hi /adv/honestly, I am a 35 year old man here is a QRD green text>18-25 messed around uni>25-30 went from job to job>33 went homeless>35 move back in with my parentsIm just very fucking drained, i am almost mentally a cabbage vegetable, i have spent the last 6 months just avoiding people and everyone in my bedroom.I get extremely drained even just buying milk from the grocery store, i hate being outside now.The big problem is my family keep pressuring me to get a job, and the job market is absolutely slim to none here, despite this i do look for work, I had a few interviews lately, i get dressed and still take care of myself but once i get to the interview i have no life in me to even talk, i don't even want to be in the interview. and i feel the interviewer picks up on this. I don't have anything going for me, in the past 2 months i picked up the gym i lost 30LBS, but even that is becoming such a chore.I get annoyed browsing the internet now, so now i read books and avoid screen time. But even this is becoming draining too, i go for walks and mix up my routine with a few tweaks here and there so not everyday is the same.The other big pressure is that since my family is so concerned about me, they have gone and told all our extended relatives and even local community, they even had me sign up to some mental health program which i don't want to even be apart of and everyday i leave my room its just them being worried about me and how much of a disappointment i am to them.I have been always introverted and never had friends, im just growing old and everyone is trying to help me with things i don't have interest in. Even though im not very down personally, in myself i don't feel anxiety/depression, i feel sane i feel fine. But its the factor of others which puts me in a state of not knowing.I would like to add that my parents are both sick and elderly, they let me move back in because they needed help around the houseWhat on earth am i suppose to do?
>>33597863>What on earth am i suppose to do?Eat better. Losing 30lb in two months is dangerous.
>>33597936He lost it in the gym, not due to AIDS. Learn to read
I don’t really have any advice beyond just keep trying. I’m 29 and going through the same thing. Life is gonna end at some point, so you might as well set yourself up to enjoy your 40s. Maybe it’ll help to write some goals down, so you have something to aim towards. Keep them really simple. Answer questions like:- where do I want to live?- what kind of house or apartment do I want to live in?- do I want a gf, or wife, or kids, or pets? If so how many?- do I what any friends? If so, how many?- do I want to take a sport? If so which one?- do I want to pick up a creative side hobby like drawing or photography?- how do I want to spend my weekends?- how do I want to dress and present myself?- what should my daily and weekly schedule look like?I think the hardest question to answer though will be what sort of job you want. Maybe the best way to approach this is firstly ask, what sort of jobs can I realistically get with my current experience and qualifications, and which job will give me a lifestyle I’ll be content with. If you come to the conclusion that you need some sort of training or qualification, start thinking about what sort of training or education you’re willing or able to pursue.
