I hate when you talk to some girl that is a master of masking and you don't pick up any signals initially that she is a aspie, But as time moves on you start to pick up on little things like she never cries or doesn't really have any emotions and she is fucking retarded. There are a lot of hot aspie girls that look normal but then their brains are dumpster fires and it pisses me off.It should be a legal requirement that autists have to declare their autism to anyone they talk to for more than 5 minutes.Probably all mental illness should have to be declared. I have talked to two real schizophrenics and they seemed fairly normal until after a while when they casually dropped something insane and I was like godfuckingdammit (one told me about these 3 creatures they put in your belly when you are born and the other said she had no legs as a child)But until this law is passed, I would like some advice on how to faster recognize this goddamn bastards? Any questions or actions I can take to find out?if you are a autist that can display emotions and behave like a human don't take this personally
>>33607701>she never cries or doesn't really have any emotions and she is fucking retardedStrange... Reading that made me horny for some reason.
>>33607708in theory it sounds great but most of these motherfuckers have issues with physical touch
>I would like some advice on how to faster recognize this goddamn bastards?It's a long list but i'll start>Body modification of any type
>>33607727valid point. can confirm
I am a woman on the spectrum and basically begged a psych to diagnose me with autism but he refused. It was a money grift, he would only do it if I paid a few thousand more dollars, so never returned. Many women are in my same situation. On paper I have "nothing" but anyone who speaks to me for more than 5 minutes knows I'm a sperg.
>>33607755Sorry I forgot to add but disclosure can negatively impact our dating and job prospects. It is in our best interest to fuck you over and pretend we are regular. On things to look out for I'd say any "gender identity" is a huge marker.
>>33607701>all mental illness should have to be declaredeven the made up ones? good luck getting hired when ADHD is a thinganyway, joke's on you, my autism is undiagnosed and will remain so
>>33607755so if I come up to you and start talking and we hit it off, would you inform me?
>>33607760>>33607763yes this is what I am running into IRL, I speak to a lot of people and never has a woman declared her mental illness up front (because everyone likes me) but I have heard things like "Back in my hoe phase" and stuff like that
>>33607762Her face looks a bit manly/off. Is there a penis under that dress?One may wonder.
>>33607762it's not like I am asking for medical papers, just a small "By the way I am a aspie retard and I have no emotions, so if you start liking me that is fully on you"
>>33607755>>33607760>>33607774This is OP pretending to be a woman and replying to himself. lol
>>33607783schizophrenics 'r us
>>33607760>On things to look out for I'd say any "gender identity" is a huge marker.This is weirdly true, I met a girl who identified as a boy, had cut her hair short and wearing guy clothes but as soon as we met she was very attracted to me, but she said one of the worst things in life is for people to touch her like hugs and such. And I was like WTF do I do here? she was flirting like crazy but I can't touch?
>>33607770nah, all womanyoung beatrice dalle. don't google, she looks like a demon now
>>33607727>horned glasses
>>33607810>beatrice dalleI have ADHD so I googled it, nasty piece of woman
>>33607820we are not discussing 50+ year old women here my guy
>>33607701I think you are just retarded. You are like the women who make their bad dating history everyones problem.
>>33607886I am probably a bit retarded, but I am not talking about dating here, I talk to a lot of people every day so it can just be a quick 20 minute coffee.I usually talk to 10-20 girls every single day
>>33607855they still around
>>33607823Yeah , what a waste. She used to look like a BPD sex goddess (Betty Blue)
>specific interests>Anxiety>Sensory sensitivities>Tight Pussy>borderline personality disorder>sweaty hands>Unwashed hair>Smells old cum>doesn't wash her hands after taking a dump
>>33607770Fag.
>>33607708Same
>>33607763>>33607701Nta. Why should they? I get the impression you feel you are owed some type of warning that she has Asperger's, as if it's on the same tier as disclosing to a sex partner you have an STD. I get it, you think everyone needs to act a certain way because you cannot handle interacting with people that are different. But isn't this a bit much? If you don't like talking to those tons of people then just, don't talk to them? You don't have to make entire blog post about how them merely be in your presence ruin your life or whatever. The premise of the entire thread seems really dramatic and gives "crying over spilled milk". The world in people do not exist to make you comfortable, just ask the world and people do not exist to make THEM comfortable either. Tldr: you and/or OP is an entitled bitch baby. >>33607755And you're a coward for being such a people pleaser. Most normies will not like you. Who cares? This applies to everyone, but "neurodivergent" people ESPECIALLY need to learn to be comfortable being alone. That's why you felt the need to get a diagnosis right? You felt that would somehow make things easier for you or make them "understand you" more? That would have made things worse. Most counselors that actually have your best interest in mind heavily advise against a diagnosis because like YOU said earlier, It just give people an employers and excuse to discriminate against you because they automatically assume you are a barely sentient retard who cannot do anything.
>>33608411This is probably the worst advice I've seen on here. Incredible
>>33608421Elaborate. What about it in particular was bad? What were you expecting or asking for?
