About 2.5 weeks ago I was assigned to training at work with a girl trainer. She recognized me: we lived in the same city, studied in the same school, and attended the same language club. She looks beautiful outside, but even more stunning inside (her character, personality, and how she treats me). She accepted me as I am, was kind, and even argued with me a little, which gave me positive emotions.I began wondering if she had a boyfriend. One break she didn’t see me and told her friend and one guy about me, about recognizing me, etc. I thought it strange she shared that with a group including a guy. Later I noticed that same guy often talks to her during work and stays close. I assumed he is her boyfriend.I decided to observe how relationships look. For 2.5 weeks I noticed normal couples sit and talk together, leave the cafeteria together, and if the girl’s friend joins, the boyfriend stays with his girlfriend while the friend walks slightly behind. But with her and that guy: they sit together but do not talk, she leaves the cafeteria first leaving him behind, and if she walks with her friend, the guy trails after them.Once I had to move things to the department where he worked. I asked calmly: “Where to put these things?” His face looked like (:|) with an angry look. I understood his attitude.I also noticed: when he is near, she never mentions her hometown (only I know). In awkward situations she answers seriously and properly, which I like. She showed signs like biting her lip and fixing her hair.What I know about him: he is a warehouse process manager, works here long. She is a trainer for two processes (requires 1 month work and good performance).This week I saw: he left work, waited for her, offered help, took her things and her hand, while she looked back twice toward the gates.So my question: did she really like me, or are all these actions just fake and mockery, with her and that guy making fun of me? I need your opinion
>>33616902>did she really like me, or are all these actions just fake and mockery, with her and that guy making fun of me?Those are not the only too options.If you observe a woman seems kind, generous, and nice then you should not immediately assume that she is malevolent or mocking if she doesn't want a relationship with you.Adult couples do not often spend their time leading other men on yo think they have a chance with the woman simply in order to tease and make fun of him.More often what might happen is that a guy will awkwardly approach a taken woman, she will explain she is taken, and then the two of them might laugh about it. That's it and as far as it goes.Adult life is not like little kids in school unless the environment tolerates immature behavior. I have heard of workplaces like that but never witnessed such and would not tolerate immature unprofessional behavior.>His face looked like (:|) with an angry look.He is likely pursuing the girl or in some kind of relationship with her and rightly sees you as competition.>But with her and that guy: they sit together but do not talk, she leaves the cafeteria first leaving him behind, and if she walks with her friend, the guy trails after them.It is possible that they are not as close or as happy as other couples. Or that they are not in an actual relationship.1/2
>>33616943>took her things and her handThis is strong evidence that he considers them up be in dating at least and her allowing it suggests that she also feels that it is appropriate because they are dating.She very likely enjoys your company and may be attracted to you. That does not mean she definitely wants to date you, wants to break up with her boyfriend, or anything else.If they had not held hands, it would be less clear. In my culture, it would be appropriate to ask her if she is dating anyone at this point. Or to ask her friend. Doing either would signal your interest, which she might already suspect, but if you act respectfully and professional after asking, there is no actual issue.Issues come from continuing to pursue a taken or interested woman.Again, just because someone treats you with kindness, that does not mean they are interested in you or intentionally misleading you. Kind people treat others with kindness.2/2
>>33616902This sounds like it was written by an alien trying to figure out how human interactions work.
>>33616949Yet, unlike many anons, OP is trying to understand.
