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How do I reconcile the fact that I want to have children but don’t want a relationship?
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>>33618644
>How do I reconcile the fact that I want to have children but don’t want a relationship?

"I am a human being who has priorities that conflict, as most human beings do."
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>>33618644
You're being emotionally immature. You think just because you feel a certain way at this moment you're going to feel that way forever. As soon as you meet a girl who seeps into your cold heart, even if she's not interested in you, you'll instantly forget this "I don't want a relationship!" nonsense. You want a relationship, you're just jaded and cynical seeing all the bad relationships out there.
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>>33618661
>As soon as you meet a girl who seeps into your cold heart, even if she's not interested in you, you'll instantly forget this "I don't want a relationship!" nonsense.
I.e. "You'll want to build a treehouse once you step on a rusty nail". No, he'll want to get a tetanus shot.
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>>33618671
I'm not saying he should, but he will.
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>>33618644
Wanting children also means wanting to be a healthy provider for your family. In order to raise a healthy family, they need a stable household, and that entails maintaining a stable relationship with a spouse who is their mother.
Polygamy is destructive and evil.
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>>33618644
Hard to help you if you don't give more detail. Why do you want kids? Why don't you want a relationship?
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>>33620543
>Why do you want kids?
To continue my family, which I love. I'm the only male, only my sister is having one child right now. I want to provide for the future and find fulfillment in life.
>Why don't you want a relationship?
I hate obligations and work. I've been happiest with low-maintenance women that are happy to go out once every couple of weeks. Performing emotional labor for a woman is annoying.
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>>33620761
>I want to find fulfillment in life.
>I hate obligations and work
Are you trolling or just regular retarded?

No, but in all seriousness it sounds like you don't want kids, you just feel guilty being the end of your lineage. I might be wrong. What do you like about kids?
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>>33618644
Adopt or stop being selfish, don't ruin someone's life because you want a kid.
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imagine if a woman said this. moids have double standards about literally everything, in other words they hate women and never hold themselves accountable



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