>>33608411>you're a coward for wanting to survive peacefullyNo I just dislike conflict it's extra work. Masking is peace. Simple as >most counselors that actually have your best interestNone of them do they are all grifters the entire mental health industry is but nice tantrum Timmy
>>33607701Yeah. I suppose they should be made to wear yellow stars or pink triangles like in Nazi Germany or ring a bell and shout "Unclean!" like in the middle ages
>>33608455>wanting to survive peacefullyWanting a diagnosis and actually getting a diagnosis will make that EVEN HARDER... You even said that yourself. Getting a diagnosis on paper generally leads to bad shit happening. You literally are not seen as a human being. You're treated like a thing. Why do you want a label so badly? Does that clouded brand of yours think that somehow going to make things better for you? >None of them doRead what I said again. I said "... Most counselors THAT HAVE YOUR BEST INTEREST"... As in, the counselors that actually genuinely do. Most of them don't. They just regurgitate generic shit they read from the textbooks or they read out of a self-help book. I'm related to a counselor and have talked to many counselors. They are all worthless. I get what you're saying. But the point I'm trying to get across is that the people that actually know what they're talking about and know how to help people like us Will tell you NOT to get a diagnosis. They're pointless anyway. I don't get why people get so hung up on whether or not they have one. You don't need a diagnosis to tell whether or not someone is a bit on the spectrum anyway.
>>33608474See >>33608411
>>33607701why don't autistic women shave
>>33608476Getting a diagnosis can get you buxx and extra supports at work and at home. Already gave up on the diagnosis, as I already said, because it's a grift. If you fell through the cracks as an adult you are basically fucked because female socialization just makes us seem like fuckups not autistic
>>33608494>Getting a diagnosis can get you buxx and extra supports at work and at homeThat assumes you have a pre-existing stellar support group (Good and understanding friends and family, etc). It can also give employers and landlords excuses to not give you a chance. No diagnosis = way less likely to be discriminated against. Would you just described is a robust support network, which itself is a privilege, not something you just automatically have just because you're a sperg. >because it's a griftYou're still not understanding. You see more upset at the fact that people try to charge you for the diagnosis, which implies you still want one. Why the FUCK do you STILL want one? It's like you think it's a batch of honor that you "NEED". Though with All that said I feel you on the socialization part. Normies refused to understand what they don't already understand so that just assume you're a broken fuck up instead of just "different". I suffer from that myself so I'm not entirely sure how to help you there. I don't want to be the "WELL IT COULD ALWAYS BE WORSE" asshole but you need to completely forget about the diagnosis thing. It won't help you at all. The fact you DON'T already have one tells me your support group you have now isn't exactly that stellar, so said support group would likely get WORSE after they find out you're diagnosed
>>33608428He's expecting people to fall into nice boxes for his socially retarded brain.Fyi: autism is poor energy management on a micro level in a macro scale. Asking for easier social interactions implies not having enough energy to run your brain on
>>33608541>He's expecting peopleAre you referring to OP or the person that was being overcharged for a diagnosis (I don't actually know how much those cost but >>33608494>>33607755Keep saying they are grifts)
Don't derail the thread, advice is sought after how to identify the unkempt dirty bitches.There are "normal" aspies and they are not the subject of this thread
Signs someone is autistic involve challenges with social communication, restricted or repetitive behaviors and interests, and sensory sensitivities. Social communication differences can include difficulty with eye contact, understanding emotions, making friends, and taking things literally. Restricted or repetitive behaviors may manifest as repetitive movements (like hand-flapping), a strong adherence to routines, and intense, focused interests. Sensory differences can include extreme reactions to lights, sounds, tastes, or textures
>>33608411mental illnesses should be disclosedi say this as an autistic manJust because it's not as bad as sexual assault doesn't mean it isn't bad
OP, neurotypicals can immediately tell when someone is autistic. only autists can't tell. you are autistic.
>>33609126I'm autistic and I can tell when someone is autistic.
>>33607701this is only an issue if you're an emotional retard and a crybaby. i always drop people that cant stand the fact that i dont think in terms of emotions and dont show them
>>33609130cool. it's not rock paper scissors. some autists can identify other autists. most can't. congrats on proving yr autism
>>33607701sounds like you dislike women who don't have feminine enough personalities, not really fair to call them autists just cause they have some masculine traits
>>33608939>mental illnesses should be disclosedI agree with this if you're dating the person, especially if you're taking them seriously. But in literally any other scenario it's unnecessary.
>>33609212Maybe, but there have been some boyish girls I have liked in life
It seems most of you aspies are very selfish and singularly focused on your own happiness.
>>33607712That sounds great, at least she won't cheat on you
>>33611286True, I have a hard time relating to fictional characters that aren't my own. Mostly because trying to is an act of mental exertion for me
Yeah I am autistic I find it difficult to understand my own emotions and I am unaware of the way others express their emotions. Perhaps this isn't a genetic trait but rather a result of never having true friends as a kid growing up and just binging on cartoons and tv non-stop, which stunted my emotional development. Sometimes there are moments where I can get a good grasp of my emotions but there are other times "feeling myself" is a herculean effort.And because of the way I was raised I will continue being like this, lonely and forever pretending to be human at work, even though I have no true relationships outside of those forced companionships.
