I'm starting to fear that more and more women just don't need men. Making it harder and harder to find a girlfriend. Every woman I've matched with in the past year has unmatched me because I didn't like the extremely niche things that they like.It's almost as like as if they want a unicorn but instead I'm just a boring human.How do I find a woman that actually desires to be with a man?
no more like they want a unicorn but instead I'm just a fucking donkey
>>336036901. quit porn if you haven't2. take care of your body through hygiene and diet [exercise can come later]3. try to show her you are interested, even with just conversation, and you might find out something you didnt know that might motivate you are make you bond with her.
>>33603737Good old gaslight yourself until you’re miserable but continue gaslighting yourself until you’re convinced your not advice
>>33603760lol
>>33603760explain anything wrong with what i said. atleast im not spewing memes
>>33603690Stop overthinking it, anon. Women didn't suddenly stop """needing men,""" they just don't need some random guy who brings nothing to the table beyond "I exist, please love me." That's why they can be picky now. Niche hobbies are just simply a filter, they are not the real problem. The real problem is you're presenting yourself as a boring blank slate and hoping someone overlooks it.You don't need to fake liking kpop, tarot, or birdwatching, but you do need to be interesting enough that they see you as someone they would like to get to know. Get hobbies that actually excite you, build your body, make money, go have friends, do stuff. If you're just posting on 4chan and whining, yeah, you'll probably keep getting ghosted.
>>33603777>"I exist, please love me."Fuck you. I do exist and I deserve to be loved. I will not beg for love like some hungry ass dog.
>>33603777>fake liking kpopno need to fake that... I masturbate to that shit all the time lmao those asian bitches are hot desu
>>33603777>The real problem is you're presenting yourself as a boring blank slate and hoping someone overlooks it.listen listen listen okay listen just listenisn't it better to find a woman that loves your ass just the way you are? you present yourself as this fake persona no wonder the majority of marriages end up in divorce people get together under false pretenses and fall in love with a fake person
>>33603777>women didn't suddenly stop>they can be picky nowpick one faggot
>>33603760Omg, I do see it. It's like a religion.>I prayed to god and he let my son die of cancer>well my dear you just didn't pray hard enoughAnd then>I've been looking for a girlfriend but they just don't like me>well my boy you just didn't have enough hobbies and friends
>>33603777>>33603837i think """needing men""" meant he was saying some men are needy. try meditating. i dont know if there's 1 correct way to, just put one leg over the other and place your hands somewhere you feel comfortable and close your eyes until your eyes open acidentally/automatically
>>33603775>>33603777First, no woman is worth the time or effort of developing any hobby or making any major change, hoeflation ass simp bullshit. Second you are literally telling him to gaslight himself into hobbies he doesn’t like and that you unironically expect him to dedicate himself to despite them not being his thing. Third there’s so many basic women that would be perfect for this guy that it boggles the mind you wouldn’t just suggest looking elsewhere or filtering people on dating apps for more bland interests like marvel and reading.
>>33604058>First, no woman is worth the time or effort of developing any hobby or making any major change, hoeflation ass simp bullshit.That's ultimately dependent on the person. Some men are willing to do what it takes to get a gf, even things they don't want to do, so they don't have to be alone forever.Also, the basic women who would date a boring man are usually highly unattractive.
>>33604072>are usually highly unattractive.lol that is highly extremely subjective I've seen dudes rate a woman a 2/10 when they were a 10/10 for me
>>33603690>I'm starting to fear that more and more women just don't need menYou are wrong, hey will always need men, hey don't need (you), and sub 5s, they only need sub 5s to get society going.
>>33604058i was saying be proactively interested, like dont be all xanned out on a date.
>>33604113I thought hey was for horses
reframe your thinking.women DON'T need men; you don't NEED women.the only things you need in life are food and shelter.so, you WANT a woman, there are plenty of women who WANT men, but you need to be the kind of man they want, or you need to find one who wants a man like you. you will never find someone who NEEDS you unless you have a child and even then, you are the father, they don't need you either.
