constant outside perspective from not ever fitting into any group, which also makes it hard to share my honest thoughts with people without them feeling insulted and betrayed about it. People always tell me they're different but they never are.>Sure you can talk to meDrop your Discord or whatever then I guess, I'll see what to do once I wake up>Gold digger dynamic ?
>>33596449Wealthy ugly man buys hot model wife>Christianity/humanitarianTrad thumpers n pussy footersI hate hypocrisy too and I'm curious what sorta values you holddeft_style now send your hottest takes
>>33596032what is that? is it an AI response or like a warning message that blocks you completely from continuing the conversation?
>>33597753Yeah. It's essentially OpenAI saying "Yeah we REALLY do not want our chat bot learning any of this, please fuck off".
>>33596449>one time I pulled a politically charged prank on a teacher that was bullying my friend since the teach was very open about his beliefs and somehow it turns out I crossed multiple social and historically insensitive lines with thatThe teacher was jewish or a repbulicuck and the prank was anti-jew, right?
>>33599230You're half right. My teacher was a horrible person that bullied a friend of mine pretty harshly, so I thought of a fun way to pay him back despite not caring about politics lol. Bonus outrage and police involvement since this happened in Germany :3
>>33595958That just means you can focus your life on creating exactly what you need since nobody else is relevant.
>>33599292>creating exactly what you needBeen doing that to fill my need for social interaction. My main friend group consists of male autists I somewhat mentally groomed into not fitting well into society, so I can sometimes drop a few more layers of masks when I'm with them. It's not nearly enough but it's a start. I've done this with romantic partners as well, but I broke ties each time because either they didn't fit certain criteria I'd want in a partner, or they simply wouldn't ever fully be detached and deranged enough for me to be myself.
>>33599392Mhm, sounds like progress then.
>>33599450I don't know. It's really exhausting to shape or distort a person's entire framework in life, and not seeing things work out in the end is just really discouraging. I'm not sure where to find the right person.
>>33595958at least you have money anon.I am the same way.Having to blend in due to needing jobs and other shit is much more horrific than you can imagine.
>>33600622Same here. I also made the mistake of being authentic with my wife after over 15 years together and now she hates me. She insists she doesn't believe in divorce but has told me numerous times that she hopes I die soon. I am the sole breadwinner so I have to keep everything under wraps even as my heart is destroyed.
>>33600737What'd ya tell your wife anon?
>>33596449dude you're on a site full of a pedophiles and even some literal terrorists that shot up a place or two and you're being vague about some dumb prank you pulledi think the reason you refuse to be clear is because you know that your struggles are nothingburgers and writing them out will make you realize how comical they are but they've become a part of your identity so you act like le mysterious psychoand don't get me wrong i do believe you when you say that you're a "dangerous" person because any retard can randomly stab someone or abuse those weaker than them but you're not unique in that regard and are hurting yourself by clinging to this kind of self image
>>33601283>site full of a pedophiles and terroristsI'm not implying I'm deranged or in need to dish out damage to society (at least not directly on an individual end for the most part, you need a systematic approach to truly have lasting change), I'm saying I just want to be myself but doing so never works out because nobody is like me. Terrorist groups have an ideological and often ethnic bond, pedophiles have each other in their little online bubbles, I don't have anyone I can be myself with without losing the other person. Worst of all is that these people seem to find lovers that tolerate them for who they are without issue. I saw a documentary about this one serial pedo in the Philippines when I was like 13-14 and he had a wife that helped him find victims by luring them in. And to this day I feel an insurmountable amount of envy towards that man. I'm not a piece of filth like he is, I'm hotter than he is and I can offer more to someone than he can. And yet he had a partner in crime that loved his authentic self.
