So I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 8 years. We're both 27. We would both like to have kids but I'm somewhat scared, more scared than she is. Not about the responsibility but about missing something or her not being the right one. She's the only woman I've had sex with. Pros: She's kind, hardworking, frugal and thin. Cons: She's only got a high school diploma, her parents aren't wealthy, she's got acne, her face isn't particularly pretty, she might get fat.Any anons who've got children and were in the same place as me?>pir rel
>>33597572Impregnate now worry later. Break the psyop brainwashing that makes you not want kids because it's just sex-ed health class brainwashing.
>>33597572I think the pros you listed outweigh the cons. However, with the exception of being kind you didn't list anything about her being a good mother or not. How does she handle stress? Can yall work out issues in a constructive way? Do you agree on parenting style? Is she good with kids?
>>33597572>girlfriend for 8 years.sin that cause sufferGF = lets fuck until I will find some one better for marriage. no commitment to the rest of your life or at least 20 years till kids will grow up, why you want to traumatize children? live in uncertainty if parents still be around, is not nice for kids.
>>33597572You've been together for 8 years and you're not sure yet if she's the right person for you? Most people figure that out in six months.
>>33597741worry later is a bad policy >>33597779she takes good care of me when I'm sick for example. I guess she'd be a good mom, she's good with kids.>>33597835If marriage weren't primarily a financial contract I'd have married her already.>>33597929How would I know if I don't have any frame of reference when she's the only woman I've ever been with.
>>33597572If you're basing the value and viability of your relationship on what she is rather than who she is, then you're not ready for the commitment of a relationship, and definitely shouldn't have kids with her or waste any more of her time giving her the false impression that you actually love her when you don't. You're not ready to be a parent or a partner when you're still thinking like a child yourself.
>>33597572I'd cum in your gf's pussy then eat my own cum from inside her, that's how fucking lonely and desperate and horny I am right now
>>33597965ok faggot have fun not doing anything unless you think about it for months and ask 4chan. I can impregnate her for you if you like.
>>33597997what a dumb opinion
>>33597997tell me smart ass what's the difference between who and what someone is
>>33598029What someone is: vain aspects like how much they earn, what job they have, their physical appearance, what they do for you. Being transactional is the opposite of a real relationship and partnership, and judging them like a metric to be measured rather than a person to be loved will lead nowhere worth going.Who someone is: their values, their character, their soul, their compatability with you, what you should actually love a person for and so choose to be with them because of. If you're treating love like you buy an appliance, if you're creating a list of pros and cons about a person to decide if you actually want to be with them, you don't love them, they're just convenient to your life. It makes you no better than the hypergamic THOTs incels like to cry about so much, who value money, status and physique over the man as a person. >>33598003Wow thanks, but I didn't ask
>>33598049Not OP and not the anon you were replying to, but I'd just like to point out that the what can be a heavy indication of the who. So separating the two into different categories isn't useful. They are just different levels of indications of the full picture of who this person is. If you're poor you:>Are probably black or white trash >Probably have a profound lack of motivation>Probably have a mental or physical disability If you look good and healthy you: >Probably work out, which indicates you have discipline and perseverance >Probably take showers, groom yourself, and dress well, which indicates a person who respects themselves and doesn't mind to be seen (so less likely to be anxious or avoidant)>Probably spends time doing beneficial things like sleeping, eating well, and socializing outside, which indicates this person respects themselves and has motivationWith that being said, I absolutely agree that OP and people should judge others based on their values and attitude and personality rather than things you cannot change.
>>33598049>treating women like appliances Sounds based to me
>>33597998>>33598001coomer brains like you will never be happy
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