>>33604058basic men have to compete with other basic men to get basic women. so what makes him better than any other basic man on earth? if that's your strategy, you best be attractive, otherwise you are relying on pure luck.
>>33603690See right there, this train of thought you are having. Observe the details of the arc of your train of thought. You're on the road to trooning out buddy.I mean, step 1: Be attractive. Have you tried being attractive? Women don't need men to get a bank account or a loan anymore. You have to provide something besides being a friend.
>>33604381>I mean, step 1: Be attractive. Have you tried being attractive?lol
>>33604327I don't believe that. The ratio of males to females in the world is pretty much the same. So there's no reason for there to be any scarcity among the "basic" people.
>>33604321>men think that their own children wont even need themthis is why we have such a fatherless generation.
>>33605301kek yeah
>>33604058This. Fuck the simps
When girls play with batman they make him go shopping and wear dresses and generally make batman more like themWhen boys play with batman they do batman things and then make themselves more like batmanBe the boy batman, not the girl batman
>>33603690>How do I find a woman that actually desires to be with a man?Become Chad
>>33605980I'm gonna kill this fucking Chad person I swear to God
>>33603777wrong, there are homeless junkies that are in relationships and get laid regularly, women just hate autistic men, even autistic women hate autistic men
>>33606122>I'm gonna kill this fucking Chad person I swear to GodI am friends with someone who's Chad and he's quite miserable because keeping girls entertained is his fulltime job, he's quite handsome and looksmatched but they're going to drive this poor guy insane, better or worse he's a male bimbo though
>>33603690>because I didn't like the extremely niche things that they like.Or is able to compromise and value their intrests equally like they have been programmed from birth to accept.>It's almost as like as if they want a unicorn but instead I'm just a boring human.No, that's basic relationship equality.>How do I find a woman that actually desires to be with a man?You are an N word.
>>33606880I'm still gonna kill him I don't give a fuck
>>33606938>Or is able to compromise and value their intrests equallynigger they don't give a shit that you "value" their passion for cooking they want you to actually be a fucking chef for a five star restaurant they don't give a shit about your support nigger what are you equally retarded?
>>33607636Calm down
Women still need companionship and love but compatibility is a real issue here.
>>33603690Ill give you the same advice i was given by the Elder TardsIts all in Gods plan bröther lmao
>>33610378>companionshipkek that's what their vibrator's for
>>33610403No
>>33610405You can't have deep conversations and insights with a vibrator.
>>33603690>Every woman I've matched with in the past year has unmatched meactually go outside and stop using these paywall apps that net the majority of men who use it no success. Literally go touch grass.>It's almost as like as if they want a unicorn but instead I'm just a boring human.women are delusional, emotional beings. Society and men today make the mistake of taking their word for being logical when it is everything but. You need to learn this. Literally go to social media see what types of guys they will spout off as being ideal; they will say he would need to make a million dollars annually to date them. Their words mean nothing to a man who has had experience with women.>Making it harder and harder to find a girlfriend. so how do you think guys with girlfriends today do it? bitch ass nigga>How do I find a woman that actually desires to be with a man?actually go outside and approach women. If you bothered to look in social media today- women are actually craving attention from men. They desire to be approached and flirted with. If you fail, you keep trying and eventually you will meet a woman who isn't averse to going on a date with you and seeing you more.
>>336037373 is the most important. if you treat people like they would be worth being friends with adn try to actually relate to them instead of viewing them as a vessel to prove to yourself that its possible for oyu to find love you will be 800x less repulsive to the opposite sex and happier in general.
>>33610413That was the point kek. You got made men & women telling you this to humiliate you yet keep you alive for their amusement
>>33610609this is my life btw. Somehow i've placed myself in a hell & i've abandoned God & pretty much everything else.
women do not need males. cue the male "loneliness" (horniness and entitlement) epidemic
males admit that if possible, they will all:-rape-cheat-make sex as agonizing as possible-strangle women (which can obviously cause permanent injury) without warning or consentthese are the reasons women are opting out. these are the reasons self-respecting women do not date males.