>>33601475lots of words and you said nothing of interest but ok i don't care anymore just wanted to insult you
>>33601510I'm somewhat in a similar boat. I don't want to insult OP, although what I'm about to say will be perceived as an insult. OP, my guess is your between the age of 18-22. You're at an early age of adulthood and exploration. Your lack of socialization in your youth lead you to become very adept at thinking. I'll also guess that you did decently well in school, leading to develop an identity of the genius nerd archetype. This can lead to some antisocial mannerisms, but you're probably exaggerating the extent due to your age and desire to feel unique. >>33601475>I don't have anyone I can be myself withWelcome to being young, bud. This is the time for you to decide what you value. Most people are off, but through socialization, learn to curb their antisocial behaviors. You can work on that if you want. Just be prepared to fuck up and replace your antisocial identity with a different one. >>33600737>I also made the mistake of being authentic with my wife after over 15 years Elaborate.>>33599392>My main friend group consists of male autists I somewhat mentally groomed into not fitting well into societyThis is adorable kek. OP, I'm not trying to be a dick, but you're probably not the master manipulator you think yourself to be. Autistic people, especially males, especially young males, especially the Asperger's type, already have a higher tendency towards being atypical.
>>33601573>my guess is you're a young adultDamn, who could've guessed considering I mentioned my parents and school like thrice>exaggerating the extentMaybe, but I still don't remember a single person I ever managed to be even remotely authentic with. Maybe this is something universal and you're not expected to be able to share every single thought and opinion you have with someone, but at the very least to me, it's immeasurably isolating to always put on a multitude of layers of masks whenever I interact with anyone socially.>desire to feel uniqueEveryone does this to some extent, but I really do wish being me was the norm so I could sit back and let life take its natural course. Not having to think and just working hard sounds like a dream.>learn to curb their antisocial behaviorsI'm already decent enough when it comes to masking, I just don't want to always keep one up, it's exhausting and draining and lonely.>This is adorableYeah they're adorable. Retarded and obnoxious half the time but I'm glad they exist >probably not the master manipulatorOh, not at all. In most cases, both platonically and romantically, it was them willing to slightly change over time for me. It just feels like grooming because when I do end up dropping hints and peeks behind the mask, it drags people into being more like what I show them and ends up having them stick out like a sore thumb from other people. Hell, one girl lovingly called me her groomer instead of some bullshit like "babe" for months and literally told me she can't look at the word "nonce" without thinking of me anymore. And I still don't think I did enough for her to even have the vaguest of ideas of who I actually am.
>>33601693>Damn, who could've guessed considering I mentioned my parents and school like thriceYou're being a smartass, so I get to do it back. >>33595958No blatant age indicator here besides having parents, which isn't an age indicator for hopefully obvious reasons.>>33596032None here.>>33596101Parents - So none here. >>33596449>One example is that one time I pulled a politically charged prank on a teacherPast tense - We've all been to school. >>33599238>My teacher was a horrible personPast tense - Also indicative of a sense of morality and justice.>>33599392>>33599650>>33601475None. My point is that, without you being aware of it, you come off as very young. Why does this matter? My point is that your feeling are incredibly typical for your age. You can continue to reject this fact if you're that desperate to fulfill your isolation fetish, but it's true. This is evidenced by the fact you keep referring to vague notions of illegal thoughts consuming your mind. Reality is, people mask constantly. You are not special. Here's an example of something people won't admit. People call anyone attracted to those under 18 as pedophiles. This is scientifically silly. There is significant value in distinguishing between pedophiles, hebephiles, and ephebophiles. Ephebophilia is within the acceptable range of adult attraction, and hebephilia debatably is as well. Attraction and acting on attraction are different questions, though. There are soft edgy opinions such as this you can have. You're young and probably think they're way edgier than the are, although by the fact you literally can't even think of an example of your antisocial thoughts, I can tell you without a doubt you're incredibly normal.
