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I recently realized that I am my family's personal lolcow

I have autism and frequently misread social situations and my parents have always made fun of me for this. There are times where they will play pranks on me like lying to me that a girl likes me and telling me to go over to say hi to her and then laughing their asses off when I get rejected. My dad will go up to girls he knows I have a crush on and just tell them embarrassing things about me to humiliate me. My mom encourages him, they're both like immature teenagers.

It's not just my parents too it's people in general in my life always laugh and make fun of me behind my back but I try so hard to be a nice and polite guy. A few people from work I thought I was friends with invited me to a party but I found out the only reason they invited me was as a joke so they could have someone to laugh at and make fun of.

It fucking hurts me and I really don't know if I can trust anyone ever again and will most likely retreat into my shell and never socialize again. What can I do about this?
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>bait
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>>33613883
trust me it's really not
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>>33613755
If you really wanna get back at them, be agressive abou what they can't take away from you, humility. Start subtly expressing Christianity and say that you only live for God, be super cryptic about it, like saying random verses to creep them out, if you keep it up for long enough, you might make them all paranoid since you'll be unpredictable.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0_4WWf9MT9s
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bump
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>>33613755
call them out on it, bluntly ask why they treat you that way and why they find your behavior so funny
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You have a mental block no one will help you out with. You have to overcome it you yourself as no one will help you. It will take hard work, dedication, and resilience, but once you get through it, you will be alright. Remember it is your mental block and your's alone. Hell, your peers and family are gonna call me crazy for mentioning it, but that is just the reality of your autism. I would go more deep into how to solve it as I spend years trying to solve it and after 10 years finally did, but this is your own issue and your's alone OP okay. Good luck.
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>>33614052
Autistic problems require autistic solutions
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>>33613755
Be sincere with how you feel. It's likely you are the way that you are not based in some predetermined psychological condition, but from your families inability to educate you and raise you maturely.
You can take action by trying to better yourself and improve your ability to socialize, challenging yourself in unique situations. If your family aren't supportive and constructive in this sense then it's better to take a step back while you develop those abilities so they don't hold you back.
Years from now you can have a conversation about your experience, but you have to put in the work to be somebody who can handle that conversation.



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