"women are the emotional gender" fans when you say that rape is bad:
>>33611710most women I've been with absolutely loved getting choked and spanked, you're just a fat virgin loser who's probably ugly as shit lol!
>>33613629kek too lazy to type it out, now you just post an image of it
by that logic, most women like sex, so rape is good.but no one would argue that! wait...+ whining about how women refuse to fuck you and then coping "YourE pRobABlY ugLy!!!!111" is such a moid thing to do. kill yourself.
you aint shakespeare, and you aint retreating. you always hear about the MALE "loneliness" epidemic because WOMEN are the ones opting out.
>>33603777>who brings nothing to the table beyond "I exist, please love me.every time I see woman projection, I selection bias into thinking all woman accusations are projection, thank you for helping me, nona
males are the ones who demand sex. beggars can't be choosers.breathing helium is a painless way to go
>>33614293>>33614303who are you responding to?>>33614342can you fix your typos? I don't understand what you're saying
>>33614459there are no typos
>26 man, khhv, in existential crisis>Privilege-fully (enough to sustain my heart beat without wage slaving. for now...) and unfortunately (not from a comfortable family where can get minimum wedge as monthly pocket money) No job, spend my all time just to try composing a piece of music(what i'm focusing now. spending all my day on it), learning languages (french now. postponed), and going outside for photographing (friday and weekends and whenever i'm so frustrated and stuck in composing music).>looking good enough to get mired by random girls in any place. but not an out scaled chad who women jumping over him>By logic of the internet, the girls should approach me but somehow they intimidated by me and just watching me >I could just go talk to the girls as much as i can. And by having this unsettling mind i'm actually desperate to catch any of the girls>But i'm always thinking they're not good enough to make an effort. I think most of them (who i sense i can make an interaction with. not just any women flashed 0.5 second in my sight or a casher) are just little bit pretty and i wouldn't think of them as long term partners. I just think getting raid is not worth for my life.>To be honest, i feel myself is having a serious confidence problem. Because i've fucked myself by not doing anything (even if i knew what i want to) during my early 20's and now i'm trying to unfuck myself and it seems so fucking hopeless and get stuck in almost every measure in writing music and by prolonged hermitage my social skills are dulled.>Thus i'm not sure if i can make a move even if i encounter again a woman who swallows my whole world. I'm fucking sure she's not gonna come up to me first instead of just passed by finally. Because the previous ones didn't. What am i wrong? Am i autistic? depressed? too high standard?Others seem lose their first time by dating app date or in a club or whatever they can get their dick wet. Is that really worth it?
>>33616688At least you're white, I'm black.
>>33603690You have to have interests too. From my prior experiences in trying to get to know men, it seemed like a lot of them didn't care what woman they got with, they just didn't want to be alone. Any warm body would do. Well, that doesnt feel good, and there's no reason to endure it if that makes sense. I don't want a man who has no interests and just wants a gf no matter what. Huh? What's fun or interesting about that? He's desperate with nothing to do. No imagination. Feels like he probably just sits in his room masturbating nonstop. If you get with a loser like that, he'll just want sex and start yelling all the time because he won't know what else to do.Since I'm financially well off as is my entire family, I didnt need a man either. What interested me in my bf now is that he likes the same niche hobbies as me and we can do them together, as an unstoppable duo of love. I wanted to do what I already liked doing with someone who already liked and was already doing those things too. Not someone who jumped on the bandwagon hoping to impress me, that isnt any fun either. Inauthentic, again points to desperation and lack of a personality. Has no idea who he is. You need your own identity. Enjoy something you already like doing, and meet someone in that. You say you're boring. Ok. Stop being boring then.