>>33601815>You're being a smartassHey you started :3>No blatant age indicator here besides having parentsMy original point was that me mentioning my parents or family often considering a personal problem of mine in itself is the obvious age indicator. You're clearly winning an imaginary argument where you both decide my position and what counts as a counterargument, despite both of those being wrong.>you come off as very youngYeah, I'm not trying to come off as older than I am either way. But I'm also not going to pull some "Oh I should shut up and respect my elders and listen to what they have to say" bullshit on a thread LITERALLY talking about how I'm tired of putting on masks and how isolating it is to be dishonest. I'm not trying to be a dick towards you, I'm simply enacting the exact behavior I described in the thread :0>illegal thoughts consuming your mindNot quite. It's more that a lot of my philosophical and moral notions are moreso unaligned with what most people consider common sense. I live in Germany and non-humanitarian beliefs are generally illegal to state or share, and even if I lived somewhere else, it'd be hard to impossible to come across anyone that agrees to these notions with the exception of a few retards on this image board.>people mask constantlyAnd yet they have people that allow them to unmask from time to time, see the example of the serial pedo. Could you imagine a conversation with your friends having the same distance and care put into them as a formal meeting with your boss? That's how my social interactions often go and I hate it. I can't blame my friends either for distancing themselves from me for opening up because I don't know if I'll ever meet people less ready to distance themselves for opening up even close to that.>The hebephile argumentUuuuu, lemme continue this in the next block, I'm hitting max length limit soon
>>33601815>>33601945Continuation>Hebe argument That'd be one of the things I keep in my back pocket, I've just never gotten to use it outside of 4chan. Again, you do realize that this is something you generally can't share with people, but this type of inability to share one's beliefs goes for so much of myself that I can't breathe. Maybe it's just me being more of a pussy than other people that also spend their lives masking, but I really really wish there was someone I could share my thoughts with.>literally can't even think of an exampleI enjoy talking to you. Despite my bratty responses, I swear I enjoy talking to you. But I've had a ton of other people in your shoes that stopped interacting with me for stating my genuine opinion, or even things close to it. I lost a female friend a few years back because I made a lighter version of the hebe thing in regards to me not caring that Ryuko from Kill la Kill is supposedly 17, because realistically what the hell is the difference between 17 and 18, it's not like they magical become a different person the millisecond the clock does a single tick forwards.Independently of how much you tell me how it's all in my head and my identity is all normal, I'm starving for conversations like these where I can at least verbalize parts of my issue and I'm nothing short of terrified of losing another cool person to interact with because I peeled off too much from the mask.It's not just me being different either, it's my environment constantly expecting me to be different from what I really am.My parents want me religious, connected to their country of origin and positive towards immigration, women that are interested in me think I can fulfill their violent abuser fantasies because I look like a jacked terrorist, my uni and old school mates want me to agree to their political beliefs and I could go on. I never get a chance to be just me, and when I do, people assume it's satirical or wait for me to sign that it was a joke
>>33596101I garentee you his words will be far more useful, applicable, and true than any comment you'll get here or in your own personalized hell. I can't reveal it all to you, but you'll understand one day.
>>33601945>Hey you started :3I explicitly didn't.>You're clearly winning an imaginary argument where you both decide my position and what counts as a counterargument, despite both of those being wrong.Incorrect. I'm happy to explain this to you again if you'd like, although again, you probably don't care to hear this yet. Your feelings stem from the fact you are young. The thoughts you're describing are very common for your age. >But I'm also not going to pull some "Oh I should shut up and respect my elders and listen to what they have to say"Ironic. What board are we on again? Kek. Regardless, that's not what I'm asking you to do. My point is that the biggest indicator of your age in this thread is your thoughts process. Not anything about your parents, but the fact that you sound like someone young that wants to be very distinct. This is extremely common for your age. Isolation fetish is an apt description of it. >It's more that a lot of my philosophical and moral notions are moreso unaligned with what most people consider common sense.Most people are, to be blunt, philosophically illiterate. It's funny for you to be from Germany and not understand this. Anyone that chooses to think critically about philosophy is going to stumble into some differences of opinion. That's called having philosophy as a hobby. Congratulations, you have a hobby!>see the example of the serial pedoThis isn't an example of someone being allowed to unmask. It sounds like two people with a similar inclination towards pedophilia met each other. This is not a good example for you. It's the opposite in fact. Imagine if the wife unmasked and revealed to the husband that his behavior grosses her out. Do you think he'd actually change his ways? Do you think he'd want to stay with her? I'll respond to your next post soon.
