I keep getting in relationships with neurotic bitches who won't just fucking tell me how they feel about things even when I'm crying begging them to.They will just go along with things they don't like and do things they don't want to do and I can tell on their face that they are annoyed and not having a good time and they always fucking lie straight to my fucking face that things are fine, or even worse they say that they actually like it. They lie straight to my face when we first start dating, saying all kinds of bullshit about how they value open and honest communication and they want a partner they can truly share every thought with, but they never fucking ever deliver on those empty promises, because they hide every single discomfort they experience as deep as they possibly can and just act like things are fine until they either shotgun them all at me in a breakup attack or I have to PRY the information out of them when I initiate the breakup because I feel emotionally neglected. How do I shit-test potential partners to make sure they aren't the kind that does this bullshit and will actually just share how they feel with me?
Think about this, have you ever heard any man above the age of 30 express his excitement to go home and see his wife? When you're first dating try not to take any of it too serious and especially don't allow yourself to get overly emotional. It's a turn off for women (even when say it's not) because they rely on men to keep them grounded (and in turn they're supposed to stop men from chimping out). It may help you to understand that there is a feminine mode of thinking (emotional from heart, the part that supports life) and a masculine mode of thinking (logical from brain, the part that solves problems). Emotional thinking, or rather feeling, is largely misunderstood by men and often argued logically to be inferior and weak. Likewise, women genearlly don't follow logic. Understand that neither is supiror to the other, but rather the two modes are meant to compliment each other. It's not your job to interogate a woman for answers like you would a man, but rather it's for you to try and understand why she's acting or feeling the way she is in the moment, and it's for you to logically solve that problem. Just like when you're upset and you give her a whole book on why you're sad, she's supposed to tell you she loves you and give you a big ol'smooch. So as far as your shit test goes, be logical, understand that women are not logical, and if she is displaying behavior you don't like, give her a few warnings within reason, and if nothing changes after a month then dump her with little to no explaination. It's important not to be a dick, be super cool and collected if you do this. This is the quickest way to move on and it leaves her stunned. It's important to remind you that there are so many women in the world and the only way you're not talking to them is if you're here crying about women crying. Once you find one that won't go away, congratulations you're married. Last thing, never argue with women.
>>33611430>Think about this, have you ever heard any man above the age of 30 express his excitement to go home and see his wife?yes. every single day with her is a blessing
males admit that they will all lie for sex. just like they admit that they'll all commit rape. how dare you whine about women lying??? fucking ridiculous.im pretty sure all males are fundamentally motivated purely by malice but fyi autistic women aren't big on bullshit.and yall whine about women doing tests too lmfao
males are illogical because if they were logical, they'd have to control themselves. also, guy above me, quit cappin. we all know you admit you hate her behind her back
I don't think its what the women are saying/not saying that's the problem. Why tell you if they don't think it'll change anything?The women that would be blunt aren't as nice, let you approach less and aren't as appreciative of your talking solves everything fantasy.
>>33611523It's not even a "talking solves everything" fantasy, it's a "not talking causes everything" reality that they refuse to realize is the world they live in.
>>33611240They "lie" because they do not feel safe to express themselves. Crying and begging does not make a person feel more safe. You are not obligated to be a rehabilitation center for scared broken girls though.A common situation is they feel discomfort, but they feel like expressing that discomfort would make them seem unreasonable and overly sensitive. They do not want to be controlling, or want you to feel burdened.Advice: men/people tend to overlook too many red flags, or find them attractive. They find weakness, instability, insecurity endearing but don't think about what it really entails. Or ignore incidents and expect them to magically stop happening.Shit-testing women is the simplest and most straightforward thing in the world. Just tickle them, touch them in ways they don't like. If they can't even communicate a simple "don't touch me like this, I prefer that instead." then they should be locked up at home still living with their dad, not allowed to date without a chaperone, go find an adult to date instead.>>33611481>>33611494> Waaah! Why do men expect women to be held accountable for their words actions! It's not fair! ::pout:: ::stomp::Testing is good anyway, for either gender. But there's healthy and unhealthy ways to shit-test. E.g. insulting/being flat-out offensive is not a healthy way to shit-test.
>>33611481I would never lie for sex but in your quest to demonize all men you're going to assert that I'm just lying right now. I've been a victim of women lying to get sex out of me and I would never do that to anyone, I can't fuck someone I don't have a real emotional connection with,
look. i dont really believe you but i want to ask in case you're being honest. if not all men lie for sex, why do men say that they all do it? they use the fact that all men do it as an excuse which is absurd??? and then males say women are the ones who lack accountability. where are the women saying all women lie for sex and using it as an excuse?males act like the existence of women is offensive.im sorry you got lied to though thats fucked up no matter who does it
>>33611240>even when I'm crying begging them to.They don't see you as a man