>>33617729lol, it's been 20 years since I've watched a Pokemon episode. Is that what Team Rocket evolved to? lol
>>33603790So don't, just don't bitch about it. Men also need women less, simply because we entered the period in our civilisation when we can get to know people's nature before we get attached to them. And people are, in general, quite shitty.Strive at being a worthwhile enough person so that you don't need someone else to fill the void and just be content with yourself. This way either women will start to naturally gravitate towards you or you will realise they are not compulsory.Signed: Volcel of 7 years
>>33617729>I wanted to do what I already liked doing with someone who already liked and was already doing those things too.Man I hope I can get myself to a position where I can be this privileged
>>33603690Women do need men just all of you good people stop getting scammed at work and outside of it for shit money while filling some selfish ceo's bank while he decides to further spoil these golddiggers to the point of insanity and when they get too expensive and annoying even for his legally stolen money he dumps their old annoying selves. Then they just make his money the requirement even though the only reason he's rich is because other people have regular money and do fair honest work for him to exploit. Srsly guys we need to flip the fck out and take what is ours or at the very least get some laws made that prevent a person from having more than x money and any extra should go back to the people. If not that you gotta explain to these dumb hoes that the rich dude they run after wouldn't exist without the people who work for him. A general is worse than most people without his army since his fat ass doesn't see much action. It's very easy for said generals to grow deluded even though they're just puppet figures baited by the system to go after that job. Bitches must know all men are equal no matter their current status and any "betterment" is the result of practice and is only a temporary state that must be maintained. Problem is that women want a delusional female version what "the best" is and that's simply not humanly possible because they don't understand shit about what's good and bad since they've been pampered with lies their whole lives. There is no fixing this brother ppl don't get to have happiness until we mass revolt and destroy this system. Nothing wrong with the intention behind the system but once tons of people start cheating and exploiting it's time to go to war because lazy fucks who try to take shortcuts is what ruins any system no matter how perfect.
>>33617893And we definely need laws to ban female manipulation tactics because this is getting out of hand. Women are dishonest, manipulative, selfish, delusional, arrogant, stupid, lazy and overall just straight up evil. Women cannot be allowed to make a decision that affects other people because they will always choose the absolute worst one that will cause the most problems to the most people. When confronted with their evil behavior they will never admit anything, they will gaslight, try to shut you up in any way they can. They'll do anything but the right thing. Women only ever do the right thing if they have no other option until they're taught how to behave unlike men who use the men-only gift of original thought to do the best thing for the most people(that's ofcourse until we meet enough evil to convince us to answer to evil with evil). We need a punishment for evil but still legal trickery that works exactly the same as pimpslapping a ho. If you want to ban violence as punishment then you must create a replacement for what violence was used to prevent and what violence was used to prevent primarily was the evil trickery women were doing because the only answer to someone being illogical is if you become illogical too.
>>33617729>a woman that gets the undivided attention of hundreds of men a day just by merely existing giving dating advice to men who struggle like dog shit to even get a single woman to spit in their facelol... lmao even
>>33603690Men are sociopaths. Women are narcissists.
>>33618492What?
>>33603690Neither of the sexes “need” each other directly. Though women still need men who the government acts as a middleman to provide provision, shelter and gibs on the constructive male’s behalf, before the woman can even utter the phrase “we don’t need men”.But until the turnover/collapse or whatever, society will just keep splitting and being single will become more normal, with men living alone, and women being single mothers who will leave their kids at the mercy of state programming as they go to work. This is shekelsberg’s communistic dream. Individualised with no nationalistic hangups, used to be surrounded by strangers and foreigners, used to being alone etc. I don’t really mind. Being a single male has its perks, and you can always knockup a few girls. Though I’m always a little annoyed that so much of men’s taxes and works go to fund single mothers.
Yes, women are retarded and they forget to have _consistent_ desires and wants, leading them to constantly chase NEW THING and end up in unstable situations.No, it's not your problem.No, you can't solve it on your end.Wait patiently for them to realise they're being retarded and develop a sense of responsibility. And until then, steer clear of the wreckage and grab some popcorn. Look on TikTok - they're twice as miserable as you are, and no, you cannot (and should not) save them.