>>33602006>I've just never gotten to use it outside of 4chan.Good. It's a retarded waste of time. Outside of niche psychological circles, this is almost always discussed by people that want to fuck kids.Think of it this way. I think anatomy is fascinating. You might also think anatomy is fascinating. Since we both think anatomy is fascinating, just imagine how fascinating it would be if I amputate your legs so we can study them together. If I ever told you this, you would never be my friend. Why? All I did was pose a hypothetical to you. >. I lost a female friend a few years back because I made a lighter version of the hebe thing in regards to me not caring that Ryuko from Kill la KillI don't know what this means, but I'm skeptical that this is the whole reason you lost this friend. What did she say about this afterwards? I'm not very educated on anime, but from everything I see, anime highschool girls are always drawn in their sexual prime to an almost perverse degree. I don't care if people are sexually attracted to drawn girls designed to look sexually attractive. I'm assuming that's what your hinting at. I must reiterate that you are significantly more normal than you think you are. The fact you're do cryptic about this supposedly illegal beliefs you hold means you're either very self aware of have mostly tame opinions.>I'm starving for conversations like theseHave you tried to make conversations enjoyable for other people?>positive towards immigrationWe're finally getting somewhere. The root of this seems to be you developing your own identity separate from your parents and social group. It makes sense that you feel isolated now. Your entire life has been structured around this political and religious belief from your parents, so it's not surprising your social circle reflects that. You're not broken. People with the exact opposite situation of you can go through something similar (atheist to theist, etc).
Good morningg>>33602028Will look into it>>33602053>I'm not being a smart ass, it's just you>Now listen to me preach about how much more I know about yourself than you doCome on you gotta have some level of self awareness to be at the very least open to the notion that I'm mirroring your behavior.>differences of opinionPhilosophy classes were fun, thanks for the reminder. Either way, what's the point of coming to a different endpoint of opinions when you can't share them with others outside of this place?>>33602106>If I told you this, you would never be my friendNo, I absolutely would and that's the point I'm talking about, I WANT someone that I can share those thoughts with without consequence. There's this movie called "The Platform", a mirror of how the free market erases empathy or whatever, and the general idea is that people get isolated onto an elevator's levels, "platforms", with different access levels to food. I watched this one with a girl and we got into this stupid conversation about whether my likelihood of survival would be higher if I routinely knocked her up and cannibalized the newborn before cannibalizing her. I've rarely been that close to being just me as within that conversation. I want someone that I can act like this with on a daily basis.Oh, and I'd be honored if you took enough of an interest in my quads to amputate my legs off, I've been working hard on squats for a reason :3>Have you tried to make conversations enjoyable? I do well in social environments, hell, I work as a tutor and run a fitness and cosplay account and act like the most extroverted nut in history when I have a reason to approach and make conversation with people at events and such. People generally seem to enjoy my company more than I do theirs, my main problem mostly just consists of trying to get away from them when pretending to be someone else gets too exhausting.>separate from your parents and social groupResponding to this in a continuation again
>>33602106>>33603456ContinuedI mean the good morning message now kind of feels out of place, it's 1pm but I'm just now checking back on 4chan so you're still getting a good morning message.>Isolated from parents and social groupYou make it sound like somewhere there's an obvious group of people waiting for me to approach them. I haven't encountered these people before, nor ever saw anything indicative of their existence. My gym, my uni, my old school, conventions, most of the internet, social events of any kind, my family, my social circle, there's seemingly never anyone that is as open to concepts and as willing to hear them out as I am. I don't think your hypothesis of "Oh they're all just masking it's super normal" quite works when their reactions tend to be horrified at the slightest misstep.
>>33596132Why are u gay
>>33604137Got me :(
>>33595958There's no such thing as an authentic self. The word person comes from the Greek personae with means mask. If you want to be an authentic person you want to be a genuine fake. When most people say they want to be their authentic self what it really means is they want to say and do whatever they want and suffer no consequences for it because they're being 'authentic' so it's everyone else's fault if what they do or say chafes people. Not how dealing with other people works unfortunately. You're not supposed to bare your soul or turn off your filter with people, even those close to you.
