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My co-worker is a nice guy but he's absolutely clueless when it comes to anything sexual. Yesterday he asked me what a handjob is and when I explained it to him he goes "Oh, I want that to happen to me one day!". Like I feel so bad for this guy. I'm not the best with women but I'm younger and at least have the confidence to talk to girls and shoot my shot. This guy is 40 years old and is constantly apologizing all day for everything he does I try to help him and tell him he needs to apologize less but it doesn't seem to help. He also complains about "woke" shit every now and then and mentions he watches the Quartering and Strong Successful Male on Youtube. He's a nice guy and you'd never think he would be that type of person but yesterday he asked me what a "304 women" is and I don't know what the fuck I can do to help this guy. He doesn't even have a waifu or fantasy to help him cope he's just gonna die a virgin alone unless he gets some help
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>>33601608
I won't read how to fix third-party threads. Fixing OPs is hard enough.
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>>33601691
I just feel so bad for this guy like he's a nice dude but is fucking clueless when it comes to anything really and I feel like he's gonna go down the incel pipeline
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>>33601608
He's probably just autistic as fuck
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>>33601889
I honestly think he might be. Again REALLY kind dude but he's gonna die a virgin and fall down the incel pipeline. If I had a car I'd take him to the strip club
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>>33601608
>>33601959
OK? That is the fate of some of us. We're too unattractive for it to happen
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>>33602102
It's not the fact he's a virgin that bothers me but he's CLUELESS he doesn't even know that flour + water = dough. The fact he's asking 20 year olds what a handjob is. I feel like he could do significantly better if he was more knowledgeable
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>>33602116
If he’s happy then it’s fine to just let him be clueless. You may be the only one bothered by it.
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>>33601608
Sounds like my future if I don’t kill myself. I’m a 30 year old virgin and I asked out every chick I found attractive at my job, most were walled. And my job is 18+. My point is I lower my standards so much if they agreed to have sex I don’t think I would enjoy it and I still get rejected. I shower twice a day so I don’t smell like asshole. And I’m very tall. I also hate retard thug culture and woke shit. I have fatigue.
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>>33606441
Life has really got hard as fuck huh? How the fuck ugly couples make it. I dont get it.
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>>33606441
You're better off than this guy. He's told me about him being scared to talk to girls and I don't think he shoots his shot at all. I'm a 5'6 manlet virgin but I'm at least more confident than him and im in my early 20's. I think as long as both of us keep trying we'll find someone. My main issue with my co-worker is that he's CLUELESS on everything it seems. If he was 15 years old I'd get it but he doesn't know basic life skills yet alone anything about women. Seriously how does a 40 year old man ask a 21 year old what a handjob is. It baffles me and I want the best for this dude but he's clueless
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I don't know what a 304 women is either.
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>>33606999
It's like the windows 304 error. It basically means a proud slut and a reject from society. It concerns me that he's watching content that says that unironically
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>>33601735
>he's gonna go down the incel pipeline
bit late don't you think?
he's obviously special needs, people like him need safe spaces and i would be more concerned wit hthat than him getting his fucking dick wet
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>>33601608
is this a subtle double-disguised ad for those shitty youtubers?
anyway, your "coworker" is either yourself or an imaginary part of your script
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>>33608374
Yeah I think that might be the best for him. I can't put him in a group home or anything so best to avoid the "woke" and incel topics when they come up
>>33608413
Do you really think people advertise their youtube channels on 4chan yet alone/adv/ of all places? I'm just concerned my co-worker is watching content from a guy who literally speaks nazi rhetoric and from a guy who is giving him the wrong advice on dating.
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Bring him to a party and get a girl drunk and let them spend some times togheter
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>>33601608
Some people are too far gone and will just have to learn the hard way.

I had a buddy like this—decent-looking, worked as an associate at a small law firm, but he’d get caught up in all that Alpha Male brainrot.

I ended up helping him get out more and introducing him to women for platonic reasons, which slowly deprogrammed him over time since he didn’t have that pent-up frustration anymore.
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>>33601608
not your problem and I'm sure he's heard all your talking points from people closer to him. Past 35 It's a complete wash. Just be thankful he's not completely insane



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