its not, just have rizz

I just made a bunch of friends at 25 just driving around rural PA on my dual sport bike and a guy on a dirt bike noticed my ride when we were both stopped at a gas station and talked to me. I told him I was just fucking around on a trail I ran into the next town over and got the cops called and fined and he said the same thing happened to him and he could show me other trails nobody monitors. I went on a spontaneous ride with that guy and then I followed him back to his friend's yard where he had a few other guys there, I just shot the shit with all of them and became their friend, I was heading back when I ran into him too but ended up staying another 6 hours.

>>33616451
Happy for you, anon, but OP specifically said after 30 and last time I checked, 25 is not after 30.

>>33616461
25 is the same shit as 30

>>33616451
Should I get an atv

>>33616473
Depends where you live. I wouldn't get one if you live in the Eastern US because everything is private land and you have to use trails cause everything is a forest. They're better if you live in the Southwest you can just drive in the desert easily 95% of which is public land. A dual sport is much better if you live in the East

>>33615839
Depends on what you want to do and what kind of people you want to meet.

Lots of people get into whatever sports.
Most people just go to the average everyday gym, there's leagues for almost any sport you might want to get into like hockey or volleyball etc, there's group hiking, yoga, combat sports like jiu jitsu or boxing.

There's drinking and/or drinking culture. You can still go out and play a game of pool/billiards or throw darts or go dance even if you don't drink alcohol.

There's whatever nerd/niche hobbies like card games and board games where the stores hold weekly events for everyone to play at, dungeons and dragons, larping, building and racing miniature radio controlled cars.

You can go to whatever protest, there's loads of people there who will talk to you non stop about whatever. Just pick your side and have fun.

If you're tied up with a wife and kids, you aren't going to make friends. Your wife is your only friend and your balls belong to her forever.

Just kill yourself.

>>33617290
Nahh u can do that tho

>>33615839
it's not.

>>33615839
it's possible
last friends I made
>through family
>at a concert
>at work
>through coworker
t. 46
I'd say it helps that I genuinely love meeting new people and they can kinda feel it

>>33616472
it is not. 25 is college age. the exact point when people stop giving a fuck about friends is when they get children. nowadays that is on average around 26-28

>>33615839
>why is meeting and befriending new people nearly impossible after 30?
You finally realise people really are assholes and if some do change their ways they go back to being the way they are sometimes, not all of them

>>33615839
I had a richer, fuller social life - friends, lovers, colleagues - in my 30s than at any time before

>>33616904
Now imagine this: Being a 23yo young adult with a godly woman and a promising career, then all of a sudden comes a stupid fucking uncle claiming the family's house, the woman goes away and i end up in a desert town with a trashy culture surrounded by morons an outdated profession, depression, overly possessive-prohibitive narcissistic mother, a monkey(ish) father that endorse her actions, a 88yo gossiper grandma that loves disgrace, a 24yo communist sister with bad taste for man, still with a 5 figures worth of crypto assets struggling to survive meanwhile my sister tries to push disgusting black women to me so she can be with the house with her stupid fucking boyfriend of hers. On top of that the same uncle that fucked up my life in the first place keeps on sending me messages telling me to do more public stems, this time in order to work as a cashier as a dead end job/life situation.

I already went to church, that shit is full of disgusting and awful moralist woke-niggers.

(I guess my ex which i've shared many godly moments in the past doesnt know that i exist anymore.)

I am a 34yo white male now, in the beggining i wanted to kill myself. Now i want to kill E-V-E-R-Y-B-O-D-Y...

I have no viable option rather than slipping my way through life. It would be better to blow my head off than to do anything...

>>33615839
Because typically you know who you are and what your values are, and the more individualized you are the harder it is to belong to a group of people if their values are not in line with your own.
You'll find a lot of people who are in their 30's who still want to go out and drink and party and be degenerates, but few if any who are willing to grow a community and promote decency and health. You'll find single mothers incapable of defining their principles, because, as their lifestyle has proved, they don't have any.
The atomization of modern society has turned "Friendship" into a more complicated task then it used to be when we were once homogenized communities, and it's made us all insane and alone.
Maybe you don't mind going out and drinking and doing stupid shit, but after decades of doing it you start to recognize how hollow it is, because the drugs and alcohol are just glue, and without your whole connection to people falls apart and you start to realize you have little to nothing in common with these people.
Unconsciously we recognize this issue at a certain point, so it's a choice to either be alone or continue to sedate yourself to give yourself the illusion of community.
Modern society is constructed around shallow values, but age shows us what is right and true.

>>33615839
everyone is too busy with their lives. high likelihood that the people saying it's not hard are women

>>33619339
Brutal truth

>>33615839
This only happens because you were never a social person in the first place and you don't really care about having friends it's just a means to your end of getting close to the ladies. Otherwise, you would already have groups of friends you maintained throughout your teens and 20s, and through socializing with your old friends you would also be meeting new friends. When you're naturally a loner with no sharable hobbies, you tend to stay that way as an adult.

>>33618610
Are you a woman

>>33622266
No, and I never will be one

>>33623172
Trannies are women

>>33623190
Youre a chaser

>>33623199
You are a woman

>>33615839
because they are old and most of them start to forming a family at that age

Is not

>>33616451
sure you hung out with them for a bit but are they friends? are you part of their group now? can you call them up any time you need help? will they help you put up a pole barn or invite you to a barbecue? that's the kind of friendship I think OP is talking about, true strong bonds.
Like sure I could run into some guys at a bar and be their buddy for a night but I'll never see them again after.