>>33603456>open to the notion that I'm mirroring your behaviorYou're me when I was your age. Of course this is the case.>what's the point of coming to a different endpoint of opinions when you can't share them with others outside of this place?Welcome to philosophy. It's truthfully very boring for this exact reason. I find it fulfilling, but it's not a great conversation topic for the average person.>No, I absolutely wouldUh huh.>we got into this stupid conversation about whether my likelihood of survival would be higher if I routinely knocked her up and cannibalized the newborn before cannibalizing her. That's a very calorie intensive solution for minimal calorie intake (At max, 2 babies a year plus her body). If anything, you're best off immediately eating her since you'd spend energy regardless.>Oh, and I'd be honored if you took enough of an interest in my quads to amputate my legs Cute.>>33603472>I don't think your hypothesis of "Oh they're all just masking it's super normal" quite worksIt still works. It took multiple people multiple attempts at trying to clarify what exactly you meant. Now that you've given a mild example, I'm happy to clarify that people generally aren't masking to hide thoughts of cannibalism. Although my point is the same regardless. People choose to socialize themselves to fit into a group. You don't have to do this, but this does mean you're then limiting your social pool. Unfortunately for you, your immediate social pool is in religious contrast with your exploration of self. I can sympathize with that. I think you can find curiously minded people (Our scientific understanding is sometimes born from people like this), but you'll need to seek them out. No philosophy classes at your uni?
>>33605887>If you want to be an authentic person you want to be a genuine fake.Can you elaborate?
>>33605887Most people aren't talking about the greek sense because definition are blurred nowadays.>When most people say they want to be their authentic self what it really means is they want to say and do whatever they want and suffer no consequencesI think you're hitting the nail but i would say most people want a community that is more aligned, or absolutely aligned, with their values and behavior and the ones who want to eliminate personal consequences are loud exceptions
>Never found someone I could be 100% authentic withIs this actually something anyone can expect in this life? I would imagine even the most Neurotypical normies have things they keep to themselves. You can be yourself without constantly spouting your deepest and most controversial opinions.
>>33606555Narcissisim steals the abililty to be your true self. It absolutely is a thing. The same phenomenon can be observed with POW survivor stories.
>>33606562Not sure how that's relevant to my post. I was just trying to say people are very judgemental and it's rare to have people you could tell anything without repercussion.
>>33606725ignore the schizophrenicyour post makes great points
>>33605887Edgy, you still know there's layers to this and OP has a right to complain he can't be as honest with others as the average person
>>33607460omg layers like onions from shrek wow you and op are super deep and different
>>33605887>>33595958I’m just some anon reading this thread after the fact but I’d say a couple of things. First of all, the anon I replied to at the top of this post is right. Individuation is a lifelong process and never completes. OP, can you post what your thoughts are using a vpn? The German authorities already know your identity after your “prank.”If your ideas don’t involve harm to others, what could the problem be? Maybe others have retracted when you shared them in the past because they themselves feel them but similarly dislike themselves so they’re disgusted. Who knows…
OP here once again>>33605887I do realize it's technically impossible to have functional relationships without at least some form of constraint, but I do feel like I have to exercise this self restraint a lot more than others due to my circumstances, or at the very least, you can view it as me being weaker and more prone to feeling lonely due to it, call me a pussy if ya will. So I can at the very least dream about getting into a position that'll let me mask less and let me suffer less consequences, no? I already had the privilege of being more honest with the anon that dropped their Discord in this thread, so I'm hoping I'll one day be able to pull it off IRL as well, ideally even with a person I love if I'm lucky>>33606456Also this, I don't mind SOME consequences of course, I just don't want to be heavily punished for the most basic of behaviors by my personal standards.>>33607721Paste link down here is a random outtake of a few things that immediately popped up in mind when asked the same by the guy I've been talking to on DC. My statements aren't really things that require legal attention (unless the German Verfassungsschutz really has it out for me), they're just unconventional and socially isolating to state outside of online chat rooms, threads and comment sections. I've never met someone IRL that I could say any of this to.https://pastes.io/4chan-8049
>>33607830>but I do feel like I have to exercise this self restraint a lot more than others due to my circumstances, or at the very least, you can view it as me being weaker and more prone to feeling lonely due to it, call me a pussy if ya will.This has next to nothing to do with you being 'weaker', you may very well have to expend more energy than the average person to '''fit in''' and curb what you say and feel, and this is all very unfair, and everyone has to do this to some degree. That is nobody's fault, that's just life. But complaints and idle daydreams about the best or worst of all possible worlds get you, at best, less than nothing. What if your 'authentic self' is just not who you are when you have no constraints or obligations or protocols, but how you carry yourself and live with those rules and etiquettes anyway?
