> be me> 18 years old> decent looking but awkward and insecure> lose my virginity to a slut on some 500 days of summer bullshit> heartbroken>can't make an effort to talk to girls again.I'm in college now and I just don't have it in me. I hate going to parties, I hate asking girls for their number, I hate approaching women. I don't really see myself being loved because all my relationships were short-lived and just didn't generally go well. I thought when I lost my virginity I would stop being an incel but I barely feel more confident. I've gotten in better shape, I have a decent social life but I just can't talk to women anymore. Is there something I missed? Why do I feel like people can see right through me and tell that on the inside I'm still the same chronically online loser.
>>33600172Focus on yourself. Develop skills, build a career, make money and women will eventually come to you, you will even be able to pick the one you want.Stop focusing on women and chasing it. Chasing women is a mistake by itself. Keep doing it and keep being miserable.
>>33600172>now what?I won't read anything whose subject line and "be me" green vomit avalanche tells me that this is a subhuman moron living moment to moment with a resentful sense of entitlement.
Hey man I'm 18 and you're doing a lot better than me I wish I was in college but I dropped out of school and just got my GED last month so wasn't able to go to college in time for this year, I can't go until 2026. And to be honest I don't even know what I want to do yet in college I just expect it to change my life for the better by letting me socialize.
>>33600268>Focus on yourself. Develop skills, build a career, make money and women will eventually come to youDon't believe this crap. I am a software engineer, with 6 years of experience, so I have a successful career, I know how to speak 4 languages fluently, learned several skills. I am now 23 years old and don't have any girlfriend, every single women my age has had more than 10+ partners, has lived with other men. Just find a good woman at Uni that truly loves you and marry her after you graduate.
>>33601596>>33600172>I'M ALREADY 18 AND MY LIFE IS OVERRRRRRRRYou can still get to your mid 30s and work on resetting your life by getting into a good career and finding a quality partner. You should be glad because now it's your BEST time to develop yourself. My advice is to careermax, looksmax and socialmax. It'll take at least 5-6 years to careermax, and about 1-2 years to looksmax.Socialmaxxing is easy, just join lots of board game meetups, card game meetups, social jogs, exercise classes, dance classes and art classes.
>>33601731Dude how am I supposed to socialmax. I have a car, motorcycle and have decent savings for my age so I have good material possessions but I'm still a fucking social loser. My job is filled with 25+ year olds and none of them are social and I have nowhere else to socialize. All I want is friends as this will give me a normal young adulthood rather than aimless driving around by myself or sitting at my PC.
>>33601862Meetup.comPretty sure every single city as board game meetups and dance classes.
>>33600172>Why do I feel like people can see right through me and tell that on the inside I'm still the same chronically online loser.Why bother stressing about girls if this is the way you see yourself.Prioritise your foundations: Job, lifestyle, health and fitnessA good woman is a supplement for what's important, not an answer for what you're already lacking. As a matter of fact a relationship will only exacerbate your insecurities.
>>33600172>I have a decent social lifeJust build on that. Be a guy who has friends and eventually your circle will include females.My story: dateless through HS and 7/8 of college. Decent social life - friends, clubs, etc. Midway through senior year the prettiest girl in a club I was in suddenly asked me out. (She said later that I was "interesting") We dated through the rest of the year, lost our virginities together graduation week.
