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Should I (25yr m) date a 29 yr woman? She's cute and kinda dorky but I'm not sure about the age difference.
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>>33614976
No one will give a shit about it. So only you can answer this question yourself. How do you feel about it?
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>>33614976
You will come to resent it if you stay together and you are 35 and she is 40.
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>>33614976
Yes but impregnate her soonish. Fertility drops hardcore or totally stops for women at 35
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My career is fairly unstable and I will probably need to move for work (academia). I don't think we are compatible because of this and I think it's cruel to waste her time.
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>>33614976
You were in high school at the same time. Get over yourself dude.
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well it depends on many things, but ultimatively, it is your and her life and your decision.
are you surely compatible? you have harmony? did you have conflict(s) and resolved them and grew by them?

do you want children? if yes, is she/will she stay healthy to bear your offspring, for example? hows her biological clock working? i for example come from a different region, maybe even timeline. im 27, but look like 22 (depending on the day) and feel like 20. my body has almost no signs of stress, granted i almost dont take part in day-to-day business.
ideally, one has 2-3 children minimum- lets say you are cheaping out and have only 2.
9+9 months + lets say 12 a break in between, thats 30 months, 2 1/2 years, maybe even 3.
if you fertilise her right now, your operation will conclude when shes 32

there are women that hit the wall with 23, that look like 35. then there are women that look like 25, but health wise are like 40.
especially after the so called pandemic.
then there are women, if they know and if you knew, that get a 2nd round of youth via their pregnancy, prolonging the so called wall to 40, 45 even.
making them able to bear children to late 30s even
but one has to 250% manage their pregnancy wisely to reap mentioned benefits and not lose them to pregnancy stress

it is your body, your temple. if you do not give it good care, you cant expect good returns.
also normally the male should be older than the female or both same (+/2yrs) age.
>>33615089
maybe tell her exactly that?
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>>33614976
Concerned about a 4 year age difference in your mid-20s? Were you born mentally retarded or did you take a lot of repeated blows to the head?
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>>33614976
Yes
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I thought there was something there, she invited me to a social event this weekend a couple of weeks ago and I responded with a flakey reply. I spoke to her today and I'm pretty sure I blew it cause she seemed pretty frosty. Maybe I didn't have a chance to begin with and was just overthinking it. Fuck it.
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>>33614976
you're actually retarded if you give a shit about age gaps. it's about compatibility. stop being a puritan and go out with her you weak piece of shit
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>>33619336
You should ask if you can go
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It was a work social event that I think she just invited me to out of politeness. I don't really have anyway to contact her or anyone going at this stage so I sort of blew it.
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Kissless virgin btw
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>>33614976
Good movie, go for it before you become Pink
https://youtu.be/196h-nUrNB4?feature=shared&t=72
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who tf is worrying abt 25 and 29 lmfao



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