>>33608626>what if your authentic self is actually not liking how you do things...then I want a way of living that's inauthentic? Chasing ideal definitions and semantics doens't really help :0
>be me>see this thread>curious>"form opinions and beliefs and mannerisms different from everyone around me">hooked>op didnt give examples>keep scrolling>op finally gave examples>excited for unique opinions>click link>op hates jews
>>33609563He never said who they are unique to.
>>33609563Nigga to be fair WHO do you know that doesn't call you a schizo for that
>>33595958You can be yourself so long as yourself is good and like-able to others. Much of it is not necessarily about "how you are" but rather how it's presented, which means it's a skill to deliver yourself in a more tailored manner.In many ways, people shouldn't be authentic selves, unless they are authentically virtuous. This is a good thing. So become better or present your fucked up ideas in a more palatable ways.Good fortunes.
>>33609153>Chasing ideal definitions and semantics doens't really help :0Correct. Which is why saying "I wish I could be authentic" or any variation is mostly a bunk daydream at best or an immature desire to be free of all consequences at worst. If you don't like how you do things, you as a conscious human with agency, have access to the levers that change that.
>>33610079In theory yeah but in praxis you tend to have very limited time to pass on your ideas to others, which implies it's insanely advantageous if not necessary for that person to have an accepting inclination from the start.>>33610168I wouldn't know how to. How do I stop having to pretend I get along with my family or share any of their core beliefs? How do I tell most of my friends I haven't enjoyed spending time with them in years if not ever due to how it always feels like walking on eggshells around them because they seem to blow up towards any opinion they disagree with, including a ton of opinions I agree with? How do I call out nice people at the gym or at uni that say retarded shit without hurting their feelings? "Yeah man, just gotta shock the muscle and just gotta make sure to not miss the anabolic window and you absolutely gotta make sure to not count calories because that's an eating disorder" like shut the fuck up I never actively tried talking to you, you just came over and started talking bullshit and now it's a big social taboo for me to call you out for absolute lack of knowledge because all you'll do is go around telling other people how unfriendly I am and how I carry "bad vibes" which just gets people to gather and ask if something bad is going through my mind like oh my fucking God I never should have opened my mouth or had any thoughts to begin with AAAAAAAAAAAAA
>>33610569BECAUSE you have limited time and window of opportunity in talking to others - you should make what you communicate as smooth and palatable to the party. You have limited time, and any resistance or objections you generate detract from the objective.
>>33610569This reinforces my original intuition that this doesn't really have anything to do with being your 'authentic self' and more to do with you just don't know how to filter and be polite and not react. You do sound unfriendly and unpleasant from this post alone. I'm not saying this to be mean, just as a point of fact. Nobody likes a knowitall, nobody likes someone who goes around saying 'um ackchually'. That's a reddit attitude that you constantly have to be correct and point out why and how other people are doing something wrong. People don't need to share your beliefs any more than you need to share theirs. If you don't enjoy your friend's company that's on you for hanging around, not them. You don't 'call out' people with unrequited unasked for advice. All you need to do is nothing. It is trite advice, but it is true, not everything other people do requires a reaction learn to sit back and observe. Though it sounds like you could stand to learn some manners and social cues as well (autism?) People are going to be inefficient and wrong a lot (you are too). That's hardly a reason to get upset. And it's rude and very reddit to take every opportunity to point it out.
>>33595958it's called realizing 99% of people are biomass and can't understand nuance or honesty. it's called not being oversocialized so you actually judge opinions by their content rather than their social viability. you must understand, the rest of society cannot grasp this. you are different, and you will never find a place in society because of it.
>>33612741>im right and youre wrong>there's nothing more important in life than me being right and pointing out why other people are wrong in conversation>im am the only conciouss person in a world of sheep and so smart every need to know what a sheep they are and how smart i am in the most humorless and condescending way possible>wait why does nobody like me? >i guess im just too smart for other people thats why nobody likes me oh well guess this is just the curse of being super smart and interesting people are too dumb to understand how smart and interesting and correct i am every time
>>33612797To be fair in most cases it's fairly easy to point out what's wrong with the opinions that the isolated fag holds, but OP seems to rather be fearful of talking things out at all rather than people simply disagreeing
>>33596449>and somehow it turns out I crossed multiple social and historically insensitive lines with thatMy kikey sense is going off, are you semitic or middle-eastern?You sound non-European or part good-for-nothing semite.