>>33608294(…what the fuck…how did you know this…) I take extra care to wash and clean better now though. Because it helps me make friends and hopefully be seen as cute or at least nice.I like this thread. It’s not positive but I like that you guys are being honest and accurate. It’s nice to be known.
>>33608491I do shave now but I didn’t for a long while. >small cuts or nicks hurt very very badly>regrowth was itchy and unbearable >most shaving creams had fragrance or additives that would cause rash or hivesalso the feeling of wind on leg hair is very nice. if you shaved you would notice the difference in not having it.
>>33611286If they don't focus on their own happiness, who will?
>>33608785I mask heavily and dress in very plain conservative feminine clothes specifically to try and hide in plain sight. “clean girl” and beige outfits that still fit well. People still know, because within seconds of meeting them I will have missed social cues in facial expressions, avoided eye contact harshly (or stared too long, as I often force myself to make eye contact, but I don’t naturally have the habit of breaking away from it. I stare holes into people.) — and my tone is off, my replies are off, I fail to respond to conversations naturally.It’s like being a tone deaf singer.
>>33607701I'm not diagnosed with anything tho so idk if I have autism, other mental issues, or if I'm just a weirdo. Can't exactly disclose something I'm unsure about.
>>33611407good for you, all you need is to be clean, cute and friendly and all shall end well
>>33611455actually sounds kind of cute in a fucked up way, except the beige, I fucking hate beige unless you are a senior citizen.I went on a "lunch date" with this girl that stared me in the eyes without blinking for like 30 minutes, I have never in my life felt uncomfortable for a staring contest until I met her, I thought she was a psychopath but then I heard she is a aspie :)
>>33611440The keyword here is ONLY you retard motherfucker, of course everyone is responsible for their own happiness but others should be taken into considerationjust came from the gym so feeling a bit aggro don't take it personally
>>33611650"Should" doesn't matter. There is only is. And is says that anyone who doesn't put themself first will always be put last. The main difference between an autist and a normie is the normie "plays the game" where they are looking out for themselves but only operates in ways where it is plausibly deniable that they were actually acting in group interest.
>>33611459well, I mean you are reading this thread right? So you at least suspect it :) but somehow a fair point
>>33611670yeah valid point. Everything I do is with plausible deniability, and because I am very handsome I get away with a lot of shit :) But it is very off putting if someone is too self focused and emotionless
>>33611699I'm too drunk to deal with this so have this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yAHL5oPXOD0
>>33607701I'm taking it personally, asshatI didn't fucking ask to be like this
>>33612153Then take it personally you mongoloid witchEveryone else is accepting the cards they were dealt and trying to do the best they can
>>33611748Drinking is never the solution to anything
I don't know why, but I keep laughing every time I see the pic in OP
>>33607701>It should be a legal requirement that autists have to declare their autism to anyone they talk to for more than 5 minutes.Just ask.
the funniest thing about being autistic is being able to clock other autists on sight
No one wants something they can’t be controlled to be used as ammo against them later
>>33612577If I was looking for solutions I wouldn't be drinking, now would I?
>>33613205funny if true>>33613356yeah so it's better to ruin peoples lives?>>33613466Touché
>>33611440gotta take care of number one, because chances are others won't
>>33613549Your life is ruined by someone else having autism?
>>33608926Jesus Christ, I am sperg!
>>33615495If I am pursuing them romantically yesbut soon the UN will make a law that enforces the hat globally
>>33616802If you can't tell that they have autism within 5mins you're probably the sperg
>>33616843hahah good point, maybe you are not wrong
>>33615535congratulations, take a hat>>33616802
>>33608294>doesn't wash her hands after taking a dumpWhat's actually the point of doing this when the poop is all going on the tp and that's firmly separating your hand from your anus? You'd have to assume I'm some kinda mongoloid who can't help but get shit on my fingers anyways somehow which i find somewhat insulting frankly.It's even worse when people tell you to wash after you pee like bitch I never touched anything but the doorknob it was freehanging the whole time besides I shower every day and don't have herpes or anything so it's not like my penis skin is all that different from any other skin on my body in the first place.
>>33617252check your hands next time mongoloidonly neurotic people wash their hands after peeing, agree with that
Wow, a moid is mad at autistic women because they act differently when they're comfortable around someone. Strange...You might aswell just live with the fact that most autistic people are different. It's a diagnosis, a disorder. They don't just pick symptoms they align themselves with like it's a palm reading or some shit. If you wanna sit with normal people, go to a bar or some party. It's neurodivergent for a reason. If you need signs that someone's retarded just to pull away from them, you're probably just as weird as them. Sorry not sorry.
>>33617417just wear the hat you mongoloid witch
I wonder how many aspies are dirty?very few I would imagine
