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Is it unironically over for me at 18? yeah yeah I know what you're going to say but I've been a loser for 5 years now since COVID and no progress has been made. I have zero friends from school, haven't since 2020, and my plan for friend making has been getting a job, EVERY job I've had so far has been fucking ugly weirdos who are not at all friendly or social, even when I try to talk to them. I don't go to college until 2026, so am I just a friendless loser for this full 365 days? What can I do to fix it?
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>>33601585
Join Air Force > graduate basic training and tech school > go to many medical and psych appointments > tell them you want to go home > get medically discharged > apply for vet disability > enjoy a free $4k a month for the rest of your life with no income cap whatsoever.

If I had a father, he would have told me about this method. I would have escaped the rat race. I would have dated girls and had happiness and fulfillment. I would have lived my life to the fullest. Not doing this method at age 18 was the worst mistake of my entire life. I'm not 34 and applying for vet disability a decade later like an absolute moron. I'm 34 and will continue living in my mother's house for the rest of my life. My life would have been radically different if I had a father's guidance.
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>>33602231
not OP but your a genius anon
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>>33601585
What are you studying and why?
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>wahhh wahhh i have no friends!
>everyone around me is a fucking ugly weirdo
Gee I wonder what the problem is. No, you're right. It's everyone else.
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If I can make it you can too OP. You just gotta believe in yourself. Believing in yourself ain't easy, but once you do despite how hard it is, life gets easier.
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>>33601585
You've made zero friends in 5 years because you are either insufferable to be around and/or because you are staggeringly ugly. YOU are the "fucking ugly weirdo".
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>>33606549
Fuck you I went to this ghetto ass Puerto Rican/black school with like 3 white kids who act ghetto there. I'm not deeply racist but I can't befriend ghetto blacks and Puerto Ricans because I have nothing in common with them. So made no friends in school. Now I try to get a job and its the same shit with fat Hispanics and 25+ year olds.
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>>33606673
So I haven't gotten ANY chances ever to socialize with people similar to me in the past 5 years to befriend them.
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>>33606673
>I can't befriend ghetto blacks and Puerto Ricans because I have nothing in common with them.
as if a bunch of them aren't also posting on 4chan right now about video games and anime
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>>33606677
I said ghetto. The last friend I ever had was this non ghetto black kid in middle school who escaped the neighborhood with his family and fucked off like 2 states away. I'd be friends with some autistic Puerto Ricans and Blacks if I was around any.
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>>33606673
Enlistmaxx or cope. thats it.
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You seem to have a superiority complex. You may not respect and admire your peers but right now that's all you have. While a change of scenery may make a difference it will probably matter much less than you think. If all you coworkers are "ugly weirdos who are not at all friendly or social" then what does that make you? Anyways I advise you humble yourself and try harder to be social. You could also leave immediately and find a place you believe you would be more successful but like I said before attitude is more important than environment.



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