>>33617729>From my prior experiences in trying to get to know men, it seemed like a lot of them didn't care what woman they got with, they just didn't want to be alone. Any warm body would do.Imagine spending 20 years of your life trying to get a girlfriend and this bitch says that you.
>>33603690women actually don't need ANYTHING. they have the sex drive of a wet blanket if they have one at all, they can make money on their own, they can find any dude they want, and yet they flock to the uber rich, uber hung guys by doing women's pre-selection, and literally engage in harem psychology by sharing a small percentage of men instead of settling even a tiny bit
>>33618628false. men need women. men need sex to be healthy, it is a bodily function for us. studies show just having a woman around is healthy for men, and men's health plummets when they are alone or after a divorce
>>33619023>Imagine spending 20 years of your life trying to get a girlfriend and this bitch says that you.she's not wrong. the kinds of guys women date only appreciate them on the level you like a golden retriever
>>33603690Biological we all need the opposite sex, there is no way around this. It's just that more people have gone insane.>>33603777Even when a man has everything a woman will still tear him apart, it's in their nature.https://youtube.com/shorts/5XpM6ssH_0Y?si=Es5JLjkdLEDb2hXR
>>33603690Women don't need anything. It's your job as a man to create value and offer some value to her life. If you can't do that, they won't care.
>>33603690I know what you mean. I think they just want to be entertained. Like our only value is entertainment and being an attractive handbag with legs. Probably why I only find broke young waitress or worker girls attractive. They actually need you, value it and are turned on by what you provided.
You can thank feminism and simps for devaluing the vast majority of men.The only bright spot is that this shit wont last and it will either die by economic collapse, islamic conquest, or war
>>33619381Whats value to you?Just 25 years ago all you needed was to have a stable job and not be morbidly obese.Today you have to be in the top 10% of men to even be seen as a "valuable partner"
>>33617912Didn't need to write a whole essay to explain that women need to have their rights taken away
>>33611710Who told you that? Your teacher that looks like Ursula?
>>33619338well then she's dated the wrong fucking guys then jeez wtf? If I get a woman I treat her like my fucking equal my fucking life partner not a fucking dog
>>33603777>brings nothing to the table beyond "I exist, please love me."This is literally 90% of the women. That's why many men are just pumping and dumping them, only the sex is worthy something.Also OP you don't need women either, you just lack real problems, go find something to build towards.
>>33619340>Biological we all need the opposite sexUnless you're LGBT ^_^
>>33620076No, that's why LGBT are often so neurotic and unnatural. Chemically, Hormonally, Psychologically, Cellularly, every aspect of your body is designed to compliment the opposite sex, failure to meet these needs results in all this modern childless insanity we have here today.
if women needed moids, there would be no male "loneliness" (horniness and sense of entitlement to a sex slave) epidemic
>>33621918are you a foid?
are you moids genuinely so retarded that you can't tell that i'm a woman?
>>33603790Some people think their life is like a talent show so i give them something to remember like the alamo
>>33603690Enslave one.
>>33619023I'm not wrong at all. The majority are like that. If you're different, then you can just say you're different. but if you're the same, than just accept that reality and realize you put yourself in a bad position, because no one wants to be with someone who wants anyone. A desperate person never makes for a good life partner.
>>33621918There’s a male “loneliness” because women keep the kids. There are more single women than men.
>>33622101Well, you're not human, so it's hard to tell.
>>33622846>no one wants to be with someone who wants anyonekek speak for yourself my girlfriend and I were both "desperate" when we met each other and we've been happily together for over ten years>a desperate person never makes for a good life partnerthis is just you projecting your ignorant views onto people like how a racist thinks all black people are stupid and commit crimes
>>33603777>they just don't need some random guy who brings nothing to the table beyond "I exist, please love me."Thanks for making my post for me, tripseven
>>33623207You won't win the lottery
Well, if I glue models at home, is this interesting to women?
>>33617729 >>33622846Folks, never take dating advice from a woman. They know absolutely fuck all about what it's like to be a man.
