Like the most rational way without looking like a cuck, loser or a dumbass when catching someone cheating on you? I always see it common that the person who gets cheated on gets made fun of or seen like it's that person fault, how do you avoid this?
>>33597961"Look like" to whom, anon? To her? She's a cheater and a person of low moral values and a poor character, cheating proved that, so why would you care what you "look like" to her? To her friends, or even yours? We are largely the company we keep, so if her friends take her side, that shouldn't be surprising, they're of similar poor character as her, and so you shouldn't care what they think. If your friends are anything less than sympathetic, then they're not your friends, so just as well, there's no sense in caring. That only really leaves how you "look like" to yourself, and that comes down to recognizing that cheating has nothing to do with the person getting cheated on, and everything to do with the person who cheats. It's never circumstantial, it's never a mistake, it's never a deficiency with the one who was cheated on; cheating is only caused by the person who cheats being a disloyal, disrespectful, selfish, intentionally hurtful individual who doesn't care about the person who trusts them most. You can be rich, buff, handsome, a 1 in a million kind of guy, and still get cheated on, it happens. It's not about you, it's about them, so don't think less of yourself for their bad behavior. Judge them, not yourself, and anyone who would take their side, judge you for being betrayed like that, or belittle your feelings or downplay the situation, fuck them, don't bother caring what they think, because they're not any better and don't understand the pain. The best thing you can do in that situation is simply to know your worth, know that you deserve better, and to walk away and cut them from your life totally and immediately. You can still find happiness, they likely never will, because they'll sabotage every relationship worth having and never be satisfied with a good thing.
I'm not assuming. I'll carry on with her coming home.
>>33597961Just get another gf immediately. Even if you are dead inside, just the external appearance that you don't give a shit is the best.
>>33597961Don't fall into her trap when you tell her you know. If you want to know why or with whom the you are doomed. She gets to blame you and you try to justify her cheating so you can live with it.The only way to cope is leave and never speak to her again. It hurts like fuck and your ego bruised but the fact remains she betrayed you because she wanted to.
>>33597961Immediately stop caring, that's it.No revenge, no retribution, no explanations needed, no heartbreak, just move on. Crack jokes with your friends if the subject comes up and let it fall off you like water off a ducks back. "She had more dick in her mouth than brains in her head, she did me a favor by showing me that." Mentality.Then? Just move forward, live your life happily the best you can. Spend time with friends, hit the gym, go clubbing, move on like it never happened and then when you find love again pour yourself into it like the last relationship was never there.
>>33598024>it's not about you, it's about themThis. Many cases of dumb whores cheating on billionaire actors, NBA players, whatever.
>>33597961>What's the best way to cope or dealing with being cheated on? Just move on. Lucky you, that didn't get married wrong chick, that is not for you.
