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I use dating apps but the problem is I don't wanna have any kind of vaginal penetration (even fingering) ideally I'd be able to meet with someone to just explore kinks and do oral or anal which sometimes hurts to much to actually do, so I feel like it's not realistic without getting hassled for more.
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>>33602409
Are you a woman? Because I'd put it in your butt.
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>>33602409
Say It up front. When It becomes clear It's going to be a hookup, hit them with something like
>Hey, I know it's a bit unusual, buy I should warm you that I'm not interested in vaginal penetration at the moment. I'd much rather explore other aspects of sex. I understand that could be a dealbreaker for you, but in that case please let me know now. If you bave any questions please ask away.
You could also go into detail on your reasons for It and what you're intereseted in doing instead.
Assuming you're a woman, I don't think you'll have trouble finding a decent amount of men on board with it. I'd assume 40-60% or so.
What are your reasons by the way?
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>>33602409
Muslim?

I hope you got big tits, because that way you can find alot of men who are find with just titfuxking and blowjobs.
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>>33602409
Oh, so you'd rather have fake sex than real sex. Yeah, I'm sure you can find some desperate retard who will be down for that and you can both hoe it up.
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>>33602409
Why are Christian/Muslim girls like this? Also anal is disgusting it's literally poop.
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>>33602635
>All that shit
Anybody who tells you to interrupt an intimate moment with a reddit speech like this is going to ruin your sex life.

>>33602864
It truly is one of life's mysteries. There was a girl I knew in college who ripped one of her friends a new asshole for having premarital sex. Meanwhile she was known as the campus blowjob queen.
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>>33602896
>Anybody who tells you to interrupt an intimate moment with a reddit speech like this is going to ruin your sex life.
Should have specified I meant by text. Of course you're not gonna say that irl
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>>33602409
Would actually prefer if this was the normal mindset with girls. Instead of
>Oh this hole that when fucked creates the miracle of life?
>Oh a hot dinner can get that.
>This hole that you can fuck but primarily exists to push turds out.
>That's my speciallll hole, only boyfriends can get that and only on rare occasions where I feel super loved.
Fucking silly.
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>>33602409
trap thread
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>>33602864
Not for religious reasons
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>>33603046
I'm worried that if I put it on my profile someone will post it online
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>>33602409
hot pic ngl. I wish it were late 90's again
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>>33602409
>Delete your entire dating profile description
>Replace it with "AO"
>Prepare your anus
>Succeed
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>>33602409
gay
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>>33607514
Not
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Not a dealbreaker for me so I wouldn't worry about it much.
You'd probably wanna do some butt prep on your own before going out though, which is kinda hot.
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>>33602409
do you want to date someone or are you just into hookups? because if its the latter then there's like a multitude of kink apps you could download that provide an environment where you wont feel shamed for being strict oral/anal. you could try tinder.
if you're looking for long-term then thats just the kind of hassle you have to put up with. just dont fuck on the first date and have an actual discussion prior to sleeping with him that you dont want your genitals touched.
god its not fucking rocket science



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