>>33622792That's a felony
>>33624522For real, I've had women that literally sucked my dick, but never wanted to be my girlfriend.
>>33623057>how a racist thinks all black people are stupid and commit crimesThey are lower IQ and commit more crimes, that is a statistical fact. The ability to understand statistical generalities is a litmus test.Same as how you engaged in a behavior which statistically is more likely to lead to bad relationships, and even if it did work out relatively well fort you, it doesn't justify forgoing the rule.I would argue your relationship probably isn't built on anything substantial, which is verified by the fact that after 10 years you still haven't married her, which proves you are a degenerate incapable of committing to start a family, likely because you don't have as strong of a relationship as you think you do.Stop being a nigger.
>>33611710You're ugly as fuck, cope more fatty
>>33624424Generally no.Skills/hobbies that women like most are either music-related or practical stuff like building decks and shit.
>>33624954>omg statistically I am racistlol you sure are>omg you need a piece of paper from the government to prove you love somebodyscraping the bottom of the barrel there aren't ya honey?>omg I mean just look at all those single moms that started families they had very strong relationshipsdo you even have critical thinking skills?>omg you... you... n-wordwhy thank you little miss racist ^_^
how dare those evil foids not let you rape your kids. poor you.what happened to males being victims because there are more single males than single women? pick a fucking narrative.it is impossible for women to please males because males are motivated purely by sadism. still ridiculous how you males whine about celibacy and whine about women's looks. beggars can't be choosers. KAM
>>33604327>basic man>not obese>not on ssri>less than 5% of body covered in tattoos>no kids>basic woman>morbidly obese>at least 3 prescriptions: pain pills, birth control, ssri>85% converted in tattoos>2 kids
>>33611710You are more likely to be raped and physicaly abused by your own brown father than a fucking strangerJesus christ womens fetishes are retarded
>>33626053I think the bot is misfiring, it's forgetting to back-quote
>>33625124>lol you sure areBeing petty and sarcastic isn't a just defense for your inherently indefensible position. You cannot argue with fact, so it's easier for you to try and act morally superior without proving why you think you are.>>omg you need a piece of paper from the government to prove you love somebodyMarriage is not about a government contract, it's a symbol of commitment and sincerity. Humans beings are designed for pair bonding, no justification of hedonistic living can help you to avoid this fact. Promiscuity is flawed in every way, and while you'd call me shallow for stating as such, I'd say you're shallow that you think love is based so heavily in sex.Encouragement for this behavior is immoral, because you are promoting something that is, again, inherently wrong.>>omg I mean just look at all those single moms that started families they had very strong relationshipsClearly I triggered a nerve, as you cognitive dissonance is evident by the fact that you don't make and substantial claims, you're focused on adhoms.Single mothers are an example of the exact flaw I'm talking about, they engaged in sex before establishing whether or not their partner was worth a fuck, and learned the hard way. You may or may not be an exception to the rule, but clearly you acknowledge that this rule exists.Not only do you act like a low IQ nigger, you also act petty like a faggot.If you'd like me to cite statistics, experience, and the copious amount of evidence there is online, just let me know.In the meantime, stop being a degenerate nigger faggot.
>>33603737Step 1 and 2 are good advice. Gooning destroys your masculine confidence and energy. Going more than one day without fapping puts an arrogant sneer on your face and a strut in your step, whereas before you felt awkward and diffident in public, your gooner shame visible for everyone to see. Step 3 is full of shit. Yeah, be one of a thousand men mooning after a completely uninterested, attention-deficient woman, giving her attention in the vain hope of reciprocation. Keep trying, bro! Maybe she might pick you, bro!>>33603777>A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycleYes, anon. It's true. Modern feminist career women don't need men. Sometimes they want men to dick them down and treat them special, but more and more they find that the trouble of dating isn't worth the reward. Both of my sisters have discarded their long-term partners and are fully entrenched in the "empowered single career female" mentality.
